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Alexander Macinsky Obituary
Alexander J. Macinsky
of Triangle, N.Y.
11-27-22 to 10-13-08
On Monday morning, October 13th, 2008, the gates of Heaven opened to receive our father, Alexander J. Macinsky. He has now been reunited with his parents, John and Helena, and ALL of his brothers and sisters. Our father proudly served his country during WWII in the United States Army. It was after his years of Military Service, he traveled to a little town called Triangle, where he met, fell in love with, and married our mother, Ruth Ina (Pixley) on October 15th, 1949. They are now celebrating their 59th wedding anniversary together in Heaven. From their marriage they lovingly raised three children, Steven and his wife, Bonnie Jean, who reside in Davisboro, Ga., a set of twins, Michael and his wife, Tanis, who reside in New Hartford, N.Y., and Victoria and her husband, Willie, who live in Triangle. He leaves behind to carry on his heritage his six grandchildren and ten great-grandchildren.
It is with pride to say our dad was one of the founding fathers of the Triangle Fire Station, which is where we will proudly pay tribute to his memory this Saturday, October 18th, at 11:00 a.m. with Pastor Eddie Maslin officiating. The Triangle Fire Company Ladies Auxiliary will be hosting a meal afterwards where we can all sit and reminiscence the good ole' days. Those wishing to make a contribution on behalf of Alex may do so to the Triangle Fire Company, Route 206-Triangle, Whitney Point, N.Y. 13778.
From the hearts of Steven, Michael and I, we deeply extend our heartfelt thank you to the wonderful staff at the V.A. Hospital in Syracuse for their exemplary care towards our father during his battle with lymphoma, and at the end of his time here, we, with deepest appreciation and love extend our thank you to the 3rd floor Ross Building at Lourdes Hospital for their unconditional love as we entrusted our father into their caring hands during his transitional time from his Earthly home to his Heavenly eternity.
It is with honor, we as their children are proud of all the virtues they instilled in us. It is with this pride we as parents can witness the fruits of their labor through our children and grandchildren.
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Memories and Condolences
for Alexander Macinsky
Tom Hurlbut
October 9, 2022
Alex and Ruth always had and open house for all us kids growing up in are town of TRIANGLE.
Diane Woodruff
October 23, 2008
Dear Vicky, I just heard the news that your Dad has gone home to your MoM. He is a wounderful Man and he will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you and all of your family. I Love Your Dad! and You!
Carol (Eggleston) Leach
October 23, 2008
Vicki, Michael, Steve;
SO sorry to hear of Alex's passing,
he is in a better place and rejoicing in
Jesus' loving arms with other family who had gone before.
I can remember when your Dad met your Mom, your Mom was working for my father, Clyde, taking care of my sister (Virginia) and myself. When Alex came to spend some time with Ruth, us girls had to
go to bed early, to our dismay!
I also remember the good times
at the Triangle Store, picking up the paper after church, picking up a few
groceries. Your parents never had a
cross word for anyone.
Alex also worked with my Fred
very hard at the fire stations and
Fred always remarked how great
it was to work with Alex!
"I lift my eyes up to the hills, where does my help come from? My help comes from the Lord..."
Ps. 121:1-2
God Bless each and everyone of the
Macinsky family.
Ellen Voorhees(Leach)
October 23, 2008
Sorry to hear about Alex's passing..
I remember so vividly the trips to the store, especially on Sunday's for the paper after church.
Both Alex and Ruth were one of a kind and as with Ruth's passing, Alex will be greatly missed.
Cindy (Jennison) Holcomb
October 22, 2008
Vicki and Mike
Sorry for your loss. My thouhgts have been with you.
Erick Gaugler
October 20, 2008
Steve, mike, and Vickie,
i am so sorry to hear about your dad. i just heard about his passing. sorry i wasnt at the viewing. i have known all of you my entire life and i miss you all. my prayers go out to you and your families. my love,
The Klaiber Family, Al, Jean , Brenda and Dawn
October 18, 2008
Vicki
You are in our prayers and thoughts.
Barbara Fortunato Hastings
October 18, 2008
Vicki, Michael and Steve:
So sorry to hear of the loss of your dad, he was a great guy and I have many fond memories of being at the house and store. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Sorry I missed your phone call.
Seth Irish
October 18, 2008
Vicki, Mike and Steve;
Sorry to hear the loss of Alex, we all remember the side lines filled of yells he made along with the rest! Our prayers are with you all.
Sylvia Moyer
October 18, 2008
Dear Vicki, Mike & Steve,
You and your families are in my prayers at this time of loss. May you take strength in knowing that your father was loved and respected by all who knew him.
When I was a child, I always looked forward to visits with your family. I also hoped that there might be a pee wee grape sodapop just waiting for me in that cooler in the store! Your house was always bustling with activity and other neighbors, friends, or family often appeared while we were there. I can still close my eyes and smell those delicious aromas that I associate with the Macinsky kitchen and those backyard barbeques. Yum!
I am fortunate that Uncle Alex and Aunt Ruth were part of my extended family. They will both forever be in my heart.
Frank and Darlene Bianco
October 17, 2008
To the family of Alex J.Macinsky ,
We would like to say how sorry we are to hear of his death .The loss of a parent is always a great loss .Always remember he was a great dad and left a great impression on all of your lives .Our prayers go out to all of you at this difficult time in your life .
Frank and Darlene Bianco ,
Deb Fritts-Boyce
October 17, 2008
Mike and Vicki,
I'm very sorry at your loss.
Bud & Betty Moscrip
October 17, 2008
To Vicki & Family
Our thoughts and condolences are with you all during these difficult days. Just remenber all those who care. We will keep you in our prayers.
Ruth and Bruce Lane
October 17, 2008
Dear Vickie, Steve and Michael: Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. Alex will be missed by all who knew him but he is in a far better place now. Your parents were real examples to all of us and we know you will miss them but you have many fond memories of them. We remember coming to their house in Triangle and having a cook out and your Dad doing the cooking. Again, you and your families will be in our thoughts and prayers. God bless you all.
ken folmsbee
October 17, 2008
Steve, Mike and Vicky - will always remember your dad's support of our high school teams. I also remember buying wallpaper for our Sidney house and how helpful he was. May the strength of our Savior uphold you as Alex's life is celebrated. - Kind regards, Ken Folmsbee
Jim & Genevieve Wilson
October 16, 2008
Our condolences on you and your familys loss. We will miss alex's penny candy that always seemed to get more than a pennys worth.Jim had some good times working for Alex in his younger years.Our thoughts and prayers are with you and yours.
Glenda(Moyer) and Glenn Milner
October 16, 2008
Dear Steve, Michael and Vicki, We are thinking of you and your families at this time of the loss of your father. The first wedding I attended as a young child was that of your parent's. Though they were busy with many guests, both of them spoke with me. I remember Uncle Alex saying now we were one family. Through the years we came to Triangle many times and always stopped in to see your family. As children the treat was a peewee grape or orange soda. Memories include eating delicious stuffed cabbage and other dishes after the store closed. Many warm familly times have been shared over the years. We will miss your Dad. He was always welcoming to us, a hard worker and so proud of his family.
Ellen Adams
October 16, 2008
Vickie and family,
When loved ones part, love lives on.
May the memories stored within your
heart help lessen your sorrow and may it comfort you to know others are saddened by your loss. Two wonderful people rejoined in heaven
are watching over you now.
Kelli McAllister(Ballard)
October 16, 2008
To Steve, Mike and Vicki,
Growing up in Triangle wouldn't have been the same without almost daily visits to the Triangle General Store in the summertime for candy and an Adirondack soda. I will always treasure memories of Alex and his quick wit! He always had an extra coin if I went over my limit! Your entire family will remain in my fond memories!
Deborah Pogorzelski-Stogner
October 16, 2008
Dear Vickie,
My sincere condolences to you and your entire family on the loss of your beloved father. His journey home was long, but I believe he is now in a much better place, together again with his loved ones. May you find peace, comfort and strength in the knowledge that your parents are once again united. Together they now watch over all of the Macinsky family members. God Bless You!
Tom Hurlbut
October 16, 2008
Steve,Mike & Vicki,
I remember as a young boy, growing up in Triangle, Alec & Ruth made all of us feel like family, and we always had a place to go when needed. I remember sitting at the kitchen table, playing cards and eating that great antipasta salad & a big loaf of bread. Your parents, Alec & Ruth will always be in my memory.
God Bless You,
Tom & Chris Hurlbut
Jerry and Marge Ballard & family
October 16, 2008
Vickie, Mike and Steve....from our family to yours.. our sympathy to all of you ... Alex will surely be missed by everyone...My children grew up in Triangle and at the Triangle General Store... We will be unable to attend the services for Alex but our thoughts are with all of you.
Jim(Sly) and Pat Peabody
October 16, 2008
Dear Vickie,We are so sorry to hear of your fathers passing.Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time.
Nick Taro
October 16, 2008
Steve, Mike and Vicki,
We are very sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of sorrow. Although we did not know him well, I always remember my dad having nothing but good things to say about Uncle Alex.
Nick (Jr.) and Theresa Taro
Steve Ballard
October 16, 2008
Steve, Mike and Vicki,
My condolances. The store, with Alex and Ruth, was the center of our universe growing up! I'm sure I can speak for MY Generation of Triangle kids, your in our thoughts and God Bless. Steve Ballard
Norm and Shirley Pixley
October 16, 2008
Vickie, Michael, and Steven and families:
Even tho we know he is in a far better place, we mourn the loss of Alex as a great friend and neighbor.
He will be greatly missed here in Triangle.
He was such a giving person. Always sharing his beautiful garden with the neighbors. And he had the most beautiful garden around.
We always greatly enjoyed the times we were able to spend with him.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
If you need anything give a call.
Soozie Messersmith
October 16, 2008
Dear Vicki, Mike, Steve and the entire Macinsky family,
Although I won't be able to attend the service due to work, please know that all of you are in my thoughts and prayers.
From the 3Ross staff, we extend our deepest condolences to all of you. It was a privilege to have met your Dad and to have him entrusted in our care. During the short time that he spent with us, it became clear what a wonderful and special man he was and he will be missed.
It was a pleasure to meet all of you and to learn that we have friends in common. It IS a small world, after all.
May your memories and strength that your parents gave you bring you peace.
Fondly,
Bill Drachler
October 15, 2008
I remember Alex as well as Ruth when I worked with my Father and Alex in the construction of the "Triangle General Store". I don't recall the year, but believe it was in the early '50s.
He was a great pillar of the Trianlge Community.
bucky young
October 15, 2008
condolances to the family
John Cheeseman
October 15, 2008
Steve, Mike, & Vicki,
I Would like to offer my deepest, heartfelt sympathy to you on the loss of your father.Although I have been away from the Triangle area for many years, I will always have fond memories of buying wallpaper at the Triangle General Store, and of the conversations I had with both of your folks. It was a privaledge to know the three of you, and your parents, and I will always cherish the memories. God bless all of you, and your families, and maybe someday I'll be lucky enough to pass your way.
Bruce & Ann Eggleston
October 15, 2008
So sorry to hear of your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Triangle Baptist Church
October 15, 2008
To the Macinsky family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Triangle has lost a dear friend who touched many lives. Heaven awaits him with open arms!
RON POTTER
October 15, 2008
STEVE, MIKE AND VICKI
I AM SO SORRY TO HEAR OF YOUR LOSS. I HAVE FOND MEMORIES OF YOUR DAD.. SEEING HIM IN ATTENDANCE AT ALL YOUR HIGH SCHOOL GAMES AND UP UNTIL A COUPLE OF YEARS AGO, HE JOINING MY MOTHER AND I AT MCDONALD'S FOR COFFEE. I DON'T HAVE TO TELL YOU HOW PROUD HE WAS OF ALL OF YOU AND WHAT A HARD WORKING FAMILY MAN HE WAS.
RON POTTER
HILLSBOROUGH, NJ
Chris Battaglini
October 15, 2008
Mike
Very sorry to read this news
Betty smith
October 15, 2008
To my cousins: Steve, Mike, and Vicki,
Thinking of you all and sharing your
loss. Uncle Alex knew how to throw
a BBQ!
Love,
Betty (Postupack) Smith
Anthony and Felicia
NIKKI & ROBERT ANDERSON
October 15, 2008
TO VICKI AND MICHAEL,
OUR THOUGHTS & PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU IN THIS DIFFICULT TIME. IT'S NEVER EASY TO SAY GOOD BYE TO A LOVED ONE, BUT THE MANY WONDERFUL MEMORIES REMAIN IN YOUR HEARTS FORVEVER. THE PRECIOUS MEMORIES GROW STRONGER WITH TIME AS THE PAIN OF YOUR LOSS FADES.
Chrissy Thorn
October 15, 2008
I remember as a little girl we would all come to the triangle store with our mom. She would buy wallpaper an clothes pins an things and we would be the ones up front wanting all the candy. Vickie you had wonderful parents and everyone loved them to pieces. We are sorry for your loss . Many memories of the ~TRIANGLE STORE~
Leslie White
October 15, 2008
I am so sorry to read of your dad's passing but to a better place. My thoughts and prayers are with you...Love Whitey
Connie Vandeburg (Pixley)
October 15, 2008
To My Cousins: Steven, Michael and Vicki: God bless all of you at this time. He truly is in a better place now. Love ,Connie Ann and family
My Dear Uncle Alex:
God has called you home to be with Aunt Ruth again and the rest of our blessed family. I will always cherish the memories of the Triangle General Store ..and oh those Christmas movies you took Vicki and I to every year as young ladies. Thank you for the memories. Hug Mom and Dad for me.....we will all met again one glorious day. Love your neice, Connie Ann
Bill Wilson
October 15, 2008
I have such great memories of your mom and your dad. I wish I could be there Saturday to help remember them both. In many ways they were like my mom and dad in my growing up years in Triangle. I could stop in any time night or day and Alex would have a pot of something brewing on the stove which everyone was welcome to help themselves to. I never could duplicate Alex "antipasta" salad or his corn beef and onion sandwiches. There won't be another Alex anytime soon. God Bless you all and thanks for sharing your wonderful family with all of us. Bill Wison
Dina & Keith Gurney
October 15, 2008
Steve, Mike and Vickie,
We both extend our deepest sympathies to you all while learning about the passing of your father. Growing up with all of you in Triangle, there are too many memories to mention regarding Alex and the Triangle General Store. Those memories remain in our hearts and are today, surfacing again as we fondly reflect on those times. We are traveling out of state this week-end and unfortunately won't be able to attend Alex's memorial. However, please know our thoughts, prayers and love go out to you all and your families. May God's blessing be with you all.
Bruce Freeman
October 15, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Bruce and Nikki Freeman
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