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Melvin Kirkland Obituary

Melvin J. Kirkland VIRGINIA BEACH - Melvin Joseph Kirkland, born March 22, 1963 in Tampa, Fla., passed away Sept. 18, 2009, in Mangilao, Guam. Upon graduating high school in Gainesville, Fla., he joined the United States Navy. He excelled in all endeavors with the U.S. Navy while having a successful tour of duty. Upon retiring from the U.S. Navy, he then was a civil servicemen for the U.S. Navy. Mel was an avid fisherman always after the big catch. Although his life was short lived in many eyes, he didn't leave without touching many lives and always was a selfless person. He was a loving husband, son, dad, and friend who will be greatly missed. He is survived by his wife, Anita Kirkland; mother, Mary Lee Kirkland of Gainesville, Fla.; brother, Michael Scott Kirkland; grandmother, Reba Edmark, both of Gainesville, Fla.; son, Robert Swickard of San Diego; daughter, Mary Kinley and husband Larry of Oklahoma City, Okla.; daughter, Catherine Joella Kirkland of Samar, Philippines; granddaughter, Hannah Lynn Swickard of Virginia Beach; granddaughter, Taylor Kinley of Oklahoma City; grandson, Brady Philip Swickard of Suffolk; nieces, nephews, cousins, aunts, and uncles. Memorial services will be held at Hollomon-Brown Funeral Home, Kempsville Chapel in Virginia Beach on Saturday, Nov. 28; services will begin at 11 a.m. Previous services were held at San Agustin's Funeral Home in Harmon, Guam on Oct. 8, 2009. Our God is a Loving God, Our God is a Forgiving God.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Nov. 22, 2009.

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Mark/Lolita Spitznaugle

February 4, 2010

Mel & I worked many hours together, many of them under very stressful conditions. I knew him as a very giving and dedicated man. You could count on Mel to add a lot of fun to what ever we were up to. I am shocked at our loss, and we give our greatest sympathy to Anita and his family. Mark & Lolita Spitznaugle (USS Canopus/NSSF New London)

James Dixon

December 30, 2009

I served with Mel in the Optical Shop aboard the USS Emory S. Land AS-39.

Mel was always there to show me the ropes and help me succeed. When most people wouldn't stoop to assist a sailor who was so "wet behind the ears", Mel was always there.

Though I haven't seen Mel in yearrs, the positive impacts he had on my life are still being felt. Thank you Mel.

May you rest in the arms of our Lord.

Chuck Wright

November 25, 2009

I did have the pleasure of friendship with Mel. He always put forth 100 percent towards his role in life and in the Navy. As one of the last great Opticalmen to serve he will be surely missed.

On behalf of the entire NSWCCD Philadelphia Command, I share our sincere condolences to his friends and family. Rest in peace Mel, It has been well desired and God bless your soul.

Chuck Wright,
Submarine Field Services Rep Manager

Rory Simpson

November 24, 2009

I had the pleasure to have known and worked with Mel for many years in various Optical Shops during his time on active duty and even after his retirement from the Navy. Mel - Your life was too short and you will be missed. Your friend, Rory

November 23, 2009

Thanks Mel, just in case I didn't say it as many times as I should've. Sometimes Mel's intrusive helpfulness was annoying, but it was ALWAYS meant with the best of intentions. Whenever I showed up on the Isle of Guam, I could count on Mel to meet me there and help me out with whatever I needed. Mel certainly knew sacrificial giving and practiced it.
I had many lunchtime discussions with Mel about old times we never had, but I'm sure if I had served with Mel in the Navy I'm sure we would have seen eye to eye as Chiefs.
Mel was a Chief thru and thru.
Thanks Mel. It's time now sailor, to rest your oars..
Mat

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