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Ian Kilmer Obituary


Ian M. Kilmer
of Leicester, N.C.
Ian M. Kilmer, 72, of 113 Reeves Road, Leicester, N.C., died Sunday, August 24, 2008, in an Asheville, N.C. hospital. Mr. Kilmer was a native of Binghamton, N.Y., and was a son of the late Juanita and Roger Kilmer. He graduated from Broome Technical School and Elmira College and he was an Army veteran. He retired after 35 years with IBM as a program analyst in Owego, N.Y. and more recently worked as sales manager for the Laubeck Corporation in New York and Pennsylvania. He moved to the Asheville area in 2003. In Asheville he was a member of the Parish of St. Eugene Catholic Church and a fourth degree member of the Knights of Columbus. He was a civic volunteer and served as a trustee for the Brick Church in Leicester and for the Leicester Community Center. He also worked as a volunteer builder with Habitat for Humanity. Mr. Kilmer had been an athlete all his life, from high school, through college, and even winning medals on the state level at the Senior Olympics. He is survived by his wife, Gale O. Kilmer; one daughter, Kelly K. Harding; three sons, Randy Kilmer, Kevin Kilmer, and Barry Kilmer; one stepdaughter, Holly Gale Millette; and one stepson, Christopher George Millette. He was preceded in death by his twin sister, Ionna Kilmer, who died in infancy; and by a brother, Gary Kilmer.
A Funeral Mass will be celebrated by the Rev. Fr. John Schneider at 3:00 p.m. Friday at the Parish of St. Eugene Catholic Church in Asheville. The family will receive friends at the church two hours prior to the Mass. Memorials may be made to the Brick Church Fund, c/o Peggy Bennett, PO Box 53, Leicester, N.C. 28748. Groce Funeral Home on Patton Avenue, Asheville, is assisting with the arrangements.

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Published by Press & Sun-Bulletin on Aug. 28, 2008.

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Deacon Joe Federowicz

August 29, 2008

Ian and I spent many happy and sad times together.We were our own little support group.We also worked for the same company.The most memorable time was the illness and passing of his first wife and being invited to serve as deacon at her Funeral Mass.It was a sad time for both of us.It seems that the Lord put us together at different times afterward.We'd run into each and share the latest inputs.He was special and I will miss him.I wish his wife and family God's Peace and comfort at this difficult time.

Matt Intrieri

August 28, 2008

Had the pleasure of being Esquire for Ian at the Elks, and of continuing the relationship at the Knights, and, of course at IBM Owego. He was a good friend, and I will miss him.

Richard A Hunziker

August 28, 2008

My condolences to the family on the loss of a great man so many knew in the Vestal Elks, and the Knights of Columbus as well as his many contributions while living in NYState.

Jim Larson

August 28, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

nora Ciotoli Francis

August 28, 2008

I worked with Ian at Owego and he always was so gracious whenever I saw him outside of work. My sympathies to his family. He will be missed. Nora Francis

Butch Taladay

August 28, 2008

My deepest sympathy and prayers are extended to the Ian Kilmer family in the loss of a beloved. I worked in several different Program Offices in IBM Owego and always dealt in some way with Ian. He was very pleasant, professional and easy to work with. One of my favorite work mates. He will be missed.

Brad & Mary Anne Northrup

August 28, 2008

My sincere condolences go out to Gale and the Family. I first met Ian at IBM back in 1984. He introduced me to chicken wings in Owego at lunch. He was a good person. It was sad hearing of his passing. Our thoughts are with you.

Leon Osborne

August 28, 2008

I worked closely with Ian at IBM for many years. We shared many good times and bad times. He was a good friend!
May God bless you and your family.

Leon(Lee) Osborne
Catatonk, New York

Maureen (Schenone) Kadlecik

August 28, 2008

Our deepest sympathy and prayers go out to Mr. Kilmer's wife, family and extended family. He was a neighbor to my parents when he lived on Radcliffe Blvd. in Vestal. Mr. Kilmer was always quick with a hello and a smile. He loved to have our daughter and son stop over to visit see their dog and get a special treat. He was a good neighbor and I'm sure my parents are welcoming into the gates of heaven and oh what a reunion it is. God Bless

Mark Griffis

August 28, 2008

Kelly, Randy, Kevin, Barry I Just wanted to send a quick note expressing my sympathy on your families loss, This reminded me of our times going to Bunn Hill church and the outings we shared...

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