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Alfred Gillio Obituary

Alfred P. Gillio Jr. VIRGINIA BEACH - Alfred Peter Gillio Jr. passed away July 30, 2009, at his home in Virginia Beach surrounded by his adoring family. He was born in Richmond, Va., Nov. 29, 1929. He was predeceased by his father, Alfred Peter Gillio Sr.; his mother, Rena Carroll Gillio and his sister, Betty Fox. He is survived by his loving wife of 55 years, Phyllis Payne Gillio; his sisters, Barbara Cawthorne and Ellen Sherman of Richmond; his son, Dr. Alfred Peter Gillio III of New York City and his companion Paul Bernstein; his daughter and son-in-law, Joy and John Baiocco of Chesapeake, and three wonderful grandsons, Patrick, Peter and Christopher Baiocco; plus many cousins and nephews. Alfred served in the U.S. Army and operated a tile and marble distributorship in Norfolk for more than 30 years. After retirement, he worked for the Virginia Beach Sheriff's Office for 12 years as a part-time security officer. The family wishes to thank his doctors, Heartland Hospice and Charles Powell and Gardinia Davenport for their expert care and compassion. Memorial services will be held at Star of the Sea Catholic Church located at 1404 Pacific Ave., today, July 31, at 7 p.m. The family requests that memorial donations be made to the Virginia Beach Sheriff Department's Drug Abuse Resistance Education program (DARE) at 2501 James Madison Blvd., Virginia Beach, VA 23456, or the American Cancer Society. Cremation Society of Virginia, Hampton Roads office, is assisting the family.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Jul. 31, 2009.

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August 6, 2009

Dear Mrs.Gillio,"lil"Al,and Joy,
I was out of town when Robin called and told me the sad news. Memories are a beautiful thing. I hope they will bring you much comfort. When someone you love becomes a memory......"Those" memories are a treasure. Mr. Gillio was a special gem. He will be missed.
love and rainbows to you all from
Rebecca Ailstock Sellers

Judy Riggs

August 5, 2009

Al,
I was so sorry to hear about your Dad. Please accept my sincere condolences and let me know if you need anything!

tracy fentress

August 1, 2009

dear mrs gillio, am so sorry to hear that you lost al,mother told me yesterday when we were at another memorial, our thoughts are with you, take care of yourself, if u need anything, please call. love sarah and tracy fentress

July 31, 2009

Dear Mrs. Gillio, Joy and Al,
I was so saddened to read todays obituary. Some of my fondest teenage memories took place in your home playing cards (you know i used to let Mr. Gillio win!) And I don't think he ever forgot the goat prank. We all will miss him very much. My prayers and thoughts are with you.

love,

Robin Ailstock McElhaney

Thomas S. & Theresa C. McVey

July 31, 2009

Dear Phyll and Family:

Driving to Oceans II on Fridays, one of us would invariably say, "I hope we get to see Phyll and Al this weekend." And that is the way we will always remember him, sitting around the pool with Gloria and Marie, reminiscing and solving world problems, a smiling friend who loved the beach!

An ancient Greek playwriter of tragedies seems to understand the fate of those left behind. He wrote:

"Even in our sleep,
pain which cannot forget
falls drop by drop upon the heart,
until in our own despair,
against our will, comes wisdom
through the awful grace of God."
- Aeschylus

Please accept our sincere condolences.

Thom and Theresa

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