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Frances Arnold
August 26, 2020
As much today as twenty years ago, can't help but smile when thinking of my friend. Would love to hear " What You UP Too?" Fran Murray Arnold
Barbara & Dave Crockett
August 25, 2019
Bernice was a lovely friend. We were saddened to learn of her passing. She was a great schoolmate, neighbor, daughter, mother, and grandmother. We remember her fondly.
Mary Lampkin
September 3, 2010
Your mom had a great personality. I talked with her daily throughout the years with our jobs. I use to always thank her for being so pleasant and down to earth. I really missed her when she retired from VDOT. She was a bright gem. Goodbye Momma, Miss bad to the bone!
Barbara & Dave Crockett
September 3, 2010
Kim, Karen, Shane & Family:
Dave and I are saddened to learn of your loss of Bernice. We first met her while we were all in school. It is hard to say "Goodbye" to such a lovely lady. You were truly blessed to have her with you for so long. And, we know your memories will bring you comfort as the days go by. We will keep you close in thoughts and prayers. Love & Hugs, Barbara & Dave Crockett
Christa Black
September 2, 2010
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
September 1, 2010
Karen, Kim and family,
It's hard to understand why people are taken from us, but find comfort in knowing you were all a special part of such a well lived life. Many happy memories will carry you all through this sorrowful time.
God Bless,
Cora Bryant & Ray Costello
September 1, 2010
Our most sincerest sympathies Karen; meeting your mother in West Virginia last year was a blessing, and her kindness and loving demeanor will be missed very much. She will always be in our prayers. God Bless.
Maritza, Albert, & Samantha Aliaga-DeLaRosa.
Lillian Morris
September 1, 2010
Bernice use to get to work a hour before her shift started and go into the kitchen and start making the coffee. I would go into the kitchen to talk to her and I'd ask her before she would ask me, "What'ca up too" and she would smile and say, "I'm Bad to the Bone". Maybe she thought she was bad to the bone, but her heart was made of gold. Bernice, Cora and I formed a special friendship, we were gambling bubblies, we went to concerts, shows and even birthday dinners together. They were like the mother's I wish I had and I loved them both very much. Bernice was always buying me something, especially for my new house and offered to paint my house. Bernice was a special person who treat everyone the same. She love to cook for her fellow employees, the state police and even the inmates on work release. She made me feel special and I'll always miss our long talks and her wisdom she share with me. She thought the world of her family. She was so proud of them. I miss you so much. God please take care of our special angel.
Karen Smith
September 1, 2010
Love you mom and will miss you terribly.
Sharon Crofton
September 1, 2010
I am so very sorry for your family's loss.
Edna & Darryl Whittemore
August 31, 2010
All of you know her as Bernice, I knew her as "Tootie". I remember when she first came to work @VDOT; we spent many years together, working, laughing, crying, and just helping each other out. She has been and always will be one of the most treasured friends I have. We offer our sincere sympathy to her family. I am going to remember the good times, and her laugh, and I am going to celebrate her life. God puts people in our paths for a reason, I was lucky enough to have her in my path! She suffers no more, and now is in God's loving arms. Boy, He sure got a good one this time! We love you, "Tootie".
Frances Murray-Arnold
August 31, 2010
Bernice was very devoted to Kim, Karen and Shane, I was with her almost everyday for over twenty years. We laughed a lot, cried a little. We put together bicycles, at Christmas, were co-workers, but most of all, she was and will always be my friend. The girls always called to speak to their "Mom", even after growing up. No one will ever grin at me and say, "What you up too?" The amazing thing, she really wanted to know and cared. She will always be part of my life,that will not ever go away. " Murray"
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