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Selena Starbuck Obituary

Selena Siau Starbuck VIRGINIA BEACH - Selena Siau Starbuck, 82, passed away Nov. 14, 2010 in the comfort of her home. She was born Nov. 2, 1928 in Georgetown, S.C., to the late Louis and Ida Siau of Georgetown. A visit to her sister in Key West, Fla., led to her meeting Donald Starbuck, a career Naval officer. They married March 5, 1955. She followed her husband's career around the country, settling in Virginia Beach. She worked with the civil service during her husband's military career. She also worked for Sandler's Foods and Home Savings and Loan in Norfolk for more than 20 years before retiring. She was predeceased by her husband of 53 years, her parents, her brother and sisters. She is survived by her son, Donald W. Starbuck Jr. and wife Carole Lynn of Stafford, Va.; and daughter, Lucy "Becky" R. Starbuck of Virginia Beach. She is also survived by two grandchildren, Jason and Allie and many nieces and nephews. Selena's family sincerely wishes to thank Taneisha C. Johnson for her wonderful care given to their mother. The family will receive friends from 10:30 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. at Mullins & Thompson Funeral Service in Stafford Monday, Nov. 22. A graveside service will follow in Quantico National Cemetery at 1 p.m. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the National Parkinson's Foundation Gift Processing Center, P.O. Box 5018, Hagerstown, MD 21741-5018 or by phone 1-800-327-4545.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Nov. 18, 2010.

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Brenda Bidwell

November 22, 2010

It was wonderful getting to know your mother the little time I did while I was in VA and spending time with her. Becky you are a wonderful daughter and friend. I wish you comfort and peace as the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine. Know you always have the support of family and friends. Love, Brenda

Ralph and Nancy Bishop

November 20, 2010

It was always enjoyable speaking with your mother when Ralph would cut your grass and clean up the yard after your Dad passed. I also enjoyed saying "hi" when we had "Girls' Night Out" at your house. Becky, you are so lucky to have been able to spend so much time with your mother. How nice it is to know that she knew how much you cared and loved her. I know you miss her terribly. But, just know she is at peace. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Love, Nancy and Ralph Virginia Beach, VA

Nancy Bishop

November 20, 2010

I got to know your mother after your dad passed. I really enjoyed talking with her while Ralph cut your grass and clean up the yard. It was always nice to say "hi" during our Girls' Night Out at your house. Becky, you have such wonderful memories of your mom and you got to spend lots of time with her these last few years. How nice it is to know that she knew how much you cared and loved her. You were always there for her. I know how much you miss her, but know that she is at peace and loved you so much. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Kelly Putt

November 20, 2010

I really didn't get to know you that well but you made and raised a wonderful daughter. You will be missed greatly.

Lucy Rebecca Starbuck

November 19, 2010

Mom, you made me the person that I am today. I love you and you will always be with me wherever I go!!

Barbara Meekins

November 18, 2010

Selena and I worked together at the Hilltop Branch of Home Federal Savings & Loan many years and I remember alot of good times we had and the Christmas party for all the employees that everyone looked forward to each year. She was a great person and I will truly miss her. May she rest in peace.

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