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Mark Dervay Obituary
Mark E. Dervay
of Binghamton
Mark E. Dervay, 47, passed away at home and went into the arms of the Lord on Friday afternoon, November 16, 2007. He was predeceased by his father, Michael Dervay in 1983. Mark is survived by his loving mother and angel, Anne G. Dervay; his supportive brothers, Michael and Daniel; his sister-in-law, Renée; and many aunts, uncles and cousins. Mark blessed many with his friendship, but the special friendship and love given to him by Leo Haruk, Mary Anne Harder, Octavia Stanton, Dorothy Storton, Tony Williams, Dr. Modrak and her staff, Father Stephen Dutko and Father James Dutko, meant so much to his life. Mark was able through his medical problems to show tremendous strength possessed by few, faith unequaled, and by example he proved that one should never complain, but to live and love life. He cared and worried only of others and hoped that a cure for juvenile diabetes would soon be found. His lessons of living life will forever inspire each and every person lucky enough to have known him. He may have left us, but his example of courage, strength and faith will live on forever. The family would like to thank the many people who helped in his care, the staff of Southern Tier Medivan, those at the Dialysis Unit and Our Lady of Lourdes Hospice Unit.
A Divine Liturgy will be celebrated by the Very Rev. Protopresbyter James Dutko on Tuesday at 9:30 a.m. at St. Michael's Greek Catholic Church, 292 Clinton Street, Binghamton. Burial will be in St. Michael's Cemetery. Memorial contributions may be made in Mark's memory to St. Michael's Greek Catholic Church or to the charity of one's choice.
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Memories and Condolences
for Mark Dervay
Connie (Skapik) Whitney
December 12, 2007
I was very saddened to hear of Mark's passing. I grew up in the First Ward and went through school with Mark. He was always a very nice person. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.
Jim Feeko
December 1, 2007
Dan Dervay and Family-
Mark is an inspiration to us all. He is in our thoughts and prayers as are you all.
With deepest sympathy,
shannon dervay
November 27, 2007
Sending much love and support to everyone who was touched by Mark's presence. May you find peace of mind in knowing he is in a much safer place now.
Much love,
Shannon Dervay
PAUL VOROBEL
November 27, 2007
DEAR DANNY,
OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHIES TO YOU & YOUR FAMILY.WE WERE VERY SORRY TO HEAR THE LOSS OF YOUR BROTHER!MARK WAS A GREAT GUY,AND WIL BE SORELY MISSED.OUR HEARTS ARE WITH YOU ALL!
Charlene Lynch
November 25, 2007
To the Dervay Family. I am sorry to hear of Marks passing. As growing up in the First Ward and having the pleasure of knowing Mark, he was a kind and gentleman. He will be sadly missed by those who he has touched. Mark, may you be free of pain and rest in peace.
Ed Keatings
November 23, 2007
I was deeply saddened to learn of Mark's passing. We were best friends in high school. Looking back, he had a deep love for all of you. He was so proud of his brothers. I remember him saying, Danny tried out for the Mets, or Mikey bowled another 700 last night. He was always about others and showed an unselfishness that I will never forget. God bless you all in this very sad time.
patti and dan fischer
November 20, 2007
Renee and Danny, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Mark is in God's arms. love,Patti and Dan
Mark Sampson
November 20, 2007
To the Dervay family, Your family and Danny and Mike are very special people to me and who helped me in a rough time in my life.I still remember Marks smile and some of the outragous things we used to do. My prayers and thoughts are with you.
Christopher Harendza
November 19, 2007
To Mrs. Dervay, Danny and Mike,
I have many fond memories of Mark when we were kids. From hanging out in the attic, to the photography, St. Mikes and to the rides he gave me to school. He was a gem. I am saddened and sorry for your loss.
George Sedor
November 19, 2007
Mrs. Dervay, Mike, Dan and Renee
I can understand your pain at this time. Mark was an inspiration to me and everyone who had the opportunity to meet him. I was fortunate to spend time with him over the past few months. I will surely miss my weekly call to discuss football and listen to Mark's analysis. All will work out and he is looking down upon us with a smile. I've never met an individual who could tolorate the things Mark had to go thourgh and many times I wondered how he did it. At peace now and forever.
God bless you all.
Linda Corey
November 19, 2007
My heart goes out to the Dervay family, having grew up in the First ward I did have the pleasure of knowing mark. I remember him as always being happy and nothing bringing him down. Rest in Peace Mark.
Pat VanMarter
November 19, 2007
Our deepest sympathies go out to the entire Dervay family..Mark had so much courage & faith..he fought a good battle..& is now at peace.
Respectfully.
Pat & Ray VanMarter
Jean Moore
November 19, 2007
Dear Danny,
So sorry to hear of your brother's passing. His pain and suffering is over and he's now in a wonderful place.
Jimmy Mauro
November 19, 2007
To the entire Dervay family. I am so sorry to hear of Mark's passing. Mark was always an inspiration to me as we grew up in the first ward playing sports together, especially hockey. Mark was a great goalie. But more importantly, a great friend. Despite Mark's life long health issues, he was always a gentleman and a very kind person. May Mark rest in peace.
Chris Layton
November 19, 2007
To the Dervay family my deepest sympathy. Mark was a good friend and had a heart of gold. His strength and determination were unparalleled. He will be greatly missed.
tom brady
November 19, 2007
Your family is in my thoughts during this difficult time.
Tom Brady
DONNA (FEEKO) PAGE
November 19, 2007
TO THE ENTIRE DERVAY FAMILY:
I WAS SORRY TO HEAR OF MARK'S PASSING. WE GREW UP TOGETHER AND HAD MUTUAL FRIENDS ALL THROGHOUT SCHOOL. HIS WIT & INTELLIGENCE, HIS LOVE OF MUSIC AND HIS SMILE ALWAYS LIFTED ME UP. THE LAST TIME I SAW HIM WAS IN JANUARY 1994 AT THE BC AIRPORT, HE HAD JUST HAD AN ACCIDENT AND ROLLED HIS CAR, HE WAS ON HIS WAY TO BOSTON TO BE ASSESSED FOR HIS KIDNEY TRANSPLANT AND I SAID TO HIM I'M SURPRISED YOU ARE STILL GOING, THE WEATHER WAS SEVERE, WITH WIND CHILLS AROUND -40. HE WAS UPBEAT, ENTHUSIASTIC AND SO COURAGEOUS. THAT WILL BE HOW I REMEMBER MARK MOST. MAY YOUR MEMORIES OF A FIESTY, SPIRITED, SPIRITUAL, WELL ROUNDED MAN FOREVER REMAIN WITH YOU AND COMFORT YOU, FOR HE TRULY WAS AN INSPIRATION TO SO MANY, INCLUDING ME. MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALL AT THIS TIME.
Coni Goodspeed
November 19, 2007
I did not know Mark, but I do know of the countless unselfish hours his brother Mike spent for/with Mark. My thoughts and prayers are with you Mike and your family.
November 19, 2007
Danny & Renee,
We are so very sorry to learn of Mark's passing. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Mike & Bonnie
Joe Adornato
November 19, 2007
Mike, I was sorry to hear about your brother. You're in my thoughts and prayers.
Dolly Fox
November 18, 2007
Danny and Renee: We are so sorry to hear of Mark's passing. Our sincere condolences to you and your family.
john dervay
November 18, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with my counsins and Aunt Anne.
Campbell Family
November 18, 2007
Our sympathy and prayers are with all of you. Mark was an inspiration here on earth and a wonderful person to know. He is certainly leading te Angels in Heaven with his Dad
BRENDA MACNORTON
November 18, 2007
sorry to hear about mark we grow up together on the west side of binghamton he was a good freind he will be missed
JOHN & MARY PARKS
November 18, 2007
Mike, We are so sorry to hear of your loss. our sincerest sympathy
robbin lee
November 18, 2007
my heart is with mark and his family. mark, and dan,inspired myselfe, and my daughter to have a kidney transplant, and for that i thank you both very much.
Ron Brown
November 18, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Tony Williams
November 18, 2007
To The Dervay Family,My deepest respect and sympathy,growing up and through friendship I beleived that I knew everything about Mark.During his illness and the many visits we shared together, Mark taught me much more and how to live.His faith,courage, strength,insight and humor inspired me to do better and make positive changes in my life. I learned that my recovery was just as important to Mark as it is to me.Mark always carried the message of hope and to never give up.He never complained even though the pain was great and always thought of others first.The last few years I believed that I was comforting him, when in reality he was comforting me.He will always be in my heart. He is not suffering anymore and his body is whole once again.
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