Search by Name

Search by Name

Ellen Durfee Obituary

DURFEE, ELLEN (EBEL), 88, of Somerset passed away on Tuesday, August 12, 2008, at her home. She was the wife of the late Lloyd Durfee and a beloved mother of seven.

Ellen was born in Richmond, VA, on February 22, 1920, the daughter of the late Henry and Vera (Blunt) Ebel. Ellen graduated from Farmville State Teachers College in Virginia, with a bachelor of science degree in education. Mrs. Durfee devoted her life to raising her family. She worked for the Somerset School Department for several years, and was a very active member of the Congregational Christian Church in Somerset. Mrs. Durfee also was a member of the Old Colony Association. Among her many volunteer activities for her community, Ellen volunteered her time throughout the years at Charlton Memorial Hospital, with the American Red Cross at the annual blood drive in Somerset, and to the town of Somerset by helping out with voting and elections. She met every Thursday with a group of lady friends known as the 'Jolly Girls'. Mrs. Durfee enjoyed making quilts, was a lover of nature, and was an avid sailor together with her husband. Survivors are five daughters-Dale E. Durfee of England; Susan C. Bettencourt of Westport, MA; Heidi A. Pacheco of Swansea, MA; Janet L. Durfee-Hidalgo of Barrington, RI; and Nancy L. Durfee of Somerset, MA-two sons-David L. Durfee of Fairhaven, MA, and James H. Durfee of Buckfield, ME-ten grandchildren-Carey, David, Alex, Sage, Jacob, Sara, Elie, Cody, Rachel, and Kyle-three great grandchildren-Jack, Sage, and Tyler-many nieces and nephews, and her sister-in-law Virginia Hood and her husband Roger of Somerset, MA. She was the sister of the late Virginia Wood, Vera Elmore, and Ferdinand C. Ebel, and grandmother of the late Raymond and Scooter Max Pacheco. CALLING HOURS with VIDEO PHOTO ALBUM will be FRIDAY from 4-7pm in the HATHAWAY COMMUNITY HOME for FUNERALS, 900 Buffinton St., SOMERSET. Her Funeral Service will be held on Saturday at 10 am in the Congregational Christian Church of Somerset, 1411 County St., Somerset. Relatives and friends are invited to attend. Burial is private at the family's request. To LIGHT A CANDLE, SIGN GUEST BOOK, FACILITY & CHURCH DIRECTIONS, go to www.hathawayfunerals.com or call 508 672-3572. Memorial donations in her memory can be made to Congregational Christian Church of Somerset, 1411 County St., Somerset, MA 02726, or the Alzheimers Association, 311 Arsenal St., Watertown, MA 02472.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Providence Journal on Aug. 14, 2008.

Memories and Condolences
for Ellen Durfee

Not sure what to say?





0 Entries

Be the first to post a memory or condolences.

Make a Donation
in Ellen Durfee's name

Memorial Events
for Ellen Durfee

To offer your sympathy during this difficult time, you can now have memorial trees planted in a National Forest in memory of your loved one.

How to support Ellen's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Ellen Durfee's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more