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Nicholas Donatelli, 83, of Endicott, died at Willow Point Nursing Home, Wednesday, September 24, 2008. He was predeceased by his parents, Antonio and Antoinette; and a sister, Anna Aleccia. He is survived by his beloved wife of 54 years, Evelyn (Kocak) Donatelli, Endicott; a daughter and son-in-law, Jackie and Dan Vetter, Syracuse; a son and daughter-in-law, Tony and Lynn Donatelli, Endicott; his grandsons, Nick, Kyle, Matt, Keith, Adam and Jeff; two sisters, Mary Putrino and Dora Mancini, both of Endicott; also several nieces, nephews and cousins. He was a member of St. Anthony of Padua Church, Endicott, a veteran of WWII, serving in the US Army, and was a retired teacher in the Union-Endicott School System. Nick was a graduate of Rutgers University, received his Master's degree at SUNY Binghamton and was also a member of the Duca Degli Abruzzi Lodge #443, Order Sons of Italy in America, Endicott.
Funeral Services will be held Saturday 9:30 a.m., from the Allen Memorial Home, 511-513 East Main Street, Endicott, followed by a Funeral Mass at St. Anthony of Padua Church at 10 a.m. Burial will be at the convenience of the family. The family will receive friends at the Allen Memorial Home Friday evening from 5-8 p.m. In lieu of flowers, expressions of sympathy in his memory may be made to Willow Point Nursing Home, 3700 Old Vestal Road, Vestal, N.Y. 13850.
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Memories and Condolences
for Nicholas Donatelli
Larry Taggart
October 21, 2008
Dear Tony,
By pure coincidence I came across your Father's obituary on the internet. I was very saddened to learn of his passing because I remembered him as a very kind and gentle man, as well as a great teacher. I always believed he cut me some extra slack in class because like you I was one of "Sarge's wrestlers". To be honest, I can't remember any other teacher I had in high school, but I remember your Dad. May you and your family find peace in God's love and know in your heart that through the Lord's promise you will see him again at the resurrection.
Michelle Everhart
October 4, 2008
Dear Evie,Jackie and Tony- It has been several years since we've seen eachother. I was sadden to hear of Nick's passing.
Many great memories of my childhood living next door to you on Anson Rd. came back.
We (The Seversky's) were blessed to have had such great neighbors as The Dontelli's.
Please accept my deepest sympathy.
Michelle Everhart (Seversky)
Loraine Anderson
October 1, 2008
Dear Mrs. D, Jackie, Dan, Tony and Lynn,
I was so sorry to hear about Mr. Donatelli. It always seemed like I ran into Mr. and Mrs. D in BonTon when I was home. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Loraine (Caforio) Anderson
Jeanne Guidici
September 29, 2008
To all of you who lost this gentle man!! What a great teacher he was and such an example of character. I had the pleasure of having him at HBE in 8th grade and he never forgot any of us as we never forgot him. I'm sorry for your loss, Jeanne Guidici
Lori Silvestri
September 28, 2008
Dear Donatelli Family - I used to live on Anson Road (right next door) way back in the 1960's and 1970's. I used to say "Hi Nicky!" to Mr. Donatelli when he'd arrive home from work. I'll always remember his kindness. I tell my Italian husband that Mr. Donatelli was my first Italian love ;)
God bless Mr. Donatelli and the Donatelli Family...
Lori (Ellsworth) Silvestri
Bob and Margaret Mattucci
September 27, 2008
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Please accept our deepest sympathy. We will miss seeing you both at Willow Point.
lizabeth leonard
September 27, 2008
Dear Evelyn I was so sorry to hear that Nick had died I only knew you for a while but in that short time I realized what a devoted wife you were to Nick many trips to the nursing day after day. Hope to see you again some time I know my Mom gets alot of enjoyment from you. Evelyn take care of yourself and always stay strong... Mrs. Labare.s daughter Lizabeth Leonard.
Diane Fitch
September 27, 2008
On A Colleague
I know no one among those who worked in the U. E. English department during the years that Nick Donatelli chaired it who didn’t love him. It was appropriate that Nick taught the course on mythology because, despite his modest stature, he was a god among men; or at least he thought so when he stuffed our mailboxes with his self-titled “Thunderbolts”, pages of department matters we needed to know, but being literate, didn’t need to sit through boring meetings to learn about! Along with a cadre including Gene Camadella, George Cardone, Bruce Ellis, Mike Gance and his journalist colleague Bob Gallagher, he made the high school the vibrant, fun place to work and learn that it was back then. His wit and intellect have become part of the leadership style in English department chairs who have followed him.
I can only hope that his spirit hovers over U. E. as it now bleakly treks through “the testing years”. What Nick taught us was that “No Child Left Behind” meant all of us as educators have to retain that childlike sense of joy and mischievousness in life and in the classroom if we truly want to be our best and help our students to be theirs. Nick was our inspiration, our leader, our comic, our shoulder to lean on, our repository of knowledge, our friend, a god and a star! In the circle of the Southern Tier he was recognized and welcomed by politicians, restaurateurs, grocers, bankers–former students or not–because of the “beam” of his being. I know that today the emptiness we feel is greater than that of fans who have been told the final time: “Elvis has left the building.”
Lauren Blair
September 26, 2008
To Mr. Donatelli's family, my sincere condolences and prayers. He was a wonderful man, and one of my favorite teachers. He was also a co-worker of my father, Glenn Blair, and conveyed such kind words of sympathy at his passing. May God bless all of you. Please know that he is most fondly remembered.
Barbara Putrino
September 26, 2008
Dear Aunt Evie, Jackie and Dan, Tony and Lynn, and families:
We will truly miss Uncle Nick. He was always genuinely interested in everyone he knew. He was a wonderful teacher to many, including Mike. Our hearts and prayers go out to all.
To Aunt Dora and Mom: We are sorry for the loss of your brother.
Love, Barb, Mike, Lauren and Liana
Tony Vetrano
September 26, 2008
I shall always remember Nick as a dear friend and true gentleman.
I have many happy memories of our Summer jobs as Waiters at Duff's Tavern, and at Joe Barbara's Canada Dry Bottling Plant in Endicott during our college years.
Please accept my deepest condolences on your profound loss.
REQUIESCAT IN PACE...
Peggy (Greene)Gigstad
September 26, 2008
Jackie, Dan, Tony, Lynne and Mrs. D, You are all in my prayers. What a profound loss. Mr. D's spirit filled any room with love. Always happy to see a gaggle of girls stirring Fritz up and tormenting Tony. It does take a village to raise a teenager and I am so thankful Mr. and Mrs. D were part of that village for me. With Love, Peggy
John Ligi
September 25, 2008
Nick was one of the most gentle and kind men I've ever known. The community will miss him greatly
Sue Lewis
September 25, 2008
Jackie .... Pat & I are so sorry for your loss. He was such a kind and good man.
Patty Salamida Kushner
September 25, 2008
Mr. Donatelli was a great teacher, kind man, and a wonderful example to so many students over the years. He never forgot a name or a face when he saw you; no matter how long it had been since you had the pleasure of having him as a teacher. He will be greatly missed. My deepest sympathy to the entire Donatelli Family
Bob and Lynne Bird and family
September 25, 2008
Jackie- Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
God Bless
palmette maney
September 25, 2008
Aunt Evie, Jackie,Tony and family: My deepest sympthy for your loss of such a wonderful man, who was very respected and loved by all. A true gentleman. I have many great memories of Uncle Nick. I truly admired him and feel very blessed that we had him in our family and in our lives. I hope all your wonderful memories will help you though this time.
Ed Lubniewski
September 25, 2008
Neighbor Nick, was a great neighbor. he was always there to help out with the West Corners Little league. always positive. To the family, Evelyn, Tony, Jackie I'm so sorry.
John Bertoni
September 25, 2008
To the Entire Donatelli Family...It has been a pleasure knowing Nick,his wisdom and wit and love of Family.His passion for life and attaining life's goals certainly passed on from his classroom to the Sons of Italy Lodge and beyond. God has a special placefor such Kind men as Nick and it was my pleasure to know him.
Jane Backus
September 25, 2008
A gentle teacher to so many...God bless Mr. D...you always made the LeMoyne gals feel so welcome...Prayers for the entire Donatelli clan...
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