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Ronald Oatley Obituary

OATLEY, RONALD E. SR., 70, of Pt. Judith Road, died Wednesday at the VA Medical Center, Providence.

Born in South Kingstown, he was the nephew of the late Senator George Westlake.

Mr. Oatley was a mechanic at Westlake's Garage for many years. He previously had been a call man for the Narragansett Fire Department, a Narragansett Police Reserve, a page for the Rhode Island Senate, and was a US Army Veteran.

Mr. Oatley enjoyed photography and was an excellent marksman. He will be remembered as a big and strong man who never complained and loved his children.

He is survived by two sons, Ronald E. Oatley, Jr. of Narragansett and Scott C. Oatley of North Kingstown, a daughter Kelli Oatley of North Kingstown, a sister Sandra Petrocelli of Coventry and a cousin, Helen Westlake DeMayo of Narragansett. He was the father of the late Karen Oaltey and brother of the late Bruce and Clifford Oatley.

Relatives and friends may attend a graveside service with military honors at 11 AM Saturday in New Fernwood Cemetery, Kingston. Visiting hours are at the AVERY-STORTI Funeral Home, 88 Columbia Street, Wakefield Friday 6-9 PM. Memorial donations may be made to the Jimmy Fund, 10 Brookline Place West, 6th Floor, Brookline, MA 02445-7295. For directions and guestbook, averystortifuneralhome.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Providence Journal on Oct. 9, 2008.

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Christian, Rhonda, Riley, Caleb, Camryn, Kiki Fauria

October 12, 2008

Scott and Kelli
We are so sorry for your loss. our thoughts and prayers go out to you both..

Mike and Sandy Tucker

October 11, 2008

Ronnie and Scott,
We are very sorry for your loss. Though we did not know your father well, it was very apparent how kind and gentle of a man he was. You were lucky to have a special Dad who influenced you both in such a positive way. The two of you share the kind, gentle ways of your Dad and that is something you will always be proud of.

Lou Tucker Jr

October 10, 2008

Ronnie,Scott & Kelli,your dad was such a nice man,always kind. I know you all did alot for him and he appreciated it. I know that you Kelli went above and beyond all the times he was ill and always caring for him and making sure he got the right treatment no matter what.I commend you for the love you showed him in so many ways.I'm so sorry for your loss and you three stick together. God Bless, Lou & Jen Tucker

Phil Simas

October 10, 2008

Scott & Kelli,
I'm very sorry to hear about your loss, my thoughts and prayers are with you.

Chrissy Powers

October 10, 2008

Scott and Kelli , I am so sorry for your loss. The loss of a parent is one of the hardest things to go through in life. I never met your Dad but knowing you I have no doubt he was a great guy, and he was blessed to have you for a son and Kelii for a daughter in law. My thoughts and prayers are with you both.

RICH & VAL

October 10, 2008

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Paul and Aimee Juneau

October 10, 2008

Scott, Kelli we are so sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you. If there is anything we can do please don't hesitate to ask.

TERRI VENEZIA

October 10, 2008

SCOTT AND KELLI I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS IF THERE IS ANYTHING I CAN DO PLEASE DO NOT HESITATE TO CALL I WISH I COULD TAKE THE HURT AWAY

Kristen LaPlante

October 9, 2008

Dear Scott & Kelli,
I am very sad to hear of your dad's passing. What can one say to help you through this? Scott, I am sorry I never got to know your dad but if you are any reflection of the man he was then he must have been an amazing person. It seems right to the end he didn't want anyone to worry about him, which proves he was strong and caring. You should be comforted to know that he passed knowing what a caring, stand up man you are and that you have accomplished so many things and have had the chance to truly enjoy life. What more could a parent want for their children. What a peaceful feeling. Sometimes we forget that we are only here for a short time. I love you both so much! You will be in my thoughts.

Debbie Pinto

October 9, 2008

Dear Scott and Kelli,
I'm so sorry to hear of the loss of your Father. May you and your family find peace in this time of sorrow.
My sincere sympathy,

Bob & Maryann Lanz

October 9, 2008

Scot & Kelli
We are very sorry to hear about your loss.Our prayers and thoughts are with you Scot and Kelli.

Peter and Jennifer Chabot

October 9, 2008

Scott, Ronnie and Kelli,

I'm so sorry to hear about your Dad. I have so many memories of him and he will be deeply missed. My thoughts and prayers go out to all of you.

Stephen Fasano

October 9, 2008

Scott & Kelli,
We're so sorry to hear of your loss, and we extend our deepest sympathy. If there's anything we can do to help, please don't hesitate to ask.

Stephen and Tammy Fasano

Raffi Sarkisian

October 9, 2008

Scott sorry o hear that your father passed away, my condolences to your entire family! Sincerly Raffi Sarkisian

Darcy Gee

October 9, 2008

Ronnie & Scott, I am so sorry for your loss. I have not seen your Dad in awhile, but have always thought of him as "Uncle Ronnie" and I will always remember him as being a part of my family and a part of my childhood. Luv you both, Darcy

MORT OLIVER

October 9, 2008

DEAR SCOTT May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

DANIEL KANE

October 9, 2008

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Jim Downing

October 9, 2008

Scott & Kelly

My thoughts and prayers are with you both during this difficult time.If you need anything at all please don't hesitateto ask.

lauren guerreiro

October 9, 2008

scott I am very sorry for your loss we love you and hope you are doing well. your thoughts are with us!
love always lauren guerreiro and john Peixoto

JOSEPHINE DUSSAULT

October 9, 2008

DEAR SCOTT AND KELLI, May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. WITH SYMPATHY

TUCKER ZAMPA

October 9, 2008

DEAR SCOTT AND KELLI,

I 'M SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR LOSS.I KNOW THIS MUST BE A TOUGH TIME FOR YOU,SCOTT, BUT JUST TO SAY IF YOU NEED ANYTHING JUST LET ME KNOW.

Jocelyn Rousseau

October 9, 2008

My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

MICHAEL HOXSIE

October 9, 2008

DEAR SCOTT AND KELLY, I AM SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR LOSS. UNFORTUNATELY I HAVE ONLY KNOWN THE BOTH OF YOU FOR A SHORT AMMOUNT OF TIME, BUT AT A TIME LIKE THIS I WANT TO SHOW MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY TO YOU.

KIRK MAGNUM

October 9, 2008

MY DEAR FRIEND SCOTT AND KELLI
I'M VERY SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR LOSS.YOUR A GREAT FRIEND WHO'S ALWAYS THEIR FOR ME . IF THEIR IS ANTHING I CAN DO PLEASE ASK. LOVE YOUR BOY KIRK

TONY REYBROCK

October 9, 2008

THE OATLEY FAMILY,
SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR LOSS.MY THOUGHTS ARE WITH YOU.

BRIAN SNURKOWSKI

October 9, 2008

SCOTT AND KELLI SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS AND MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU
SNURKS

October 9, 2008

Scott & Kelli,

Our thoughts & prayers are with you

Becky Bliven & Chris French

Mr and Mrs Kevin Shannon

October 9, 2008

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

October 9, 2008

Scott & Kelli

My wife and I, our thoughts and prayers are with you.

David Antoni

THERESA DA ESTRELA

October 9, 2008

TO THE OATLEY FAMILY,

I'M SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS SCOTT.JUST LETTING YOU KNOW MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU. YOUR GIRL "T"

Mr. & Mrs. D. Lineham

October 9, 2008

Dear Oatley Family,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of loss and sadness.

Lineham Family

Kelli Oatley

October 9, 2008

We love you Dad! You will live forever in our hearts. We miss you already.
Love,
Ronnie, Scott & Kelli

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