Search by Name

Search by Name

Mari DeSalvo Obituary

Mari A. DeSalvo NORFOLK - After a lifetime of service to others, Mari Anita DeSalvo, 57, died March 5, 2009, after a short battle with cancer. She was preceded in death by her parents, Leonard Anthony and Marian Powers DeSalvo. She is survived by her loving siblings, Christine (Gary) Laney; their children, Bryan (Brigitte) and Mark, Michael DeSalvo, Thomas (Candy) DeSalvo their children, Joel and Cassie, Timothy (Laurie) DeSalvo, Bobbie (Ben) Burbic, their children Tiffany and Stephen. She is also survived by a grandniece, Elizabeth and a grandnephew, Bennett. She was an empowering force in many lives. After being educated in Norfolk, she went on to do what she loved - teach. She taught in Norfolk, Washington, D.C., Baltimore and Navajo, N.M. She was very active in her faith serving the less fortunate, championing equality and justice for all. The family received friends at Hollomon-Brown Funeral Home, Tidewater Drive Chapel, Friday from 6 to 7:30 p.m. A rosary was said following the visitation. A funeral Mass will be held at 10 a.m. today in St. Pius X Catholic Church with Father Jun Balarote officiating. Burial will follow in St. Paul's Cemetery, Portsmouth. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to St. Pius X Catholic Church, the Food Bank, Sentara Hospice or the charity of your choosing. Her family wishes to thank all her friends, colleagues and caregivers for their support, thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Virginian-Pilot from Mar. 6 to Mar. 7, 2009.

Memories and Condolences
for Mari DeSalvo

Not sure what to say?





Regina Holloway-McVaugh

March 16, 2009

Bobbie, Ben and The DeSalvo Family,

How saddened we were to learn of the passing of Anita. Even though we never met her we were so happy to be able to help out in a very stressful situation and are so glad you called upon us to do so. We know your heart aches for what it has loved and lost. We hope you can hold close to the fond memories you shared with her and find comfort in knowing that she is in a much better place.

Sister Jean Keesey, SND

March 12, 2009

My prayers and sympathy for your loss of Anita.

Sheila Kasuse (Hubbard)

March 11, 2009

I am so sorry to hear of Ms. DeSalvo's passing. I will always remember her bright smile in the east wing of Navajo Elementary school. Ms. DeSalvo you have been missed since you and Clancy left Navajo......

Flowers

March 11, 2009

Anita and Hazel

March 11, 2009

Anita and Hazel

March 11, 2009

Anita and Mike

March 11, 2009

Anita and Mike

March 11, 2009

Anita at Disney World

March 11, 2009

Laurie Salem

March 10, 2009

1 Thessalonians 4:13: 'We do not want you to be ignorant concerning those who are sleeping in death; that you may not sorrow just as the rest also do who have no hope." This helps us to appreciate that our belief in all the things that Jesus' ransom sacrifice means for us, keeps us from becoming overwhelmed with grief. I hope the best for your family.

Mike Klevenz

March 9, 2009

To the DeSalvo Family - My thoughts and prayers are with your family in this time of sorrow.

March 8, 2009

To the DeSalvo family--My thoughts and prayers are with you all in this time of great sadness. I remember Anita from Norview High School and our homeroom. She signed my yearbook. Linda Dorband, Newport News, Virginia

Rusty Miller

March 8, 2009

Bobbie, My thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of great sadness. I hope that the support of family and friends brings you comfort and strength for the days that follow

Kristin McManus

March 6, 2009

Tim, Laurie, and all the DeSalvo family - We are so sorry to the hear of the loss of your sister and loved one. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. With deepest sympathy, Patrick & Kristin McManus

linda morefield

March 6, 2009

tim and laurie,i am so sorry to her of your loss,i am praying that God give you comfort in this very difficult time.you are in my thoughts and prayers. linda morefield

Vivian Daniels

March 6, 2009

May God bless all family members with the peace that surpasses all understanding. Stay focus on God and support each other through this time of grief. You all are in our prayers.
Vivian, Teraye, and Michael Daniels

Kristy Sajko

March 6, 2009

As a colleague of Anita, I can say that in the brief time I spent with her, she made her generous and kind nature known. She was always there to offer words of encouragement and advice for a novice teacher like me, and she gave inspiration to those of us who hope to be life-long and life-changing teachers. She will be missed greatly.

Nancy Perkerson

March 6, 2009

I was sorry to hear of the passing of your sister. I pray that God will bare your grief and sorrow.
In the name of Jesus. Amen.

Tammie & Mark Bleakley

March 6, 2009

Bobbie,We are so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in out thoughts and prayers!

Heather Bell-Clayton

March 6, 2009

I think back many years ago when I taught with Anita at Coleman Place Elementary. She was a very kind and caring teacher and a joy to work with.
Heather Bell- Clayton

PTA Lindenwood Elementary

March 6, 2009

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

Cynthia Winborne

March 6, 2009

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Marlene Barnes PTA President

March 6, 2009

To Ms. DeSalvo
Thanks for all you have done for the kid's and the school you will be greatly missed. We know that you will be watching over us
PTA Prsident

Wayne Hay

March 6, 2009

Was so sorry to hear of Anita's passing. Since Mom moved away from Norfolk, I haven't been on Saban. You all are in my thoughts and prayers.

Rosemary Helton

March 6, 2009

Sometimes, not often enough, we reflect upon the good things, and those thoughts always center around those we love. We think about those people who mean so much to us and who for so many years have made us so very happy - and we count the times we have forgotten to say, "Thank you!" and just how much we love them. On behalf of my family, Bridget, Mike, JR, Jacquie, & Cody, their heartfelt thanks and prayers.

Rosemary Helton

March 6, 2009

To my guardian angel - You may be gone, but I know you will still be watching over me. I know you are at peace - thanks for all of the fight you gave for the kids. Flowers will wither, but memories live on forever.

Juliette Lassiter

March 6, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you and family.

Showing 1 - 27 of 27 results

Make a Donation
in Mari DeSalvo's name

Memorial Events
for Mari DeSalvo

To offer your sympathy during this difficult time, you can now have memorial trees planted in a National Forest in memory of your loved one.

How to support Mari's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Mari DeSalvo's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more