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Kaitlyn Ferra Obituary
She loved being a student at North Smithfield Elementary School. She excelled in soccer, enjoyed swimming, participated in gymnastics since she was three and had been active in scouting.
Besides her parents, she leaves a brother, Cameron A. Ferra, paternal grandparents, Ralph F. and Muriel J. (St. Germain) Ferra of No. Smithfield, maternal grandparents, Theodore Soly of No. Smithfield and the late Teresa (Kulik) Soly, maternal great-grandmother, Helen Kulik of Cumberland, paternal great-grandmother, Mary Gaudet of Woonsocket, and several aunts, uncles and cousins.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Thursday, August 14, 2008 at 10AM in Our Lady Queen of Martyrs Church, 1409 Park Ave., Woonsocket. Burial will follow in St. John the Evangelist Cemetery, Church St., No. Smithfield. Calling hours are Wednesday from 5 - 8PM in the Holt Funeral Home, 510 So. Main St., Woonsocket. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Kaitlyn Ferra Memorial Fund, c/o Citizen's Bank. www.holtfuneralhome.com
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Memories and Condolences
for Kaitlyn Ferra
September 7, 2012
We started middle school, it's gonna be tough .Wish you were here. Malibu
Jennifer DelSesto
September 6, 2012
xoxo
lauryn ferschke
July 26, 2012
miss you kaitlynn
Marian Parkhurst
September 6, 2011
Hi Donna...think of you so often and offer a prayer for you and your family. Kaitlyn is always in my prayers...I beleive in Angels and for sure she is one! Love you forever!
Marian
June 6, 2011
Remember you fondly every single day, Kait. Miss you!
June 3, 2011
We'll never forget you sweet Kaitlyn. Keep inspiring us!
May 1, 2011
Missed you today kait, Malibu
April 29, 2011
It touches me so, when a child so young still misses a friend so much. I still ofen think of Kaitlyn and her family as if it was yesterday when she left us. Always know that you are in my thoughts as long as time may allow.
Michael Duffy, 10
April 19, 2011
Dear Kaitlyn,
This is your friend from the first grade Michael. Let you heart be in All of our prayers. I really hoped that you could have stayed but God had just called you home. All of us back in Rhode Island are just fine;) All of us have advanced from NSES to Halliwell. I have one more thing; Let your heart be in our prayers! Everyone misses you, I cried when I heard the accident
Jennifer DelSesto
October 12, 2010
Happy Birthday Kaitlyn! You are loved and always in my thoughts.
Kristin Ferra
August 10, 2010
Always in my heart Kaitlyn...love & miss you!!! xoxo
Jennifer DelSesto
August 10, 2010
Thinking of you xxoo
wendy demers
August 9, 2010
After leaving alittle something for you on your day Kaitlyn I saw a pretty blue and green butterfly that just made me smile on a sad day . You and your family are always in my heart and prayers .
August 9, 2010
I miss you Kait . I need my friend, I love you. Malibu
Melissa D'Amico
August 7, 2010
I saw a beautiful butterfly fly by me today and instantly taught of you! RIP little angel. We all miss you very much.
Melissa
Arianna Benjamin
August 7, 2010
today is 2 years and i still miss ya all the time....RIP my beautiful angel!
Jennifer DelSesto
March 10, 2010
Thinking of you today, Kaitlyn. Hugs and kisses...
Melissa D'Amico
October 12, 2009
Happy Birthday, Kaitlyn. We all miss you and think of you often. Melissa and family.
Uncle Jimmy
October 12, 2009
I can't drive more than 10 minutes in a car without my mind wandering to Kaitlyn. What stops my tears is thinking of July 5,2008, when all the kids kept riding their bikes thru that puddle in front of the beach house on thay cloudy day.Normally people tend to watch their own kids more than other kids, but that day I remember watching Kaitlyn over and over lifting her feet off the peddles and telling us to watch her.She was so happy that day, in her element with her brother, cousins and family , getting total joy out of being a kid.
That is how I remember her.
Happy Birthday Kaitlyn
Love Uncle Jimmy
malibu champagne
October 12, 2009
Happy Birthday Kait, I miss you alot today you are always in my heart. Malibu
July 28, 2009
i really miss kaitlyn she was like a sister to me now that lily is here i feel much better but i still love kaitlyn love mali
Tracey
June 29, 2009
Dear Ferra Family,
I was unaware of your loss until today when on facebook I saw the garden dedication to your daughter Kaitlyn. She is a beautiful little girl. I have two girls of my own 8 and 11 and camp often in NH. This story tugs at my heart. I may not have had her in my prayers until now but she will forever have a place in them now. I hope that you are all healthy, happy and living life. Kaitlyn will always remain in your hearts and memories but now you all have an angel watching over you. Thank you for sharing your beautiful daughter with the us.
A former NS mom
Bryan Horton
May 24, 2009
It's been quite some time. I was curious about people in my past who meant something to me. Donna and Tony are two childhood friends I wonder about often. While looking up Tony I came across this tragic occurrence. We weren't much older than Kaitlyn when we used to ride our bikes on Harrison St. Words cannot express how sorry i am for what has happened. When innocence dies the world becomes that much more darker for all of us. At least we know she is in a better place.
Take care....Bryan
Catherine Guertin
May 22, 2009
I always think of Kaitlyn but I was thinking of her even more this morning on Malibu's birthday as I was remembering her in the stroller with Paige waiting for Malibu to get off the plane from California holding a balloon and seeing her on so many Memorial Day weekends at the beach. We miss you Kaitlyn but we know you are still with us.
Love,
Catherine
May 21, 2009
Not a day goes by we don't feel her presence.
Love,
Donna, Wayne, Ferra, Bonte
emily anderson
January 31, 2009
dear Ferra family, I am so sorry for your loss of Kaitlyn. She will be missed. I feel so bad for all of you.
nicole materne
January 1, 2009
My heart breaks for all of you who were so close to kaitlyn. I feel actual pain when I think of what Donna, Brandon & cameron are going through. I try so hard not to think of it, and sometimes it is hard not to. Donna we miss you here so much, I only hope we see you soon and bring some sort of comfort to you when you do decide to come back.
Daddy
December 26, 2008
Our first Christmas without you, was very bittersweet. We missed you so much. It was so obvious when Cam opened his gifts without you. I would do anything to of had you there.. anything. My heart is broken forever. We will just have learn how to cope, until we see you again.
I do remember Christmas with you here. You had that beautiful smile of yours. You liked the gifts, but loved the holiday and the love we had together. You knew the holiday was not about toys, which is what made you so special. You are here with us, I know that. I just wish I could give you a hug. Our first Christmas without you was bittersweet indeed
Donna Ferra
December 26, 2008
Kaitlyn,
Christmas was not the same without you, we all missed you so much. It is not right to wake up on Christmas morning and for you not to be here to race Cameron to open his presents. My heart breaks everyday that you are not here. I love you so much and wish that I could see your smile and get another snuggle with you.
Love,
Mommy
Doug Poirier
December 23, 2008
We miss her desperately. We think of her every single day. And every night, too. She was loved and she is so dearly missed. It is still so hard to remember her and not cry.
And here it is now, nearly Christmas. So many people happy. Everyone shopping for gifts. For Christmas morning.
Kaitlyn will not miss Christmas morning. She not be just with you and Donna and Cameron, however. She will be with everyone whose lives she has touched. In ways both small and large.
I can't tell you not to be sad. I can't tell you don't cry. Because we will do both, too. But I can tell you that your special Kaitlyn will be with us, and we will stop Christmas morning and think, of Kaitlyn, something happy or something funny or very likely both. We might cry, but I promise you we will smile, too.
Be strong. Know Kaitlyn will never be forgotten.
With deepest love,
Your Brother Douglas
Brenda
December 7, 2008
Your daughter passed very shortly after my dad passed, they did not know each other but are buried in the same cemetary. I TRULY believe my father is watching over her and your family. He would not let her be alone
rebekah
November 30, 2008
i am in a family which has suffered similar losses also ,a mother that lost her brother and a husband that lost his sister at very young ages, i cant tell you it will get any easier ,through these next couple years because my mom and husband still has a void in there lives from the loved ones they have lost 20 some odd years later , all i can say is just remeber the good times you had with her and look forward to the most beautiful memorial park in town!! it is coming along very nicely and soon you can sit and reminisce the times you shared with her , from what i see this is the only way my family have gotten through there losses they keep pictures around and dont forget but cherish the time god did give them to share with these people they loved ...they always have the pictures present at thanksgiving and christmas so they feel theyre in a way still there with them:) anyway god bless you guys !!! and i hope you had a great thanksgiving im sure kaitlyn and her beautiful rays of sunshine are always looking down on you guys:)
god bless!!
Tony Soly
November 27, 2008
Hello princess, today is not the same nor is any other day. Having fun today and celebrating Thanksgiving is extremely difficult. The kids playing, arguing, and tatteling on each other just isnt the same without you here. I want you to know you are missed and thought of.
Deepest Love,
Uncle Tony
Rachel Duhamel
October 26, 2008
Brandon and Donna....The outpouring of love that has been and continues to be expressed for Kaitlyn tells me she was an awesome little girl. Brandon, your teacher in OLQM School remembers you fondly......My heart is with you and your family.... Rachel
Jillian Ethier
October 17, 2008
My name is Jillian Ethier , I am Grace Pelletiers older sister , I am The daughter of Renee Pelletier and my step father is Steve Pelletier , It has been 2 months now since your little girl has died and i still think about how bad you all still must feel , I cant even imagine what your family went through it really does make me sick to think about how it happend . I live right next to St. Johns Cemitary and i see her grave all the time when i go by , grace put her picture on her grave and grace says that she misses her so much. I pray for you and Kaytlen and i hope for the best . you should know that she will always be on your side even though you cant see her or feel her , she is there . May god be with you .
Malibu, Gansett ,Auntie Anne and Uncle Jimmy
October 13, 2008
Kaitlyn, Happy Birthday my sweet We missed you not being here for your day. We can't understand why we are going to go thru life without our Kait. It is so very painful for all to be without you, and your silly personality. We miss your smile and your hugs so much.
Malibu said everything is so hard to do now without you. She says cousin to cousin it's a special thing ,we are the same . That's the part of my life that was so special to me and now it will never be the same.
Kait you are so wonderful to think about but so hard to live without.
We were all together for your birthday but the family chain is forever broken now. We will keep all of our memories living forever. We love you so much
Susan Taratuta
October 12, 2008
Dear Ferra Family: As Kaitlyn's birthday closer, you're on my mind more than ever. At St. John's today we prayed for Kaitlyn. I hope it is some comfort for you to know how much Kaitlyn is loved and missed by so many people.
Brenda Leite
October 8, 2008
Hi Donna, I wanted you to know I think of you often as does everyone at work. I hope the days are becoming easier to cope. Take care and know that you are always in my thoughts.
Scott Anderson
October 7, 2008
Bran, I had not known about this until today. I can't imagine what you and Donna have been through. I'm at a total loss for words. Jacob and Chloe will be in touch. ...Scott
The Zajac Family
September 10, 2008
Dear Ferra Family,
Although we do not know each other, I did have the pleasure of meeting your sweet, little Kaitlyn. I just want you to know that I think of your family everyday and pray that peace finds you soon. You are in the towns hearts and prayers. Kaitlyn has reminded me how precious everyday we have together is. God Bless you and all of your family. You've touched our hearts.
Lisa Laferriere
September 10, 2008
I know this guest book is coming to an end and I wanted to let you know that there is not a day that goes by that I don't think of your family. Brandon, When I was little I use to spend time at the Paradis house and you were often there. We boarded horses there for a while. I have four children of my own in Town and can't ever imagine the pain that your family is going thru. The joy that Kaitlyn has brought to so many in her short time on earth is a blessing from God. She will always be looking over her family and friends and someday you will see her again. The entire Town is here for your family. You will be in my prayers always!
dawn-marie brown
September 9, 2008
Ted & Family,
Just wanted to let you know we are still thinking about all of you everyday & hope that everyday is getting a little better for each & everyone of you. Kaitlyn will always be in our thoughts & prayers.
Jessica Court
September 9, 2008
I just wanted to let you know that you are in my thoughts and prayers every day.
BECKY
September 3, 2008
I JUST WANTED TO LEAVE THIS COMMENT , I DONT KNOW IF ANY OTHER PARENTS NOTICED IN THE PICTURES WE TOOK THIS MORNING AT THE ELEMENTARY SCHOOL OF THE BEAUTIFUL SUNRAYS SHINING DOWN OVER NSES THAT YOU COULD ONLY NOTICE IN YOUR PICTURES , I THOUGHT IT WAS SO BEAUTIFUL , AND THOUGHT MAYBE KAITLYN IS WATCHING OVER HER SCHOOL AND OUR CHILDREN :) GOD BLESS KAITLYN
Raphael Krasa
September 2, 2008
Brandon, Donna and Cameron,
For weeks I have come to the guest book but could not find the right words to express my sorrow. I still cannot find those words but did not want anymore time to pass without letting you know that all of you are and have been in our thoughts and prayers.
Nicole L
August 29, 2008
I'm so sorry. I do not know your family, but when I saw your little girl's obituary, I just felt compelled to say something. I don't know how to express to you how sorry I am, a piece of my heart breaks every time I see her little smile in that picture, and I can't imagine how it must be for you. Reading about her, about how sensitive she was to people's emotions, about how she didn't want anyone to be lonely or to hurt..She is truly an angel, she always was. It's not fair that she was taken so soon, and I'm so sorry.
Karen England
August 28, 2008
Always thinking of you.Miss you and keeping you in my prayers and heart.God Bless You.
Brenna Webster
August 26, 2008
Still thinking of you everyday.
<3 Brandon
Dawn-Marie Brown
August 25, 2008
Ted,
Glad to see you are doing a little bit better , I am sure it was very hard for you to attend the event on Aug 23rd that took alot of courage , you & your family will always be in our thoughts & prayers. Kaitlyn will always be watching over all of you.
Take care & if their is anything you need please give us a call.
Mike Sullivan
August 24, 2008
Kaitlyn,
It chills me knowing I had stayed at the site of your passing many times without ever thinking such a thing could happen. I wish there was a way to bring you back and relieve your family of their pain. I will remember you always on my travels to NH and think of your family and hope all is well with them.
Kelly Yuszczak
August 24, 2008
Ferra Family,
I haved previously signed this guest book in memory of your young daughter. I just want you to know that Kaitlyn and your family are still in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless you and may your suffering ease day after day. I am sure Kaitlyn would want you to be happy and to live your lives to their fullest.
Melissa D'Amico
August 22, 2008
Brandon, Donna, and Cameron,
I have signed into this book daily reading it page by page each day seeing the new entries and hoping to find the words the would help you through this difficult time. I have found there are no words...just my prayers that everyday will get easier and the pain will be a little less. I think of you everyday with a heavy heart and tears in my eyes wishing there was something that I could do to help. In the past 2 weeks I have taught of you all often and wondered how you are. Kaitlyn was a beatufil little girl with a great smile that will stay with me forever. Lauren has told me she enjoy the day her and Kaitlyn played together at Jovana's party, Lauren said "Even thought they were just teasing the boys!" I know she is now a beautiful little angel all of your own. Know that she is in Heaven with our loved ones and she will wait for you. Your time with her was cut way to short but your memories are forever. If there is anything I can do for you, please let me know. You have the love and support of all your family and friends. We love you and our strenght is sent your way.
Melissa (Brown), Jerry, Lauren, and Jerry D'Amico
Auntie Carol-Ann & Uncle Howard
August 22, 2008
Donna, Brandon and Cameron - It is so hard to find the words that might bring any comfort to you right now. Uncle Howard and I hope that you will remember how much you are all loved and how much we care about you all. Our thoughts and prayers are there for you every day. Kaitlyn will look down on all of you every day and guide you to make all the right decisions. She was a very fortunate little girl to have had all of you in her life and, we are all so fortunate to have shared time with her during the short time that God allowed us to have her here with us. Love to you all.
Joe & Heather (Brown) Bizon
August 22, 2008
Brandon, Donna, & Cameron
I can't tell you how many times I have viewed this page and tried to find something to say, I can never come up with any words - still there are none. But today, I want to say that not a day has gone by in the past 2 weeks that I have not thought about you all and the pain you must still be feeling and I cry. I wonder how you are doing, if there is something I can do to help and I pray that you are all taking good take care of each other. Try to remain strong and if you can't some days, just know that it is ok to break down. You have so many people around you that care about you, continue to lean on them when you need to. Be brave and keep your memories of Kaitlyn vivid, they will carry you through the rough times. Please know that you are in our daily thoughts and prayers.
Kim Guertin
August 21, 2008
Donna & Brandon – I just want you both to know that you are constantly on my mind. It breaks my heart to see you both hurting this way. You should not have to go through this, it is just NOT fair. I wish there was something I could do for you. Only time will ease the pain and all the wonderful memories you have with Kate. It should help to know that everyone will remember Kate as a sweet, loving, wonderful little girl!! My prayers are with you and please let me know if there is anything you need. I love you both…
August 21, 2008
Dear Donna & Family - How deeply saddened I was to read of your dear daughter's passing. It's difficult to find the rights words to express our sympathy; however, remember that her spirit lives on and her presence surrounds you. I am sure you have already experienced that precious moment. Your dear Kaitlyn was chosen for a "most special mission," one which we cannot understand, but must grasp onto knowing that she is an "angel." Our prayers are with you and your dear Family at this very sensitive time.
Louis & Joann (Luszcz) LaFlamme
Randall Livingstone
August 20, 2008
Brandon and The Ferra Family-
I am so sorry to learn of your loss. You are all in my thoughts.
nancy
August 20, 2008
I just wanted to say i am so sorry about your daughter. I was in LiL and genes Saturday, and seen your family. I have read about the accident and when you put a face with the story. I just can't get it out of my mind. I am so sorry, I will keep you and your family in my prayers. It looks like you have a wonderful family. Let them help you. Good luck.
nancy , don and emily
Brandon, Donna & Cameron
August 20, 2008
We have sat here and read these heartfelt outreaches over and over again. The love and support that we have received from our family, friends, community, and even strangers has been nothing short of phenomenal. Stunning in fact. I want to thank each and every one of you from the bottom of our hearts. I would like everyone to know that it has helped us very much. It not only helps us now, but will help us years from now.
THANK YOU
MARIA F CARREIRO
August 20, 2008
HI DONNA YOU ARE IN MY PRAYERS EVERYDAY
nicole materne
August 20, 2008
I just wanted to say to donna and her family, you are the strongest and bravest people I know. I know you hug and kiss her every night and she hugs you back, never forget that. I too will pray for you!
August 19, 2008
Donna & Brandon,
Although the entries in this guest book are dwindling down, be assured
that Kaitlyn will never be forgotten. I still think or her every day
and will continue to do so. I'm sure I speak for many people in saying
that she is and will remain in our hearts. I continue to pray for your
family to have the strength to go on each day. I try to put myself in
your shoes and can't imagine how much hurt and pain you are
experiencing. I can let you know that someday it will get easier. The
pain lessens and some day you will remember all those precious moments
that you have shared without having so much pain and sadness attached
to it. The thing to remember is that you WILL be with Kaitlyn again
someday. Kaitlyn is home, where we'll all be someday. She just got
there first, which is every parents nightmare. As a parent, you never
want to out live your children. Seek comfort in knowing that she is
with your mom, and your mom is taking care of her until you meet again.
We have already visited Kaitlyn's grave a couple of times. We live
extremely close to St. John's Cemetary and have a relative of our own
who is buried there. We often go for walks to the cemetary. Kaitlyn
will be visited on a regular basis by us. My daughter and Kaitlyn were
in preschool together. Don't be surprised if you find little gifts and
pictures from her left by
Kaitlyn's grave. I hope this message gives you peace in knowing that I
and many others are still thinking of Kaitlyn and your family.
God Bless
Mommy
August 19, 2008
My sweet Kaitlyn,
I miss you terribly and our time together was cut so short. I will miss your snuggles on the couch at night, our Hannah mommy time and our girls day shopping trip. You are my bright and shining star and will be forever in my heart. I love you and miss you more than anyone can ever know.
Brenda Leite
August 19, 2008
Donna, I think of you each morning hoping you have a better day then the last and go to sleep wishing you peace and strength so you can carry on the next day.
As always you and your family are in my prayers.
Lisa Scalzo
August 19, 2008
There are really no words I can say, I have prayed for you and your family when I first heard. And I will continue to pray for you all to have strength. I ask God to carry you in your time of need. My deepest sympathy.
LA Ferland
August 19, 2008
As a Mother of a 2yr old son I cried when I heard of the tragedy that had happened to your family. Words cannot express the sorrow our family is feeling for your family. Kaitlyn is a beautiful little girl and I pray that God gives you the strength for another day. God bless and keep eachother close.
The Ferlands
LA Ferland
August 19, 2008
Ferra Family-
As a Mother of a 2yr old little boy, I cried when I read the tragedy that had happened to your family. I cannot put into words the sorrow we feel for all of you. Kaitlyn is a beautiful little girl and I pray everyday that God will give you the strength you need for another day. God bless and keep eachother close.
The Ferland Family
Kathy and Eric Noury
August 19, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Stephanie Hosterman-Naroian
August 18, 2008
To the family,
I do not know you, but do know Malibu May and her family, Anne Marie & Jimmy. My deepest sympathy at your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Warm regards,
Stephanie Hosterman-Naroian
J Schimp
August 17, 2008
Dear Ferra Family,
May the love of God bless you and carry you through your grief during this most difficult time. As believers in Jesus you will see her again in Heaven.
God Bless- J. Schimp
Bob Coski
August 16, 2008
BRANDON.
PLEASE ACCEPT MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY AT THIS MOST DIFFICULT TIME
A Mom
August 16, 2008
Although I don't know you, I would like to express like so many others, how saddend I was to hear about kaitlyn.
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008
Carol and Marc Vadenais
August 16, 2008
To the Ferra family and special cousin Malibu May,
We are so very sorry that your hearts hurt.
Please know that our hearts are sad too. Kaitlyn's spirit will still remain along side you always and forever.
May God help you all at this most difficult time. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
The Zajac family
August 16, 2008
Dear Ferra Family,
I met Kaitlyn a few times and always remarked on what a sweet and nurturing little girl she was. She was angel on earth and is now an angel in heaven. As your sorrow sets in, please be reminded she is ALWAYS with you. Our prayers and thoughts are with you. God bless!
The Grant Family
August 15, 2008
You all are in our thoughts and prayers. We are so sorry for your loss.
The Narciso Family
August 15, 2008
So sorry for your loss.
Angelique (Martin) Welsh
August 15, 2008
The Ferra Family: I am so very sorry for your loss. I knew and graduated From NSJSHS with your brother Ralph. I cannot even imagine the pain that your feeling, I have an 8 year old daughter and can't begin to express the sadness I feel for you. My Dad is buried in St. John's and while "visiting" him today my husband and I stopped by to pay our respects to Kaitlyn and said a prayer. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Trust in your family and friends and know that we are here if you need us.
August 15, 2008
DEAR FERRA FAMILY,
WORDS CANNOT EXPRESS FEELINGS. I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. KAITLYN IS NOW AN ANGEL WATCHING OVER YOU. SHE WILL BE FOREVER WITH ALL OF YOU.
STEPHANIE CECERI, GLOCESTER
JILLIAN AND ALLISON CECERI'S GRANDMOTHER
Carl & Judy Vito
August 15, 2008
Dear Ralph, Muriel & Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of sorrow.
Eloise Ricci
August 15, 2008
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Seana
August 15, 2008
As a mother my heart goes out to you. I am praying for dear Kaitlyn and her family. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Claudia Johnson
August 14, 2008
Donna, I cannot get you an your family off my mind. When we all heard the news last Friday at work, it was like we all lost someone. Most of us did know know Kaitlyn personally but ninety percent of us there are moms or dads and to just imagine what you and your family have been through saddened us all immensely. We are all thinking of you and your entire family everyday. Be there for each other and know that your co-workers are there for you also. Stay strong and take care. I am so, so very sorry.
Dillon Ang
August 14, 2008
Although I do not know you personally, I am very saddened to hear about what has happened. Kaitlyn must have truly been a ray of sunshine in this dark world where there can never be too many compassionate and caring people. I can not and never will forget the compassionate people who have come my way and helped me when I was hurting, and I'm sure, however young the people Kaitlyn shone her light on were, these people will never forget her too. May God give you peace and watch over you in this time of need.
Scott and Sarah Reilly and family
August 14, 2008
Dearest Ferra family,
No words can take away the pain but please find comfort in knowing you are all in our hearts and prayers.
Bethany Levin and Family
August 14, 2008
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Lynda Peixoto
August 14, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Deirdre Cerasa
August 14, 2008
To the Ferra Family
The thoughts and prayers of all of New England are with your family. May those heartfelt and caring thougts and prayers be with you in the most difficult days ahead. The love your precious Kaitlyn brought you will never leave you.
Deirdre Cerasa
Beth (Hoppe) Rondeau
August 14, 2008
Brandon and Family,
I am so sad for what has happen to you and your family. It breaks my heart and my prayers will be with all of you.
August 14, 2008
Dear Ferra Family,
We are a Charlestown family with children the same ages as yours. My heart sank when I heard about your loss...we are so sorry. Kaitlyn looks like a ray of sunshine who will forever shine down on you all with memories and reminders of her.
God Bless you!
Melissa K.
Diana Anderson & family
August 14, 2008
Our condolences to the family of Kaitlyn. Please know that we will keep you in our prayers as God welcomes his newest little angel.
Ellen, Steven, Jillian & Allison Ceceri
August 14, 2008
To our friend, Kaitlyn:
I have been praying for you and I believe that you are in Heaven. I will miss you. (Jillian ~ age 7)
Kaitlyn, I know you will become an angel and watch out for your family. (Allison ~ age 5)
Dear Brandon & Donna:
We are all expressing tears for our loss of Kaitlyn, but our memories of your delightful daughter will continue to bring us smiles. I must personally thank you for the privilege I had of being one of Kaitlyn's Girl Scout Leaders. In following the Girl Scout mission of building girls of courage, confidence, and character . . . Kaitlyn resembled it all. Brandon and Donna, please know that you were raising a well mannered, smart, and compassionate little girl full of sugar, spice, and everything nice. As our daughters experienced kindergarten together it was always a pleasure to be greeted by Kaitlyn upon entering the classroom. In all sincerity, her captivating smile and self-less generosity brought such warmth and welcoming. This will always be remembered.
Please accept our deepest condolences and may it bring you peace and comfort knowing that we share your sorrow.
In closing, I will share the following words, which have consoled our family through times of grief:
Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there; I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow,
I am the sun on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush,
I am the swift uplifting rush of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stad at my grave and cry,
I am not there; I did not die.
(mary elizabeth frye -1932)
Phil jarrie
August 14, 2008
We are so sorry for your family. our daughter goes to school with your son. There are no words to describe what your going through no family deserves such a thing to happen. we will keep your family in prayer.just know you have lots of support if you need it. I have lost a family member years ago and know it's hard all i can do is remember all the good times and know one day i will be with her again. God Bless.
Paula Thompson
August 14, 2008
Donna, Brandon and Cameron
My deepest sympathy to your entire family for your loss. Peace be with you all.
rebekah & philip & lizzy jarrie
August 14, 2008
I DONT know where to even start with this , just saw the article today in the paper , and i cant beleive this could happen , my family and i with our young daughter elizabeth were also camping in new hampshire through the nasty weather last week and also another family from north smithfield were there too, it could have been any of us that went up there ,with the torrential storms, my daughter lizzy recognized the picture and told me thats cameron ferras sister and i started reading the article and couldnt beleive it that it was really that small of a world that it was my daughters friends sister . all i can say is god bless the ferra family , and our prayers and sympathy are with you .. . i honestly am speechless and dont know what i could even say to make them feel any better , i would be devastated if i were in there shoes.......
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