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Shelly Gardner Obituary

GARDNER, SHELLY M., 34, of Flat River Rd. died Saturday at home. She was the wife of Ronald Gardner.

Born in Fulda, Germany she was the daughter of Robert W. and Maria (Hettler) Pray of Pawtucket. She lived in Coventry for the past seven years.

Besides her husband and parents she leaves four daughters, Andrea Mota of Woonsocket, Kayle, Skyler and Aliandrea Gardner, all of Coventry, two sons Brandan Mota of Woonsocket and Corey Gardner of Coventry, one brother Scott Pray of Pawtucket.

Her funeral will be held on Friday at 10 a.m. in BELLOWS-FALSO FUNERAL CHAPEL, 160 River Rd., Lincoln. Burial will be in Highland Memorial Park, Johnston. Relatives and friends are invited and may call THURSDAY 4-7 p.m. In lieu of flowers, contributions in her memory to the Shelly Gardner Children's Fund, c/o Mr. and Mrs. Robert Pray, 125 Columbia Ave., Pawtucket, RI 02860, would be appreciated. For directions and guest book please visit www.bellowsfh.com

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Published by The Providence Journal on Jul. 23, 2008.

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jorge lopes

July 26, 2008

Mr,Mrs pray and Scott my deepiest sympathy goes out to the family on your lost. JORGE LOPES and family

Emily Mathurin

July 26, 2008

Dear Bobby, Maria, Scott and Martha,
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your daughter Shelly. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. May God wrap his arms around you and comfort you.

July 25, 2008

Dear Pray's and Family:
So many prayers go out to you in this difficult time. Deepest sympathy. Let me know if you need any assistance, when settled.
Ron Sanda, DCYF

Donna Gagnon

July 25, 2008

Dear Bob and Maria
This unexpected loss of your first born daughter is such devastating news. My deepest sympathies expressed to you.
Your Cousin in Florida
Donna

terry almeida

July 24, 2008

my good friend shelly, I can't beleive your gone, me and my kids will miss you horirbly, your babies will always know you loved them,I will make sure of that, they will be in my prayers everyday,I love you forever Terry

Jenn & Bobby Tonucci

July 24, 2008

Mr. & Mrs. Pray,
We just found out about Shelly. I am so sad to hear this our thoughts & prays are with your whole family. I have not seen Shelly in many years we were very good friends and we just lost contact with each other over the years! She was always a great friend to me and I have wonderful memories of her! My thoughts are with all her children!

Donna Tschuta

July 24, 2008

God keep you and the children in His comfort at this most sorrowful time.

Donna Tschuta
Corey Tschuta

Michele

July 24, 2008

To Shellys' family, I am so very sorry for your loss. You don't know me, as a matter of fact I didn't know Shelly. But I saw this obituary and felt compelled to write. I am 38, and married with 3 young children, and I nearly died the same exact way not to long ago, and knowing that could have been me makes me feel so much for all of you. Please take care of the those poor children, for a mother can never be replaced. God Bless.

Pat & Charlene Childers

July 24, 2008

Bobby & Maria
We are both so sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you. May God be with you both and your son to help you through this difficult time.

Bob and Jackie LaSalle

July 24, 2008

To all of Shelly's Family, Bob and I are so sorry to hear about the passing of Shelly. I haven't seen many of you in a long time, but, have very fond memories of hanging out with you and having a good time. May time heal all your wounds.

Karin Smith (Lyman)

July 24, 2008

Bob and Maria,
Shocked to read this horrible email from Neal and Diana sorry for the loss of your daughter (we were all stationed together in Germany) many a cookout and and fun time were at your home all having a good time who ever thought that this would very happen. None of us. Sorry for the children's loss of a mother and also a father. You all have my deepst sympathy.

carl farland

July 23, 2008

i am so sorry for your loss.my deepest sympathy.

Neal and Diana Lyman

July 23, 2008

Shelley, we knew you since you were a little girl in Germany. Be at rest. We love you.
Bob, Maria and Scott, our thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult time. If you need us, we are here. We love you!

Judy Galarza

July 23, 2008

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

Andrea Mota

July 23, 2008

mom, i love and miss you so much i really cant believe this has happened and i just talked to you on friday!! i really do miss you alot!!! I will be at your wake and funeral!! i miss you so much! Thank you everyone for your prayers and thoughts!

rose burke

July 23, 2008

shelly,i cannot belive you are gone i just saw you thursday you were so upbeat an happy you an your children mean the world to your kisses an hugs on that day i will hold in my heart forever i will miss you terrible i will always hear your voice love you ma ,love you ma.

uncle albert and aunt leona stanford

July 23, 2008

Bob and Maria, We are so shocked and sorry for your loss. Our hearts go out to you. We send our deepest sympathy.

J. Marsella

July 23, 2008

Shelly- I will always remember you as a young girl I got to share summers with, with a smile & giggle that always brightened up a room.Your family & children are in my thoughts and prayers, and I hope you are at peace and not in any more pain-

carolyn briganti

July 23, 2008

my dear shelly you truly will be missed, you was a joy to know, i'm honored to have known you. i'm sorry for what ever you had to go through but you are at peace now, rest my little angel know that you were loved and will be truely missed.
my prayer now is for the lord to watch over your children, and may he let your children know that you loved them. All my love my dear friend. love carolyn

JUDY& TOM MANCHESTER

July 23, 2008

I'M SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOST.I LOVED HER VERY MUCh,SHE WAS LIKE MY DAUGHTER.I'LL MISS HER DEEPLY.MY PRAYS ARE WITH THE CHILDREN.HER MEMORY IS ALWAYS WITH ME.SHE WAS A VERY GOOD MOTHER,ALWAYS.your at peace now sweety.LOVE ,

Uncle Charles & Aunt Doris Stanford & family

July 23, 2008

Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

Kristen Mota-Rodrigues

July 23, 2008

Our deepest & heartfelt sympathy to Shelly's family & friends. You are all in our prayers & hearts forever.

With Love,
Kristen, Jason, Celia, Isabellle & Madelyn

The Staff of Bellows-Falso Funeral Home

July 23, 2008

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