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Stephanie Leigh Gibson Allen

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In Loving Memory Stephanie Leigh Gibson Allen July 1, 1968 - August 14, 1999 Just for today, I will try to live through the next 24 hours and not expect to get over your death, but instead learn to live with it, one day at a time. Just for today, I will remember your life, not your death, and bask in the comfort of all those treasured moments and days we shared. Just for today, I will smile, no matter how much I hurt inside, for maybe if I smile a little, my heart will begin to heal. Just for today, I will free myself from my self-inflicted burden of guilt, for deep in my heart I know if there was anything I could have done to save you, I would have done it. Just for today, I will allow myself to be happy and enjoy myself, for I know I am not deserting you, but living on. Just for today, I will accept that I did not die when you died; my life did go on, and I am the only one who can make that life worthwhile once more. Not just for today, but, forever. Mom

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Jul. 1, 2009.

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