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Patrick Spattifor Obituary

Patrick R. Spattifor CHESAPEAKE - Patrick Ross Spattifor, 85, of Stephanie Boyd Drive and formerly of Pinta Drive, died Nov. 27, 2009, in a Norfolk hospital. A native of Warren, Pa., he was predeceased by his wife, Mary Louise Spattifor and a sister, Marion Clements. Mr. Spattifor retired as a general foreman at Norfolk Naval Shipyard Shop 41 Boilermakers and was a member of the American Legion Churchland Post No. 310, and a Navy veteran of World War II. Pat enjoyed fishing, walking in the mall, playing cards with his friends, and was very involved in his grandchildren's activities. Survivors include three daughters, Betty G. Higgins and husband Willard of Portsmouth, Patti A. Duval and husband Michael of Chesapeake, and Diane S. Allen and husband Michael of Chesapeake; six grandchildren, Lisa Sych, Robert Higgins, Kelly Styron, David Blevins, Ryan Allen and Matthew Allen; seven great- grandchildren; one sister, Joyce Rothmann of Boyton Beach, Fla.; several nieces and nephews. A graveside service will be held at 11 a.m. Tuesday, Dec. 1, in Greenlawn Memorial Gardens by the Rev. David W. Cupps. The family will receive friends at Sturtevant Funeral Home, Portsmouth Blvd. Chapel, Monday from 6 to 8 p.m. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the American Parkinson Disease Association. www.SturtevantFuneralHome.com.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Nov. 29, 2009.

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Gail Respess New

December 1, 2009

Patti & family, My thoughts & prayers are with each of you as you reflect on your fathers life here on earth. Cherish the memories, hold them close to your heart, & know that both your mother & father are only a heart beat away.

December 1, 2009

David, I am sorry for your loss. Lori and I have you in our prayers. You have another angle looking down on you and your family.

Sincerely, Blair & Lori Schuchmann

December 1, 2009

"God, Your ways, Your wisdom, Your guidance are so precious and so perfect. They are always spoken in the purest love, and specifically for us. You lead us moment by moment. When we have a need, Your love never fails. Your wisdom never falls short. Lord please continue to be with us, especially with David Blevins and his family during this time of sorrow. Lord when you speak we want to hear every whisper.

Dave, my family and I are praying for you and your family. God Bless!

The Miranda Family
Norfolk, VA

Patty Manning

November 30, 2009

Patti, and family,
Although I never knew your dad personally, after talking with you several times thruout his illness towards the end, I feel I somehow connected with you and he, thru mutual experiences. Prayers going up for you and yours, and thinking about you all thruout this...he was one lucky Dad to have you support him and be by his side...

Patti Duval

November 30, 2009

"Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take---- but by the number of moments that take our breath away."
I will always cherish the wonderful times I spent with you Dad, both as a child and as an adult. I will always be able to hear you sing in my ear when we went to court to get my drivers license "just call my name and I'll be there" in 1970. Memories of you will always be with me. I love you Dad!
Love your daughter, Patti

November 29, 2009

Betty, Will and Family,

Dave just called me to tell me about your loss. We are very sorry about your Dad, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Betty Pope and Family

CHUCK-HELEN HIGGINS

November 29, 2009

A TIME FOR REST,TIME WILL PASS,
MEMORIES OF YOU WILL ALWAYS LAST,
THE TIME WILL COME WHEN YOU WILL HEAR,
"DO YOU REMEMBER THE TIME WHEN PAT ....."
LOVE CHUCK AND HELEN

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