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Marie Hayes VIRGINIA BEACH - Marie Hayes, 74, went home to be with the Lord Oct. 3, 2010 surrounded in love by her family. She is at peace and reunited with her beloved husband, Charles Hayes Jr.; brothers and sisters, and her parents. Left to cherish her memory are her daughters, Debbie Coon and Sharon Furney and her husband Jerry; her six grandchildren, Krystal, Alicia, Clint, Christine, Michael and Angela; and 12 great- grandchildren, Autumn, Emily, Jackson, Juliet, Anthony, Aidan, Kyle, Ethan, Ivan, Peyton, McKalynn and Connor. A funeral celebrating Marie's life will be held at noon Thursday, Oct. 7, at Azalea Garden Church of God, 1541 Centerville Turnpike, Chesapeake, VA 23464. The family will receive friends from 6 to 8 p.m. Wednesday at Smith & Williams Funeral Home, Kempsville Chapel. You may offer condolences to the family at www.smithandwilliamskempsville.com.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Oct. 5, 2010.

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Jessica Taylor

October 12, 2010

I am sorry for your loss! She was a true inspiration! You and your family are in my prayers!

Kathy Popejoy

October 10, 2010

Dear Marie's family, Marie was such an inspiration to us at YAH. She always came back, after the worst illnesses, she returned. She was amazing. And a sweeter Christian woman you couldn't find anywhere. Praying for your strength. How wonderful to know where she is. God bless you all!!!
Kathy Popejoy - Manila, Philippines

Pat Strong

October 9, 2010

Debbie and Sharon,
Know that you are all in my prayers during this difficult time. Your mother was a very special friend to me and I will miss her deeply but I know one day I will see her again and will be with her with our Lord!

She looked beautiful at the service Thursday and when the young man sang, "I Can Only Imagine," I could visualize our sweet Marie dancing, hands lifted high in praise, worshiping our Heavenly Father and His Son Jesus Christ! She is no longer suffering, no longer bound by her physical ailments, no longer in a wheelchair or using a walker, but she's running around Heaven! If there's shopping there, she'll be out in front pushing her cart and filling it up with Heavenly Treasures!

Love you all,
Pat

Debbie & Lee Hedrick

October 6, 2010

Debbie,
We are so sorry to hear of the loss of your mother. You and your family are in our prayers during this time of grieving. Remember that your mother has not left you but will be looking over you each and every day. At times you may even feel her presence when you least expect it and this is her letting you know that she is alright. I know how hard it is to go through this time of sadness but your mom would want you to be glad that she is now in the arms of our Lord and at peace with all.
If there is anything that Lee or I can do for you and your family, please let us know.

Janet Witengier

October 6, 2010

Dear Debbie,

Believe me when I tell you, there will come a day when you'll feel a soft breeze blow against your cheek, or smell her fragrance, or feel an calming warmth come over you when things seem to hard to bare. These will be the gifts of your Mother's spirit ,as she will always be with you.

May you know that Vince and I are with you in spirit and that we will hold you up prayer during this most difficult time. I so regret not being able to be there with you, as you were for me, but know that my love for you is greater than any time nor distance between us.

With much love,

Janet & Vince

October 6, 2010

Debbie,

May your memories and cherished times with your Mom help you through these difficult days ahead. I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Michele Godsey

Larry Shelton

October 6, 2010

MS Debbie and Family, I have been praying for you and the family more so during this time of bereavement. 2 Corinthians 1:3-4 Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort; who comforfs us in all our affliction, that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, through the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God. God is there for you even now so look to Him for strenght as you go from day to day.

Karen Wilson

October 6, 2010

Debbie,
I am sorry about the passing of your mother and know you and your family will miss her dearly. Keeping memories close to your heart will comfort you in this difficult time. Please know you are in my thoughts.

Melissa Hanbury

October 6, 2010

Dear Debbie,
I pray for God to be with you and your family during this difficult time.
With Warm Regards,
Melissa Hanbury

Alexis Peay

October 6, 2010

Dear Debbie,
Sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts are with you. God Bless you and yours.

Alexis and Barry Peay
Charlene Spadaccini-Moye
Roby Spadaccini

Linda Greenough

October 6, 2010

Dear Debbie,
So sorry to hear about the loss of your Mother. If there is anything you need please let me know.

With Sincere Condolences,
The Greenough Family

October 5, 2010

Dear Debbie and Family,
Marie was a special lady and one of a kind. She will be greatly missed by many people. My heart goes out to all of you.Rest in peace and pain free.
Jeff and Carol Clemons

Margaret Winston

October 5, 2010

To the Family, I am sorry to hear of the homegoing of your loved one. I served on Gables' Board of Directors with Marie for a very short period but she has left a lasting impression on me. I found her to be a very gentle, caring, and meticulous person. I will always cherish the memory of the kindness she extended to me. Know that she will be truly missed by those whose lives she has touched.

October 5, 2010

Ms. Hayes was a wonderful Christian woman! I enjoyed getting to know her at Brighton. Rest in blessed and eternal peace Ms. Hayes.
Melody Taylor-Fain (Virginia Beach)

Faye Pledger

October 5, 2010

Hi Deb and Sharon. So sorry about your mom. Not that words can ease your pain, but we do believe she's in a better place with her family that has gone first.

Anthony, Aidan

Clint Manuel

October 5, 2010

I love you grandma.

Kathy Adkins

October 5, 2010

Dear Debbie, I was so sorry to hear about your mother's passing. There is a special bond between a mother and daughter and I know that you are thankful that you had that with your mom. As you go through this difficult time, just focus on the years that you were able to spend sharing your lives with each other on a daily basis. And remember that those who love you share your sorrow. You and your family will be in my prayers.

kip ludwig

October 5, 2010

Debbie, I am sorry to here about the passing of your mother. I know it is a great loss for you and your sister. I have very fond memmories of her & charles. She will always be a part of my life. This is a sad day for me. kip L.

Tina Ormsby

October 5, 2010

Debbie.....Words can NOT express the sorrow that I feel for you and your family. I didn't get a chance to meet your mother. But I know how fond that you were of her. She must have been a beautiful, caring, sweet, intelligent lady......She had you for a daughter. She will never be forgotten..

October 5, 2010

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