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Deanna Beacham
January 25, 2024
Linwood Perry was my cousin. When my family returned to Virginia after living in other places in the country for years, he was hugely instrumental in introducing me to the Virginia Indian community. His introduction propelled me into the notice of Native leaders and set the course for my work in Virginia until my retirement decades later. I visited him at his deathbed and talked to him about being reunited with Rio. I was honored be chosen by him as one of two speakers at his funeral service. His picture is a permanent fixture on my office desk so that he inspires me daily.
Charles Hodges
October 10, 2010
My name is Charley Hodges and as an archaeologist I had the privledge of working closely with Oliver Perry extensively in the 1992-1993 period. At that time he gracefully guided us through the reburial process of Native Americans rescued from heavy machinery at the archaeological Site 44PG308 at the Governor's Land on Two Rivers (Golf Hole # 18 being a both large complex burial ground and architecturally and socially vibrant well organized village). Rather than being dogmatic about mortuary remains Oliver was kind enough to allow our staff to remove and study the minute chemical properties of copper beads that were part of the more high staus burials. Because of this understanding from Oliver, scientists were able to recognize that many beads were specifically traded by the English to the Paspahegh from Jamestown at sometime between 1607 and 1610 providing us with one of the most tightly dated archaeological sites on record. These items were then returned to each burial. During our many exchanges, Oliver had the remarkable ability to be insistant and directive with us without being even remotely oppressive or antagonistic. He did this by conducting himself in the utmost gentelmanly manner imaginable. He took great care to explain to me his persepctive on "what ought to be done" and why from his own perspective and as a spokesman for all Native Americans. So rather than fighting one another we quickly became great friends and even allies in the big picture. The later Native American reburial ceremonies Oliver helped organize at the Governor's Land were frankly the most moving funeral services I had ever witnessed in my life. To wit it was literally all I could do to not break down and cry in a heap then and there for I did personally know each and every person being buried very well indeed. We have lost a kind, gentle, and irreplacable leader who could bring people of diverse perspectives together in a good and productive way. Even in advanced years no one that looked him in the eyes could fail to see the very bright light shining within or forget his disarming smiles. I - or none of my colleagues with similar experiences - will never forget this man or his noble heartfelt wisdom. We all learned from this man each and every time we met him. (10-10-10)
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