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David Votolato Obituary
He was born in Providence a son of Stephen and Patricia (Kennerly) Votolato. David was a Maintenance Engineer at Ragtime and was a US Marines Veteran.
He was the loving father of Dylan Votolato and step father of Brianna Lake, and was the brother of Stephanie Votolato of Smithfield. David was also survived by his Nana and Papa Votolato.
Relatives and friends are invited to attend a Mass of Christian Burial on Monday at 11 a.m. in St. Philip's Church, Putnam Pike Greenville followed by military honors. His burial will be private. Visiting hours will be held on Sunday 4-8 p.m. in the NARDOLILLO FUNERAL HOME, 1278 Park Avenue, Cranston. In lieu of flowers memorial contributions may be to: Dylan Votolato Scholarship Fund, c/o 23 Willow Road, Smithfield, RI 02828. Visit www.nardolillo.com for more information and online condolences.
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Memories and Condolences
for David Votolato
PAT VOTOLATO
July 6, 2025
DJ miss you more and more each day. Love you MOM &n Dad
Kelly M
July 8, 2009
We all miss you D! Keep watching over us.
Carl Woods
February 24, 2009
To the Votolato family: I'm deeply saddened to hear of djs passing... I was his roomate during his time in Hawaii... I wish I had found out sooner.... Again I'm terribly sorry, he was a great friend and confidant. Scincerely Carl Woods
January 1, 2009
Steve, Pat Stephanie & Dylan:
No words can be said to explain the empty feelings you may have. Christmas time must have tough but you all can keep his memory alive by reliving the fun things and remember his smiling face. You have Dylan to keep you going and in him you will see DJ in more ways than one. The pain will always be there but take it one day at a time and know that if it is true what is said you will meet again. Why these things happen cannot seem to be explained.
December 31, 2008
Just want you to know how much you are missed and thought of daily.
This has been a difficult Christmas not to see your smiling face on Christmas Morning.
Bill Milner
October 20, 2008
Dear Pat, Steve, Stephanie, and family,
I just learned about David and am so sorry for him, and also for your loss. I have fond memories of hanging out with David when we were young, playing in the William Windsor school yard, and our experiences through Boy Scouts. I hope Dylan will be able to grow up with lots of stories of his father, and that he and your family will be comforted by memories. My thoughts are with you, please take care.
Theresa Pender
September 25, 2008
David, the last memory I had of me and you together was in hawaii way before you met kelley. U are the best and I will MISS YOU SOOO Much.. the ring will now always hold a special place in my heart. love you soo much.
bethany maloney
August 13, 2008
Dear, pat, steve, steph, nana, papa, dylan and david
as our new saying there are no words. So that being said I rather write this entry in and tell you guys how much I appreicated dave. He was an absoulute wonderfull person and meant the world to me. He had such a great heart and was so thoughtfull. Dave believed so much in me and encouraged me to keep focus despite when things were rocky. We had so much fun together and I know you guys have thanked me for the happiness I brought to him well I want to thank you for him!! I will always love dave and he will always have a special place in my heart as all of you. I will always be here if you guys need me. Thank you so much for everything you have done for me and being there for me . I will always be gratefull for david and his family.
love you guys always
beth
Pat Votolato
August 13, 2008
Thank You all for your cards, flowers, fruit baskets and contributions to David (DJ)'s son Dylan's scholarship fund. When he is old enough he will see what wonderful people that we have as friends. David is out there. He will live on through others as his organs were donated and through his son Dylan.
David's Mom (Pat Votolato)
kathy verity
August 2, 2008
Dear Pat and Steve,
I just heard about your son's death. I know the pain of losing a child. I have moved to Florida, but will call you in a week or so. Pat, I do not even know how to express my sympathy. I love you very much. My home phone number is 727-475-9305 and my cell phone is 727-424-6354. If there is anything I can do for you, please call me. Kathy Verity
Mary Ann Folgo
July 21, 2008
Dear Steve & Pat
I am so sorry for your loss and can't stop thinking of you. This is such a sad time but if you ever need me I am only a phone call away.
Dennis Grassini
July 18, 2008
Dear Pat, Steve, and Stephanie. Please know that our famiy's thoughts and prayers are with you all during this very difficult time.
Sincerely, Dennis, Karen, Stephanie, Jenna, and Amy Grassini
Joe DiLorenzo
July 16, 2008
Dear Steve and Pat: Just heard of the news regarding DJ. I have vivid memories of the days we lived in Smithfield up the street from your young family, and the many days on the soccer fields. My paryers are with your family at this time of sorrow. Sincerely, Joe DiLorenzo Sr., Joey Jr. and Brandon.
Alicia Irace
July 15, 2008
I'm so very sorry about you lose. He was a great person and always went after what he believed in. My prayers, I sent out to the family, and friends.
Toni Jo Atchison (Ost/LaCroix)
July 15, 2008
My prayers are with you in this difficult time. DJ spent alot of time in our home and was a part of our family and will always be remembered.
Jill Mandeville
July 15, 2008
Mr & Mrs V and Stephanie,
Hold tight to memories for comfort,
lean on your friends for strength,
and always remember how much you are cared about. Only time can heal, but DJ's love will be with you always.Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
The Mandeville Family
Frank Varrecchione
July 14, 2008
Dear Steve, Pat and Steph,
My deepest sympathies to you and your entire family. May you all cherrish the memories and moments with each day and may God Bless you all.
Penny Stanley
July 14, 2008
Dear Pat, Steve, Stephanie, family:
I have just heard of your loss and my entire family sends our deepest condolences. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time.
Sincerely, Penny Stanley and family
Linda Smith Ahlert
July 14, 2008
Dear Votolato family,
Words cannot express the sorrow we are feeling for you at this most difficult time. Pat - you are such a great Mom, not only to your own children, but you've always reached out to everyone else's kids too....mine included. David was blessed to have you as his Mom, and Steve as his Dad. Our hearts are breaking for all of you. Be strong in your faith -- God will get you through this tragedy. I will be praying for all of you. God bless you. Lovingly~Linda, Bryan, and Stephen Ahlert
Bonnie Burgess-Henry
July 14, 2008
Dear Pat, Steve & Stephanie,
My heart breaks for my very good friends. I simply cannot find the words to express my sorrow for you and for his children. Please know that I am thinking of all of you and praying that God eases your pain. With much love,
Bonnie
Melissa Szydlo
July 13, 2008
To DJ's family....I am so sorry for your loss, I will truly miss your son.
Theatre By The Sea
July 13, 2008
It was only a few short weeks ago that we welcomed David into our working family, sharing with us his ever-present smile and enthusiasm. Our deepest sympathy to David's family and all who loved him.
Susan and George Mirabile
July 13, 2008
Our deepest condolensces to the Votolato family. We are so sorry for your loss and you will be in our prayers. God Bless your family.
Matthew Mollo
July 13, 2008
From the The Mollo Family (Cousin Carol, Matthew, Christopher+Joseph), Our deepest sympathies go out to the Votolato family, DJ, will be greatly missed and in our prayers always, he was a great person and will be in our hearts forever, Love The Mollo Family
Carl Votolato
July 13, 2008
I'm very sorry to hear of your loss. I pray that God gives you strength at this difficult time.
Caitlin & Stephen (O'Reilly) Leboeuf
July 13, 2008
Mr. & Mrs V and Steph,
I am so sorry for your loss. Even from back in the days of all the soccer tournaments and you all basically being my second family, we all always had a great time. Live on the great memories that you all have. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this sad time.
Marissa White (DeConte)
July 13, 2008
Our deepest sympathys go out to the enitre Votolato family. DJ was a great friend to myself and well as a best friend to my sister. We both very proud of him joining the military and greatful to have such a kind heart serving us proud. He will always be in our hearts.
Laura Murphy
July 12, 2008
There don't ever seem to be words that help in a time like this but we are so sorry for your loss and thankfully you have been blessed with a piece of immortality with Dylan. DJ was a hysterical part of my highschool home ec memory and I am so sorry I did not get to say goodbye...he will be missed, always.
Laura Murphy & Family
Elizabeth Logsdon (Ball)
July 12, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with the Votolato family. I have nothing but good memories of him. He was such a good friend to me, I will miss him so much.
Jim and Maggie Busam
July 12, 2008
Our deepest condolences to your family. God Bless your family always,
Nick Ost
July 12, 2008
My thoughts and prayers go out to DJ's family and friends. We use to spend a lot of time together playing soccer, football and even boxing. I will never forget those days. I know that you made many people proud the day you became a Marine. You did things in your life that some people could only dream of doing.
DJ, you will be missed but you will never be forgotten. You will always be a great friend, son, brother, and dad.
Semper Fi
Justin Carpinelli
July 12, 2008
my thoughts and prayers go out to David's family and friends. I am so sorry for your loss. David will hold a special place in my memories forever.
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