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Barbara Whitham Obituary

Barbara Jean Whitham
of Binghamton
The family of Barbara Jean Whitham will receive friends on Friday, October 31st, 2008, from 4-8 p.m. at the Wm. R. Chase & Son Funeral Home, 737 Chenango Street, Port Dickinson, N.Y. A Funeral Service will be held at 10:00 a.m. on Saturday, November 1st, 2008, with Debra Wilson officiating. A committal service will follow at Vestal Hills. A special thank you to Kevin and Roxie Acquisto, and Pastor Debra Wilson for your never-ending love and support. A thank you to all the members of the Hospice family and doctors that touched her life. A heartfelt thank you to all who cared, loved, and supported Barbara and her family. In lieu of flowers, kindly consider memorial contributions to the American Diabetes Association, 6390 Fly Rd., E. Syracuse, N.Y. 13057, or Lourdes Hospice. 4102 Old Vestal Rd., Vestal, N.Y. 13850; Comfort Ministries, 383 Nowlan Rd., Binghamton, N.Y. 13904.

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Published by Press & Sun-Bulletin on Oct. 31, 2008.

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Aubrey Weibel

November 4, 2008

Uncle Ralph & Family,
There are no words I can say to ease the heartache. The only thing I can say is that you are not alone. Aunt Barb was a wonderful person and although we weren't family all that long, she will always be remembered as my kind, loving Aunt. My most favorite memory is probably of the last time I saw her. I was visiting my Mom and Kevin and it was early in the morning and she came into the house and none of us got up. They thought it was me in the kitchen and I thought it was them. When Kevin finally went out she said, "Well it's about time you came out here...you guys gonna sleep all day?" We all felt horrible but those are the memories that will bring smiles to our faces the rest of our lives. I'm so glad she was a part of my life and my family. She will truly be missed by everyone who knew her.

Robert Lally

October 31, 2008

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Joe and Sue DiMascio

October 31, 2008

To all The Family-We send our deepest sympathy to everyone .
Barb was a kind and wonderful
friend of many years.We all Loved her dearly.
Sue and Joe Dimascio-Micco-Florida

Kathy Guinan (Arretta's Daughter)

October 31, 2008

Ralph,
I only knew of you and Barbara through my Mom, Arretta Rieder. You were so thoughtful to stop in at Arretta's service just short of three months ago. May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. My prayers are with you all as I know what you are and will be going through in the days ahead.

linda blossom

October 30, 2008

You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Ralph, Dennis, Rob, and the whole Whitham family; Barb was an awsome person and It was a pleasure to know her. Our deepest sympathies go out to you.

Linda Blossom & Family

HELEN WOODFORD

October 30, 2008

Ralph,Dennis & Robbie
I want to express my sympathy to you and the rest of your family's.Barb was a wonderful person and will be missed by all how knew and loved her,
Helen

October 30, 2008

Casey,

On behalf of the management and associates at Macy's; our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time.

Jodie Park

October 30, 2008

Dear Barb:
I'll always remember your "Special Mustard Pickles". I've never found any like yours. I'll always remember my mom telling me about you and her drinking tea and how you would get 3 cups of tea out of 1 bag. She never understood how you did that. I'm sorry I never got back to Binghamton to see you, but I'm so glad we stayed in touch. I know you're up there right now having a cup of tea with my mom catching up on old times just like you used . I love you so much.

Jodie

Bob, Rhonda, & Rissa Inselman

October 29, 2008

Our heartfelt sorrow is sent to your family and friends. Your wonderful memories will comfort you and knowing your loved one is at peace with our Lord. God Bless....

Barb Krna

October 29, 2008

Robbie:

I'm so sorry to hear about your mom. My parents would always tell me when they ran into your mom in the stores and would talk about you and your boys! Somehow it doesn't seem that long ago we were hanging out at the Nimmonsburg fire station chicken bbq and bake sales!!

Take care and we'll keep your mom in our thoughts and prayers.

Barb & family

Melody Simmons

October 29, 2008

I was not as fortunate as others to meet Barbara, but I have heard many wonderful stories about this tremendous wife, mother, grandmother, and woman. I know you will miss her. My heart is with you - I love you all. Mel

Karen and Greg Matson

October 29, 2008

Barbie touched ourlives in such wonderful ways. We will miss her dearly, but are so greatful to have been part of her life. Our deepest condolences.

Love, Karen, Greg and Family

Kevin & Roxie Acquisto

October 29, 2008

Aunt Barb....what can we say that we haven't already said. What a woman! You will be missed by so many, as you have touched everyone heart that you ever met. We all have our own special thoughts that will remain with us forever. You certainly made this world a better place for so many people by showing your love and concern. Now you will also make "Heaven" a better place and add your "own" touch. Say hello to all that have passed before you. Thank you for being in our lives.
Love you!
Kevin & Roxie

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