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Denise Demitris Obituary

Denise M. Demitris CHARLOTTESVILLE - Denise Michelle Demitris passed away June 2, 2010 at the Case Medical Center, University Hospitals, Cleveland; she was 43 years old. Denise suffered a brain hemorrhage on April 24 shortly after arriving for a visit at her parents' home in Warren, Ohio (her home town). After being taken to Trumbull County Hospital in Warren, she was flown to the Case Medical Center for further treatment where she remained in a coma until her passing. Denise is survived by her husband, Alan Johnson; her children, Michael Gracia, 20, George Gracia, 18, Emma Demitris Robertson, 8; her stepchildren, Hali Johnson, 17, and Jeremiah Johnson, 15, and her nephew, Adam Clark, 21. Denise is also survived by her father and mother, Walter and Kathleen Demitris of Warren; her sister, Tracy Clark of Riverhead, N.Y.; and her brother, Jason Demitris, also of Warren. Memorial services are planned for 1 p.m. June 10 at the Star of the Sea Catholic Church, Virginia Beach. In lieu of flowers, donations in her name to the Church of the Incarnation, Charlottesville, the Department of Neurosciences at Case Medical Center, Cleveland, and the Paleobiology Department at the National Museum of Natural History, Washington, D.C. are greatly encouraged.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Jun. 9, 2010.

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Emma Robertson

May 6, 2019

Dear Mommy,
I am 16 now going on seventeen in just a month! I have missed you more and more each day and regret every second that I didn't mention how much I love you. You were not only an incredible mother but an amazing best friend, who NOBODY will replace. You were my biggest role model and I looked up to you in every single aspect of life. I remember you making me sit on the couch and study even when I was only in the first grade, and while I hated it then, looking back now it shows how much you had already invested in my future as a student. I miss your famous linguini and clams, that somehow tasted amazing even though it was made out of two ingredients, noodles and canned clams. Only you could make something so simple taste so amazing. I miss your music taste, nobody could make me appreciate Prince or The Police at such a young age other than you. I miss your back rubs and our gossip sessions, I miss everything about you. You were and still are the most incredible and strong person in my world and always will be. While you may not be here physically, I know you're here in spirit watching over me. I love you mommy
xoxoxoxox Emma your snuggle bunny :)

Philip Day

June 13, 2010

I met Denise about 18 months ago at her home for the first meeting of the Hero's Writers Group with Fritz and Diane. She was so hospitable and served us gourmet coffee and chocolate chip cookies.

As I got to know her, I realized what an excellent writer she was and how much she cared about the craft. She let us critique her book on extinct animals. It was a great idea and very well-written.

Diane, Fritz and I met with her four days before she had the hemmorrage and she was as talkative as ever. She critiqued my story and gave me good advice, as always.

We miss her so much. Her chair will never be filled in our group. I will miss her laugh and her advice. May God bless Alan and her family in the difficult days ahead.

June 12, 2010

We played follow the leader, and of course you were the leader. You led everyone over that bees nest that laid on the ground. You told everyone, except me, to jump over. I did the unthinkable and stepped right in it...running amok towards mom screaming and getting stung with bees stuck in my hair!

That I thought was ONE of the worst days of my life.

But the saddest day of my life was when I lost you. Each day that goes by for me, seems like the first. It's still unfathomable you're gone. You and I had a bond like no other. I would always say that You would always make me cry the hardest, yet always make me laugh the hardest too.

We've been through so much together...and now I am left with no one to make fun of mom and dad with.

I hear your laughter and I am reminded of how beautiful and strong you were. I looked up to you and admired your strength (which I wish that I would have told you before but never did) and will always continue to do so.

You were there from the moment I was born, and sadly I was there for your departure.

You were the most beautiful and caring mother to Michael, George and Emma. No one could ever deny how much you loved and fought for them and their happiness.

Your job was done here, perhaps too soon, but God chose you to continue your enternal life with Philip so you could also continue to your love for him there.

You were my other half, my sister and my best friend. Now my angel.

Please help guide us and give us the strength to carry on.
Living without you will never be the same. You were an orginal!

We love you always and forever.

Your little sister, Tracy and Your little brother, Jason.

June 10, 2010

I have never met a person with such energy and love of live. Her laughter was infectious and she will be missed by all who came into contact with her. She is now in a place were she can be one with the nature she loved so much.

Stephen Herman
Norfolk, Virginia

A great person

Brian Diederich

June 10, 2010

In remeberance of a great person. I remember meeting her at the Gracias house while MTV was on. She was one of the Original Punks in Va Beach with sort hair, black dress, thin, and cool freinds. Then I remember her being a happy young wife and mother of two. James used to bring her to may house sometimes when they hung out while I lived near ODU. And then came Emma which made her even more happy. Her main concern was always her family and her bright children. Their happiness and success was always in the forefornt of her mind. Denise and Alan were the host and hostess with the mostess the last time I saw her. What a great couple and team they made. It was admirable of them for telling me about how they took thier kids on a road trip accross country and the things they did. I think she completed her mission of helping her children share values and principles that are important to her and remaining family. I hope that Alan, Family, Children, or the wonderful writers group that I was introduced to will see to it that the book she was working on is completed. I also envision great sucess and groundedness for all these people. Your soul has awaited you in heaven for so long. I am happy about the reunions that await you. If you did not recieve the ressurection in life then may you enjoy it now.

My prayers are with all

R.I.P. Denise Dimitris

tracey hicks

June 10, 2010

Denise you will be missed!!!!!!! to your whole family this is truely a sad thing to have happened family. we love you and will miss you dearly.

John and Jean Risinger

June 9, 2010

To Denise's family and loved ones. Denise was a dear friend of our daughter, Christine. She was much like Christine, outspoken and to the point. When they were together there was not a dull moment. We will always remember her and we are so sorry for your loss.

Annette Rowell

June 9, 2010

Not many people can match the beautiful, strong, and brilliant mind of my big sister but you came close Denise. I love you for many reasons but as a young girl......the white, snakeskin patterned jeans you gave me (size 0) were awesome. I was the coolest gal around for a very, very brief time. Unlike you, I was only that small for a few short months of my life. The world will miss your loud powerful voice and opinions tiny tinkerbell. I hate knowing that you are no longer with us and I love knowing you will be waiting for me.

Sandra Wetzel

June 9, 2010

I will never forget trick-or-treating as kids, walking to Smith Lake to explore nature and walking up & down the oceanfront to find treasures. You are a treasure Denise and will never be forgotten. My heart goes out to your family.

Christine Conroy

June 9, 2010

We love you so Denise and wanted you here with us. Clearly God has other plans and I know our Blessed Mother has enfolded you in her mantle taken you to Christ's mansion. We know you are loved and awaited by those who preceded you on the other side, by one angel especially. We will all be there soon enough and until then, you will be sorely missed, recalled with love, laughter and admiration and never, ever forgotton. For your family, we offer our consolation and support and the reminder of Christ's promise of eternal life. Peace be with you Denise, and all who love you. Michael, Christine, Mary Ella, Aidan and Adrian Conroy

Ann Toler

June 9, 2010

I will always remember you Denise! To her family: I'm so sorry for your loss.

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