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Helen Tarbell Obituary


Helen Tarbell
of Naples, Florida
Helen Mary (Pilkington) Tarbell died July 20, 2008. She and husband, Bob, moved permanently to Naples in 1997, from Vestal, N.Y. She was born in Providence, R.I. Following marriage to Robert, they lived in Hudson, Mass. for 17 years, prior to moving to Vestal, N.Y. Helen is survived by her loving husband, Bob; six daughters, sons-in-law, ten grandchildren, and one great-grandson: Joy Tarbell and husband, Eddie Minyard, grandsons, Alec and Ace Tarberry, North Conway, N.H.; Jerine Tarbell, Knightdale, N.C., and granddaughter, Michelle Wysocki and husband, Gary Frueler, Bridgewater, N.J.; Eileen Steigele, Gainesville, Ga., granddaughter, Nina and husband, Taylor Ford and great-grandson, Julian Ford, Oakdale, Ga., and granddaughter, Jenny, Atlanta, Ga.; Dr. Nancy Tarbell, husband, Dr. Jay Loeffler, Waban, Mass., grandson, Brian Leslie, Providence, R.I., grandson, Steven Loeffler and granddaughter, Avery Loeffler, Waban, Mass.; Linda, husband, Raymond Woodford, Syracuse, N.Y., grandson, Chad Woodford, Esq., San Francisco, Calif., and granddaughter, Elicia, Atlanta, Ga.; Dr. Barbara Tarbell, husband, Dr. Larry Katz, Ringoes, N.J.; and many nieces and nephews. She is also survived by one sister, Ann McBride and brother-in-law, Francis, Barrington, R.I.; one sister-in-law, Margaret Pilkington Riley, Kingston, R.I. She was predeceased by sisters, Florence Horvat and Jane Slater; and brothers, Thomas, John and Edward Pilkington, all of R.I. Helen will be remembered by friends in Hudson, Mass., as a Staff Reporter for the Worcester Telegram and Gazette and as a Brownie and Girl Scout Leader. After moving to Vestal, N.Y., she was employed by Binghamton University and pursued undergraduate studies at Harpur College and graduate studies at the School of Advanced Technology. She was known for her seminar, "Women's Awareness" which she conducted for Civil Service employees, as well as an evening class for the community. She developed a course for men "Hazards of Being Male" for Civil Service employees. Following early retirement from the university, she joined Century 21 Gold Post Realty, which later became Coldwell Banker George T. Decker Real Estate. She became a broker-associate with earned Graduate Realtor Institute and Certified Residential Specialist designations and was Coldwell Banker GTD's top producer during her years there. Helen was active in her church, St. John the Evangelist, as a teacher and substitute teacher in the Religious Education program and a volunteer for funeral lunches. She was a Founding Member of the Club at Sterling Oaks and the Board of Governors.
A Funeral Mass will be held at St. John the Evangelist Church on Thursday, July 24, 2008, at 11:00 a.m., followed by the burial at St John's Cemetery. Family will hold a Bereavement Luncheon at St John's, right after the burial. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to Parkinson Association of SW Florida, P.O. Box 9778, Naples, Fla. 34101. Shikany's Bonita
Funeral Home
(239) 992-4982
Bonita Springs, Florida

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Published by Press & Sun-Bulletin on Jul. 22, 2008.

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Bonnie Cornick

July 24, 2008

My condolences to you and your family. Helen and I worked together as secretaries in SAT until she retired and went into Real Estate. She was a wonderful lady full of energy! May the comfort of your friends and family be your strength now and in the days ahead.

David & Diane Burman

July 23, 2008

Our thoughts and condolences go out to the Tarbells and all of Helen's family.

Wendy Kay Foldes

July 23, 2008

To the Tarbell Family,

My sincere condolences in the loss of Helen. She was a treasure whose memory will live on in many hearts.

edie Phillips

July 23, 2008

I always admired Helen for being a true lady in all situations and of course a true fighter through her long illness. All that knew her loved her.

Lee Schechter

July 22, 2008

I am very sorry to hear about Helen. Years ago, I worked for her for a brief time when I was a student at SAT. Some time later, she was my Realtor when I bought my house nearby! It was a pleasure to have known her.

Sandra Mosso

July 22, 2008

Sorry to hear of Helen's passing, she was one to be admired. Please accept my sincere thoughts of sympathy.
I trained Helen in real estate, but she far outshown everyone - a real professional! And a beautiful woman.
Sandy Mosso (Crockett)

PETER DAVID BOLAN

July 22, 2008

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