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Mary O'Brien Obituary
Mary A. O'Brien
of Binghamton
Mary A. O'Brien, 74, of Binghamton, died Sunday morning, October 12, 2008. She was predeceased by her parents, Helen and Andrew Luchansky; and aunt, Mary Metrus. She is survived by her husband of 54 years, James R. O'Brien; her children, MaryKay and Michael Curley, Karen and Jim Mullins, Kathy and Jim Bigart, Jimmy and Kelly O'Brien, all of Binghamton; 13 grandchildren, Michele and Andrea Curley, Matt, Megan and Mark Mullins, Collin, Maggie, Alexia, Kate and Cameron Bigart, Cassidy, Carly and Owen O'Brien; her sister, Anne Pilotti; niece, Angela and Ray; nephews, Armis and Laura, Andrew and Renee; several other special nieces and nephews; and her special companion, "Roxy." Mary was a lifelong member of SS. Cyril & Methodius Church, Binghamton, and a member of the Altar-Rosary Society; member of Couples Club and the Ladies of Charity. Mary retired from Broome Community College and was Tax Collector for the Town of Dickinson. She enjoyed watching her grandchildren play sports at Seton Catholic Central High School and Chenango Valley Schools. Her children and grandchildren were her pride and joy and she especially loved having them all together for Sunday dinners. The family wishes to thank Lourdes Hospital Ross 1 for their care of Mary.
A Funeral Mass will be offered at SS. Cyril & Methodius Church Wednesday at 10 a.m. Burial will be in Slovak Catholic Cemetery. The family will receive friends at the J.A. McCormack Sons Funeral Home, 141 Main St., Binghamton, Tuesday from 4-7 p.m. In lieu of flowers, expressions of sympathy in memory of Mary may be made to Seton Catholic Central High School Athletic Program, 70 Seminary Avenue, Binghamton, N.Y. 13905; or Chenango Valley High School Athletic Program, 221 Chenango Bridge Rd., Binghamton, N.Y. 13901.
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Memories and Condolences
for Mary O'Brien
Colleen (O'Neil) Davis
October 20, 2008
MaryKay,
I am so sorry... I have great childhood memories of your mom having a bunch of us over for ice skating parties at your house.... I am sending prayers for you and your entire family. May God Bless your Mom and Hold her Close.
Donna Macie
October 17, 2008
Dear MaryKay and Mr O'Brien and the whole family,
I know that you will find peace in knowing that your mom is safe in the loving arms of our Father. This is a very difficult time in our lives. I remember when our parents met in Utica and now your mom and my parents are watching down talking about all the fun we had in college and all the fun they had watching us grow. My family will pray for you and your mom. If you ever need to talk, do not hesitate to call. I am always here for you!!
May God's endless grace strengthen and uplift your heart through each day during this sad time. Find the brightest star in the sky and call it Mary's star. She will always help you find your way. Love, Donna and family
Ivan (bud) Moscrip
October 17, 2008
To the O'brien Family
My thoughts and prayers are with you during these very difficult days. Mary and I worked together during her tax collection days when I was head of the county real property dept. We even shared a laugh once in awhile. I do not think anyone really knows the effort she made.
Kathleen Kilmer
October 17, 2008
Karen and family,
I am deeply sorry for your loss.
Heather Gazdik
October 16, 2008
Kathy and Michelle and family,
I am so sorry to hear about your Mom. I wish I had been able to make it down to provide support.
Wishing you the best,
Heather
Tricia Russo Coffee
October 16, 2008
Dear Kathy and O'Brien Family: I am so sorry to hear about your mom and this difficult loss to you all, I think of the wonderful times growing up with your family on the terrace, With love and prayers,
Marian Pechmann Cooper
October 15, 2008
Dear O'Brien Family,
The Pechmann Family (Helen, Joe, Jim, Connie, Margaret, Marian) was very sorry to hear about the loss of Mrs. O'Brien. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
God bless you.
Marian Pechmann Cooper
Connie & Tim Cutting
October 15, 2008
MaryKay, Michael & Family
May the wonderful memories of your Mom give you joy and strength during this difficult time. Our thoughts are prayers are with you all.
ED BONCEK
October 15, 2008
MR O'BRIEN AND KAREN: I AM SORRY TO HEAR OF YOUR LOSS. YOU WERE VERY FORTUNATE TO HAVE HAD HER FOR SO LONG. MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU BOTH.
Annette & Dale Phelps
October 14, 2008
Kathy, Jim and family,
We just heard about your loss. We are sorry we could not be there but we were there in thoughts and prayers. Memories will help get you through this difficult time so hang on to them. God Bless.
Timmie Miller
October 14, 2008
Alex and I are thinking of you all during this difficult time~
with love and prayers,
Timmie (Reynolds OBrien) Miller
Alexander Todd OBrien
Tom and June Harding
October 14, 2008
Dear Jim and family,
We were so sorry to hear about your lost. I knew Mary when I was in High School and enjoyed hanging around with the "Queens". I am now going through treatment for Lymphoma and we are sorry not to attend the wake and her mass.
God Bless you and your family
Tom and June Harding
jean barker
October 14, 2008
Jim,Karen and family.
My thoughtts and prayers are with you at this time of sorrow.
Mrs,Barker
John Ulma
October 14, 2008
Jimmy,
My families thoughts and prayers are with you. We are truly sorry for your loss.
Susan McNamara
October 14, 2008
Aloha,
Our deepest thoughts, prayers and condolences to the whole family. Having the O'Briens as backyard neighbors for all those years was a true joy and the that joy will live on through all the kids and grandchildren. Miss all of you.
Sue, Joe, Nicole, Shannon and Allie McNamara
Sandy Williams
October 14, 2008
To Jim and Family,
Our thoughts & prayer go out to all of you--Mary was a wonderful person--always a smile on her face & a touch of her hand to welcome or console you. We always loved to see Mary & Jim come in Red Oak Diner every Sunday after church and enjoy eating with their family or friends--they were always so cheerful. We'll all miss you Mary; but we know Jim will carry on for you & him.
With Love & Concern,
Tom & Sandy Williams
Sharon George
October 14, 2008
Uncle Jim, Mary Kay, Karen, Kathy & Jimmy and families...We are traveling in Arizona and Joyce called and let me know - I have such warm memories of Aunt Mary and all of you and the good times we all used to have as a family. I have a special place in my heart for all of you. Nick and I send our heartfelt condolences. Love to you all,
Sharon
Becky Stevens
October 14, 2008
I remember Mary when she worked here at BCC. What a nice lady. I particularly remember when the quads were born and how proud and excited she was. She will be missed.
John Herko
October 14, 2008
Dear Jim and family, Sorry for your loss. May our thoughts and prayers bring comfort to you. Love John and Lynne Herko. Orlando Fl.
Francey Davis
October 14, 2008
With deepest sympathy to all of you. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Ted, Francey(Miller),Megan and Molly Davis
steve randall
October 14, 2008
Jim, Karen, and family;
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you during this sad time. we are sorry for your great loss.
Steve, Eve, Ian and Jade Randall
John & Karin Combs
October 14, 2008
OB, Mary Kay, Karen, Kathy, and Jimmy:
We were so sorry to hear of Mary's passing. Please know we will keep you all in our thoughts and prayers.
Peggy Hathaway
October 14, 2008
Jim & Kathy
My thoughts are with you at this time. Think of the good memories and they will get you through this hard time.
(Fr.) Tom Ryan
October 14, 2008
Dear Jim & Family,
My sincere condolences at the death of Mary. It was so nice to know her and all of you over the years. It was always a pleasure to see you visit St. James. Mary leaves a wonderful legacy of a devoted faith and loving family. Know of my prayers.
Brenda Ciesla
October 14, 2008
Jim,
I will always treasure the special time we shared with our renew group at your home. Mary will be deeply missed.
Joe Gallagher
October 14, 2008
To the O'Brien Family,
On behalf of my father (Dr. Gordon), my sister (Anne) and my brothers (Charlie and Vince), I like to express my sympathy on the loss of your mother.
Dawn Grier Shiner
October 13, 2008
Mary Kay & Family,
Have such fond memories of your Mom growing up on Dennison Avenue. A wonderful spirit who touched so many. Sending love and hugs to you and yours..
D'Lynn Noyes
October 13, 2008
Jim and family,
My thoughts are with you.
Carol (Herko) Germond
October 13, 2008
Jim,
We were so sad to hear of your loss. It was so nice when we got to see you and Mary this summer while we were in Binghamton. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Carol and Wally
john & jacky kernan
October 13, 2008
Kathy,Jim and Children So sorry to hear about you Mother. She was a lovely lady. I had surgery om my foot on Monday the 6th , so I wasn't able to get to the wake. My prayers and thoughts are with you and all of your family. Love Jacky Kernan
Eileen and Brian Southern
October 13, 2008
Jim and family - we are so very saddened at the loss of Mary. She was a wonderful woman and so brave and strong going thru all the procedures the past several months. She will be missed by all her friends from McDonald's morning coffee and chat time. Again, our deepest sympathy to you all.
October 13, 2008
Jim and Family...I am sad to hear of cousin Mary's passing. My thoughts are with you all. Your family's strength, unity and faith are an inspiration. Love,
Cousin Alexia (Mitrus) Markarian
Tony Wiiliams
October 13, 2008
Mr. O Brien and Family,My condolences to all of you at such a difficult time.I remember all of you very well from our days at St. Cyril,s going to school or time in the Hall.I will always remember the kindness and generosity of your family.May you find peace and comfort in each others arms.
Paula (Napierala) McGuigan
October 13, 2008
Kathy, Jim and Family,
I am so sorry to hear about your mom. Your family is in our prayers.
May she rest in peace,
Paula, Robert, Samantha, Emily and Sabrina
Jim and Jeanne Meddleton
October 13, 2008
Kathy and Bigs,
Very sorry to hear about your mom. Please know that we're thinking of all of you, and sending our prayers
Kurt Schoepfle
October 13, 2008
To all members of the O'Brien family, I wish to express my sincere condolences for your loss. I pray that the peace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with all of you, to bring you comfort in your sorrow and hope in her everlasting life.
Mike & Marce(Miller) Pastor
October 13, 2008
Mr. O'Brien, MaryKay, Karen, Kathy, Jimmy, and all your families--Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this sad time.
margaret hardy
October 13, 2008
Marykay, Karen and family
i am so sorry for the loss of your mother..you are in my thoughts and prayers...may her soul rest in peace
margaret hardy
Fran & Ann Meddleton
October 13, 2008
Kathy & Jim and Family,
We were so very sorry to hear about your Mom-our thoughts and prayers are for her and all of you at this sad time.
Patrick, Tiffany & Adrianna Kollar
October 13, 2008
To Mary Kay, Michael, Michele, Andrea and the rest of the O'Brien Family, our deepest sympathies at the loss of your Mother/Grandmother. Times have been hard on our families lately but our family members are at peace and are looking out for us now more than ever.
Love always,
Patrick, Tiffany & Adrianna
Susan & Marty Hickey
October 13, 2008
MaryKay and family - our heartfelt sympathy goes out to you all during this very sad time. We are so sorry for your loss and will be thinking about you.
Joyce Shoudy
October 13, 2008
Uncle Jim, Mary Kay, Karen, Kathy and Jimmy,
Aunt Cheri called and let me know about Aunt Mary. I was so sorry to hear it. I did not know she was sick, so it came as quite a shock. I have lots of great memories of you and Aunt Mary. I do remember your anniversary would be this thursday. I always felt a special tie since you got married on my birthday.
You are all in my prayers and thoughts. I'm sorry I can't come up for the funeral.
Love, Joyce
Janet Abel
October 13, 2008
To Mary's family, we here at Elizabeth Church Manor are very sorry for your loss-
God Bless,
Rev. Janet Abel
Regina Schaffer
October 13, 2008
To all the family,
Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time. Even though there is so much pain now, don't be afraid to remember all the good times. Those memories will be a comfort later on. Take care and God Bless.
Peggy (Mullins) Chapin
October 13, 2008
Karen and Jim,
I was so sorry to hear about the passing of your mother, she was a sweet lady. May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
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