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Barbara Hill Obituary

Barbara Ballance Hill NORFOLK - Barbara Ballance Hill, 89, of the 1400 block of Harmott Ave., died peacefully at her home Dec. 7, 2009, with her family by her side. She was a native of Suffolk and a longtime resident of the Lakewood community of Norfolk. She was the daughter of the late George Henry Ballance Jr. and Ruth Allen James Ballance. She was predeceased by her husband of 67 years, Rowland Braxton Hill Jr., and son, Harvey Brooks Hill. Mrs. Hill was a longtime active member of the Lakewood Garden Club, serving in many capacities concerning local beautification projects, and in the making and judging of flower arrangements. As a former member of the Lakewood Circle of the Kings Daughters, she devoted thousands of hours knitting and sewing items for the Children's Hospital. She was a former leader with the Azalea Garden Boys Club, proud to have participated in the dedication of its library and in the judging of youth's creative arts. She also served the various organizations in support of her five children, including Cub Scouts and Girl Scouts. She was a member of Talbot Park Baptist Church. Mrs. Hill was an avid doll collector especially of foreign and antique dolls and maintained a keen interest in botanical matters. She was a wonderful wife, mother, and friend to all who knew her. Mrs. Hill is survived by three sons, R. Braxton Hill III and his wife Elaine, George Ballance "Brick" Hill Sr. and his wife Louise, Allen Bryan Hill and his wife Carolyn; daughter, Bruce H. Darden and her husband Bill; six grandchildren, Brack IV, Austin, Paris, Brick Jr., Mimi and Beck; three great-grandchildren, Isabelle Lane, Braxton and Walker; numerous cousins, nieces and nephews. Mrs. Hill is joined by her family in expressing a grateful thank you to those who provided for her comfort and happiness as the need arose, especially to her daughter in law Louise Hill and caregiver and friend Nanette Calligan. A graveside service will be conducted at 11 a.m. Friday, Dec. 11, at Forest Lawn Cemetery in Norfolk by the Rev. Nathan Gragg. The family will receive friends at the funeral home Thursday from 6 until 7 p.m. H.D. Oliver Funeral Apartments, Norfolk Chapel, is handling arrangements. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the charity of one's choice. Online condolences may be sent to the family at www.hdoliver.com.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Dec. 9, 2009.

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Brick Hill Jr

December 15, 2009

I love you Granny. We all will miss you.

Lynette Ellis Metz

December 9, 2009

Dear Brick & family,
My condolences to all of you. This is a time of pain and rejoicing. Your mother is celebrating her new life! My prayers are with all of you as you cry, laugh and remember all the special moments you shared with her.
Lynette

Brack Hill

December 9, 2009

Thank you for so many happy memories. Love always,

Brack IV, Katja, Walker and Braxton

donna jones simpson

December 9, 2009

Dear Brick and family, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Your mother was a beautiful lady. My late mother thought the world of her.

I thought of you the other day, on your birthday, and I have nothing but the fondest memories of you and all the fun our gang had together. It's a wonder we all didn't end up in the pokey, isn't it ?

You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

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