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Betty Dyer Obituary
of Maine, N.Y.
Betty J. Dyer, 82, the Matriarch of the Dyer family and spiritual mentor to all who knew her went Home to the loving arms of the Lord and to her husband, Ray, on Tuesday, October 21. Funeral services will be held at 10:00 a.m., Saturday, October 25, 2008, at the Union Center Christian Church, Boswell Hill Road, Endicott. The Rev. Dr. John Hawco, senior pastor, will officiate. Burial will be in the Nanticoke Valley Cemetery. The family will receive family and friends at the Coleman & Daniels Funeral Home, Inc., 300 E. Main St., Endicott, on Friday, October 24, 2008, from 1-3 and 7-9. In lieu of flowers, those wishing may make contributions to Union Center Christian Church; Glen Aubrey Baptist Church, PO Box 54, Glen Aubrey; Lourdes Hospice, 4102 Vestal Road, Vestal; and C.H.O.W., Broome County Council of Churches, 3 Otseningo St., Binghamton.
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Memories and Condolences
for Betty Dyer
Linda (Perry) Luce
November 18, 2008
Dear Gary & Deb I was saddened to hear of your Mom's passing. I loved and respected her. I will be forever indebted to her for her non-judgmental willingness to take Laurie and myself into her home. She was a very special lady.With sincere sympathy.
Beverly Hunt-Batik
November 14, 2008
Dear Dyer Family,
I was so sorry to hear of Betty's death. She was a great inspiration and a treasured friend to everyone. May God comfort each of you in your loss, and give you strength.
Bill Sands
November 1, 2008
Gary and Family:
So sorry to hear about mom. My thoughts are you you all.
Paula Smithka
October 30, 2008
Dear Gary, Debbie and the rest of the extended Dyer family:
Betty was an extraordinary woman who touched the lives of so many people through her kindness and her music. She was a good friend of my mother's (Jean Edson Smithka) in their younger days and she was a good friend to me in my teens, as well as a fine Sunday-school and Awana teacher. She was a patient and caring human being and the world is a much better place for having had a woman like Betty in it. She has left an indelible mark on many of us.
My heartfelt condolensces in your loss.
Jeffrey Adamek
October 27, 2008
Dear Gary, Debbie & Family -- I'm sorry for your loss -- Your Mom was a great person always ready with a kind word and just a wonderful outlook on life -- Helping family and friends-- just a fine person -- She always brought sunshine to a cloudy day -- My Condolence to you and your family Jeff Adamek
Kathy Taylor(Warner)
October 27, 2008
Dear Brent and Entire Dyer family ,
I was saddened to learn of Bettys passing . She was an outstanding woman ! God now has a special angel by his side ! My thoughts and prayers are with you all in your time of loss.
Kathy Taylor(Warner)
October 27, 2008
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008
Cathy Brister (Westerman)
October 25, 2008
Betty will be greatly missed by all who had the privilege of knowing her. My deepest sympathy to the entire family.
Bev (Thompson) Clark
October 25, 2008
Debbie and Gary,
May caring thoughts comfort you at this time of sorrow. I have fond memories of your Mom playing the piano at the old U.C. church.
Laura Hickey
October 25, 2008
I am sorry about your loss my thoughts and prayers are with you. She was a a geat person.
Sincerly,
Laura Hickey (Pipher)
Wanda Wasicki & Family
October 25, 2008
My Dad was an equiptment operator when I was young.He would do work for many businesses.He would tell me of the Dyer family,how wonderful they were.He spoke of them as if they were royality.In fact,as a young girl,I thought that Betty Dyer was a Queen.When I grew up,I had the pleasure of meeting Betty and her family.She was everything I expected and more.She was beautiful and intelligent,but more than that,she was warm and loving.
You could always count on Betty to have a kind word and a warm smile.She will be deeply missed by so many.
Duane & Dawn Tarbox
October 25, 2008
Gary,
Our sympathy for you and your family on the passing of your mother. Your parents were both wonderful people and your Mother will surely be missed.
Al Hess
October 25, 2008
Please accept my deepest sympathies.
Hope (Winkler) Frederickson
October 24, 2008
I was grealty sadden when I heard the news of Mrs.Dyer's passing.As well as others my memeries go back to a little girl and being in her Sunday class and Awanas.Mrs. Dyer will be greatly missed.God really got a outstanding women by his side.May God bless and be with the family at this time of need.
Kay (Croft) Potter
October 24, 2008
Deb, my deepest sympathy to you and your family in the loss of your mother. As I read her obituary online, it thrilled my heart that she served the Lord with her musical talents. Many years ago, I was a member of Glen Aubrey Baptist Church. I am glad we spent time together at the M-E Reunion this summer; it was good to see you. May you find comfort and strength in your memories of your mom.
Maureen (Mo) McGuire
October 24, 2008
Gary and family,
I am so sorry to hear about your Mom. She was truly one of the kindest people I have met in my lifetime.
Bill and Dawn Zimmer
October 24, 2008
Dear Gary and Family, Bill and I were so sorry to hear about the loss of your mom. She was a wonderful woman, and a friend to everyone. She will be sorely missed.
June and Rick Darlin
October 24, 2008
We have lost a special lady, but heaven has gained an angel. Betty lived what she believed. I feel privileged that I had the opportunity to meet her and get to know her. She was always very thoughtful and kind to me and many others. Betty will truly be missed by not only your dear family but all who have have come to know her. "To live is Christ and to die is gain." She may be gone but never will be forgotten. Since she is with our Heavenly Father, we can be happy for her, even in our sadness. Our sincere sympathy.
Gary and Leah Mix
October 23, 2008
We are truly sorry to hear about your loss, but as most know it is not the end for us who love the Lord, as Betty did. She was a good neighbor and we enjoyed our visits with her and Ray. I know they well be missed as they have left their marks in the lives of so many. May you find comfort as we pray God will bless you till you meet her again. Our prayers and thoughts are with you all.
Deb Stanton
October 23, 2008
We are so deeply saddened with heavy hearts when Gary phoned us of Betty's illness. She has been so dear to Helen and us during the last 9 months. Her weekly calls and cards lifted Helen's spirits and gave Mark and I great peace. She so enjoyed her walks with her special pets on the flat and so enjoyed sharing them with helen and us. She gave us great encouragement to trust in our Wonderful Savior for the answers to our needs and prayers. Though we are sad we know she's in the most blessed Home with her Lord. She will be sadly missed. Many prayers and we will come visit when we come in a few weeks. Helen,Debbie and Mark Stanton
Aaron & Padma Dyer
October 23, 2008
Gary, Debbie & family,
Strength, sincerity, honesty, non-judgmental and forgiving love. These are just a few words that I have had the privilege of experiencing from your Mom. From my earliest years your Mom, Aunt Betty and Dad, Uncle Ray showed me and many others unconditional love and laughter. They made me proud of being a Dyer. Thank you for sharing each of them with me and my family. Most especially thank you to Betty for "being" to Mark. Betty will bring a smile to my mind’s eye and I am certain many many others. Our love and prayers are with you.
Laurette (Perry) Zimmer
October 23, 2008
From my earliest memories of Betty when she took my mom and me into her home and her heart, I have loved and respected her. She was a beautiful person inside and out and will be greatly missed. God bless your family, and Thank you for sharing Betty with all of us.
Cheri Clapper-Stewart
October 23, 2008
Gary,
When my dad died I was devasted. Your mom sent me a sympathy card that said "God Never Makes A Mistake", those words have sustained me throughout the years and have given me peace that he went to be with his Lord and how lucky he was! Your mom was a great lady and I am so sorry for your loss, and I quote your mom's words to me to you!
Love,
Cheri
Rita Grow
October 23, 2008
Dear Gary&Debbie, I'm so sorry for the loss of your Mom, we will truly miss her at our church in Glen Aubrey, she could really make the piano sing. I just adored her, she was so polite to everyone.
Sandy & Garry Goeckel
October 23, 2008
Gary and Family
I was so sorry to here about your Mother, she always said we were
family and I always thought so too,
you have my sincere sympathy my
prayers and thoughts are with you.
Dave Tyler
October 23, 2008
Please accept my deepest sympathies.
Vicki (Vergason) Weber
October 23, 2008
Aunt Betty - you're quiet strength and faith is indescribable to me. The way you brought us all - and there is a lot of us! - together through good and bad times simply remains amazing. You are deeply loved and will be sorely missed. Say hello to Grandpa, Grandma, & Uncle Ray for me! Love You!
Leanne (Bailey) Forman
October 23, 2008
Betty will always hold a special place in my heart, and I know that I am not the only one who feels that way. A beautiful, Godly woman, she touched so many lives. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this difficult time of loss.
Denny & Joann Dyer
October 23, 2008
Gary and Debbie, Sorry to hear about your mother.
Cheryl Benner
October 23, 2008
Dear Gary and Family,
I am very sorry for the loss of your mother. Be comforted in the knowledge that you will be together again. That's our hope and the promise of God.
Cheryl (Guiles) Benner
Circleville, Ohio
Susan Welsh
October 23, 2008
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
Rosemary Perez
October 23, 2008
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived.
Jo Ann & Al Fargnoli
October 23, 2008
Gary & Family We are sorry for your loss. Betty was a great lady
Edie Chaplin
October 23, 2008
I know that words can not take away your sorrow nor express how sorry we are for your loss, but as mere mortals it is all we have at a time like this. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Randy Sterling
October 23, 2008
Aunt Betty you really kept us "all together" even in your final days-thank you for all the wonderful times at Christmas at your home-we'll miss ya!!
Tammy Browning (Hoover)
October 23, 2008
I owe a a debt of graditude to your mom, through her Christian love she taught me what it meant to be a Proverbs 31 woman. I was saved at UCC in 1974 as a result of Mrs. Dyer.
Since that time my husband I have been missionaries to Uganda, Africa
and pastored two churches in Colroado. Words cannot express my heartfelt thankfulness for Mrs. Dyer being a part of my life. I am the woman I am today in part from her godly influence. My thoughts and prayers are with her family.
bucky young
October 23, 2008
my condolences to the family
Rog and Shary Dyer
October 23, 2008
We are blessed to have been a part of Betty's life, she was indeed a beautiful and Godly lady. Her life touched many and is a loving example of what each of us should be!
We will miss Betty greatly however she is now with Our Heavenly Father and her dear husband Ray as well as others who have gone on before her!
Cheryl Ross
October 23, 2008
To the Dyer family:We will miss Betty at Glen Aubrey baptist church. She was a wonderful caring women and a role model to us. We will have many memories of Betty. We thank God for bring Betty into our lives. We look forward to seeing Betty in heaven. Our prayers are with you.
Brian,Cheryl,Ashley,Aubrey Ross
Tonya Hagerman
October 23, 2008
Michele and Brent, i am sorry to hear about your grandmother.
love, Tonya Hagerman
Sandy (Crockett) Mosso
October 23, 2008
Very sorry to hear about Betty as she was a truly beautiful woman.
Had many conversations with her and enjoyed every one. She will not be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to the family.
Ted Bates
October 23, 2008
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
Vanessa (Shultz) Reese
October 23, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time. My memories of Betty go back to when I was a little girl at church and would go up and sit with her on her bench while she played at the close of each morning service. Gary and Debbie you have wonderful memories that will sustain you for many years to come.
lawrence wallan
October 23, 2008
sorry for your moms passing.she will be missed.she was a great lady.
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