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Steven Flynn Obituary

FLYNN, STEVEN D., 40, of Atwood Avenue, Johnston, passed away Monday, October 13, 2008 at RI Hospital in Providence after a courageous 15 month battle with glioblastoma multiforme. He was the beloved husband of Mary C. (Sullivan) Flynn.

Born in Providence, a devoted son of Dennis Flynn of Johnston and the late Donna (Cioffi) Iacobucci, and step-son of Ronald Iacobucci of Johnston, he moved to Johnston in 1990.

Steven was the owner of Flynn-Co Construction in Johnston for the past 20 years.

He was the devoted and loving father of Kelsey M. Flynn and Steven D. Flynn, Jr., both of Johnston; dear brother of Dennis Flynn of Pawtucket; loving grandson of Mario Cioffi of Providence and the late Rose (Marandola) Cioffi; dear nephew of Mario A. Cioffi of Attleboro, MA; and loving uncle to several nieces and nephews.

His funeral will be held Friday at 8:45 a.m., from the NARDOLILLO FUNERAL HOME, 1278 Park Ave., Cranston, followed by a Mass of Christian Burial in St. Roccos Church, 927 Atwood Ave., Johnston at 10:00 a.m. Burial will be in Highland Memorial Park Cemetery, Johnston. VISITING HOURS THURSDAY 5-9 p.m. In lieu of flowers, contributions in loving memory of Steven D. Flynn may be made to: The Glioblastoma Multiforme Foundation, Inc., 349 Star Rd., Sylacauga, AL 35151. Visit www.nardolillo.com for information and online condolences.

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Published by The Providence Journal on Oct. 15, 2008.

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mary flynn

November 26, 2009

My dear husband this is the second year without you for the holidays and i woke up the very upset thinking how and why this happened to us. I know my life will go on but the love i have for you will be forever we just got dealt a bad hand and its so unfair.so im gonna do my best like i know you would want and just get through the holidays. Ill love you until the day i join you my love. Happy Thanksgiving.. Steve.........

catherine giblin

November 18, 2009

Dear my uncle steven,wow i cant tell you how i miss you i been thinking about you often wonder if you are smileing down on me i wish you were here because the holidays are coming and it will never be the same because no one will have your personally and the way you could alway make us laugh so hard untill we cryed i never understand why he had to take you from us but i guess heaven was needing a hero someone like you but no matter how much i need you now heaven needing you more i love you and miss you uncle steven aka my hero:)
love alway&forever
catherine <3

MARY FLYNN

October 13, 2009

WHEN I LEFT THIS WORLD WITHOUT YOU I KNOW IT MADE YOU BLUE.YOUR TEARS FELL SO FREELY,I WATCHED I KNOW THIS IS TRUE.WHILE YOU WERE WEEPING DAYS AFTER I PASSED AWAY.WHILE ALL WAS SILENT WITHIN ME,I SAW YOU KNEEL AND PRAY.FROM THIS WONDERFUL PLACE CALLED HEAVEN WHERE ALL MY PAIN IS GONE,I SEND A GENTLE BREEZE TO WHISPER,MY LOVE ONES PLEASE GO ON.THE PEACE I HAVE FOUND HERE GOES FAR BEYOND COMPARE NO RAIN,NO CLOUDS,NO SUFFERING JUST LOVE FROM EVERYWHERE.YOU NEED NOT BE TROUBLED JUST STAY CLOSE TO GOD IN PRAYER SOMEDAY WELL BE REUNITED MY LOVE,HIS LOVE SURROUNDS YOU ALWAYS, EVERYWHERE.STEVE WHEN I READ THAT IT REMINDED ME OF YOU SOMETHING YOU WOULD SAY.EVEN THOUGH MY HEART IS SO BROKEN I KNOW YOU ARE NO LONGER SUFFERING AND I KNOW SOMEDAY WE WILL ALL BE TOGETHER AGAIN. I LOVE YOU ALWAYS. MARY

VINCENT SBRACCIA

September 3, 2009

WELL STEVE MY HEART IS STILL THE SAME BROKEN AND MISSING YOU MY FRIEND TO MARY AND THE KID`S I HOPE ALL IS WELL AND STEVE WILL NEVER BE FORGOTEN

catherine giblin

August 19, 2009

unlce steven,
i don’t know where to start ! well, it makes it 10 months since you have past :'( 10/13/08 was the dat & i miss you so much !Uncle; im sad that you left me behind, but happy that you are in the right place. i think of you every second of the day! i think of the good memories that we had together i think of when i would sleep @ your house & you were dancing in the chair and telling me that my mom would know this song that was playing at the time but now all that is gone. no matter what uncle you will always be in my heart forever. i think of you everyday! Well I love you so much & I’m happy that you are in no more pain uncle i miss you like crazyy you will alway be my hero forever and alway
miss you and love you
catherine

mary flynn

August 15, 2009

My dear husband today is our babys birthday.I remember the day he was born and I remember you saying I have my son.Life is so very different know and the monthe keep passing by.I still ask myself how did this happen to us and Im left with no answers.My heart is still so broken and I miss you so very much my friend,husband my everything.I will love you forever until we are together again rest in peace my love.

Barbara Flynn

August 13, 2009

Steven today is 10 months since your passing. Somedays it seems like a lifetime ago and somtimes it seems like yesterday. Your dad and I miss you very much. Especially when I see him heading out to the boat and remembering all the great times that the two of you shared on it. Your time together was far too short. Yet the precious memories that were made will last a lifetime. I thank God for the time that you had together and how you and he handled the past and left it so far behind. You often told him that "the past was the past and it was time to make a new start." As I plan his party I feel sad that you physically won't be there, but I know that you will be in spirit. Though we mourn your passing we find comfort knowing that you are no longer suffering. We love and miss you every single day. You battled this horrible disease every day with dignity and fortitude. That was such an inspiration to me not to sweat the small stuff. Until we meet again please be our guardian angel.
Love and miss you,
Barbara

catherine giblin

July 29, 2009

uncle steven,
i miss you so much im trying to stay strong but i been having breakdown because i miss you like crazy and i alway think about you nothing the same without you i saw kelsey the other day i knew she was missing you the look on her face said it all i wish you were here but i know your looking down on the family ill never forgot you i love you more then anything my hero youll alway be forever
imissyouuncelsteven
love alway and forever
catherine<3

mary flynn

June 21, 2009

Steve Happy Fathers Day I just want the day 2 be over nothing matters anymore.Kelsey is hurting 2day I can see it in her face.Why did our lives turn out this way I will never no but it is what it is and we have 2 try and go on so not easy.You will forever be with me in my heart until we are together forever again.Love your wife and children.

Thurley Blye

June 16, 2009

Steven,
I wish we knew each other better, I wish our children knew each other. But over the years things happen and tragically until something like your death happens, it's to late. You sounded like a great husband, father and person. And I'm sorry I never got a chance to experience that. You and your family are forever in my thoughts.

mary flynn

June 14, 2009

Steve Happy Anniversary today is 12 years. I know we would have been together forever.I will keep you in my heart forever Love your wife.

MARY FLYNN

June 10, 2009

HAPPY BIRTHDAY.WE ALL MISS YOU SO VERY MUCH LIFE IS SO UNFAIR HOW I WISH I COULD TALK TO YOU I REALLY NEED YOU I FEEL SO VERY EMPTY AND SO ALONE.I STILL THINK YOU ARE COMING HOME HOW I WISH YOU COULD.I WILL LOVE YOU FOREVER AND IM TRYING SO HARD TO BE STRONG.LOVE YOU STEVE YOUR WIFE.

catherine giblin

May 15, 2009

dear uncle steven
word cant show how much i miss you and what i would do anything to have you back in my life. you alway knew how to make me smile even when i didnt want to and i think about you 24/7 your alway on my mind you will alway have that place in my heart forever and my hero you will alway be i love you forever and always
I MISS YOU LIKE CRAZY
UNCLE STEVEN love alway
catherine<3

catherine giblin

April 14, 2009

Dear uncle steven i dont know where to start i miss you like crazy and nothing is ever the same without you i try to be strong but i cant i miss seeing your smile and hearing your voice and the time we shared together no one can ever take your spot in my heart you will alway my hero and the uncle that i alway looked up to and i love you and miss you dearlyy
love alway
catherine

mary flynn

April 8, 2009

You placed your hand on my heart and you told me that you would never leave me because you would always be right here in my heart. You are right, you know. Real love does not ever die. You may be gone, but no one or nothing can ever take "us" from me. We were the best team ever! I carry us in my heart.

You were such a gentle, happy, loving, and carefree soul. Every picture that I have has you smiling and most of the time you are waving to the camera.

I wonder how anyone can be happy all the time like you were, then I remember that you always made sure to make everyone feel special and you knew that a smile and a wave would do that. I am watching the children and you are right once more, they are so there for me and (though they miss you terrribly stronger than I thought they would be.

I have to say that I am putting one foot in front of the other and moving forward, but my steps often seem so slow and labored, and the skies seem very dark and gray. I read that "when you're going through hell, keep walking." Just so you know I will not linger here. I know that the sun will once again shine, and I will once again only think of the good times.

You were such a gift. One day with you would have been such a gift, one week, one year....we had many! I will always remember that!

til we meet again my love.........

mary flynn

March 24, 2009

My dear husband its so hard without you trying my best but as the days go by I am still missing you so.I want to come home after work and tell you about my day then I realize you are not there and it hurts so much.We all got cheated and I am still so angry I wish I could turn back time and life was back to normal for all of us. I never thought about living the rest of my life without you and Im forced to do that and its so not easy to just go on. I will love you forever and keep you in my heart till the day I join you.Rest in peace Steve Love your wife.

Joe & Lori Dunphy

March 13, 2009

Dear Mary and family, we would like to express our sincere heartfelt sympathy. We just found out this evening of Steven's passing. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you. I know we've lost touch but we would like to support you in this difficult time. Please do not hesitate to call 737-4109.

catherine giblin

February 17, 2009

dear uncle steven
I miss you
I miss your smile
And I still she'd a tear
Every once in a while
And even though it's different now
You're still here somehow
My heart won't let you go
And I need you to know
I miss you uncle steven and you will be my hero and forever be in my heart i love you soo much
love alway
catherine

Ellie Giblin

February 13, 2009

Dear Steven it has been 4 month's since you had to leave and still doesn't seem real. We think of you everyday and how you fought with all your heart and soul you showed tremendous strength! Steven without you here there will alway's be a void in our family that can never be filled a voice we'll long to hear and a smile we'll wish to see for the rest of our live's. You will remain in our heart's and our thought's everyday.
I miss you and love you dearly,
Ellie

Ellie Giblin

February 13, 2009

We thought of you with love today.
But that is nothing new.
We thought about you yesterday.
And the days before that too.
We think of you in silence.
We often speak your name.
Now all we have is memories.
And your picture in a frame.
Your memory is our keep sake.
With which we'll never part.
God has you in his keeping.
We have you in out heart.

MARY FLYNN

February 12, 2009

STEVE TOMORROW IS 4 MONTHS SINCE YOU PASSED AWAY AND THE PAIN AND EMPTYNESS IS LIKE YOU JUST LEFT ME MY LIFE WILL ALWAYS HAVE THIS FEELING I JUST CANT BELIEVE THIS REALLY HAPPEN TO US I STILL ASK WHY I WILL NEVER UNDERSTAND WHY I HOPE YOU ARE AT PEACE AND NO MORE PAIN I HATE THAT I HAVE TO FINISH MY LIFE WITHOUT YOU IT JUST SO UNFAIR BUT I HAVE TO GO ON AND JUST DO WHAT I CAN DO AND HOPE FOR THE BEST UNTIL WE ARE ALL TOGETHER AGAIN AS A FAMILY WATCH OVER ME AND THE KIDS ILL LOVE YOU FOREVER AND KEEP YOU ALIVE IN MY HEART.

catherine giblin

February 5, 2009

Dear uncle steven well word cant tell how much i miss you and how much i want you back and i wish you were still here with me because i need to hear your vocie or just to see your smile again and uncle im trying to stay strong but i cant because you are my hero and you mean soo much to me and i looked up to you and i keep thinking about the time we shared together and you in the chair dance and listening the radio and alway joking around or just talking about life or watching a movie and i miss it alllll and i love you sooo much and i miss you like crazyyy
love you alway and forever
catherine

catherine giblin

January 13, 2009

Dear uncle steven
i wish you were here because i need you and i cant go a another day without hearing your vocie because for me life has got hard and nothing feel right without you ill never be the catherine i was befor when i have you by side showing me the way alway joke around with me alway get the smile on my face i miss you sooo much iloveyouunclesteven
forever my hero
love alway
catherine

MARY FLYNN

January 11, 2009

STEVE IM FEELING VERY DEPRESSED TONIGHT TOMORROW IS KELSEY 16 BIRTHDAY AND I CAN STILL REMEMBER THE DAY SHE WAS BORN THE NURSE GAVE HER TO YOU AND YOU CAME OVER TO ME AND SAID HERE IS YOUR LITTLE GIRL AND I LOOKED AT YOU AND SAID OUR LITTLE GIRL I AM SO ANGRY THAT YOU ARE GONE I MISS YOU SO MUCH I FEEL SO EMPTY AND SO ALONE I TRY TO STAY STRONG FOR THE KIDS BUT SOMETIMES I JUST CANT I WILL LOVE YOU WITH ALL MY HEART FOREVER UNTIL WE ARE TOGETHER AGAIN. GOODNIGHT.

catherine giblin

December 31, 2008

Dear Uncle steven i miss you like crazy there isnt a day that dose not go by that im not thinking of you and everything i do remind me of you everyone is lost without you nothing will ever be the same and but unlce were a true hero and i looked up to you your the reason i got up everyday and became the person that im am today .... I miss the time we shared together and ill never get WHY and unlce kelsey is okay she like to keep it to herself i guess it the way she deal with everything and steven Jr well he just like you.
I MISS YOU LIKE CRAZY I WISH YOU WERE HERE. I love you uncle ill keep you in my heart forever
love alway&forever
catherine

Ellie Giblin

December 25, 2008

Dear Steven,
I miss you so much. Our live's will never be the same with out you. I think about you everyday from when we were little through our teenage year's and as we became adult's. I will alway's LOVE YOU as you were my brother. Through all you had to endure you alway's stayed so strong and still made us laugh. You are a true HERO in my eye's. And today being christmas i'm trying to be happy for the kid's but how do you be happy when your heart is broken! I'm so very angry and i will never understand WHY! Steven i will never forget you and i will alway's be there for Kelsey, lil Steven and for Mary whatever or whenever they need me.
Love you and miss you dearly,
Ellie

MARY FLYNN

December 17, 2008

MY DEAR HUSBAND IM HAVING A VERY HARD TIME TONIGHT I NEED TO HEAR YOUR VOICE I MISS YOU I FEEL SO ALONE THIS EMPTYNESS IS REALLY THE WORSE FEELING IN MY WHOLE LIFE I STILL CANT BELIEVE YOU ARE NEVER COMING HOME AGAIN THAT I HAVE TO LIVE THE REST OF MY LIFE WITHOUT YOU IT IS SO UNFAIR I GO IN YOUR WORKSHOP AND LOOK AROUND AND ALL YOUR STUFF IS HERE AND I FEEL YOU SHOULD BE HERE TO STEVE I MISS YOU SO MUCH YOU WERE MY EVERYTHING AND NOW ITS ALL BEEN TAKEN AWAY FROM ME AND I AM SO MAD I CANT MAKE MYSELF FEEL BETTER I HOPE YOU ARE IN A BETTER PLACE BUT I AM NEVER GOING TO BE AT PEACE BECAUSE ME AND OUR CHILDREN ARE ALWAYS GONNA BE ALONE WITHOUT YOU I LOVE YOU FOREVER AND I WISH SO MUCH YOU WERE HERE I JUST DONT KNOW HOW TO HANDLE THIS ANYMORE I JUST WANT YOU TO COME HOME SO I CAN HEAR YOUR VOICE,SEE YOUR SMILE,HEAR YOU LAUGH I JUST MISS YOU MORE EVERYDAY LOVE YOUR WIFE.

MARY FLYNN

December 5, 2008

STEVE HERE I AM AGAIN ANOTHER WEEK HAS GONE BY AND I SIT HERE SO ALONE MY HEART IS SO BROKEN I MISS YOU I MISS US I FIND MYSELF GETTING MORE UPSET I JUST DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO ANYMORE WHEN THE KIDS ARE OUT IT HURTS SO MUCH TO BE HERE WITHOUT YOU I ALWAYS HAD YOU WE WERE NEVER ALONE AND I MISS THAT SO MUCH TO SEE YOU TO HOLD YOU JUST ONE MORE TIME I WOULD GIVE ANYTHING FOR ONE MORE TIME 20 MORE DAYS TILL CHRISTMAS AND I JUST DONT WANT IT THIS YEAR ITS NEVER GONNA BE THE SAME AGAIN I LOVE YOU FOREVER I WILL KEEP YOU IN MY BROKEN HEART UNTIL WE CAN BE TOGETHER AGAIN WATCH OVER ME AND THE KIDS WE ALL LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU SO.

CATHY ZITO

November 15, 2008

DEAR STEVE, I MISS YOU SO VERY MUCH,YOUR LAUGH,YOUR ADVICE,YOUR TELL IT LIKE IT IS ATTITUDE. YOU WERE THE BEST HUSBAND MY DAUGHTER COULD OF HAD,YOU MADE HER SO HAPPY YOUR HOME,CHILDREN,AND EVERYTHING ABOUT YOU WAS PERFECT,YOU MADE SURE OF THAT. THE TIME I SPENT TAKING CARE OF YOU I WILL ALWAYS HOLD CLOSE TO MY HEART,BECAUSE IT WAS THEN YOU AND I BECAME VERY CLOSE. WE TALKED OVER LOTS OF THINGS,AND YOU GAVE ME ADVICE,AND WHEN YOU CALLED ME MA,IT WAS THEN I FELT A STRONG BOND WITH YOU,BECAUSE I KNOW WHAT THAT WORD MEANS TO YOU,I KNOW HOW YOU LOVED AND CHERISHED YOUR MOM,AND I THOUGHT HE REALLY DOES LOVE ME. WE HAD ALOT OF LAUGHS,STEVE AND I OFTEN REMEMBER THEM,AND SMILE. MARY AND YOU HAD SUCH A SPECIAL LOVE,NOT PERFECT,NO LOVE IS BUT YOU ALWAYS STUCK TOGETHER,AND THAT IS WHAT MADE IT WORK. KELSEY IS A BEAUTIFUL YOUNG LADY,YOU CAN BE SO PROUD OF HER. SHE WILL CONTINUE TO MAKE YOU PROUD,AS SHE SUCCEEDS IN HER LIFE. STEVEN JR. WILL ALSO MAKE YOU PROUD,HE IS LIKE YOU ALOT,HE KNOWS HOW TO WORK PEOPLE.WELL STEVE,THANKS FOR BEING PART OF MY FAMILY AND LIFE. YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTON. PLEASE PRAY FOR ALL OF US DOWN HERE,AND WATCH OVER YOUR VERY SPECIAL FAMILY,THEY MISS YOU SO,SHOW MARY A MIRICLE A SIGN THAT YOU ARE WITH GOD,SHE NEEDS TO BELIEVE THAT,I DO. GIVE MY MOM A HUG AND TELL HER I LVE HER SO. WELL,I WILL CLOSE FOR NOW REST IN PEACE,YOU SUFFERED ENOUGH,ALWAYS KNOW THAT I LOVED,AND RESPECTED YOU FOR WHO AND WHAT YOU WERE. LOVE YOU, CATHY

MARY FLYNN

November 14, 2008

STEVE ANOTHER WEEK IS OVER AND IT HAS BEEN A MONTH SINCE YOU LEFT US MY HEART STILL IS SO BROKEN I FEEL LIKE NOTHING ANYMORE ALL I THINK ABOUT IS US AND WHAT WE HAD ALL THEM YEARS AND TO HAVE TO GO ON WITHOUT YOU IS SO NOT EASY I TRY SO HARD TO BE STRONG AND IT WORKS FOR A LITTLE WHILE THEN I HAVE A MELTDOWN I FIND MYSELF BEING SAD ALL THE TIME I WISH WE ONLY HAD MORE TIME TOGETHER STEVEN JR HAS BEEN ASKING ALOT ABOUT YOU AND WHY YOU PASSED AWAY HE WILL NEVER SAY HE DIED HE DOSENT LIKE THAT WORD KELSEY IS STILL SO QUIET I GUESS THAT HOW SHE DEALS WITH THINGS ALOT LIKE HER DAD I HOPE WHEN I TALK TO YOU CAN REALLY HEAR ME AND I KNOW SOMEDAY WE WILL ALL BE TOGETHER UNTIL THEN I WILL TRY MY VERY BEST TO BE THE BEST I CAN IT IS JUST SO HARD WATCH OVER ALL OF US LOVE YOU FOREVER MARY.

Barbara Flynn

November 13, 2008

Dear Steven,
As I sit here I can't believe that today is one month since your passing. You gave a brave and valiant fight against the cancer. The only comfort I can find is that you are no longer suffering and are at peace with your mom. I visit your grave and talk to you as if you are still here. But when I think of it I feel that you truly are still here in spirit watching over your loved ones. You were my step-son but you were so much more than that to me. I loved you as if you were my own child. You were more than a son to your father. You were his best friend, his co-worker and his confidante. He misses you so deeply. They say time heals all wounds but this is such a great loss to all of us. You always made me feel like more than a step-mom but a real part of your life. I promise to take the best care that I possibly can of your father. Mary, Kelsey and Little Steven are in my thoughts and prayers daily. It is hard for them but I know that you will guide them from above. I found a poem by an unknown author which I think is something that you would say to your wife and children to comfort them. It is as follows:
All Is Well
Death is nothing at all,
I have only slipped way into the next room, I am I and you are you,
Whatever we were to each other, that we are still.

Call me by my old familiar name,
Speak to me in the easy way which you always used to.

Put no difference in your tone,
Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow, laugh as we always laughed at the little things together.

Play, smile, think of me, pray for me.
Let my name be ever the household word that it always was, let it be spoken without the trace of shadow on it.
Life means all that it ever meant.
It is the same as if ever was, there is no broken continuity.
Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight?
I am waiting for you, for an interval, somewhere very near,
just around the corner.

All Is Well

Steven I love you very much and will never forget you. You were an inspiration to me to live every day and never let the trials and tribulations get you down.
Sleep peacefully my "son"
Love,
Barbara

forever in my heart

November 10, 2008

steven jr and daddy

November 10, 2008

kelsey's father and daughter dance

November 10, 2008

all we have is memories love you.

November 10, 2008

always and forever

November 10, 2008

love you daddy steven jr.

November 9, 2008

dad I love and miss you so

November 9, 2008

steve I love and miss you so

November 9, 2008

liz oneill-guadagno

November 9, 2008

it's quiet night's brings in reminders ,
it's quiet days brings in thought's,
everyday is a day we all think of you.
your wife she feel's lost,
the kids fell the same way too.
but knowing you are here in spirit ,
will make the day a lil better too.
love, kindness ,and smiles are all that are left with us .
i am very lucky to have known you !

you and your family will always be in my prayer's !

LIZZY G

Frank Ciccone

November 5, 2008

May Steven take pride in the things that he has done in his life and watch over his wife and kids and protect them in this time of need from up above. I only wish I could have said goodbye before it was to late. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family and friends. Steven will be missed greatly.

Patrick Casey

October 30, 2008

Many years have past, though times are not forgotten. Rest my old Friend,my prayers are with you. My deepest sympathy and prayers are with your family.

catherine giblin

October 29, 2008

Dear uncle steven
I loved the way you felt so strong
I never wanted you to leave
I wanted you to stay here holding me I miss you
I miss your smile
And I still she'd a tear
Every once in a while
And even though it's different now
You're still here somehow
My heart won't let you go
And I need you to know
I miss you
You used to call me your dreamer
And now I'm living out my dream
Oh how I wish you could see
Everything that's happening for me
I'm thinking back on the past
It's true that time is flying but too fastI know you're in a better place, yeah
But I wish that I could see your face, oh
I know you're where you need to be
Even though it's not here with me
love alway
catherine
ps uncle steven you know that you will alway be my hero ...

Donna Tellier

October 29, 2008

Dear Mary, Kelsey and Steven,

I wish there were something I could do or say to fill the hole in your hearts right now but I can't. Pictures, memories and the beautiful children you have Mary, will hopefully help you through the hard times. We can always remember passing your house and Steven would always stop and say hello to us no matter what. Someday I guess we will all understand why such crazy things happen in this life. For now hold on to as much hope, faith, and memories that you can and know someday we will all end up together. We are not far if you need us.
Donna, Ron, Brieanna & Aubrey Tellier

Karen Cruso

October 25, 2008

I had the pleasure of meeting Steve during his short stay at Cherry Hill in Johnston, My sincere condolences to his devoted wife and family may god bless you and keep you during this difficult time.

Steve James

October 23, 2008

To the Flynn Family;

I'm at a loss for words, but give my deepest sympathy! May the great memories guide you in this time of mourning! May God be with you all...

MARY FLYNN

October 21, 2008

TO ALL FAMILY AND FRIENDS THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH FOR THE LOVE AND SUPPORT YOU HAVE SHOWED ME AND MY KIDS. STEVEN I AM SO LOST WITHOUT YOU I SIT AND THINK ABOUT YOU ALL DAY. I DONT EVEN KNOW WHAT TO DO WITH MYSELF. I JUST WANT TO RUN AND HIDE BUT I KNOW I CANT I WILL TRY TO REMAIN STRONG FOR YOU AND THE KIDS BUT SOMETIMES I CANT EVEN HELP MYSELF NEVER MIND HELPING THEM. I STILL REALLY HAVENT COME TO TERMS THAT YOU ARE REALLY GONE MY HEART IS SO BROKEN I SPEND MOST OF MY DAYS ASKING GOD WHY. I DONT EVEN WANT TO BE IN THE HOUSE WITHOUT YOU IT JUST DOESNT FEEL LIKE HOME ANYMORE. I LOVE YOU WITH ALL MY HEART YOU WERENT JUST MY HUSBAND OR MY KIDS FATHER YOU WERE MY BEST FRIEND AND I AM SO LOST WITHOUT YOU. UNTIL WE ARE TOGETHER FOREVER WATCH OVER ME AND THE KIDS AND I PROMISE I WILL MAKE YOU PROUD OF THEM . LOVE YOU STEVE. MARY

Melanie Bucci-Borges

October 19, 2008

Mary, I am so sorry to hear about Steven. My heart goes out to you and your children. I know the love that you two shared since you were kids will give you strength to keep going.

Caitlyn C.

October 17, 2008

Kelsey,
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Just try to remember the good times you shared with him, which will overpower the bad. My thoughts and prayers are with your whole family. <33

kathy chamberlain

October 17, 2008

Dennis,

We are very sad over the lost of your brother. Our thought are with you and the family. God bless you


Kathy Chamberlain and family

Angela Bianchi

October 17, 2008

To the Flynn Family,

I am so sorry for your loss. My daughter Sabrina is friends with your daughter and I just want you to know that you and your family are in our prayers.

Love the Bianchi Family

Debbie Collier

October 16, 2008

Our hearts and thoughts go out to you and your Loved ones.Ronnie Iacobucci is our cousin. Sincerely Dolores, Debbie ,Joyce and Family

Ellie Giblin

October 16, 2008

Mary, Kelsey & Steven JR. There are no word's i can say to take your pain away! All i'll tell you is that I Love You all with all my HEART & SOUL! And i will alway's be there for you when you need me. Mary you are not only my sister but you are my best friend. Kelsey & Steven JR. auntie LOVE'S you like my own. I will alway's remember the goodtimes we shared. Steven stayed strong through everything he had to endure & you never left his side! Now he is with his mom and she will take care of him.
LOVE YOU ALL,
Ellie

Joann Pratt

October 16, 2008

Mary,Kelseyand StevenJr., We want to express our deepest sympathy to you. Always remember when times get tough that Steven is always looking over you. You will all have a very special angel with you forever. Always stay strong for each other. All our love, The Pratt Family

Paul Borges

October 16, 2008

Ron and family-
My thoughts and prayers go out to all of you during this difficult time.

JOANN IANNOTTI

October 16, 2008

FAMILY OF STEVEN FLYNN,WE DID NOT KNOW HIM,BUT KNEW OF HIM AND HIS WONDERFUL FAMILY FROM MY GRANDAUGHTER KENDRA RUHLE. WHO KEPT US INFORMED OF THIS POOR KID AND WHAT HE'S BEEN TRHU. SHE HAD BEEN UPSET OVER THIS SINCE THE BEGINNING OF HIS ILLNESS.WE ARE SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS AND MAY GOD BLESS HIS SOUL. WITH SYMPATHY
JOANN & VINNIE IANNOTTI ANGELA CHIARINI AND KENNY RUHLE

Melissa Ray

October 16, 2008

Dear Mary, Kelsey and little Steven, nothing I can say will ease the pain of such a tragic loss. If you ever need to talk I am always here for you. Please stay strong and know that Steven is in heaven watching over you.

Linda LaPierre

October 16, 2008

Mary,children,Dennis(brother), Mr.Cioffi,Mario,&Ron,My deepest sympathy in the passing of Steven.I'm sure his mother embraced him with open arms.She will take care of him and together they will always watch over and protect you all.I am home sick and can not attend the services. Please except my sincere condolences and know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Linda LaPierre
Lifelong friend

October 16, 2008

Hello,
Our names are Eileen and Jack Mento. I, Jack, sing with Ronnie I. in Reminisce.
I am so sorry for your loss. I understand Steven has been through so much and has fought the hardest to remain with you. Now he is at peace and with his Mom. Remember he is always with you, just a whisper away. We will pray for your family to find the strength to understand this tragedy and continue on, as I'm sure he would want.
Eileen and Jack Mento

amanda giblin

October 15, 2008

hey uncle. i miss you. and i will never 4get you. i was at work today and all i could think about was you. and how funny u were. u always made me laugh even wen i didnt want too. like the day at the nursing home wen i was trying to finish the word search and u made fun of me because i was taking too long. haha
there are soo many good memories but the one memory i will never 4get is the 4 of july! every year you would go above and beyond with the fireworks!! i wouldnt want to go anywhere else but your house cuz i loved the fireworks!! no one can ever top ur fireworks. and every time i see them im always going to think of u and simle! you taught me so much uncle. you taught me never to give up no matter how hard something is. i love u soo much uncle
watch over us.
love manda

Roderick Sullivan

October 15, 2008

Mary i want to tell you im very sorry for steve passing away it is even sadder knowing how much of a great person he was inside and out.He kept you safe when you was young and made sure you got treated like a lady at all times.I couldnt have asked for a better brother in law then steve.Steve was the best father a kid could ever have.He was the most independant person i ever knew and always mad sure everything he did was the best it could be.I am so glad to have all those priceless memories of him.He was very strong and would never ask for sympathy thats what you have to keep in mind he wants you to be strong and remember him as the real person he was always joking and smiling.I know nothing can ease your pain but please just try to remember all the great times you two had.Please always remember that i am here for you always....Love always your brother Huggy...

Krsitie (Booth) Mooney

October 15, 2008

To The Family of Steven; I am so sorry to hear what has happened I haven't seen Steven since we were kids. But you have my deepest sympathy. My prayers are with his family

cathy zito

October 15, 2008

Dear Mary,Kelsey,and Little Steven, I am so sorry about the loss of such a special father and husband I miss him very much,but my pain can not compare to all of yours. Mary,you and Steven had such a strong love. The way you took care of Steven,Mary amazed me,always with such grace,never complaining,never saying why me? Not because you are my daughter but you are truely,a angel on earth,honey,I am so proud of the mother,wife,daughter,and friend you are. Steven,loved his family,he was a very strong man and fought a tough battle. Now you must be strong and make him proud of you It is not going to be easy,but alway know that I am not far away, all you have to do is call and I will be there,and when you need to be alone I will give you your space,I love you,Honey and I wish I could take your pain away. Always know that Steven lives in your heart,God did not want him to suffer anymore nor did you. Remember Honey,when Gramma passed away what you told me that she was in heaven watching over me,please find comfort from your own advise,I did. Talk to Steven he will hear you,in time you will find comfort knowing he no longer feels pain. Well, honey, I know,it seems so unfair,and it is. Remember Steven was a very strong and courageous man,he would not want you to quit,...remember him always in your heart. He lives always Kelsey and Steven are here and they are part of Steven so when you feel you need to hug Steve give them a extra hug. Please be strong and remember I love you,and will always be there for you God bless all of you . Always im ouy hearts and prayers, Mom and Phill

catherine giblin

October 15, 2008

Dear uncle steven
i miss you so much and love you and i just wish you were here nothing the same without you and i miss your smile but i know your in a better place and now no long in pain but you alway will forever be my hero and you be never be forgotten i love you uncle steven .

Kelley Cerbo-Charpentier

October 15, 2008

Mary, Kelsey and Steven,
Know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and try to remember the good times during the hardest of times. If you need anything please contact me. Everytime you all smile--think of Steven.

Donna and Farrell Layden

October 15, 2008

Dear Mary, Kelsey and Steven Jr.
I can't even begin to tell you how sorry we are for your loss.
Steven was a great person and im so glad I had the chance to know him. he was a great Father and a wonderful Husband. Steven will live on through memories and in your heart for ever. god bless you all.

JOE & DONNA TROLL

October 15, 2008

COUSIN DENNIS:

OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY AT SUCH A DIFFICULT TIME.

LOVE
COUSIN JOE

Jeanne Wagner

October 15, 2008

Although I never got to meet you, I heard the strength in your voice over the phone. Mary painted a beautiful picture of the wonderful man, husband and father you were. Life was too short for you but you left a memorable quality behind that will never be forgotten. Jeanne Wagner Kent OR

Sam and Stephanie Torres and Family

October 15, 2008

Dear Dennis and family,

No words can express how sorry we are. With the loving help of your family and friends, we will help you heal.May Steven rest in peace. God bless him.

Tammy Miccoli (Smith)

October 15, 2008

Dear Mary & Family ,
My deepest sympathy goes out to you all at this very sad time ..... may Steven rest in peace & god bless his whole family ........

dana hanley

October 15, 2008

Mary...
Iam so sorry to hear of Steven's passing...Remember the good times,as that will get you through this sorrow time...you and the kids now have a special guardian angel watching over you.
Dana (RICH) Hanley
johnston ri

Thurley Blye

October 15, 2008

Although we have not seen each other in many, many years. I still have memories of us as children. You will be deeply missed. My heart goes out to your family and friends. Love your cousin

Vinny & Natalie Sbraccia

October 15, 2008

Dear Mary, Kelsy and Steven

We lit a candle for all of you, at our home, next to our Saints that have been passed through our family.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you, the children and your wonderful supportive family. You are blessed.

This is a difficult time for all of you, and there is not much anyone can say to ease your pain, except God needed Steven more.

It's been over a decade that our parents have passed, the urning never goes away, the only thing that helps is "time" and it takes a long time.

Steven's spirit and memories will live through you and the children. On good days remember to smile and on a not-so-good day, take care of yourself and talk to Steven, he's listening and watching over you and the children, he will help you. We believe Steven's received his wings into the gates of heaven and eternal peace.

God Bless all of you.

aimee meleo

October 15, 2008

All I can do is laugh anytime I will think of Steven and for the rest of my life I will always do the same...every memory I have of him he was making me or someone else laugh(hysterically)...I was and still am in shock...I know there is absolutley nothing I can say to make you or the kids feel any better. You all have always been like an extended family to me and i will miss Steven very much...love u guys

DJ Giblin

October 15, 2008

Uncle Steven, there are millions of goods things i could say about you!! I think about you everyday,missing you terribley. I WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU WITH ALL MY HEART!! Love,your nephew DJ

Tommy Ricci & Lee Tracey

October 15, 2008

To all of the Flynn & Cioffi Families, We are very sorry to hear of Steven's passing. Please accept our sincerest sympathies. Steven was a great kid and we'll remember him fondly.

love your dad and vicky sullivan

October 15, 2008

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, ""I welcome you.""

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......""My day was not in vain.""
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008

Mass Sow

October 15, 2008

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Our thoughts are with you and your family.

The Sow Family

Sandy Groves

October 15, 2008

Hello-

You do not know me but I wanted to send my deepest sympathy to you and your family. My Dad passed away of the same type of brain tumor. I'm wishing you comfort in your memories - as no one can take those away-

Marie Kelvey

October 15, 2008

Mary and family sorry for your loss thoughts and prayers are with you atthis sadtime .Remember all the good times and keep them ln your heart as the heart never forgets. May God hold Steven in the palm of His hands until you meet again.Marie Kelvey

Kathie Marsland

October 15, 2008

Mary and family. I am so very sorry for your loss. I know how much you all loved Steve. There is little that can be said to you right now that will make you feel better. Just know that there are people who love you and will be there for you. Steve will always be with you in your hearts and in your children's eyes. I am sorry that I was not working when he passed. My thoughts and prayers have been and will be with all of you.

LIZ O'NEILL-GUADAGNO

October 15, 2008

MARY , KELSEY AND STEVEN JR. I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. I AM HERE IF YOU NEED ANYTHING AT ALL.
STEVE WILL BE MISSED AND THOUGHT OF IN MY PRAYERS .
GOD BLESS STEVEN..LOVE LIZZY G

LIZ O'NEILL-GUADAGNO

October 15, 2008

In My Pocket

I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.

My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.

They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.

Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.

But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.

SILVESTRES

October 15, 2008

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

The ONeill's

October 15, 2008

Take comfort in knowing Steven will always be watching over you and the kids. His memory will live on forever in the hearts of all his family and friends.

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