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William Wheeley Obituary

William H. Wheeley NORFOLK - William Howard Wheeley, 59, died July 4, 2009, at home. Mr. Wheeley was born in Portsmouth, the son of the late William Hardee and Rose M. Wheeley. He received his bachelor's degree from Virginia Wesleyan College and his master's degree from Old Dominion University. He held professional certifications as a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, a National Certified Counselor, and a Licensed Professional Counselor. Mr. Wheeley had retired after 30 years as an intake officer with Norfolk Juvenile Court. He was most recently a therapist with Associated Counselors of Tidewater. He was a longtime member of Christ and St. Luke's Episcopal Church in Norfolk. Survivors include his wife of 38 years, Pamela Haycox Wheeley of Norfolk; two daughters, Jennifer Palmer and her husband Tobin of Norfolk, Rachel Pearce and her husband John of Warrenton, Va.; four grandchildren, Megan and Emily Palmer of Norfolk, and Kristen and William Pearce of Warrenton. A memorial service will be conducted at 11 a.m. Thursday, July 9, at Christ and St. Luke's Episcopal Church in Norfolk by the Rev. C. Berkley Ford. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the ALS Association DC/MD/VA/ Chapter 7507 Standish Place, Rockville, MD 20855. H.D. Oliver Funeral Apartments, Norfolk Chapel, is handling arrangements.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Jul. 7, 2009.

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August 6, 2009

Pam and family, don't know if you still check this but just in case.... please know that you are all thought of often and William is remembered fondly. I will never forget his stewardship talks at 8 o:clock service. His were the best stewardship talks I've ever heard! :-)
Love always,
Lesta Ammons

Sharon Jaronczyk

July 9, 2009

To William's family-
It was my pleasure to work with William at the court for many years. He was a special man. May God comfort you in your time of loss.You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Vickie Butler & Family

July 9, 2009

Pam and family,
Please accept our deepest and most heartfelt condolences...

Mary Walter

July 8, 2009

To the family of William Wheeley...

I am so saddened to hear of his passing. William was an awesome man. He was a great listener and always had such wise words to share with me. I knew him from Norfolk courts and I will truly miss him. He is in good hands now and will watch over us all. My prayers and thoughts are with you all.

Jena Mason

July 8, 2009

Pam, Jennifer, Rachel, and Family:
You have my deepest sympathy. William was truly one of a kind and has left a lasting legacy of love, kindness, and faith. Thanks for sharing him with me. I will truly miss my "White Daddy." God bless you all.

Libby Hiner

July 8, 2009

Pam and family,

I have fond memories of William from working in Norfolk. Your family will remain in my thoughts and prayers.

Angela Shalhoup

July 7, 2009

William, God bless you and your family. You will always be in my heart and prayers. You will be dearly missed.

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