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Pasquale Carpinelli Obituary

CARPINELLI, PASQUALE A. 'PAT', 83, of Cranston formerly of Hollis Street, Providence passed away Thursday July 31, 2008 at the Philip Hulitar Hospice Center. He was the devoted husband of the late Catherine P. (Friary) Carpinelli, whom he had been married to for 37 years.

Born in Providence, he was the son of the late Nicola M. and Immacolata M. (Russillo) Carpinelli. He had lived in Providence for 81 years at the residence he was born and raised, before moving to Cranston two years ago.

Mr. Carpinelli was in home building and carpentry with his brother in law and his brother for many years before becoming employed by Brown University as a master carpenter and antique restoration specialist. He retired in 1990.

Mr. Carpinelli was a veteran of World War II where he served as a Sergeant in the Army Air Forces. He was a chemical warfare specialist and Fire Chief.

He was a lifetime member of the American Philatelic Society and the Rhode Island Philatelic Society. Pat was a lifelong Yankee fan and enjoyed watching and following the team. He was a communicant of St. Mark's Church Cranston and a former communicant of St. Charles Borromeo Parish in Providence.

He leaves three daughters, Marie V. Carpinelli and Meg A. Carpinelli both of Cranston with whom he resided, Catherine P. Carpinelli of Providence and a son Marc A. Carpinelli of Providence. He also leaves a sister Mary G. Carpinelli of Cranston. He was the brother of the late Frank, John and Alice Carpinelli, Rose Cappelletti and Mary Bouchard. He is also survived by many loving family and friends.

His funeral will be held on Monday at 8:45 a.m. from 'WOODLAWN' Funeral Home, 600 Pontiac Ave., Cranston, followed by a Mass of Christian Burial at 10 a.m. in St. Mark's Church, Cranston. Burial with military honors will be in St. Ann's Cemetery. CALLING HOURS SUNDAY 4-8 p.m. In lieu of flowers memorial contributions may be made in his memory to the Hope Alzheimer's Center, 25 Brayton Ave., Cranston, R.I. 02920 or the Philip Hulitar Hospice Center, 50 Maude St., Providence, R.I. 02908. WoodlawnGattone.com

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Published by The Providence Journal on Aug. 2, 2008.

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Shirley Alleva

August 12, 2008

Marie & family
Words cannot express how much I am sorry for the loss of your father. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

A friend

August 8, 2008

The lake awaits you,newlyweds
All the dazzling sunshine
Of bright early morning
Making you smile,because you know
This day
This life
Is about to begin
With the One you love
And you will never be parted again

Deb Marquis

August 7, 2008

Marie,
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences and prayers are with you as you grieve.

Janine Jackson

August 5, 2008

Meg & Marie
I was so sorry to hear of the loss of your dad.Over the many years that we worked together I grew to know how much he meant to both of you.
Remember to take care of each other when the times get rough.

Earl Tasca

August 5, 2008

To the Carpinelli Family
I have lost a dear friend of many many years. Pat was a very good friend to me. I just want to say that you done a great job honoring him and we were glad to be part of it. Please remember that we are here if you ever need us.

Mary and Earl Tasca

Mark Smith

August 5, 2008

Meg,

I just wanted to again express my deepest sympathies to you and your family for your loss. Your Dad must have been quite a remarkable man, judging by the wonderful family that he had.

Gary Kuhn

August 4, 2008

Marie,

I again wanted to say how truly sorry I am for your loss and offer my sincerest condolonces to you and your family. You've always been so positive and remained so strong despite all that you've had going on, it's truly admirable.

Maria Bumpus

August 3, 2008

When I think of my uncle Pasquale it always makes me smile. His brilliant and witty personality made him a standout at any occasion. His love and dedication to his family is what I will remember him for.

Dave (Woody) McGowan

August 3, 2008

What can one say about Pasquale Carpinelli? Well, for starters he always had his best smile on whenever I saw him. But his smile was only a preview for his laughter. I remember the times that I would see him when visiting Meg & Marie or going with the girls to Hollis Street, he would always be armed with a joke or a funny of some sort.

I can remember back to one of the very first times I had met Pat (10+ yrs ago). I had been spending time with Meg and Marie and we stopped by Hollis Street for a visit. They introduced me to Pat who was very gracious and kind. I remember that he was talking to Marie and he inadvertently called her “Meg”. She said, “No Dad, wrong daughter. I’m Marie.” He looked over to me and said “I don’t understand it. What’s the difference?, they both look alike. Can you tell one from the other? If you can, then maybe you can give me some pointers!” That was the day that I had pegged Pat for quite the comedian!

Pat was also always good for a “back in the day” story or two. Whether it was about his time spent in World War II, his days as a boy growing up in the house that he was born in and had still resided, his days as a carpenter or about his family, he LOVED to tell the stories. And he told each and every one of them with passion. Of course, I think that every story no matter what the subject, had humor infused one way or another.

Another passion I can remember he had was his antiques, trinkets and unique treasures.
I can also remember that when I would see him (whether it be at his home in Providence or in Cranston), he would always get up from the room and would disappear for several minutes. When we all began wondering where he went, he would return to the room wearing his Pasquale smile (of course) because he was excited and proud to share with you a part of him. He would bring one of his beloved items out and share the story about the origin of the item and how he came to own it. It was like the “Pasquale Antiques Roadshow” right in his living room!

Mary, be at peace with knowing that your little brother Pat has passed knowing that you loved and adored him.

Meg and Marie, you were his angels in his hours of need. You comforted him when he pained and made him laugh when he was down. You provided him with the love & affection that he enjoyed and you made his life all that more fulfilling. And the most important thing that gave him aside from your love and admiration…was ice cream.
And what can I say to a man who loved ice cream more than me? Thank you is all that I can think of. I thank you Pasquale Carpinelli for gracing my life with your presence.

Mary Carpinelli

August 3, 2008

I love you little brother.

Leona Grace

August 3, 2008

Dear Meg and Marie,

I've had the honor and pleasure of knowing and caring for dad and feeling like part of your family. Yes he had his practical jokes, like walking with his sympathy cane (which never touched the ground). Then there was the time he was looking out the door and told me he had good news and bad news about my car, the good news was that the car was still in the driveway, the bad news was that it was up on blocks (with that little boy impish grin on his face). I miss him dearly and will always always have a smile on my face when I remember him, for he will forever be a part of my life. I thank you for allowing me to become a part of your family and caring for such a special person.

Bill Brady

August 2, 2008

I only met Mr. Carpinelli once. I know him mostly through Meg, who spoke of him with such affection. As she and Marie cared for him through his illness, I'd hear stories about his sense of humor and his love for his family that I recognize in his children. God bless the whole family, may your memories of your Dad be a lasting blessing.

Anthony Amore

August 2, 2008

Marie, Meg, and Family: My most sincere condolences for your loss. My thoughts are with you, Anthony Amore

Marie Carpinelli

August 2, 2008

Ahhh... to spend Mom's birthday with her my dear Daddy....I'm almost a little jealous. But I'm sure it was the BEST birthday present she ever had...well??? Now you two can FINALLY be alone without your little indians running around!!!!

Your bravery and inspiration over the past ten years has left and an imprint on the hearts of EVERY person you encountered. The last two years with you living here were both Heaven and Hell on us... and I wouldn't have traded it for anything in the world. You helped to make us more tolerant, patient, loving, caring and nurturing; you continued to teach us and Bless us, even while you were sick, and even when you didn't know it.

You may have forgotten a great deal, but please know, we will NEVER forget.

Thank you for making me like you; humorous and a smarty pants!! Your love of laughter and life has filled my soul with passion and purpose and forever, when someone reminds me of how much I laugh and smile (or how loud I am) I will always say a "thank you" to you and Mom for that!

Go be with Mom now and please....SEND SOME HELP TO THE YANKEES!!!

I love you always, Daddy!
Your "Maroo"

Meg Carpinelli

August 2, 2008

"My Prince", "My Hansome Guy", "My Gummy Bear"...whatever the nickname of the day was, you were always "MY DAD". I know the past 18 months were so hard for you, but despite that, you always had a giggle or a smile for me and you blessed the lives of so many people. Your strength was an inspiration and your light and love touched so many. I am really going to miss our big band dance sessions, but I think that you have an old dance partner in mom with you now. I love you BIG BIG Dad! I miss you. God Bless you "My Hero". I love you to infinity and beyond.

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