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Timothy R. Giedlin VIRGINIA BEACH - Timothy R. Giedlin, 54, of Orlando, Fla., passed away Friday, Aug. 27, 2010. A longtime resident of Virginia Beach, Tim was born and raised in Alfred, N.Y. The son of Richard and Mary Ellen Giedlin, he graduated from Alfred-Almond High School, and Alfred University in New York. After spending 21 years in Virginia Beach as an elementary school teacher and computer programmer, he moved to Orlando. He is survived by his two children, Andrew Giedlin and Liza Giedlin; parents, Richard and Mary Ellen Giedlin; four brothers, Marty, Chris, Tom and Mike; and former wife, Beth. Tim will be entombed at St. John's the Apostle Church in Virginia Beach.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Sep. 11, 2010.

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Michael Giedlin

September 5, 2024

It´s been fourteen years since my brother Tim passed away...there hasn´t been a day that I haven´t thought about him, and I pray that he was welcomed by our Lord.
Tim had so much energy and talent...he amazed me when he taught himself computer programming and then went on to make a living out of it.
Love you Tim

Barbara

August 26, 2011

A year is past. So much has happened. Sometimes it seems like only yesterday you were here and sometimes like it was a million years ago. I will always treasure all the goodd times and the great joy and blessings you brought to my life. Be at peace with God.
Love,
Barbara

Rick Steitzer

October 10, 2010

I am deeply saddened to hear of this news on Tim! I was a couple years older than Tim but we became very good friends at Alfred and had many great times at the house. I remember his smile and penchant for laughter. We had many 1 on 1 talks that always involved good stories or sports and laughs. Tim was a gifted natural athlete but he was also gifted as a genuine person. I lost touch shortly after the Alfred days but I see Tim went into teaching. I am sure he connected with and influenced many students and had to be a natural at it. My thoughts and condolences to Beth, Barbara, his children and the Giedlin family.

janet lyons

October 10, 2010

timeh....watering yer tree that barb planted aint gonna let anybody mess wid yer tree mon hahah

October 8, 2010

To Tim's immediate family - though I never got a chance to meet you I know you are missing Tim very much now and will for a very long time - it does get easier but remember all the great times and he will be with you forever.

Dick and Mary Ellen - please accept my deepest sympathies because I know how much the boys have meant to you and there are no words to ease your loss. Know that he is in a better place.

The rest of the boys - it has been way to long since I have seen you. Marty since our Notre Dame days - Tom and Chris it has to have been 20 years at least and Mike who I am happy to have kept in touch with - remember all the great times. I remember sitting in your house watching the infamous tie game between ND and Michigan State in 1966. Shooting hoops after the b-ball games at the old gym on the hill. Breakfast together at one of the families house after church and all the pick up football and baseball games on Belmont hill.

Please know Tim is in my prayers.

Mike Obuhanich

Tom Giedlin

October 5, 2010

I have so many memories of my brother Tim...

- How he gang-tackled me in the backyard and broke my collarbone playing a friendly family game of football (and kicked me in the ribs while I lay on the ground claiming I was faking my injury);
- Tricking me into swapping weekend house chores where I somehow ended up with double the work cleaning the family room;
- Telling his friends he won the Hornell CC golf club championship in 1974 (claiming the newspaper spelled his name wrong as "Tom" instead of "Tim") even though the trophy was in my room with my name;
- Visiting me at Annapolis and competing on the Naval Academy golf course and practice green with me and our Navy golf coach Larry Ringer, who nicknamed Tim "the pillsbury dough boy". Tim was so ticked he drained a 20 footer to beat us both;
- Playing ping pong with my family (Mary, Richard and Sophie) at family reunions in Virginia Beach VA. Even though we all waxed him, he never quit challenging us...

But most of all, I'll remember Tim as a great brother and family comrad. We all miss you Tim...

Diane (Lawrence)Davis

October 4, 2010

During my high school years, I had the priviledge of spending time with the Giedlin family. What a wonderful family they all were. Although most of my time was spent with Mike, I often had opportunities to listen in or be a part of the Giedlin antics; especially at the dinner table. I remember being a guest at the Giedlin's for Christmas Eve one year and what a beautiful time it was! MaryEllen was a great cook and many laughs were enjoyed throughout the entire evening. In later years, I had the good fortune of going to Nursing School where MaryEllen taught. She was an awesome teacher and much appreciated by all of the students...especially me! I know that both Dick and MaryEllen were so proud of their family and this will be a huge loss to them.

Its been several years, but I will always remember that Mike, being the youngest, always looked up to his brothers throughout the years. Although he was close with all the brothers, I remember a special bond he had with Tim. Tim was a very humorous guy and he could really make people laugh. And he was a competitor! His athletic abilities were above the rest and his laid back reaction to his success in athletics, was such a great example of the person that he was. Tim was an all-around great guy and will certainly be missed!

Our prayers continue for all of the Giedlin family. We pray that the God of all comfort will ease your pain during this most difficult time.

Sincerely,

Barbara Warburton

October 3, 2010

I believe God brings people into your life for a reason. During our years together Tim taught me many things:

Be optimistic even when life throws you a curve ball.
Complaining is a waste of time and energy.
Laughing is contagious.
Gossip is not worth listening to.
A smile is a good response.
A hug says more than words.
Saying you're sorry, even if you if you're not wrong, is smart sometimes.
Life is short and precious.
Thank-you Tim, You will ALWAYS be in my heart !!!! Barbara

Marty Giedlin

October 2, 2010

We are in VA Beach to celebrate a Mass in Tim's memory. Blaze, Mike and Burdett Madigan, all the brothers, Andy, Liza, Beth, Lori and the kids...amazing stories and memories. I miss him very much. The one story Tim always told at our beach reunions, is how when we were at Notre Dame HS in Elmira, the paper reported me winning the 400m and then breaking up a no-hitter...the same afternoon! Of course Tim had the hit (couldn't run worth a damn). Never let me live that down. Thanks for all the memories, Bro.

Jeff Vagel

September 29, 2010

My memories of Tim for one year at old Alfred Almond Central was a super competitive athlete in every sport, and a great guy to be friends with. Leading scorer on the soccer team, but you would have never of known that as Tim was all about TEAM, not Tim. He was and is a class act on and off the field or court. My best to the Giedlin family

Dan Sweeney

September 29, 2010

Tim was well liked by all the brothers at the Delt frat house. The thing I remember most about Tim was his laugh. We stood around and told stories and Tim could always be heard because of his laugh. Although college was many years ago, and I have not spoken to Tim in many years, Tim was, still is, and will always be my good freind.
God Bless.

Dave Snyder

September 29, 2010

It was a sad day when Tim Giedlin passed. One thing about Tim was that he didn't care about being the leading scorer either in soccer or basketball--so long as his hair looked good, Tim was a happy man. As I said while accepting his induction award (in his absentia) for the A-A Sports Hall of Fame...if it weren't for Steve Wheeler and myself dragging him away from that locker room mirror, Tim might not have accomplished anything for A-A!! I kid, I kid, but that's really what I said, and, with his blessing. You see, Tim Giedlin was real "good in sports" but what I remember more importantly - he was a "good sport." I remember Church League Basketball on Monday nights at A-A and how our cafeteria chatter was always about our basketball games. He was a competitor, as was I. He was talented, me, not so much. What I lacked in talent I made up for with hustle. I'd be sweating like a race horse in the first three minutes of a game while Tim was cool as a cucumber until maybe last three minutes he'd drip a sweat bead or two just to prove he'd been working hard. Was sorry when he went off to Elmira Notre Dame for 9th and 10th grade but happy when he came back! He was a team player who you could always count on to come through in crunch time. I'll never forget the win over Canisteo....A-A behind, 64-63 to a team we hadn't beaten in probably decades. Timeout with 8 seconds to go, Canisteo with the ball. Coach McEvoy talked and talked but we didn't hear anything except that we went to man-to-man to go for a steal. My man was in far corner and I saw they'd likely pass it in to their big man, Joe Galatio. So as they passed it in, I left my man and snuck in behind Galatio and knocked the ball out of his hands just as he was catching it. The ball hit the floor and bounded toward Tim who had been on the player inbounding the ball. As I hit the floor, I watched as Tim dribbled from midcourt in for a layup and I thought to myself "I'm glad that's him and not me shooting that!"
I am so glad I had a chance to renew our friendship at the time of his induction in the A-A Hall of Fame, even if it was just over the phone, as I had been out of touch. The entire Giedlin family brought so much to our community. Seems like I rambled a bit here but Tim and I go way back. RIP, my friend....I want you on my team when I get there!

Dick Mueller

September 28, 2010

It was a shock to hear of Tim's passing. I remember Tim from high school basketball, where I had the best seat in the house; let's not forget Chris was pretty good, too as was Tom...I got to watch them all. Tim also had a great sense of humor, which was much needed as we stacked hay bales over a couple of Summers. My best wishes go out to his brothers, but especially to his parents, and to Barb, Andy and Liza. While we may lose contact with people over time, we keep fond and happy memories.

Sandy McGraw

September 28, 2010

I was so sorry to hear of Tim's passing. I did not hear what the circumstances were, but I always enjoyed him as a fellow classmate. The 6 summers we worked together at the Alfred Sports Camp under Steve Babcock were a lot of fun. After life guarding in the afternoon, Steve would often have us compete in a "diving contest" with one another. He was the judge and the kids who were hanging around would hoot and holler as Steve always tried to make our scores close and competitive til the very last dive (regardless of our true performances:). I do not know if you recall this or if you were there. But I considered him a good and kind friend. I still remember the day in the cafeteria when he was sitting across from Debbie Parker and me and the two of us got nearly hysterical over some funny conversation we were having with Tim. We could not stop laughing and in desperation to get us to stop, Tim made the comment: "Think of something sad, like your house burning down!" This did not have the desired effect, as the milk I had been holding in my mouth came out my nose.

As a fellow athlete, I appreciated his athleticism and was a cheerleader all four year and many times repeated the phrase "Yay Tim, Yay Giedlin, Yay, Yay Tim Geidlin!! when ever he made a basket.

May your family be supported by the loving arms of The Lord during this difficult time.

Fondly-

Jeffrey Vagell

September 28, 2010

I had the pleasure of having Tim as a teamate on the Alfred Almond Central High soccer team, and basketball and baseball teams. What a competitor,what a team player. In soccer my job was get the ball down the wing and find Tim anywhere near the goal, and 'bang,' I had another assist. He could score from anywhere in soccer. I had the opportunity to know Tim for only one year at Alfred Almond, and it was enough to realize I was with a winner as an athlete but more importantly as a friend with great character. God Bless You Tim

Sherri Carpenter Whitely

September 28, 2010

I was so sorry to hear of Tim's death. Even back in high school you could tell how much his brothers meant to him. He will be missed by many.

Lisa Patrick-Porter

September 28, 2010

I will always remember hanging with Mike and his older brothers being around. At the time they were a little scary but pleasant as well. My favorite memory is having the opportuntity to attend a West Point graduation as their guest. The Giedlin family was a part of my life and I will treasure that always. This is a true loss but we all know that there is a better life wating for us. God Bless and stay strong.

Mike Giedlin

September 28, 2010

So how competitive was Tim? While visiting Va. Beach prior to moving here, Tim and I went out for a few cold ones to watch some game and just to hang out. So while on our way home Tim asks if I had a basketball in the trunk of my car - of course I did. So at 1am there's Tim and I playing one-on-one on some playground with the only light coming from my car. Who won? We didn't finish as we ended up arguing about a foul, or something - which was pretty typical with any contest between any of my brothers and I. It was classic!

September 27, 2010

Tim was my neighbor at Sandy Cove for many many years I have lost track. We always had a pleasant conversation talking about sports and music. He loved music as much and as I did and would share Cd's. He turned me on to a great Reggae Cd that I think his son had somthing to do with it. He burned a copy for some of our friends and gave it to them. Tim thought about everyone and cared. He will be deeply missed. Love, Mimi Cabell

Liza Giedlin

September 26, 2010

First of all I want to give a huge thanks to all our family and friends who have been so supportive through this tough time. I really enjoy reading these entries and getting to know my dad through the people that knew and loved him best. My favorite stories come from my uncles. I really wish I could have known my father in his hay day when he was such an amazing athlete. I am really going to miss playing with my dad, especially putt-putt golf and uno. I'll always remember being my dad's shauffer at Hell's Point. He always let me drive the cart even when I was way too young. I Love and miss daddy very dearly, but thankfully I see a lot of his special qualities in my brother Andy. His one-liners, his sense of humor, his athleticism, just to name a few. I will Always Love you Daddy.

janet lyons

September 24, 2010

Barb had a wonderful memorial for Tim at Sandy Cove, a party with 30+ close friends, much good food and a bonfire in the pit, complete with a loud fireworks display Tim would of loved. Garth planted a beautiful bald cypress tree right down near the lakefront that will last for the next 100 years! We will all remember Tim with much love in our hearts and miss him terribly.

Stephanie Kunze

September 24, 2010

My deepest condolences to Andy, Liza, Barbara and the entire Giedlin family. Peace, love and light.

September 23, 2010

Of all our sons, Tim was the bnest all-around athlete - how he loved to compete, no matter what the game. Life is not supposed to be like this - we should not outlive our children. Mother and I miss him terribly - he is entombed in our Church, so visit with him when we can. He always will be in our prayers - God bless you my son!
Richard and Mary Ellen Giedlin

September 23, 2010

Of all our sons, Tim was the best all-around athlete - how he loved his sports and life. He left us too early - Mother and I miss him terribly and pray for him every day. This was not the way life should be - our children should survive us! He is entombed in our church - it is comforting to visit with him when we can. God bless you Tim.
Mother and Dad

Susan Hooker

September 22, 2010

Tim was probably the first person I ever knew who was an all around athelete. I was amazed at how he excelled at everything from football, baseball, basketball, golf. He brought new meaning to sports. I remember how he was the talk of a member guest golf tournament in Hornell. He could make you laugh with his one liners of which I am sure everyone who knew him will miss.Andy and Liza remember his special gifts to this world and know that many of us have benefited from knowing him. We love you and pray for for Tim's eternal peace.

September 20, 2010

Timmy's significant other, Barbra + her family gave the most wonderful memorial to Tim on Sat. 9/18/10. We let off many balloons to reach him in the sky, read poems and verses, ate well and remembered our friend Tim at Sandy Cove.

Robin Ezzell

September 19, 2010

My heart goes out to all the Giedlins at this time, especially Andy and Liza. Keep the good memories close to your heart.

September 18, 2010

We all have our prime times in life and when Tim was in his he was the best brother-in law a guy could have. We loved competing, socializing with friends and family for New Years at some southern tier road house dancing to the Rogues. I loved those football games with the Hookers, Tim always amazed us with some fantastic play, and he had a great laugh while he was tugging at his collar and giving more smack than I could deal back. Tim will always be with me with a smile and a tear. God Bless his friends and family.
Bob Andrews , Missoula, MT

Andrew giedlin

September 18, 2010

Some favorite memories of my dad and I:
Going to Orioles baseball games
Coaching my basketball team to the championship
Playing golf at Hell's Point
Running passing routes in the back yard
Listening to he and his brothers tell stories about their childhood
Playing board games with my sister and I
Our competitive sport battles

Robert Pulos

September 15, 2010

I'll always remember our student teaching trips to the Wellsville (NY) sub shop in the fall of '78 - the manager let me make Tim's and my lunch and was exceptionally "reasonable" regarding price - of course, Tim (via Dick and MaryEllen) more than did his share given all the trips we enjoyed in his family's vehicles (screamin' Challenger, crusin' Centurion, et al) - more good times than any of us can possible name or remember . . . you'll be missed.

Robert Pulos

September 15, 2010

It was the spring of '74 - our high school baseball team (Alfred-Almond Central; second string) were being beaten badly by the Arkport Blue Jays - Coach (Bob) Cotispoti had had enough and puts Tim in to pinch hit against Arkport's version of "Goose Gossage" - first pitch = whack; a stand-up triple to center - by the time the cheers died down, Tim's look (as he was standing nonchalantly on third) was something to the effect of "no big deal" - Amazing . . . I'll never forget it or him.

Sandy Martin

September 13, 2010

I am very sad to hear of Tim's passing. We enjoyed many laughs and much good music with Beth and his many friends back in the day, and night. I know how much he loved his children and how much he'll be missed.

Mike Giedlin

September 13, 2010

Tim will surely be missed by myself and the rest of the Giedlin family. As the youngest of the 5 Giedlin boys I was always proud of everything my older brothers did in life. Tim was amazing and had so much going for him, and he gave me a lot of inspiration in my life. It's just been sad knowing that though he triumphed over so many things in life, he couldn't overcome the one thing that took his life. I, along with my entire family, am going to miss Tim, and we thank all of you that have been so kind with all your thoughts, and prayers. It makes us smile knowing that he touched so many in ways words can't describe.
Mike Giedlin

Michelle Ward

September 12, 2010

Tim was a long time significant other to my sister Barb. Tim was thought of as a Son-in-law, Brother-in-law and Uncle. Tim was a one of a kind. Tim had a great sense of humor and never had an unkind word to say about anything. His laugh will be treasured as it was very contagious. The many memories that our family hold will be treasured forever. Tim will be missed so much but our faith will hold us strong. He is in heaven with our Mom and that alone gives us the strength to carry on. Our family extends many prayers to you and want you to know that you are not alone. We loved TIm. Love, Chris, Michelle and Casey Ward and our Dad, Ed Gala

Bill Pulos

September 12, 2010

We are mourning the passing of our friend Tim. We've since recounted many of our times together in sports, college, teaching and on the farm.

We are thinking of him and his family during their Alfred days with love and respect for all of them.

We offer our prayers for our fallen brother.

Bill Pulos, Robert Pulos and Dean Hurd

Jill Simmelink

September 12, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with all of the Giedlin family.
Jill and John Simmelink

janet lyons

September 12, 2010

gonna miss you and your sweet personality and the fun times we had on the boat!!!

September 12, 2010

The Gills family sends it's deepest sympathy to the Giedlin family.

Russell, Beth Gills

September 11, 2010

Kevin and Melissa Kelly
God Bless you and your family

September 11, 2010

Rick and I, living at Sandy Cove Condo's in Altamonte Springs knew Tim for about ten years. I loved being able to lean over the porch and ask Tim the score of any given game....I love sports too. He was a kind, sweet natured and very likable guy. We shall miss him and I know he is secure in heaven as is my son. They both will look after us all.
Lele Fairall + Rick Justice

September 11, 2010

Tom and Nancy Gordon

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