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Avis Alexander-Boughes Obituary

Avis Alexander-Boughes CHESAPEAKE - Avis Denise Alexander Boughes, 51, passed away peacefully Nov. 7, 2010. A native of Durham, N.C., she was the daughter of the late Henry and Emma Alexander. A graduate of Hillside High School, she continued her studies at Columbia School of Arts in Chicago and later at North Carolina Central University majoring in business. As an entrepreneur in broadcast and communications, she worked as a dance instructor in video and audio productions. She also worked with the Parks and Recreation Department and as a teacher's aide. She is survived by her loving husband, Frederick H. Boughes; four children, Yaseem, Amatullah, Aasiyah and Yusuf Abdul-Malik; a sister, Ingrid Alexander; and a host of relatives and friends. Hurt by the loss of her brother Henry early in life, she was yet to be denied a successful spirit. She will be loved and missed always. A memorial service will be held at noon Saturday in the chapel of Pretlow and Sons Funeral Home, 500 Liberty St., Chesapeake. You may offer your condolences to the family at www.pretlowandsons.com.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Nov. 12, 2010.

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Steven

November 6, 2023

Henry was my best friend and Avis was a friend as well.

Steven Baird

November 6, 2022

Henry was one of my best friends as a child and Avis was the prettiest girl around. After Henry she once came to me and thanked me for being Henry's friend when everyone else disappeared. I didn't know what to say. I wish would have said "No problem, Avis he was my friend" May God Blessing be with both of you in heaven.

Steven Baird

Steven Baird

April 10, 2021

It is never to late, and she will always be remembered. Avis's brother was my best friend and after his passing Avis came up to me and thanked me for being there for Henry while he was going through his illness. I didn't know what to say to her at the time and never got the chance. God Bless her soul and family, although many year have gone by. She will always be in my memories.

November 16, 2010

I also attended high school with Avis and we had lost touch after graduation. Not only was a shocked and saddened to hear of her passing but the real irony is that I also live in Chespeake, VA and had no idea we resided in the same town.--joe biggers

Lee Gray

November 16, 2010

My sincere heart and prayer goes out to the family, Avis will be miss. Avis and I were classmates at HHS, and she was alway the friend anyone wanted to meet. May heaven smile with her.
Lee V. Gray III

Leah Hatch

November 15, 2010

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

November 15, 2010

My deepest sympathy goes out to the family. May you find comfort in knowing that others care. Avis and I were in the marching band together and she had a beautiful smile. May GOD continue to watch over the family.
Cynthia Thomas Traynham

Adrian McMillon

November 12, 2010

Godspeed Avis. May God bless and keep your family in this time of sorrow. You are loved and will be missed.

ALEXANDER JAMISON

November 12, 2010

May God bless this family during this time of bereavement. Avis and I were classmates at Hillside High School in Durham, N.C. Didn't know of her passing until Friday evening. Family: Keep the faith and the God of peace will grant you peace that passes all understanding.

November 12, 2010

Avis was a very sweet person. We haven't really been in contact since highschool but I know her family and friends will miss her. Our kind regards to the family. Allyson Perry Gattis

Michael Haymer

November 12, 2010

Deepest sympathy from the Haymer family. Classmate Mickey Haymer Best Attired. Expressing my deepest condolences on the lost of your wife she was a lovely person with a beautiful personality. Class of '77 Hillside High School.

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