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Paula Elizabeth Flowers VIRGINIA BEACH - Paula Elizabeth "Betsy" Flowers, 47, passed away Aug. 29, 2009, at UVA Medical Center, Charlottesville, Va. Betsy was born in Norfolk and graduated from Kempsville High School in 1979. She spent most of her career selling insurance and owned The Insurance Shoppe in Virginia Beach. Betsy loved gardening, going to the beach, and spending time with her family and friends. She was a member of Baylake United Methodist Church, where she was actively involved in the children's programs. Betsy was predeceased by her parents, Nicholas and Carole Flowers and her sisters, Terri Heck and Vanessa Stafford. She is survived by her brothers, Bill Flowers and Joe Flowers and his wife Wendy, all of Norfolk and 16 nieces and nephews. Betsy had overcome many obstacles in life which made her strong and compassionate. She always had a relaxed spirit, soft voice and a gentle touch. Betsy will be greatly missed by all the lives she has touched. The family wishes to give special thanks to John Buddles and her lifetime friend, Missy Bowes, for all of their love and care during her illness. A celebration of Betsy's life will be held at 2 p.m. Wednesday, Sept. 2, at Baylake United Methodist Church, 4300 Shore Drive, Virginia Beach, with the Rev. Deborah Clark officiating. Please join the family for a reception immediately following Betsy's service at the Ocean View Democratic and Social Club, 9615 Granby St., Norfolk. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the church. You may offer condolences at www.mem.com. Arrangements by Smith & Williams Funeral Home, Norfolk Chapel.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Sep. 1, 2009.

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Patricia Atcheson

September 30, 2009

Joey, Billy and all the family and friends...I am so sorry for your loss and for all of us not seeing this in the paper. We would all have been there to show our love and support to all of you and ask for your forgiveness. Our hearts are deeply saddened! I once again looked for Betsy at church last Sunday and many others and now I know why she wasn't there. She IS now in Heaven with your mom and other sisters. Our prayers go out to all of you. We will never forget Betsy, nor any of this family we grew up with that were so special to us and a big part of our lives. Robin now has her best friend. Betsy didn't know how special, loving and kind she was but now, the Lord is showing her and she has no more pain. God be with all of you...We are ALL so very sorry! With Love and deepest sympathy, Patricia and Johnny Manus, Donna and Bill and Barbara Flanagan.

Kathi Leach

September 10, 2009

My deepest sympathies.

Kathi Leach

Mary Godfrey

September 2, 2009

My prayers are with you.
Mary Godfrey,
BSFInternational Family

Mary Godfrey

September 2, 2009

My prayers are with you.
Mary Godfrey,
BSFInternational Family Member

September 2, 2009

God truly has another angel.
Love,
Sandy Sheffy

Brian OHara

September 1, 2009

I knew Betsy in High School and had a few classes together. I remember never seeing her without a smile. My thoughts go out to the family.

Sandy Farnsworth

September 1, 2009

Betsy was my confidant, my friend, and my mentor, she shaped me and molded me in a successful Insurance Agent that I am today. I will hold every memory we shared together in my heart. She will truly be missed.

Lennie Core

September 1, 2009

No more Doctors Betsey. You have a heavenly body now.. I will miss your wonderful nature & love.

As we all know, she had more than her share of suffering pain and unexpected tribulations that life gave her.

Thinking of you always.
Love, Lennie Core

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