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Benjamin G. Smith Jr. HAMPTON - Benjamin G. Smith Jr., 80, died Tuesday, July 28, 2009 after a courageous battle with cancer. Mr. Smith was an agent for Jefferson-Pilot Life Insurance Company for more than 40 years. After his retirement, he continued his insurance career as an independent agent for the past 15 years. During his career, Mr. Smith served as a LUTC Instructor and was a member of the Peninsula Association of Life Underwriters. He was preceded in death by his loving wife of 43 years, Barbara Sims Smith. He is survived by his daughters, Kelly S. Siegel and husband Gregory of Hampton, and Amy S. Harris and husband Ken, and grandson, Isaac B. Harris of Yorktown. Mr. Smith is also survived by his sister, Shirley Sue Wallace and husband Jimmy of Hampton; and his brother, David G. Smith and wife Linda of Tabb. A funeral will be conducted at 2 p.m. Friday at R. Hayden Smith Funeral Home by Pastor David Bounds with interment to follow in Parklawn Memorial Park. The family will receive friends today from 6 to 8 p.m. at the funeral home. At other times the family will be at the home of Kelly Siegel, 124 Pocahontas Place, Hampton. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to Ivy Memorial Baptist Church of the American Cancer Society.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Jul. 30, 2009.

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Jacquelyne Wilson

August 12, 2009

Dear Kelly and Greg, I have known your father all of my life. My father met him while on active duty and became our insurance agent. He was a good friend to me and my family. I know I am late but I just found out and do apologize. I heart and prayers go out to you and your family. Mr. Smith was not just our agent we loved him like family. He is a wonderful man with a joyful spirit that will remain in our hearts always.

Ricky Bright

July 31, 2009

I will always have very fond memories of "Puggy". He will continue to be one of the favorite people in my life. I will always remember his fun and joyful spirit and his direct and friendly approach to life. In the many card games he played with David, Neil and me, he was the "Ace" and the "Joker".
As I dressed for the day this morning and pulled my socks and boxers from my drawer, the personalized leather Pilot Life Insurance folder he had given me 35 years ago arose into view. I knew he must be looking down and laughing. He got the last laugh, I will always have the memories. Thanks for the reminder, Puggy, you will be missed but never forgotten.

Ann Partlow

July 30, 2009

Dear Kelly and Greg,

My heart goes out to you. I know well the sadness of having a beloved Dad pass on -- as mine did three months ago. I know from my mother, who grew up with your father, Kelly, that he was a wonderful man. He certainly had to be to have such a sweet daughter.

You two were/are good neighbors to my parents/mother and I'm glad that you're part of the Pocahontas Place "family." They, along with your family and other friends will help you to heal. I didn't believe people when they told me that one day you'll wake up and you won't be sad the moment you awaken, but it's true. The grief will give way to the great memories you have of your father.

Take care and God bless you,

Ann Ferrari Partlow

July 30, 2009

I first met Ben at the old CMJ Bank. He worked there with my father and then went on to a career in insurance. A fine instructer of insurance and a caring and kind man as I was trying to learn the business. He and I remained friends over the years with a continuing interest in insurance. He will be missed but I remember him when he lost Barbara and Im sure he is now with her again. my heart goes out to his family. Art Wildman,Clayton, NC

Jacquie Ream

July 30, 2009

Dear Kelly and Greg and family, I know you treasure the time you had with your dad. He lived a good life and may he rest in peace.

Emily, Sean and Connor Hughes

July 30, 2009

Saying goodbye to a loved one is never an easy task. Be at peace knowing that he is no longer in pain or suffering.

Uncle Puggy will forever live in our hearts and be remembered for always bringing joy and laughter to the many family gatherings over the years. We love and miss you, Uncle Puggy, but we know you are in good hands. You will never be forgotten.

Joe Ellis

July 30, 2009

Our condolences and sympathies from the Ellis Family.
I will miss all the fun we all had with Puggy, his smile and laughs were all we needed to make our day over at David's house during football season and all the card games we had!
GOD BE WITH YOU and YOUR FAMILY!

Joe Ellis

Karen Porter-Messick

July 30, 2009

Amy & Kelly Jo

I know its been forever since we've seen or talked with each other, but I just want you to know how sorry I am to hear about your dad. Keep his memory close and remember he will always be with you.

Love, Karen Porter-Messick

John Jesse

July 30, 2009

Having only known him for two years, I still was able to see what a great person he is. Wish I could have known him better, but am still fond of the time I did. Rest in peace Puggy, and enjoy eternity with Barbara.

Mark and Carol Ahlquist

July 30, 2009

Dear Kelly and Greg, Amy and Ken, and Isaac,

My thoughts and prayers are with you as you go through this difficult time of saying good-bye. I remember your dad as always being jolly and happy. May God go with you in the days ahead.

“The LORD bless you
and keep you;
the LORD make his face shine upon you
and be gracious to you;
the LORD turn his face toward you
and give you peace.” ’

Mark and Carol

Jo Wood

July 30, 2009

I met Ben over 40 years ago when he became our insurance agent. We moved to Richmond many years ago and he always kept in touch. It was always a pleasure to talk to him. Please accept our deepest sympathy.

Neil Wallace

July 30, 2009

I will always have fond memmories of our time together. All the family gatherings and card games we shared. I will miss the college basketball talks we had during the play-offs in past years. I will miss you, but never forget you Uncle Puggy. With Love, Neil

Evelyn & Jimmy Nettles

July 30, 2009

What a great man! He will be missed. Mr. Smith was our Insurance Agent for more than thirty years and we always enjoyed his visits when he came to talk to us about our insurance. And since Barbara and I worked for the same bank we had something more in common to talk about. May your hearts be blessed from all the memories and good times together. Our thoughts and prayers are with the family.
Jimmy & Evelyn Nettles

Laura Smith

July 30, 2009

I miss you Uncle Puggy. Rest in peace. I know that you are better now.

Brownie Weaver

July 30, 2009

Please accept my deepest sympathy to the entire family. Ben was a true gentleman in every way and he will be missed. May God be with you all.

Sincerely,
Brownie Weaver

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