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PHILLIPS, STEPHEN J., 46, of Wethersfield, CT, loving husband, devoted father, son, brother, uncle and friend, entered into eternal peace, Monday, Oct. 13, 2008 at Hartford Hospital, in Hartford, CT. He was born Sept. 5, 1962 and raised in East Greenwich, RI.

Stephen leaves his beloved wife, Shelly (Lowe) Phillips and their cherished children, son, Colby Phillips and Abby Phillips, all of Wethersfield, CT. Stephen was the son of Lewis A. Phillips of East Greenwich and the late Theresa (Mello) Phillips. He also leaves behind four brothers, Thomas, Michael, Charles and James Phillips, all of Rhode Island; four sisters, Mary Shepard, Margaret Zuercher, Susan Lacombe, all of Rhode Island, and Elizabeth Carlson of North Stonington, CT. Stephen is also survived by his treasured mother- and father-in-law, Mary and Robert Lowe of Naples, FL, and many nieces, nephews and very dear friends. Stephen was employed for the last twenty five years with the Falvey Linen Co, of Cranston, R.I, most recently as Manager of the Connecticut Division. Stephen had a love for spending time with his family, cooking and gardening.

A memorial service celebrating Stephen's life will be held this Saturday, October 18, 2008 at 11 a.m. in First Church of Christ, 250 Main St., Wethersfield, CT. Stephen's family will receive relatives and friends at the Farley-Sullivan Funeral Home, 34 Beaver Rd, Wethersfield, CT, October 17, 2008 from 5-8 p.m. In lieu of flowers, Stephen's family asks friends to consider memorial donations to either the American Heart Assn., 5 Brookside Drive, PO Box 5022, Wallingford, 06492, or the Food Bank, 505 Silas Deane Hwy., Wethersfield, CT 06109. For online expressions or information, please visit: Farleysullivan.com

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Published by The Providence Journal on Oct. 15, 2008.

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Paul Huffman

December 8, 2008

Shelly, Colby, & Abby, I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. I am sorry I was unable to attend the services.Our deepest condolences go to you and your entire family.

Paul, Elizabeth, Drew, Tim & Erik Huffman

Lisa Coogan

November 2, 2008

Dear Shelly, Colby, Abby and all of your family,
Upon hearing of Stephen's untimely passing today I am so shocked and saddened by the news. All I can do is to think of all of you and pray and trust that through your faith and your love for each other you will overcome this terrible loss. Stephen was a fine man, a wonderful husband and a terrific dad. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. God Bless you all.
With Love,
Lisa, Peter, Taylor and Corey Coogan

Ferg Jansen

October 27, 2008

Shelly and Family,
My sincere condolances on your loss. I have had the pleasure of working with Steve since he became the "face" of Falvey in the Hartford market. He won clients with friendliness, sincerity, good pricing, and service, but most of all :INTEGRITY...sometimes a missing element in this day and age. He will be sorely missed by all!

Sincerely,

Ferg Jansen
Tyee Management Associates

Tom & Dianne McKenna

October 25, 2008

To Steve's family that I never met and to my old friends from years ago, please accept my sincere condolences. My prayer is that God grants you the peace that surpasses all understanding during a time that can defy all understanding.

Michele Lavoie

October 23, 2008

To Shelly, the entire Phillips family, and all who knew and loved Stephen:
He will always remain with you in your heart. May you find comfort remembering Stephen through your fondest memories. You are all in my thoughts and prayers...

Michele Lavoie
EW PTO, Wethersfield

Diane Jachimowicz

October 22, 2008

To the Phillips Family :

You are in our thoughts and prayers at this very difficult time .

Sincerely

Diane, Lou And Kevin Jachimowicz

Mary Guilfoyle-Carew

October 20, 2008

To Shelly and the Phillips family,

I was deeply saddened to hear of Steve's passing. I will always remember Steve with my brothers, Don & Rob and their close group of friends from OLM. He will be sorely missed. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time.

Lee & Tina Higgins

October 19, 2008

Shelly,Colby & Abby and the Phillips Family; our deepest sympathy goes out to all of you at this very difficult time. Shelly, one of our lasting memories of Stephen was seeing him and his brother walking along the beach towards George's of Galilee. It was such a beautiful day and for us it will always be a beautiful memory.

Anne Tanner

October 18, 2008

Dear Shelly,
I was so saddened to hear about the loss of Steven. He was such a great guy. I am very thankful have been able to share a friendship with him. My deepest thoughts and prays are with you and your beautiful children. I am thinking of you during this time. With sympathy, Annie Ficazzola Tanner , East Greenwich RI

Lewis Leon

October 17, 2008

Shelly, Colby and Abby,
We were extremely saddened to hear the news about Steve. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time.

Isidra, Lewis, Jeff and Danny Leon

Lynn & Billy Robsky

October 17, 2008

Shelly, Colby and Abby,
Our heartfelt sympathies are with you in this very difficult time. God Bless you.

Stuart D London

October 17, 2008

I've had the pleasure of working with Steve for the past 15 years and he was one of the nicest people you'd want to ever meet. His good cheer will be missed.

Diane Linnell

October 17, 2008

Dear Shelley, Colby, & Abby
We are so sorry for your loss. Steve was a great guy. Jess & David described him as the fun Uncle and he absolutely was. Our prayers and love are with you all.
All our love,
Diane, Jessica, & David

Max Amore

October 17, 2008

Steve is a man that has left a mark on our lives for his prescence will be missed but his memory will last forever. We were lucky to have a man like Steve in our business he was a true leader.
Max Amore

Donna Rizzio

October 16, 2008

Shelly, Colby & Abby,

We are very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Sincerely,

Donna, Ken, Chris and Paul Rizzio

Colleen, Kevin & Courtney Jinks

October 16, 2008

To the Phillips family, I had the pleasure of knowing your husband & father through the Falvey company. He always had a smile on his face and spoke often of his children. I am very sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathy goes out to all of you. The entire town has been saddened. Your family is in our prayers.

Cascio's

October 16, 2008

Shelly, Abby and Colby,

Words cannot express how saddened we are to hear of your loss. You and your family will remain in our prayers forever. Steve/Your Dad was a wonderful person who we will miss dearly. May your happy memories guide you through these difficult times.

Love always,

The Cascio's

Bob & Inga Pratt

October 16, 2008

We are sorry to hear about your loss of Steve, our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Bin 100 Restaurant & Ristorante Luce

October 16, 2008

We are very sorry to hear of Stephen's passing. He was a great guy and will be missed. Our deepest sympathies go out to the entire family.

Spris Restaurant

October 16, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Rosalie Greco

October 16, 2008

Tom, Jim, Stephen's wife and children and both families,
Our deepest sympathy to all of you. It was so sad to read of Stephen's passing. He was always so pleasant and such a kind and true gentleman when he delivered lab coats to us at Hoechst Chemical in Coventry many years ago.
May memories comfort you and give you strength through this most difficult time.
Sincerely,
Ralph and Rosalie Greco

Rob Guilfoyle

October 16, 2008

Shelly,

Our deepest sympathies to you and your family and also to the Phillips family. Steve was one of the original OLM crew and a great friend since first grade. The "Scrodes" won't be the same without him.

Cheryl Flynn

October 16, 2008

We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this very difficult time.

Cheryl & Tyler Flynn

Paul, Pam, Lauren, and Sarah Testoni

October 15, 2008

To the entire Phillips family,
Our sincere thoughts and prayers are with you now and always. May you find peace in your memories of Stephen and know that he was loved by so many. He was a true friend to many, especially Tom and Cathy, who have shared wonderful stories of the happy times your families have had over the years. May God watch over all of you at this most difficult time.

October 15, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

Rob, Wendy and Ashley DeFurio

AshleyRae Labar

October 15, 2008

Colby, Abby, and Shelly,

We were very sad to hear about Stephen and we are very sorry.He is watching over you now. You are in our prayers. We are just around the corner if you need us, or just a phone call away. We love you.

Love Ashley, Kristin, Billy, Nick, and Nathen.

Belinda (Burns) and Scott Millette

October 15, 2008

Dear Shelly and the entire Phillip's family,
What a tremendous shock to hear of Stephen's passing. You all are in our prayers. With deepest sympathy

Deborah Squizzero

October 15, 2008

Dear Shelly and family,
I was very sad to hear of your loss and I wanted to extend my heartfelt sympathy. Although we have lost touch over the years, I think of you often with genuine fondness.
Sincerely,
Deb (Tortolani) Squizzero

Sharon Aponik

October 15, 2008

Shelley, Colby and Abby,
We were deeply sadden by the news of Steve's passing. God took home one of the best. You are all in our prayers.

David Dee

October 15, 2008

My deepest sympathies go out to the entire Phillips family. May your fond memories of Steve give you comfort in such a difficult time. He showed me the ropes at the Greene's farm before he started with Falvey. He was a great guy.

Frank, Beth, Frankie & Nicole L'Etoile

October 15, 2008

Shelley, Colby & Abby,
We are deeply saddened to hear about your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Nancy Garnett-Thomas

October 15, 2008

Shelly
What a tremendous shock to hear such catastrophic news. Don, Sarah and I are sending you and your entire family healing thoughts and warm memories that can never be taken from you.

Judy and Richard Palmer

October 15, 2008

We are so deeply sadden about Steven, you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Debra, Roland Zach, and Cam Bourassa

October 15, 2008

We are so very sorry for your loss. No words can express our sorrow. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Denise Vojnich

October 15, 2008

We at the Hartford Restaurnat Group are so sorry for your loss. Steve was one of the best guys we encountered on a weekly basis. We loved dealing with him. May you always know what a GREAT man he was and he will always be remembered.
Wood-n-Tap, Agave Grill, Vaughan's Public House

Daniel Lacombe

October 15, 2008

Shell,
You and Steven have always made me and mine feel like family from the day we met. Words cannot express how sorry I am for your loss. My preyers are with you and Colby and Abby. God Bless you.

Michael Duval

October 15, 2008

I send my deepest sympathies to the Phillips family.Steve was an extraordinary guy and a true gentleman, always sincere.
May you all find comfort in the fact that Steve is in a better place than we are.
Cherish the memories!

Steve,Michelle,Tory,Brianna & Milan Mare

October 15, 2008

Shelly, Colby, & Abby,

We loved Steve and enjoyed him and his friendship! He was a wonderful husband, dad, and friend. We have great...great memories(beach,dinners, & vacations)! May the love of friends and family help you through this very difficult time.

Love

Marie (Gemma) Fairbanks

October 15, 2008

What a terrible shock it is to hear about Stephen's passing. He was loved and will be missed by many.

Cathy & David Black

October 15, 2008

Dear Shelly and the Phillips Family:

We are so sorry to hear about Steve. We can't imagine your pain. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Linda Aldridge

October 15, 2008

Shelly, Colby & Abby,
Mere words cannot express our heartfelt sympathy at this most difficult time for all of you. May all the wonderful memories you have created together help to ease some of that sorrow. You are all in our prayers.
Tom and Linda Aldridge

Lyndsy Carlson

October 15, 2008

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I hope you can find the strength to get through this tough time! Just remember although he may not be here physically he will always be close by in your hearts! You're all in my thoughts and prayers.

Michelle McMahon

October 15, 2008

All of us at Grants Restaurant and Restaurant Bricco are so very sorry for your loss. We loved Steve--he always had a great smile for everyone--just a wonderful and kind human being.

Chip Chadwell Jr.

October 15, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with the family. A good man taken in the prime of his life!!!!! I am so sorry to hear about this.

Chip Chadwell Jr.
Tallahassee Florida

Roy,Liz, Alex,and Ana Sabo (Jeff's sister)

October 15, 2008

Shelly, Colby, and Abby,
We were so saddened to hear about Stephen. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.

Tony Albano

October 15, 2008

The entire Albano family from Pazzo Italian Cafe sends our condolences.
We will miss Steve very much.

Santina Bongiovanni

October 15, 2008

I was so sorry to hear of your loss,no words can describe how you are feeling,our deepest sympathy to you and the family...

Debra, Roland Zach, and Cam Bourassa

October 15, 2008

We are so very sorry for our loss. No words can express our sorrow. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Stuart Cohen

October 15, 2008

I am so sorry for your loss. Stephen was a great guy and will be missed by many.

bob ingerson

October 15, 2008

sorry to hear about steve. ingie

Jordan Ramos

October 15, 2008

Colby, I'm sorry for your loss. We're here for you if you need anything.
Jordan Ramos

Nick, Laurie, Caitlin and Courtney Cerbo

October 15, 2008

Shelly, Colby and Abby,
Our most heartfelt thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. We can not even begin to comprehend the sadness you must be feeling. Always know that Stephen will always be close to you.

JoAnn Hutchinson

October 15, 2008

Shelley, Colby, Abby and the Phillips and Lowe family:

My deepest, deepest sympathy to your families during this terrible time. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Stephen was a great man, a great husband and a great father. Shelley, I will always have the fondest memories of both you and Steve and those memories certainly go back to a much more carefree time in our lives. I have been blessed to have known him.

With love and sympathy,
JoAnn Hutchinson (Sadak)

Melanie Burns-Miller

October 15, 2008

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

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