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S. Martin Carter SUFFOLK - Sellas Martin Carter, 74, died Aug. 11, 2009, in Sentara Obici Hospital. He was born in Suffolk, the seventh of 12 children of the late Nancy "Lottie" and Herbert Oates Carter. He was predeceased by a sister, Alice King, and twin infant brothers, Herbert and Hubert Carter. He was educated in the Suffolk Public Schools including Suffolk High School, where he played football and baseball. Martin was a graduate of Chowan College and attended the University of Richmond. He served four years in the U.S. Navy and attended Suffolk Pentecostal Holiness Church. He and his brothers managed H.O. Carter Vault Company from 1960 until 1995. For a number of years he managed a part of the company on Eastern Shore. From 1974 to 1978 he managed Virginia Casket Company. He began his real love of woodworking at the age of 14, when he took shop at Suffolk High School and his father, who was somewhat of a woodworker, gave him several power tools. Martin owned and operated Carter Woodworking and was widely known for his reproductions of fine furniture, for which he won many awards. He was especially masterful in woodturning and also did the finishes on all his work. He was a member of several woodworking clubs and also taught classes. Next to his woodworking his joy was the water-fishing and sailing on his boat "Nugget." He was a past Exalted Ruler of Suffolk Elks Lodge No. 685 and was a member of TPA, Suffolk Moose Lodge, Tidewater Turners Association, and Tidewater Woodworkers Guild. He is survived by his wife, Eleanor Ponton Carter; two sons, Herbert Martin Carter and wife Gwen of Zuni, Va., Stanley Thomas Carter and wife Mary Ann of Redlands, Calif.; daughter, Deborah Lynn Kuethe of Las Vegas, Nev.; mother of his children, Shelby Osborne Carter of Zuni; stepson, Pete Clough and wife Cindy of Columbia, S.C.; grandchildren, Martin (Marcia), April (Don), Kyle (Lori), Onawa, Sarah, Emily, Skylar, Oliver, Christian, and Alex; six great-grandchildren; brothers and sisters, Acene Byrum of Spring Grove, Joy Johnson, Foy Gwaltney, both of Suffolk, Betty DuBose (Ellis) of Turbeville, S.C., Peggy Holly, Holmes Carter, Delmar Carter (Mary Eleanor), Don Carter (Judy); and brother-in-law, Ralph King, all of Suffolk. A funeral will be conducted Friday, Aug. 14, at 2 p.m. in the R.W. Baker & Co. Funeral Home & Crematory, 509 W. Washington St., Suffolk, VA 23434, by the Rev. Don Milner with burial in Cedar Hill Cemetery. The family will receive friends in the funeral home today from 5 to 6:30 p.m. Memorial donations may be made to the American Heart Association, Memorial & Tribute Processing Center, P.O. Box 5216, Glen Allen, VA 23058-5216. Condolences may be registered at www.rwbakerfh.com.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Aug. 13, 2009.

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Gail Jones

August 30, 2009

Dear Eleanor,
Joyce and Catharine e-mailed me and I was so sorry to hear about Martin and your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. May wonderful memories make this time easier for you in the days ahead.
Take care and God bless.
Gail

August 19, 2009

Our Deepest Sympathy on the passing of Martin. We have such fond memories of Martin.
Members of the Tidewater Turners of VA.

August 19, 2009

Eleanor, we are so sorry to hear about Martin's passing. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. Fondly, Connie and Larry Shiera

August 18, 2009

As fine a gentleman as I have ever met! Meeting you made my life richer.Dale

Tom Meade

August 17, 2009

Dear Eleanor,
Suzanne and I were out of town and I just heard about Martin's death. We are so sorry.Martin has been such a great supporter of the Tidewater Turners and taught us so much.I am privileged to own some of his masterpieces that he has made for Suzanne and me over the years- a beautiful mahogany corner cupboard that he made from a photo my wife pulled out of a magazine,a walnut chest of drawers, a mahogany chest of drawers,and a walnut sideboard.Each of these were exquisitely done and are museum quality.My most memorable item however is a mahogany "Colonial field bed" that he helped me make for my son-Really, I only finished it with his generous help and time. Beside me,there were 6 or 7 others that took the course. A 4 wk. course turned out to be more like a 4 mo. course and we had so much fun,I was sorry to see the bed completed.His technical skill and generous teaching,leaves a legacy that will not be duplicated. I am so glad that I had the opportunity to learn from him and only regret that I did not have more time to spend with him.

Tom Meade

Julie Pace

August 15, 2009

Dear Eleanor: I am so very sorry to hear of your tremendous loss. I am so happy that I got to meet Martin, and sorry that we never were able to get together again. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Charlottesville is still the same, come visit when you can. Keep in touch. Julie

Busch stadium, St. Louis. 1984

Don Kaiser

August 14, 2009

Again...my thoughts are with you on this difficult day. I really wish I could have flown in, but my dad is not up to travel and I know he would have wanted to come. He was always asking me about how Martin as doing and this news was especially sad for him. I had some photos I wanted to upload from Martin & Eleanor's trip to see us in St. Louis in 1984. I guess I'll just choose one for here. Martin is on the top step of the dugout at the old Busch Stadium. His stance looks just like Tony LaRussa's!

We all have such fond memories of him.

August 13, 2009

Marty&Deborah, Your,Dad,was one of the good guys.Years after you all lived on the,Eastern Shore,my brother,Clark&I never passed thru,Suffork,without checking on the,Martin Carter family.We always asked about the two of you & your,Mom.I remember my visit with you all from military school 1970.Your,Dad will be missed I'm sure and I regret not being in touch these last 15 years.Thinking of you. Mark Williams Onley,Va.

Linda Frilles

August 13, 2009

Marty, Gwen, and family,
I am so sorry to hear about your dad's passing. I have already moved, so I will not be able to be there. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

Don Kaiser

August 13, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you from afar, here in St. Louis.

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