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Zenas Fearing Obituary

Zenas E. Fearing Sr. PORTSMOUTH - Services for Zenas Elbert Fearing Sr. will be held at 1 p.m. today in Sturtevant Funeral Home, Bennetts Creek Chapel.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on May 5, 2010.

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Edward Henrickson

May 29, 2010

My condolences to the family,
I am a friend of Zene. We both served in the Marine Corps. I knew Mr. Fearing Sr. only through visits at the family house or Nags Head. I never knew he was an educator and coach. It turns out he had a great deal in common with my father. Much Aloha,

May 14, 2010

To The Family and Friends Of Coach Fearing - 10 May 2010
It is said that those teachers remembered are the ones who had the most impact on a student's school career. Mister Fearing was one teacher who falls into that catagory in my case. I have lived in California for many years but my brother in Portsmouth had just spoken of Mister Fearing and now the news reaches the opposite coast. Mister Fearing was a good man, a teacher who had the student's best interest at heart and a person who always made a student feel that his accomplishment, however small, was a major event. He was stern when necessary, but understanding when the occassion arose. I still miss hear his booming voice across the CHS practice field and the question he often asked "What are you thinking? Now get over here and explain it to me!" I will remember him as a positive influence in my life. William (Billy) Fell (Portsmouth,VA and VacaVille,CA)

May 7, 2010

Ms. Barbara, Diane, Zene and Tag, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Please know that my family is keeping you all lifted up in prayer. When I read the obituary I thought, my my, what a full and rich life, and I know you all were very proud of him. I'm glad I was a part of your life many years ago.Good Memories stay with us forever! Valerie (Gray) Daniels Your soundside friend.

Dr. Lee Banton

May 5, 2010

It was with extreme sadness that I learned of Coach Fearing's passing. He was an excellent role model for those with whom he worked and coached. His work ethic and ability to inspire members of our 1957-58 football teams at Churchland High School contributed immensely to my success in life.

David Green

May 5, 2010

So very sorry for your loss, after reading his obituary-what a life- how proud you all must be - how missed he will be - what a man. he surely has a place in heaven.

Janet and David

David Fell

May 5, 2010

I was saddened to hear of the death of Coach Fearing. I was a student at Churchland High School in the late 50s and early 60s, Class of 1962, and Coach Fearing, as we all called him, was my gym teacher and football coach. Along with Coach Joe Smith and Coach Jack Wayland, we were taught and guided by some of the best teachers and coaches of that time. Coach Fearing's quick smile, and even quicker sneer when you did something wrong, was always a reminder of his concern for all of his students. He was a great teacher and anyone who was his student will remember with kindness their time spent under the guidance with Coach Fearing. May our Heavenly Father bless Coach Ellie Fearing and his family during this time of their loss. David Fell, Class of '62

Glenda & Garland Walker

May 5, 2010

Mr. Fearing was our high school teacher and coach long ago in Hertford,N.C. How we admired and respected him. Our deepest sympathy to the family and may your wonderful memories of this fine man ease your sadness.

Mike Sutphin

May 5, 2010

We are so sad to hear of Mr Fearing's passing. He touched and mentored many lives and will be missed by all. Our deepest sympathies to Mrs Fearing, Zene, Diane and Tag.

Love, Michael and Polly Sutphin

Cydney Cherry Cavender

May 5, 2010

Zene, Diane, and Tag,
I was so sorry to learn about the death of your dad. He touched so many lives. I do hope that all your happy memories will get you through this time of grief. With sympathy.

Brownie and Jenny Tatum

May 5, 2010

Diane and Family. We are so sorry to hear of the passing of your father. May your precious memories keep him alive forever in your hearts.
Jenny and Brownie Tatum

Ernie King

May 4, 2010

Diane & family:
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time. Your dad was a wonderful man and he always gave me a warm smile when I came to visit.
I know he is in a better place and looking proudly down on his family.
God bless,

May 4, 2010

My best memory of Coach Fearing was the day of the BIG lightning bolt. We were gathered at the end of the track near High St. ready to run the 100 yard dash. I remember Coach Fearing picking up a stick holding it over his head and started the count. On your mark get ready, get set and then BOOM! A huge lightning bolt went right over heads and we all hit the ground and the lightning hit a big tree behind us and caught it on fire. I believe the paint on the flag pole got fried and some of the front school windows broke. If I could ask him I'm sure he would remember that day. Coach you will be sorely missed. Ray Minton

Johnny Belch

May 4, 2010

Sorry for your loss.

Charlie Stevens

May 4, 2010

Being a player under coach Fearing was one of my greatest experiences. I can not express the the positive impact he had on my life. I played a round of golf with the coach a few years ago, I am glad to have had that experience. Thanks Coach, God Bless.
Charlie Stevens (59, 60)Charle

May 4, 2010

Our sincere and deepest sympathy during your breavement for the loss of beloved Ellie. I fondly remember the many good times with All of
The Fearing Family. God Bless
Sincerely,
Russ and Rosabelle Twiford

May 4, 2010

I am so sorry for your loss Diane. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
Cheryl Jones
Clayton

May 3, 2010

My thoughts are with you and my prayers for your lost of a great friend and neighbor for many yrs. S. WAYNE DAVIS 2399700540 marco island,fla

Cindy Purcell

May 3, 2010

"God gave us memories so that we may have roses in December." Reading Mr. Fearing's obituary, I realized what a great man he must have been. I'm sure he will be a rose of great and wondrous color to all who knew him and loved him. I only know his daughter Tag, and what a wonderful father he was. My love and sympathies to all of you.

Patricia (Sult) Varney

May 3, 2010

Diane and family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love, Pat & George Varney

Kirt Lawson

May 3, 2010

In my five years at Churchland I never heard Coach Fearing utter one curse word, and believe me the football team gave him plenty of reasons to curse.

I learned a great deal from him. He taught me the value of hard work and persistence. I 'll never forget the night after Churchland beat Wilson for the first time . Someone offered him a ride back to Churchland, and he answered, " No thanks, I want to be on the bus with the team, We have never ridden back to Churchland from Wilson as winners". He was above all the consumate gentleman, and I will never forget him. God bless Coach Ellie Fearing and all who love him.
Kirt Lawson ( Scottsdale, Arizona)
CHS Class of 61

Libby Gibson

May 3, 2010

Diane and family, My thoughts and prayers are with you. Love, Libby Vance Gibson

May 3, 2010

It's been over 30 years since I graduated from Deep Creek High
Mr. Fearing was my favorite teacher of all times.
He was so much fun, but when he was mad he was mad.
I learned alot of work ethics from his class.
He loved talking about his family, Elizabeth City and Nags Head.
I enjoyed running in to him and wife every once in while he always
remember you and he would get caught up in your life to see what
was happening.
Rest In Peace Mr. Fearing you will always be remembered and
amired.

Connie Allison

Jerry and Marybeth Oliver

May 3, 2010

We are truly sorry and very saddened in the Fearing family's loss. Mr. Fearing was a kind and very accomplished man whose long life touched many in very positive ways. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

Vicky Bryant

May 3, 2010

I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this time of sorrow.

Phillip Jernigan

May 3, 2010

Sorry to hear of your loss. What a great man, and I enjoyed talking to him very time I saw him. May our Heavenly Father bless & comfort you all during this time of sorrow. You are in my thoughts and prayers...Phillip Jernigan

Bernie Kirsch

May 3, 2010

Ellie Fearing was a fine man, a great coach and leader of young people. He influenced many of my generation, and he will be a part of our memories forever.

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