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Clifford Ruddick Obituary
of Vestal
Clifford R. Ruddick, 91, of Vestal, died Wednesday, September 3, 2008 at the Northwoods Nursing Home in Cortland, N.Y. He was predeceased by his wife, Florence in 2006 and a daughter, Gail Koulandris. He is survived by his son, Gregory and family, Homer, N.Y.; a daughter, Charlene, Endicott; several grandchildren and great-grandchildren; a sister, Faith McKrell, Binghamton. He was a member of the Vestal United Methodist Church, a Veteran of WWII serving in the U.S. Army, a member of VFW of Owego and American Legion Post #1700 of West Endicott and the Carpenter's Local Union.
Funeral Services will be held Monday at 1 p.m. from the Coleman & Daniels Funeral Home, Inc., 300 E. Main St., Endicott. Rev. Michael K. Willis, pastor of his church, will officiate. Entombment will be in Vestal Hills Memorial Park. The family will receive friends at the funeral home, Monday, from 12 Noon until service time at 1 p.m. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made in his memory to the Vestal United Methodist Church, 328 Main St., Vestal or to the American Cancer Society, 31 Adams Ave., Endicott, NY.
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Memories and Condolences
for Clifford Ruddick
Tim Murphy
September 12, 2008
Tina,
I'm sorry for your loss. You and youre family will be in my thoughts.
Charlene Ruddick
September 9, 2008
Dad,
I had already forgiven everything that needed to be forgiven. I know you now see the truth.
Peace be with you.
I love you.
Debbie Wood
September 8, 2008
Charlene, I am so very sorry for your loss. Debbie Wood
Denise Ruddick
September 7, 2008
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, ""I welcome you.""
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......""My day was not in vain.""
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008
Rebecca Yadlosky (Riccardi)
September 7, 2008
Cliff (My other Gpa),
I will miss our Sunday visits, our good times, and laughs. i know i didn't know you as long as many others and as long as i had hoped, but I felt as if you were family to me and am glad you are no longer in pain. I know you will be looking down on the ones you love and be their guardian angel and that brings us all comfort. I love and miss you Gpa.
Tina Lauer
September 7, 2008
Grandpa-you are my everything! i am gonna miss all our talks, your words of advice that got me through the day & of course our ice cream together. I am glad you are not suffering any more & are with grandma & Aunt Gail. I will make sure the cookie jar stays stock & there is always enough room for ice cream. LOVE YOU (pop--pop) Derrick, Sierra, Austin & poppa's peanut- Emily
Tami Scone
September 7, 2008
I have so many good memories, and I keep reminding myself how lucky I am to have grown up having my grandparents in my life. I could use a few of those hankies we stole from you about now Grandpa!! Love, Tami
Dar Byarley
September 7, 2008
Char, so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. If you need anything, please don't hesitate to ask.
Kathy Woodruff
September 6, 2008
Char~
So sorry to read of your dad's passing. I am keeping you in my prayers.
taryn follette
September 6, 2008
grandpa i will miss you more than words could ever say.I wish my children had the opportunity to share all the wonderfulness of you as did my sisters,cousin and myself in our younger days.I will always miss you but i'm so glad that you and grandma amd gail are together again and you no longer have to suffer .thanks for the flowers. this scoop's for you
John Lauer
September 6, 2008
Tami,Tina and Taryn Just remember the good times with Grandpa.
Love, Dad
To Ruddick family our deepest sympathy.
John & Doris
debbie shaw
September 6, 2008
Tina, i'am very sorry for your loss just 1 more bright star...
George Vail
September 6, 2008
So sorry for your loss. I know how you must feel we just lost my sister, Kay, last week. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. I'm George(Buddy)Vail, we were childhood friends.
Linda Gennett White
September 6, 2008
Charlene, it was great to see you after all of these years at our 40th reunion, and now I'm having to write you with my sympathies. I was sorry to read about your Dad.
Georgiana (Williamson) Brown
September 6, 2008
Charlene, Greg and family My sympathies extended to all at the loss of your father.
Chris Frederick
September 6, 2008
Greg and family, I'm so sorry to hear about Cliff's passing. Please accept our condolences on behalf of everyone at The Hearth at Castle Gardens.
David Rutter
September 6, 2008
Greg, I am very sorry for your loss.
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