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Ronald D. Davis
of Rochester, N.Y.
Ronald D. Davis, age 53, surrounded by his loving family, passed away on Thursday, September 18th, peacefully at home after a courageous struggle with ALS (Lou Gehrig's disease). He was predeceased by his father-in-law, James T. O'Neil, Sr. He is survived by his loving wife of seventeen years, Dr. Colleen O'Neil Davis; their three daughters, Kelly, Caitlin, and Erin; parents, Chester and Donna Davis, Auburn, Indiana; mother-in-law and father-in-law, Arlene and Thomas Longcoy, Endwell, N.Y.; brother, Richard Davis (Patti), Auburn, Indiana; brothers-in-law, James O'Neil (Kayt), Glastonbury, Conn., Dennis O'Neil (Shelley), Powell, Ohio, and Patrick O'Neil, Cicero, NY; many aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, and cousins with whom he was very close; special cousins, Patricia, Jack and Caroline Gleichauf; and many dear friends, especially Alyn and Vicki Vespucci, Dr. Margy Hobson and Gail Brodner, whose remarkable loving care gave us all peace and comfort. Ron was a member of St. John of Rochester Church, Perinton. He was born on January 17, 1955 in Garrett, Indiana, and grew up in Auburn, Indiana. He was a graduate of Purdue University and the University of Rochester Simon School of Business. Before he retired, Ron worked as a chemical engineer at Eastman Kodak for 29 years. He had many interests including woodworking, architecture, antiques, science fiction and ancient civilizations. He loved listening to music, especially jazz. He enjoyed collecting wine and loved to share his wonderful French wines with family and friends. He was a wonderful cook and often created hearty breakfasts and big pots of spicy seafood gumbo. Most of all he enjoyed being with his family and was extremely proud of his three beautiful daughters. How well he taught us life's lessons - to live with love and courage. He will be greatly missed by everyone who knew him.
The family will receive friends Monday from 4 to 7 p.m. at Richard H. Keenan Funeral Home, Egypt Location, 7501 Pittsford Palmyra Rd, Fairport, N.Y. A Funeral Mass will be offered Tuesday 11 a.m. at St. John of Rochester Church, Perinton. Burial will be in Holy Sepulchre Cemetery. Expressions of sympathy in memory of Ron may be made to the Ronald McDonald House Charities, 333 Westmoreland Dr. Rochester, N.Y. 14620. www.keenanfuneralhomes.com

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Published by Press & Sun-Bulletin from Sep. 20 to Sep. 21, 2008.

Memories and Condolences
for Ronald Davis

80 Entries

Dennis Currie

September 14, 2019

My thoughts and prayers go out to Ron and his family in this time of sorrow. I worked many years with Ron, and one couldn't ask for a more kind and professional person. He always had the best interest of the business and employees in every aspect of his work. God Bless.

Colleen Davis

October 27, 2008

Ron,
My last entry in your Guest Book...Oh Ron-- I miss you so deeply...as I struggle through these days and nights without you, I realize that our unrelenting series of losses continues on and on and on...and my heart aches for you.

I know I need to remember... remember all we had together... And we had so much...so many blessings...most especially our girls... Kelly Elizabeth, Caitlin Marie, and Erin Grace. We chose their names together...they are OUR girls!
Our three wonderful, beautiful girls. We asked God for each of them and we were blessed. And now they are your legacy Ron...and our legacy as a couple.

Your love for me was full, open, unending. I could always feel your love and I was certain of it. I needed that...needed you...and I miss you so...

I remember what you told me about loving our girls now and loving them when they are older. I will do all I can for them because I love all three of them so very, very much and because I love you, Ron and I always will. Please watch over us and guide me through...I need you now more than ever...

Ron, you were my husband, my friend, my partner, my love...
I am deeply grateful for you....for the time we shared.
I love you Ron.
You were wonderful to me and to our girls.

May God Bless You and Hold You Close,
My love forever,
Colleen

Margy Hobson

October 25, 2008

Dear Ron, Collen, Kelly, Caitlin, and Erin,
Ron, it's hard to believe that you have been in heaven more than a month. So many miss you in so many ways. You have many ripples in so many lives, more than you ever knew. You beautiful family misses you so much; but they will get through this because of the love that surrounds them and because of all the love they have in their hearts and family.
Ron, there are so many great memories I can't even begin to list them all but here's a few... your first wine seminar for all of the Strong crowd where you taught us about wine and Colleen had to "catch up".... looking in in your cabinets and seeing all the spices in alphabetical order, how everything was brown, except as you said "your table saw."..., how we invited you bowling so you could show up that guy from Holy Cross and you kept bowling strikes and giving high fives to the him and poor Colleen had heartburn watching it all... but we knew you were the one for her. All those wonderful nights out during residency. The weekend we rented a house at the beach in NC after we had all left Rochester. The camping trip down the coast you, Colleen, Fred, and I took that fall... that little keg you brought along, the Halloween party we dressed up for in Savannah, GA.
All those fun times at you house laughing, drinking wine, playing games, talking about you first kiss on the bus, watching Alien movies together and you laughing because Colleen was so scared. You even won me over to enjoying watching golf! Playing that guessing game around the fire pit that you always won!. Even when you were so sick with pneumonia we laughed so hard when I kidded you about being John the Baptist! We had so many great belly laughs! I enjoyed just sitting in your room being with you.
Ron, you were so brave and strong never wanting to complain, always wanting to enjoy the moment you were given.
We all learned and grew to be better people because of you.
Oh Ron, we miss you so much. But we will never forget the twinkle in your eye! We will always look at you 3 beautiful girls and know you live on in so many ways.
One day we will be sharing the fruit of the vine again and laughing together .
Love you, Margy

Kevin Gleichauf

October 23, 2008

Ron,
It breaks my heart to see the girls so sad. When I look at it in the bigger picture I can see how much you meant to everyone who knew you. This is a credit to you because you were such a great guy. When I moved to Texas you were in the beginning stages of your condition. When I moved home, the disease had progressed and it was very hard for me to watch. Sometimes I wish I hadn't gone to Texas so that I could have enjoyed valuable time here at home. I know, however, that if I had told you that you would have laughed and helped me to pack my bags. You would have told me to go. That is how selfless of a person you were. That is the kind of person that I will always try to be.
You are missed,
Kevin

Caroline Gleichauf

October 23, 2008

Dear Ron,
I truly cherish the time that I was able to spend with you. I never had the courage to tell you in person how much I thought of you. It felt like I was saying good bye, yet it was too soon. Your strength, kindness and courage are values that I can only hope to emulate. I think that you were the greatest person that I have ever had the pleasure to meet. I look forward to seeing you again. There is no doubt in my mind that you are sipping wine, playing chess and enjoying life in Heaven!

Much love,
Caroline

Gail J. Brodner

October 20, 2008

Colleen,

It has been an honor to come into your home, your lives and your hearts. To have been able to help you in such an unfair situation is indeed a great blessing. We have overcome many hardships and helped each other over more than a few hurdles. You and Ron were able to use these last two years to your greatest ability, each giving so much so the other could cope better.

Try to remember all the fun we did manage to have. Despite it all, in spite of it all. Life is hard sometimes, we know that, You and I.

I killed all of your fish! Wow. What a legacy to try to live down. I don't think I can or want to really, it had a place in all this and gave us some levity.

Ronald will always have a special place in my heart- as do you and the girls and without a doubt the whole family!

Thank You

Edward O'Neil

October 20, 2008

Ron, Every time were were together I always went away thinking what a great person Coleen married. Down to earth, clear thinker, and loyal husband and father. You and Coleen truly compliment each other providing a very positive environment for your wonderful children. I only wished that we lived closer to spend more time together. By the way, I took an empty wine bottle from your wine celler so that I can display on top of the cabinet in my northwoods cabin in Wisconsin. Every time some one asks why I am keeping that old label bottle --- I can explain it came from a great guy who loved his family and knew his wines. I will be sure to pop a few corks in your name. Mother Arlene and Tom are and have been great support to Coleen and the children. Jim, Dennis and young Pat are there for your beautiful wife also. There is no measure on how much Coleen misses you. God Bless --- Uncle Ed.

Nance Davison

October 20, 2008

Dear Colleen,
I am sending you love...
Colleen,it truly has been astounding...all the dove-tailing that has occurred between your Ron and my mom.It is been 'the six-degrees of separation'. Incredible similarities,though very different diagnoses,Ron and my mom linked us in ways and with a depth that was unfurled before our eyes. And Colleen,I do believe Ron met my mom September 18th.Afterall, they,without ever meeting thought of ,asked for and prayed for each other.
I will continue to walk this journey with you,Colleen. It was my distinct privilege to know Ron whom gratefully I met through you.
The dance of sorrow began some long time ago...And Colleen...I hope you will be comforted in knowing that you were in what i call the mid-wife for Ron.You were truly instumental in helping Ron have the wonderful quality of life he so cherished by your love,the orchestration,soothing,tenderness and of course,your humor. And as soon as you walked in the room Ron's appreciation...his love..for you was evident!
My heartfelt prayers are with you.
And Ron IS the star you see..and even when you may not see the stars...HE IS there and he says,'I AM and I WILL BE'.
Love to you,
Nance

Kevin O'Neil

October 20, 2008

Dearest Colleen, Kelly, Caitlin, and Erin,
On September 18th Aunt Kay called me at school to inform me of Ron's passing. Of course I was deeply saddened and couldn't concentrate on my work for the rest of the day. After school I went home and prayed for the repose of Ron's soul and began thinking about J.T. must be welcoming Ron into Heaven. I then began to reminisce by recalling your wedding day. The thing that immediately came to mind was the song "Wind Beneath My Wings" As I was thinking about this I was sitting in my living room looking out the window when an American Eagle flew out of nowhere and landed on the grass below my lanai. I had heard there was a nest of eagles somewhere in The Meadows but I had never seen one until that very moment. I am convinced that the eagle was a clear sign from above and not a mere coincidence! I then experienced an almost surreal sense of peace and tranquility knowing for sure that Ron is now with The Good Lord and J.T.!
May you all be granted the courage and strength to somehow move beyond your deep loss realizing that all you are able to accomplish in the future will truly be an vital portion of Ron's legacy.

With sincerest heartfelt sympathy and prayers,

Uncle Kevin

Abigail Davis

October 20, 2008

Dear Aunt Collen, Kelly, Caitlyn, & Erin,

You are in my thoughts and prayers daily. I have many memories of Uncle Ron when I was growing up. One particular memory was when he suprised us all one Christmas by coming home when we weren't expecting him. That was one of the best Christmas's I can remember.

He was a great person, and a great unlce and will be missed.

With love to you all,
Abby

Colleen Davis

October 20, 2008

Oh Ron,
6,230 days of a beautiful marriage....not enough...not enough...just so not enough.

You loved and supported me every day of our life together...You listened with your heart. Ron you made me so happy, deeply happy. I felt loved, special, safe...with you. You were the best husband and father...and you still are..because you live on in our hearts...

I remember so many many things....red beard!...our movie game...dating,...exit glacier, homer's spit, kotzebue, Irvington...Long Acre....Chantilly.... Doc O'D's brew 32--you made all the labels!..your search for that special gag gift for my brothers at Christmas!..playing golf and tennis, and basketball in the driveway...Walking, driving,...packing the car!...our shared love with the birth of our three beautiful daughters, our shared sorrow when Dad died,...all our firsts....all our lasts.....and all the in-betweens...all our plans...and dreams.....

I needed you..then...and I need you now and I will love and need you forever.
I am forever yours,
Colleen

Pat Gleichauf

October 19, 2008

Dear Ron,
Your diagnosis changed the entire perspective of our lives. You moved through each phase of your journey with courage and motivation to maximize your abilities. We never entered your home that you didn’t greet us with a smile and ask about our family. When we asked how you were, the answer was always either “I’m having a great day.” You endured what no living being should have had to endure and did so while giving your girls a sense of confidence and love that was amazing. Only a special person could have accepted the total care and assistance that you eventually needed. So many virtual strangers came through your home and were trusted friends before they left. To have experienced the tremendous losses that you did almost weekly, with such a positive attitude, was is in our book saintly.
One of the first times I came, you were standing at the stove making gumbo for your Friday night poker buddies. The only thing you couldn’t do was chop the vegetables and Katie jumped in to do that for you. It was a great moment for you and Katie because you both loved to cook and she was your assistant chef. You were so intent on making the gumbo that I was almost in your way. You insisted on carrying the boiled shrimp to the sink to drain. When I asked if I could help you with that, you said, ”Thanks, but I really want to do as much as I can for as long as I can.” You did this while using a walker and the kitchen counters for support. I am still amazed at your incredible stamina. Poker went well and the gumbo was enjoyed by all!
You were such an excellent father. Even when you were confined to your bed, your presence as head of the house was so apparent. The girls would run into your room to share their day with you. Homework, in Dad’s room was routine. You took great pride in discussing Science with Kelly, quizzing Katie for her 4th grade finals and helping Erin with her Math problems, her book on your bookstand so you could see her work and guide her through it.
One day, Erin came running into your room crying that her friend Matt had taken her doll and wouldn’t give it back. You simply asked Erin to have Matt come and talk to you. In came Matt, head hanging down, ”Hi Mr. Davis,” he said. You patiently asked Matt why he had taken Erin’s doll and Matt explained that he wanted to play something else. “I understand Matt,” you said, “ but you should give Erin’s doll back and let her decide if she wants to play that.” Matt gave back the doll and off they ran to play.
You had a jug of lemonade on your shelf that had a tube snaking up to your bed that was clipped to your shirt. I’m certain you designed it so that you could get a drink independently. One afternoon Erin came running in, jumped up on your bed, took a swig of lemonade from your tube then stuck the tube in your mouth and said, “Time for a drink, dad.” You took a drink and said, ”Thanks Erin, just what I wanted.”
One night Jack and I were telling you about our upcoming pool renovation project. You asked Kelly to get the phone and dial up the neighbors down the street. While Kelly held the phone, you graciously asked the neighbors if you could send Jack and I down to look at their recently installed pool. You thought it might be helpful for us to get some ideas. That was who you were, always trying to help those around you.
You came to the table for dinner as long as possible and you always engaged the girls in conversation. As kids will do, they sometimes wanted to watch TV during dinner. You told them that TV would have to wait because you really wanted to hear about their day. They would then regale us with school stories. As they were talking you would be encouraging them to eat their vegetables or think of something else they would like if they weren’t eating. Macaronis and cheese was always an option!
I was there the day the electric wheel chair was delivered. You were still able to walk with your walker at that time. The girls were enamored with this giant go-cart in the living room. You didn’t show a lot of enthusiasm for it. They were of course begging,”Come on Dad, can we drive it around the house? Can we beep the horn? Can we back it up? You very patiently kept saying no..no..no.. Finally, you said, “fine, go play with it. Personally I would rather walk.” Eventually, it became quality of life for you and whether you know it or not, you taught your girls to drive! They could back that thing up and park it anywhere!
Last year, we came over during the week of our anniversary. Somehow you knew and insisted that we go down to your wine cellar and pick a bottle of wine to celebrate with. I think you got as much joy out of giving us the wine as we did celebrating with it. We won’t ever forget it.
As you began spending more time in your room, all three girls helped arrange the bookcases exactly the way you wanted them both for efficiency and comfort. They carried boxes of books to you and showed you each and every book. You hand picked each book and directed them to put them where you wanted them on the shelves. You wanted to be able to see some books that you loved and have access to, but not necessarily see others. After all of the books were in place, they brought your CD case and you did the same with the music that you wanted close by. Then they carried the remainder of the books and CDs down to store in the basement. They were so devoted to your care and comfort because they loved you so much.
One night that we watched Sleeping Beauty in the family room. You were in your wheel chair and the girls curled up on the couch with me. I remember thinking how tired you looked but when I asked you if you wanted to get back in bed, you said, ”No, I think I’ll stay up until the end.” The girls loved it and sang all of the songs for you!
We remember playing pinochle with you and Colleen on a few Sunday afternoons. Kelly and Katie took turns holding your cards while you told them which cards to play. It must have been very boring for them since they didn’t know or understand the game. They wanted you to enjoy the game, so they took turns sitting with us.
How about the day that Katie spent the entire day writing a story on the computer. She talked about it all through dinner. When she went back upstairs the story was gone, she had forgotten to save it. We all heard her crying loudly upstairs. She was inconsolable. She wouldn’t come down, just cried and cried. Finally, you asked me to go tell her that you needed to talk to her. Down came Katie, tears spilling over her face. You gently told Katie how sorry you were that she lost her work but that the work was still there fresh in her mind and that if she went back up and restarted, she could probably get it back on paper pretty quickly. It was like a light bulb went off in Katie’s head. She ran for the stairs as you were saying, ”Don’t forget to hit save every few minutes.”
Not long ago Kelly tried on her graduation dress for us. It was beautifully blue and sparkly. She modeled the dress for me upstairs then said, ” I want to run down and show Dad and Jack.” She twirled around your room in her silver heels and dress. The look of awe and pride that lit up your face, made her beam with happiness.
You always had one ear cocked for the nightly phone call from Colleen. One of us would hold the phone up to your ear, while you talked about the day. There was never a call that didn’t end with “I love you.” You were such a wonderful husband. It isn’t often that a cousin has the privilege of knowing so much about another cousin’s marriage. All I can say is that you chose each other so well. Your marriage was truly an inspiration to us. We are still not sure how you managed it, but you always arranged to have a dozen roses sent to Colleen for her birthday, anniversary and mother’s day. What a guy! I remember asking if you needed help with Christmas shopping for Colleen and you said, ’Thanks for asking but I have it covered.” And you did.
Then there were our chess games. I was admiring your chessboard one day and you told me it came from Mexico, which led to a discussion about the game. Sure enough you were a chess club guy in your youth. The first time we played was in your kitchen. You were in the wheel chair and the kids were watching TV. I just threw it out there, “Keeping in mind that I’m not very good, do you want to play chess, Ron?” Personally, I thought you would say maybe another time. But you said,” I would love to,” and the game began. From that night on, we played every time I was there. That first game you beat me in 20 minutes. I really couldn’t say how many games we played, but I know my game improved because in the end we would play for 3-4 hours. One night this past summer I came in and said, ”So are you ready to lose?” and you just shook your head, which was so unusual because you really looked forward to the game. When I asked you why you didn’t want to play, you answered that I wouldn’t be able to understand you. I said, “Ron, we are not giving up the game, I will figure it out, don’t worry.” You smiled and said OK. Our last game was September 17th, the night before you died. The week before, you weren’t doing well and we didn’t play. I thought we had played our last game but on the 17th of September, you were trying to tell me something. I kept trying to figure it out and finally, with great determination, you got the message to me…”what…do …we…do?” What do we do, what do we do, we play chess! Do you want to play chess?” You nodded. “You got it buddy!” So play we did for about 3 hours. I finally stopped it at 9:30 PM because you looked so exhausted; I planned to return on Friday to finish it. You died on Thursday. That game is still a wonder to me. If I ever have another chess partner, I will try to remember that trap move that you always did. Thank you for your kind and patient games. It is a memory that I will cherish. By the way, I have bragging rights that I beat you twice!
Colleen, and the girls miss you terribly. There is a huge empty place in their lives that belongs to you. In time, their hearts will heal and they will move forward with the legacy of courage and strength that you left them. You and Colleen were equally matched with strength and she will guide your girls through life’s ups and downs with the values and love you both embraced.
And so farewell my friend. We wish you a heaven of running through clouds and drinking fine wine. We will always remember you and will always miss your smile and wit. We thank you for the lessons of courage that you taught us. We thank you for allowing us to be a part of your journey. We thank you for sharing your family with us.
Until we meet again,
Pat and Jack

Jim O'Neil

October 19, 2008

Dear Colleen, Kelly,Caitlin and Erin,

I will remember Ron as a guy that made you feel truly welcome whenever we got together. Our many visits to your home throughout the years always began with a big bear hug from Ron. He was genuinely happy when we spent time together and he showed it. He made you feel great to be there. We love seeing you guys and look forward to those time so much.

We have many happy memories of our family vacations together. Cape Cod, Deep Creek, Lake Chautauqua, The Outer Banks. How many games of Pinochle have we played over the years? Ron certainly had a high winning percentage.

I have a fond memory of one of our very late night Risk games at your home on Longacre. It was well after Caitlins christening that we all strove for World domination and Ron opened up some amazing Burgundy. I don't remember who won but I do know it was the best wine I ever had. Ron shared lots and lots of fun times with us and was so generous and hospitable.

The trip he made with Dennis, Pat, Uncle Kevin and I to Saratoga in 2000 was a classic. Our syndicate actually won a few races that day. The accommodations at the Bachelor
Mansion Inn were stellar. I still say that those Pine trees across the street from Siro's are 200 feet high, although other observers were inclined to agree with Ron's estimate.

Mornings at your house are fun and relaxing. The kids always loved Uncle Ron's chocolate chip pancakes and sausage. Several people have mentioned the "twinkle in Ron's eyes". I know exactly what they mean. That smile of satisfaction and love in his eyes could be seen during something as simple as when he watched the kids enjoy the breakfast he had made for them or admiring Colleen. I also remember seeing it a few times when the last card was played in Pinochle.

Colleen, Kelly, Caitlin and Erin, we love you guys. Our house is always open.

Ron, the strength, courage, thoughfulness and love that you displayed over the past few years is remarkable and inspirational. We will always love and remember you.

Love,
Jim, Kayt, Bridget, Elizabeth and Meghan

Judy Hey

October 19, 2008

Dear Colleen,
I remember Ron as a fun loving young man full of life and ambition. You certainly were the joy of his life. Ron's courage and love of life has had a huge impact on Brian, Jenny and Abby, something they share with great pride.
Please know that you, Kelly, Caitlin and Erin have been in my prayers.
Judy

Patrick O'Neil

October 19, 2008

Ron,

17 years ago you became my brother-in-law and over that time you were truly like a brother to me.
Your positive influences will allow your spirit to live on in others.
Thank you for all you that you have done. You will be missed so much.

Eileen O'Neil

October 19, 2008

Dear Colleen,
The following is adapted from a prayer I received from the Maryknoll Fathers and Brothers:
"May the love of God surround you,
May your faith sustain you,
May hope encourage you,
Keeping you in my prayers always
And trusting that God will bring you
Comfort in the days ahead."

I love you and the girls so much.
We have many beautiful memories
of Ron to share with each other.

I'm always here for you! Aunt Eileen

Caitlin Davis

October 19, 2008

Dad,
There aren't enough words to describe how much I love and miss you. You are and always will be the best dad forever. You taught me so many valuable life lessons that I will remember forever. I miss you so much and I love you huge.

Dennis O'Neil

October 18, 2008

I fondly remember Ron peacefully reading on the back middle deck of “Simple Pleasure” the beach house on the outer banks. I observed him relax there as I managed my kite. He would self interrupt his reading with an occasional gaze at Cape Hatteras Lighthouse and the Atlantic. Occasionally, he was distracted by someone jumping in the pool or by my wayward kite. One time my kite forced me to climb the deck when the wind shifted. I apologized for the distraction. He sincerely said, “Dennis, don’t worry, I like the distractions!” He was at ease.

I was fascinated with Ron’s passion for wine. It was obvious his extensive knowledge of wine far exceeded the hobbyist and ranked as an expert/sommelier. He had a thoughtful but relaxed approached to wine service and tasting that both invited and encouraged the novice to learn. I being such a novice was impressed on one particular occasion when Brother Ron decanted Bordeaux over a candle. He explained the trip from Rochester may have unsettled the wine and he was protecting the taster from a bad sediment experience. I viewed the impressive ritual as a possible romantic plus for future dating experiences. About a month later I called Ron for “decanting over a candle advice”. He asked me what was the selected wine and I told him. He explained to me to my surprise “Dennis, white wines do not have sediment!” It was then he referred me to Hugh Johnson’s- Modern Encyclopedia of Wine.

Another memory of Brother Ron was when he arrived on Grand Boulevard with Colleen for Christmas. The Integra had arrived behind schedule bearing gifts. Grandpa/Dad said "Boys go help your sister and Ron unload and then we can begin Christmas." The packed Integra was parked in the snow filled with gifts and libations. We likened the snow covered vehicle to Santa’s Sled. We began grabbing at the packages. Ron asked us kindly to slow down. He said he needed a schematic to get all the gifts in the hatchback and some of the items were fragile. It later became apparent that Ron and Colleen had gifted to each other (individually wrapped) all the China and dinnerware not gifted to them at their wedding. For good reason, it took much longer than normal to unload the car. I asked myself, "How did Ron and Colleen actually puzzle all the items into the car." I concluded Ron actually did have a schematic. That year we watched Ron and Colleen joyously open all of their fine dinner wares. “Ah, the butter dish!” “Ah, it is the gravy boat!” “Ah, it is a cute little creamer!” This went on for some time. After each one was opened Colleen and Ron beamed at each other. Yes, I think they even kissed. After each item was opened Grandpa/Dad would say “Veryyyyyyy nice!” I was too immature to not view this as a bit corny. I am sure a few barbs were exchanged. What I under-appreciated at the time was that I had witnessed my sister and Ron commit to each other that they were planning to have an open, giving and hospitable home. The butter dish, gravy boat and creamer have been very well served.

All the dishes in the Integra that Christmas were the precursor to the cork collection. All the corks have their own story. There are more fond memories than corks.

I will always love Brother Ron.

Love,
Brother Dennis

Arlene Longcoy

October 18, 2008

Dear Ron, Thank you for being such a wonderful husband to Colleen, father to Kelly,Caitlin and Erin, master to Maggie and all around Good Guy!!! Most of all Thanks for the Memories!!! I love you, Bodka

Thomas Longcoy

October 18, 2008

Dear Colleen, Kelly, Caitlin and Erin, My only regret is that I did not know Ron for a longer period in my life! Ron was a true gentleman and his love for his wife and three daughters was so very special!!! Ron was taken from us far too early and will be missed by all who knew and loved him! He will always be in my prayers. Love, Tom

Dennis O'Neil

October 18, 2008

I fondly remember Ron peacefully reading on the back middle deck of “Simple Pleasure” the beach house on the outer banks. I observed him there as I managed my kite. He would self interrupt his reading with an occasional gaze at Cape Hatteras Lighthouse and the Atlantic. Occasionally, he was distracted by someone jumping in the pool or by my wayward kite. One time my kite forced me to climb the deck when the wind shifted. I apologized for the distraction. He sincerely said, “Dennis, don’t worry, I like the distractions!” He was at ease.

I was fascinated with Ron’s passion for wine. It was obvious his extensive knowledge of wine far exceeded the hobbyist and ranked up there with expert/sommelier. He had a thoughtful but relaxed approached to wine service and tasting that both invited and encouraged the novice to learn. I being such a novice was impressed on one occasion when Brother Ron decanted a Bordeaux over a candle. He explained the trip from Rochester may have unsettled the wine and he was protecting the taster from an unpleasant sediment experience. I viewed the impressive ritual as a possible romantic plus for future dating experiences. About a month later I called Ron for “decanting over a candle advice”. He asked me what was the selected wine and I told him. He explained to me to my surprise “Dennis, white wines do not have sediment!” It was then he referred me to Hugh Johnson’s- Modern Encyclopedia of Wine.

Another memory of Brother Ron was when he arrived on Grand Boulevard with Colleen for Christmas. The Integra had arrived behind schedule bearing gifts. Grandpa/Dad said "Boys go help your sister and Ron unload and then we can begin Christmas." The packed Integra was parked in the snow filled with gifts and libations. We likened the snow covered vehicle to Santa’s Sled. We began grabbing at the packages. Ron asked us kindly to slow down. He said he needed a schematic to get all the gifts in the hatchback and some of the items were fragile. It later became apparent that Ron and Colleen had gifted to each other (individually wrapped) all the China and dinnerware not gifted to them at their wedding. For good reason, it took much longer than normal to unload the car. I asked myself, "How did Ron and Colleen actually puzzle all the items into the car." I concluded Ron actually did have a schematic. That year we watched Ron and Colleen joyously open all of their fine dinner wares. “Ah, the butter dish!” “Ah, it is the gravy boat!” “Ah, it is a cute little creamer!” This went on for some time. After each one was opened Colleen and Ron beamed at each other. Yes, I think they even kissed. After each item was opened Grandpa/Dad would say “Veryyyyyyy nice!” I was too immature to not view this as a bit corny. I am sure a few barbs were exchanged. What I under-appreciated at the time was that I had witnessed my sister and Ron commit to each other that they were planning to have an open, giving and hospitable home. The butter dish, gravy boat and creamer have been very well served.
All the dishes in the Integra that Christmas were the precursor to the cork collection. All the corks have their own story. There are more fond memories than corks.
I will always love Brother Ron.
Love,
Brother Dennis

Crystal Stottlemyer

October 18, 2008

Dear Colleen, Kelly, Caitlin, and Erin,

I had the pleasure of meeting Ron last fall when Anne invited me to Rochester. I was immediately struck by the love Ron had for all of his girls. There was a twinkle in his eye when Erin would leap up beside him to talk. The same twinkle accompanied by a tear when he saw Kelly, looking dazzling, in her formal gown that she was wearing to a school dance. Caitlin's laugh always brought a smile to his face. The love that Colleen and Ron shared was apparent in the way they looked at each other and the way they shared special stories about their lives with me during my visit. I feel blessed to have had the opportunity to meet Ron. I hope your memories and special stories help get you through this very difficult time. Hold these memories close to your heart always for they are a priceless gift.

My thoughts and prayers are with you!

Crystal

Jenny Rothenberger

October 18, 2008

Dear Aunt Colleen, Kelly, Caitlin, and Erin,

My favorite memory of Uncle Ron, your dad, was sitting at Thanksgiving dinner as a kid. Grandma always served lima beans. All the kids and Uncle Ron hated them; however, we were not allowed to get up before our plates were empty- using the age-old saying “there are starving children in the world.” So, in an attempt to wait out the family, Brian, Abby, Uncle Ron, and myself sat there, and sat there, and sat there hoping to wait it out and win by Grandma loosing interest in this battle. Well, anyone who knows Grandma- we did NOT win. Brian, Abby, Uncle Ron, and myself ate every last lima bean on our plates and were finally able to join the family for the rest of the evening!

Whether he really hated his lima beans or not, Uncle Ron always sat there with us (it actually might have been us sitting with Uncle Ron- not the other way around). At some point we, the kids, were old enough to realize if we just at the beans, we could get up without the hassle and as a result, not get to share this loosing battle with Uncle Ron- year after year! I wish I had never started eating my lima beans. To remember him, I can change that- I promise to never eat another lima bean at Thanksgiving dinner!

The strength that Uncle Ron displayed makes it a true honor to have known him. After visiting for only a short period it was evident to both Eric and myself that the four of you girls set an example of the type of people we both hope to become! We love you and hope to see you soon!

Love,

ERIN DAVIS

October 17, 2008

I miss you dadxoxooxoxxoxxo xoxoxoxoxooxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxooxooooxoxoxoxooxoxooxxoooxooxooxoxoxooxoxooxooxxoxoxoox i need you dad
I Love you dad+ i miss you dad!!!!!!!!

Arlene Longcoy

October 16, 2008

Dear Colleen,Kelly Caitlin and Erin, I just want you to know what a privilege it was to have Ron (your Dad) as my son-in-law. He was a very kind and generous person who loved having the family come to his home and enjoy a good time. We had many fine spaghetti sauce contests, wine tasting contests, card games and campouts (tent city) in your lovely backyard! Everyone enjoyed the many barbecues, fireworks, kite flying, singing and sitting around the fire pit. Over the last three years as his health declined; he never complained and never lost his sense of humor. We had many good times making our football picks on Sundays and then comparing our teams to see who won. He was a joy to be around! He loved you all dearly and was very proud of each of you. I shall always treasure the wonderful memories I have of him. May God Bless you and heal your broken hearts! Love Mom (Bodka)

Kelly Davis

October 15, 2008

Dad,
There are no words to describe how much I miss you. But, I know that you're not only in a better place now but you're also not feeling any pain. I'm grateful for that. I think of you all the time, non stop, and I'll never forget you no matter what. But, I guess this is goodbye, for now. I love you and I always will. You were the best father a daughter could ever hope for. Once again, and again and again, I love you.

Marty, Loretta & family

October 13, 2008

Colleen and girls.....it was good to see you all on Saturday. You have so much to be proud of in Ron, as a loving husband and father. Please know that our heartfelt thoughts and prayers are with you always. If you ever need someone who will "just listen", please always know you can call us. God bless you and your wonderful girls.

Anne Isleib

October 11, 2008

Dear Colleen, Kelly, Caitlyn and Erin -
My thoughts and prayers have been with you, each day, as you have journeyed through this very difficult time. Losing a loved one is never easy but remembering the laughter and good times helps to soften the pain.

When I first spoke to you after Ron had passed away the saddness and sense of loss were evident in your voice however, when you started sharing stories of your "Republican lawn" and remembering how you and Ron met your voice strengthened - the happiness those memories brought you was obvious. While I wasn't able to be there those who were with you after Ron's services said that a sense of "calmness" came over you when you were in Ron's beautiful wine cellar - it is so easy to hold on to those happy memories of places because you all are so lucky - there are so many of those times...

While distance made my memories fewer I do have so many to hold on to - "Who is that man with the red beard?" - the first time Ron braved meeting the O'Neil "extended" family was at my mom's surprise 50th birthday party and I can remember my mom saying to me - who is that family member - the man with the red beard - when I explained who he was - that he was Colleen's boyfriend we both smiled because it was obvious how happy that Colleen was with him...It was an honor when I was asked to be a bridesmaid in your wedding - I watched in awe and prayed that I would some day find someone who made me smile, who treated me with such respect, love and admiration as Ron did to you Colleen - when you were expecting Kelly - it was a very difficult time with you dad being so sick however, it was obvious that you both were beaming and couldn't await your little miracle to arrive - Ron was so excited to become a father and continued to cherish being a "dad" throughout the years - his love for "his girls" was a gift from above - the time that you were able to share together is a priceless gift - remember all those quiet times you shared as well as all the fun and exciting times -

Walking around Georgetown or the monuments in DC at night will always rank up there for me...I felt like I was in a movie walking up to the Jefferson Memorial as it was glowing against the backdrop of the DC sky - I was so happy that I could give you all, and especially Ron, the gift of showing you around DC...

The quiet times are special too! Sitting with Ron in his room -talking to him about architecture, books, movies, life - walking around Camp Stella with him as we dropped Kelly off for her first visit - buying the care-package bucket and helping him pick out something that the whole cabin might enjoy or just being with him - he had a unique, special manner about him that made all those in his presence feel welcome and special...he is missed by us all but, I am so happy and feel so incredibly blessed that God did bring him in my life for all those memories as well as all the life lessons that he taught me - his strength, courage and quiet sense of dignity - when working through his illness was a lesson that he shared with all who knew him...

I hope that you all know that we are all here for you and want to help you all in any way that we can...I hope to come up to visit and give each of you a hug in person while on maternity leave but even though that isn't something happening right now, please know that I am thinking about you, love you and will do anything that you need!

Love you BIG - now and always -

Anne

Anne Kerbrat

October 10, 2008

Colleen, Kelly, Caitlin, and Erin,
We want you all to know sorry and heartbroken we are over the loss of Ron. We know these are very difficult and sad times for you. We feel lucky to call Ron our cousin and to have had him as part of our family. The miles between us have limited our times together but we will always cherish the memories and good times that we shared with all of you during our trips to Deep Creek Lake and other family gatherings. Ron will always be remembered with a smile on his face, a willing and helpful hand, and a kind and gentle spirit. It is impossible to pick up a glass of wine without thinking of him. He touched many people's lives in thousands of different ways and because of that he will be remembered and carried by more people than you will probably ever realize. I hope you find some comfort in knowing how powerful his presence was and how impactful his actions have been.

We pray that God holds you tightly in his arms and comforts you in the days ahead.

With love,
Tim, Anne, Craig, Nicole, Kassie, and Michael

Alyn Vespucci

October 7, 2008

Colleen, Kelly, Caitlin and Erin,

Ron would be proud to see you all try so bravely to adjust in his absence. The girls each day make efforts to return to a normal schedule in their daily routines. Kelly getting back into Volley Ball, Caitlin with Basket Ball. Erin, such a princes writing Ron and expressing her love.

Colleen you are a model for the kids and your nightly Homework checks is continuing the legacy of Ron’s duties each-night. Your strength to move forward each day is challenging with the heavy heart you have for Ron. Each day I pray for it to be less painful for you. Know that Friends and Family are within reach and by your side to help you through this unchartered journey. Ron is smiling and watching over you and the girls. He will be there to help guide and direct the journey ahead.

Alyn

Nance Davison

October 6, 2008

Ron,
Hi,Ron
I am thinking ....remembering our first encounter.yes,in your home.
Colleen and i though childhood friends..we hadn't 'seen' each other in 30 years.She and i talked a year or so and...well then she allowed me to meet you.that's my story,Ron.
And then there was a bat in the house and we nearly went to the Hampton Inn.Of course that was after i made my Republican 'comment'[ok outburst].Still, you were hospitable and welcomed me back. glass broke.music blared.where was the jazz? where was the CSNY?Brownie-man...Your smile came through.your beautiful blue eyes radiated....again,a glass broke...no comment from you..fire-pits in the back. [i do remember what you said ,Ron and the answer remains 'yes'].thinking of picking up Cait at camp[is it stella maris?] and who screamed loudest Cait? and stopping at ..hmm not sure is it Wahl's?]And my God! let us not forget the "GUMBO".My,Goodness we were so close...Maggie trying to get the morsels..again just as we were nearing the end after your watchful eye[making certain of every detail] a glass broke[not me ,Ron...THAT was Colleen!] and we needed to begin again.! your wine cellar is gorgeous...made with sturdy mindful hands. How generous you have been with your wine....and how humble.
Ron...Ron...you exuded love.your hospitality...your politeness.your laugh.your laughing eyes .that twinkled. how your eyes lit up when Colleen ,Kelly,Cait and Er entered the room.Colleen with the two -horn beep....Gail teaching Colleen and I to do the proper technique{yes,"mike's beer' didnt make you secure did it?ALL I know is this ,Ron.YOU did it your way....And your fortitude...your endurance over such time was just incredible.!!!!
On a personal note.thank you ,Ron for all your support....your love
I do believe... you are resting in the hands and arms of God...
God Bless you ,Ron. Do say hi to my mom,Ron...you two must have met by now...I thought so September 18th.....

Gary Davison

October 6, 2008

Dear Colleen,Kelly,Caitlin,Erin,
My very deepest sympathy to you.
It's tough! it's very tough ,Colleen!
I am thinking of you and the girls....
My Dorothy did pray for your Ron as did I.
I am so sorry you are feeling the same pain I am feeling. But we love them....and always will
Again,my condolences.
My prayers to all

Nance Davison

October 6, 2008

Hi...Kelly,Caitlin,Erin,
Your dad!!!What a father...What a man!
your dad...LOVED each of of you with your beautiful,individual personalities.Your dad celebrated each of you!Schooling.Music.Travel.Arts.Fun. Humor and yes wine were important to your dad. Now the wine....only when you are of age....When it all is combined with your uniqueness... it will be masterful!I have a sense...deep within me your dad's purpose in life was to be a father...a dad!!!And as young as you are.With all the big events.the milestones that are ahead ...your dad WILL be there with you.Just as he would want to be!Your dad WILL help you through the tough,scarey times...i am certain of this. Just talk to him. He will be with you even when you may not think so or maybe when you dont feel him there with you. A dad is a dad....all through.
And you guys know your dad NEVER EVER wanted to leave you three!YOUR DAD was brave and you know how sick he was....but never did he want to leave you. this i know! so...trust.rely.feel! that love that your dad sends to you. Look up in the stars. feel the wind blow by you among the vineyard near you...feel the warmth of the sun upon you...the moon phases....YOUR dad is there.....

Maura Kahn

October 5, 2008

Dear Colleen, Kelly, Caitlin and Erin:

All of you are in my daily thoughts and prayers. I know your hearts are broken and I so wish I could make things better. But, I know that all I can do is support you as you go through this journey.

Ron was such a great addition to the O'Neil family. Finally, another Hoosier. All the Kahns were happy to welcome him, even through he went to Purdue.

Kelly, Caitlin and Erin, I will share two things that helped me when my father passed away when I was young.

First, you have to appreciate the wonderful father you had and the short time he was with you. Some people have their parents all their lives and do not have the relationship with their father that I know the three of you had. You had the best father for too short a time.

Second, remember all the good times you had together. Those wonderful memories will get you through the tough times.

You have tremendous friends and neighbors and they will continue to be there for you.

I love you all and I would do anything to prevent you from going though this pain. But, I and we (the O'Neils) will be there for you.

Love always,

Maura

erin davis

October 4, 2008

I love you
dad

Brian Davis

October 4, 2008

Aunt Colleen, Kelly, Caitlyn, Erin

You are all in my thoughts and prayers. My Uncle brings back many great memories that I will remember always. Especially those most recent visits. He has to be the bravest man I have ever met. I always left the house admiring his attitude and braveness. He makes me proud to be a Davis. Love Brian and Mary Ann

Outer Banks, 2003

October 4, 2008

Ron and Erin - October 2005

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Ron and Caitlin - October 2005

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Ron and Kelly - October 2005

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October 2005

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Ron and Erin - July 2007

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Chautauqua Lake, 1999

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Ron and Kelly, Cape Cod, 1994

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August 24, 1991

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Cozumel, June 1988

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August 2007

Colleen Davis

October 3, 2008

Ron,
I love you so very much........and I miss you more than words can express............ You were a wonderful husband and father. Always so very good to me.
God Bless you now and always,
Colleen

Dennis Currie

October 1, 2008

Dear Colleen and Family,
I worked many years with Ron in what we affectionately knew as the PMP Division at Kodak. What a professional Ron was throughout his career at Kodak. Please know that he as well as your family our in my prayers.

Eileen O'Neil

September 30, 2008

Dear Colleen,
My memory of the first time I met Ron was when your Mom and Dad invited Grandma and Grandpa and myself over for Easter dinner (?1989) to meet Colleen's "special" friend.
What joy and love Ron brought into all our lives. The care and concern he showed to your grandparents as their health failed and the strength and support he so generously gave during your Dad's tragic illness.
There are many happy memories too -especially your wedding reception when each table was invited to come up and sing the bride and groom a love song (the Murphy and O'Neil clans did quite well!);and the wine tasting lessons during our family reunions at Deep Creek. Most of all I remember how welcoming you both were to me during my many visits to your home in Fairport.
Ron has been an inspiration to me as he displayed such courage battling ALS. I only hope I can do half as well fighting my cancer.
I love you and Kelly, Caitlin and Erin so much! Aunt Eileen

Therese Sepiol (Kilmer)

September 30, 2008

Colleen and family,
Thinking of you at this time of your loss.You have been and will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. Colleen seems like just yesterday we were kids playing manhunt and barbies. I wish I could give you a hug right now. I would love to see you one of these times when you come to town again. Love you,
Therese

Don Barlow

September 29, 2008

Dear Colleen and Family -

Words cannot begin to express my profound grief for the loss of Ron. He was a dear friend. I will always remember his courage, positive nature and grace in dealing with his illness. He told me once he loved you all too much to let it interfer with his remaining time. He was indeed a remarkable man with a gentle spirit.

Of course I have many many fond memories of Ron from our years together in Rochester. From starting our careers, our houses, our vacations and our families together, Ron was the epitome of a gentleman filled with positive energy and a generous and giving personality.

My heart and prayers go out to each of you. Ron adored and was so proud of each of his girls. I only hope that your memories of him may comfort you in some small way.

May God Bless you all.

Don Barlow

Patrick Reese

September 28, 2008

Dear Colleen, Kelly, Caitlin, & Erin,
I will continue to keep you in my prayers as you move forward. I feel confident that Ron will continue to be present for you. I pray that the the love he has for you, and the love you hold for him, will support you all. May God bless you and Ron forever.

With all my love,
Pat

Stafford Henry, M.D

September 27, 2008

Colleen, Kellie, Kaitlin and Erin,

Words cannot explain the profound sadness that has overcome us. I'm sure this cannot begin to describe what you're feeling. I remember Ron as a warm, engaging, loving man who adored his family. His smile and passion for life is how I will remember him. I know he will live on in your minds and hearts.

Much Love,

Stafford

erin davis

September 26, 2008

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Connie Carey

September 25, 2008

Colleen:
I was so sorry to read about your husband's death.
I have happy memories of your visits to my parents' house.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your daughters during this most difficult time.
Connie Conole Carey

Wanda Richardson

September 25, 2008

Dear Colleen and family:
My prayers are continually for you all as you mourn the loss of Ron. Try to find comfort in knowing that each one of you were loved very much. Though I only know Ron for a short time, I can remember how attentive he was when the girls would share a story or just come by his bedside to talk to him. Also, I'll never forget the look on his face when he heard Colleen enter the house and walk across the floor toward his room. It was truly a pleasure to have met you all. God bless and keep you.

Peace always,

Kay Isleib

September 25, 2008

Dear Colleen and Girls,

My heart goes out to each of you. Ron was such a loving person who always made me feel most welcome in your home. He was so very proud of all of you and showed his love in many ways. What a brave soldier he was in his illness!! He is a true example of one who lived the cards he was dealt in the best possible way and will be a role model for all of us as we face life's challenges. I will treasure all the special memories I have of him.

Please know that I am here for each of you and will help you in any way that I can.

Much love,
Aunt Kay

Bernadine Cosier

September 23, 2008

Colleen i am so sorry to hear about the passing of your husband. If i can do anything for you or you need to talk give me a call.

Ellen (Hickey)Molyneaux

September 23, 2008

Dear Colleen,
I read with such a heavy heart of the passing of your husband, Ron. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family as you grieve his loss. Maybe I'll see you in November. Please contact me if I can help you in any way.
Sincerely,
Ellen (Hickey) Molyneaux

Patti and Tim Doerr and Family

September 22, 2008

Dear Colleen, Kelley, Caitlin and Erin~
We were so saddened to hear the sad news. May you cherish your memories, beautiful family photos and each other. Life is so much bigger than what defines us on this earth, and it seemed to me, that Ron knew that and lived that. May we all be inspired by his dignity and wisdom. You know that everyone at St. Louis School is here for you, always,
love, The Doerr Family

Nancy Swank

September 22, 2008

My prayers will continue for you and the girls , for peace, strength, and a love for each other that is without end.

Stewart and Cecelia Babbott

September 21, 2008

Dear Colleen, Kelly, Caitlin and Erin;

We will remember Ron for his ready smile and for his eyes which sparkled with that smile. Always the host, he would greet you in person or on the phone with that genuine energy and interest, really wanting to know how you were doing. And when the conversation turned to him, he would gently acknowledge how he was doing, and then not dwell on his circumstance, other than to reflect back to you about the joys he had in his wife Colleen, and his girls, or indeed that you were there, in the present, with him.

And those eyes, which took such delight in seeing his children grow up, in seeing his friends and family at all sorts of gatherings, in seeing his wife, his life long friend at his side, and so much more. Yes, eyes that saw what was important.

We must be sure to mention the wine! One of our first memories of Ron was when he was helping at a wine tasting course in Rochester. He was serving the different wines, as we learned about them. (These were all great classes, especially Burgundy night!) In his home, he really took pleasure in sharing his love of wine. You see, the key was enjoying and with all the fellowship and laughter.

We are moved beyond words, yet try with them, to express our many emotions at this moment: of deep sadness at Ron’s passing; of joy in having had the privilege of knowing him as we did; of our deep respect for how he lived; of our admiration for how he chose to meet his challenges and the grace with which he did so; of our aching hearts for you: Colleen, Kelly, Caitlin and Erin, and our support and love for you; of the hope and knowledge that in having known Ron we are all the richer, and may ever learn and reinforce how we can see our worlds and live our lives.

JERRY RAMSAY

September 21, 2008

DEAR COLLEEN AND FAMILY,MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU ALL IN THIS TRYING TIME. MAY GOD BLESS YOU. LOVE JERRY

Meredith Alexander

September 21, 2008

Dear Colleen, Kelly, Caitlin, and Erin,
I wish to express my deepest condolences to you during this difficult time. Ron was such a happy man and he will truly be missed. You will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. Take care.
Love,
Meredith Alexander

Helen (Lisi) Lee

September 21, 2008

Dear Colleen, Our thoughts and Prayers have been with you and your family since we found out about Ron"s illness. We are so sorry for your loss. We will pray for you and your family in this difficult time.

Bill and Suzanne Slimbaugh

September 21, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Susan, Evan Helayne & Adam Kushner

September 21, 2008

Dear Colleen,

We were so sorry to hear about Ron. We know from speaking to you over the years that Ron was an incredible person; courageous, caring and loving, a wonderful husband and father. Our thoughts are with you, Kelly, Caitlin and Erin during this difficult time.

Love,

Maureen Alexander

September 21, 2008

Colleen, Kelly, Caitlyn, and Erin,
We love you and are praying for you.
John, Maureen, Meredith, Katherine, and Jack

Carol, Mark and Cayden Wagner

September 21, 2008

Colleen, Kelly, Katie, and Erin,
Something that I remember about Ron was his willingness to share with others. The first wine tasting that I ever went to was one that Ron had arranged. It was a residency group that gathered that night, and we knew nothing then about wine except for Mark. We all tasted, and we thoroughly enjoyed every moment of the night. We learned to love pinots, and most importantly, we laughed and laughed. Ron had orchestrated something divine. As the night wore on and the bottles were emptied, Ron continued to coach us about what we were drinking, when the grapes had been harvested, and why this one wine was different from the other. Like us, how we are so different yet so alike. It was the quintessential evening among friends. The memory will last forever. Just like Ron. He is immortalized through our love for him.

We will miss him in earth time but somewhere in the universe, Ron is there. Watching and helping us. He is at peace and perhaps, just perhaps sipping a Pinot.

With love,

Carol, Mark and Cayden

Eileen Schaffler

September 20, 2008

Dear Colleen, Kelly, Caitlin and Erin,

We are keeping you all in our prayers and wish we could be there with you.

We love you all.
Eileen, Bill, Ryan, Katie, Claire & Emma

Hollis Taylor

September 20, 2008

Dear Colleen, Kelly,Caitlin and Erin,

I am so sorry to hear this news. My thoughts and prayers are with you and our family,

Christy Palmiere

September 20, 2008

My deepest sympathies in your loss. I was shocked to read that Ron had passed as I have not talked to him in over 5 years. I worked with Ron at Kodak - I knew him from my first assignment at Kodak to one of my last (I left almost 2 years ago). But, we also shared a common bond - I grew up in Indiana also and graduated from Purdue as well. He was a wonderful, smart, kind man.

May God bless your family.

Christy Palmiere

Margy Hobson

September 20, 2008

Ron was an incredible person who always had a twinkle in his eye and a ready laugh despite these increible tough three years and its awful challenges. He loved Colleen and his girls so much . He was always planning a special gift or surprise with Gail, his friend and aide, as the messenger. We had incredible belly laughs all the time. We had great fun enjoying his French wines.
He was an inspiration and an example of how to live life fully despite his situation. We will all miss him. I send much love to all the wonderful O'Neil family who surrounded Ron with love and support. Love, Margy

Margy Hobson

September 20, 2008

Ron was an incredible person who always had a twinkle in his eye and a ready laugh despite these increible tough three years and its awful challenges. He loved Colleen and his girls so much . He was always planning a special gift or surprise with Gail, his friend and aide, as the messenger. We had incredible belly laughs all the time. We had great fun enjoying his French wines.
He was an inspiration and an example of how to live life fully despite his situation. We will all miss him. I send much love to all the wonderful Davis family who surrounded Ron with love and support. Love, Margy

(Fr.) Tom Ryan

September 20, 2008

Colleen & Family,
My sincere condolences at the death of Ron. Please know of my prayers and those of the parish.

Laurie Karpf

September 20, 2008

Dear Colleen, Kelly,Caitlin and Erin,
I'm so sorry to hear of Ron's passing after such a long,brave struggle. I know how much he loved you all, and how lucky you were to have him in your lives. Please make sure you take good care of yourselves during this initial grieving period....it does get easier with the passing of time, and you will go on to have many loving times with family and friends again, even if it doesn't seem possible right now. Rely on your friends and family, and your faith to carry you through for now. I'm so sorry I can't be there in person, but you know my love is with you.
Laurie (and Justin and Ben) Karpf

tricia buchheit

September 20, 2008

Sending you love and sympathy for your loss of Ron. What a great person he was.
Love, The Buchheits

Alyn Vespucci

September 20, 2008

Ron and I met during our Kodak career with a mutual bond through our daughters being friends and schoolmates. He loved his family and always put them first as a priority. He never complained through his ALS journey and was a model of courage & strength for others. He will be missed.

Deborah Taylor

September 20, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Love, Deborah, David, Devin and Kirin

Karen & Tim Kelley

September 20, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. With Sympathy, Tim, Karen, Lorelei (1M), & Wyatt (PreK3) Kelley.

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