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Kelli M. Grese VIRGINIA BEACH - Kelli Marie Grese, 37, passed away peacefully Nov. 12, 2010 in the comfort of her home. Kelli was born Feb. 9, 1973 alongside her twin sister in Pittsburgh. She served our country proudly in the U.S. Navy. She will always be remembered as a loving daughter, sister, aunt, and friend. She will be deeply missed. Left to cherish her memory are her parents, Andrew and Patricia Grese; twin sister, Darla Grese; and friend, Denise Hawkins; brother, Andy Grese and wife Beth; aunt and uncle, Paul and Marie Perlick; nephews, Brady Grese, A.J. Grese, Mason Grese, and Jeremy Hawkins; numerous aunts, uncles, and family members; and her beloved "son" Rocco. The family will receive friends from 11 a.m. to 2 p.m. and 5 to 8 p.m. Tuesday, Nov. 16, at Rosewood-Kellum Funeral Home. A celebration of life of will be held at 11 a.m. Wednesday, Nov. 17, at the funeral home. Burial will follow at Rosewood Memorial Park. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to Rosewood-Kellum Funeral Home in honor of Kelli Grese. Please share your love and condolences with the family at www.kellumfuneralhome.com.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Nov. 14, 2010.

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Kim Malecki- Rehak

November 30, 2010

Darla and family
I can't imagine what you are going through. Know that old friends are praying for you. Kelli was a wonderful person. I will always remember the fun times as kids playing softball together.

James Salas

November 23, 2010

Such a beautiful person not to be spreading her love to the people all around her. As I pass the family home in Pleasant Hills I will always be reminded of Kelli and the glowing smile she had for everyone.

George Wilson

November 23, 2010

I can't begin to express my heartfelt sorrow at the passing of one of my beloved former students and softball players; she was a special young lady for whom I always loved. Teachers never forget those students who touched their lives. God bless and keep you.

Nicole Ridenour-Kolson

November 22, 2010

Darla, I'm so deeply sorry to hear about Kelli. I know what a huge place she held in your heart. I have so many memories. My thoughts and prayers are with you both.

kelly snider

November 18, 2010

It was a great pleasure to talk to the family. Their strength is an inspiration and so were their words of encouragement. Kelli did touch my life and I am very grateful to have met her. You are all in my prayers.

Kelsee O'Hare

November 17, 2010

Kelli,
I love you more than words can even express. You were a great cousin and an inspiration to me. I have always looked up to you and Darla. We have had many fun times and great memories that I will never forget. Although it does not seem fair to us, I know you are happy now. You are in heaven smiling down on us and are now our guardian angel. You will help me get through struggles and when I am feeling down. Through the tough times, I know I will be talking to you. You will be holding my hand and leading me down the best path in life. Never will I forget the moments we shared together. You will always and forever be in my heart.
Love your little monsterKelsee

Missy Laux

November 17, 2010

My heartfelt sympathy to Darla, Patty, and family. I am so very sorry.

Norvell Rose

November 17, 2010

So very sorry to hear of this loss for Darla and family.

November 17, 2010

Our deepest sympathy to the Grese Family. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
The Smarra Family

Carla Abrasheff

November 17, 2010

My condolences~ God has taken another angel~

Joan Lidgett-Jakoubek

November 17, 2010

Kelli, your friends and family have gathered to celebrate your beautiful life, the rest of us far away are with them in spirit and thought. Years pass and people looose touch, but I am so very grateful that we reconnected briefly before you left. You were a passionate friend that always made me smile and laugh....you will be missed lady! Darla, you are a strong woman-made stronger by the fierce loyalty and support from your sister. Kelli was always your biggest fan, your champion...may all the thoughts of her legacy and love comfort you and your beautiful family in the coming days, weeks, months. Much love to you all!

Tracey Rentas

November 17, 2010

Kelly words alone can not express how greatly you will be missed by your family, friends, and those who were blessed to have met you for a brief moment. My heart and my prayers go out to Darla, Denise, and family.

Cathy Funk

November 17, 2010

Darla, Denise, Brady and Jeremy...we are all so sorry for your loss. we wish you strength during this time. we are here if you need anything...
Cathy, Scott, Chas and Davis

Brian Urso

November 16, 2010

I was in CCD with Kelli when we were children, she was always warm and friendly and kind...I was an awkward kid, and small and picked on alot, and she and Darla always went out of their way to befriend me, and i will never forget that. Rest in peace..I will offer prayers and affirmations for you. Namaste my friend

November 16, 2010

o my beautiful twin sister, my heart will never beat quite the same. Devastated by the loss of you.

Dana Miller

November 16, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are always with you Darla and family! I will always cherish the moments Kelli and I shared and our friendship will never be topped by another! I will always love and remember her. I gave this quote to Kelli once and want to share it with you:
You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself, 'I have lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along.' You must do the thing you think you cannot do.
Eleanor Roosevelt

She was a strong, beautiful, loving, kind, smart and wonderful person and her legacy will forever live in our hearts!

November 16, 2010

My sincere condolences to the family. I didn't know Kelli for very long but I knew her long enough to know she was a very sweet and sincere person...rest in peace

Suzanne & Jordan Herman

Sherri Garcia

November 16, 2010

I love and miss you Kelli. I will always hold our talks, your laughter and smile close to my heart.

Aunt Vikki

November 16, 2010

Kelli ~ You will never know how much you were loved ~ death leaves a heartache no one can heal and love leaves a memory no one can ever steal ~ Memories are forever.....You will surely be missed <3

Phil Wright

November 16, 2010

Darla, I'm so sorry to hear about Kelli. My condolences to you, Denise and your family in this time. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Patty Sorrentino

November 16, 2010

At the saddest times, somehow we remember the good times, the times we enjoyed together. Many memories stand out in my mind like the time Uncle John and I took you both to Laurel State Park and we crossed the creek walking on a fallen tree. Uncle John held Kelli on his shoulders and I carried Darla. Of course, I fell in the water and still held Darla up not to get wet. The times you spent here at our house and in the swimming pool. Then, you both grew up, went away and began your lives. You both are in our memories and hearts forever. Love Always, Aunt Patty

Victoria Ehrler

November 16, 2010

"If we could have a lifetime wish, A dream that would come true, We'd pray to God with all our hearts for yesterday and You. A thousand words can't bring you back we know because we've tried..Neither will a thousand tears we know because we've cried..You left behind our broken hearts and happy memories too..But we never wanted memories We only wanted You."

Michelle Bybee

November 16, 2010

Your smile, laughter, and hugs will always burn warm and bright.Thank you for sharing your friendship. You will be missed so very much!Rest with peace and love my friend!Sea you surfing in Sandbridge!!

Gina

November 16, 2010

Kelli, my friend, you will be missed. I cannot describe in words what a special person you are. May you rest in peace always and forever.
With love and prayers

Maureen Lionas

November 16, 2010

Kelli,
May your spirit fill us with strength and peace to ease the pain. I will always miss you and always remember your funny pranks when I need a smile. Thank You so much for your unconditional love and all that you have done for me. I love you and cherish our memories.

Krista Parks

November 15, 2010

Dear Darla,
I hold your heart in my hands. I wish I could ease your pain. I understand that special bond between you and your sister. My prayer is that she watch over you now and comfort you through this difficult time. With love, Krista Parks

November 15, 2010

Darla and Family...I will never forget how great of a friend Kelli was while I was stationed with her in Orlando and then again during corps school in Great Lakes. I am praying that you and your family find peace and I will never forget this wonderful person.

Allison Lutz-Former USN Corpsman

Sylvia Hutson

November 15, 2010

Darla and family:
My thoughts and prayers are with you all on this sad occasion, remember she will always be in your hearts until you are all together once more
Love Sylvia

Colleen Jackson

November 15, 2010

Patty, Marie, and family....You are in my thoughts and prayers. Please Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you. Rest in Peace Kelli.

jeremy hawkins

November 15, 2010

aunt kelly i will miss you so much and this is hard to say in words and hard to express but all i can really say was you were a big part in my life and when i sign my major leage baseball contract i will definetely remember you, and also im glad your in a better place now.

Dee Clare

November 15, 2010

Kelli you were only in my life for a little while but you touched my heart forever and I will cherish the memories. I hope you 'sailed' with me this weekend - you were the wind beneath my wings and carried my through the tough spots. Darla, Denise, and family - My sincerest condolences to you and may God, time, family, and friends heal your wounds.

Tracy Williams, Reinhart

November 15, 2010

Darla and the Grese Family; I am so sorry to hear about Kelly. We have not spoken in many years but you were both a part of my childhood and I can't even imagine what you are going through. Please know that we are praying for you during this time of sorrow and I hope you can find some comfort by remembering all of the wonderful memories you have shared.

Linda Holsing

November 15, 2010

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Kristie Ensley

November 15, 2010

Darla and family, Hold tight to memories for comfort, lean on your friends for strength, and always know how much we care. Kelli's fun loving spirit will stay in our hearts forver. Love always, Krissi & Kathy

Shannon Baker

November 15, 2010

Darla , Denise, and Family of Kelli
I am so very sorry to hear about Kelli, I pray that all her lovely memories and the love and prayers of all your friends will comfort you all during this time of sorrow.

With Love and Sympathy
Shannon Baker

Shani Henry

November 15, 2010

Kelli,
I have so many wonderful memories of our time together. A part of you will always be in my heart. My prayers are with you, Darla, and your family. Love, Shani

November 15, 2010

to my childhood friend may you rest in peace. to the grese family you have our sincere condolences tracy and donna wiley

Brandy Moore

November 14, 2010

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2010

Akiko Toida

November 14, 2010

My deepest condolences to the family. I met Kelli about a year ago, she truly touched my heart. Our time together was way too brief. I miss you girl, love and light

Margarita Romero

November 14, 2010

My condolences go out to Darla, Denise and family.Kelli was a very sweet human been.

Jay Dorman

November 14, 2010

My sincere condolences to the family. I met Kelli recently and am better for it. She was a wonderful lady with one of the biggest and most sincere hearts I have ever had the pleasure to know. She will be sorely missed by all that knew her. Her fellow vets' thoughts and prayers are with the family. From a fellow Pittsburgher who met her in VA, Jay K. Dorman USN Ret.

Charmaine Villa-Lobos

November 14, 2010

You are so loved. You will be missed immensley. I love you always.
Charmaine Villa-Lobos

Charmaine Villa-Lobos

November 14, 2010

Kelli-
You are deeply loved and will be missed immensley. I love you always.
Charmaine Villa-Lobos
Pottstown, PA.

Lisa Jamison

November 14, 2010

You were such a Beautiful person Kelli...I will always remember you deep in my heart.

doreen

November 14, 2010

I will miss you so much.

Doreen Dibble

November 14, 2010

will miss you greatly, you where a wonderful friend and you always will be. my prayers to your family and friends. I love you kelli.

Betty Hudy

November 14, 2010

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

Jan Koshinsky

November 14, 2010

May God watch over Kelli and give her eternal peace.

Mae Flores

November 14, 2010

Our prayers go out to our friend Darla, Denise and family. We will always cherish the memorable moments we had with Kelli. She will live forever in our hearts. We love you all. - Mae, Marco, and Max

kristen penland

November 14, 2010

our condolences to the family and friends of Kelli.

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