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Michael Flowers Obituary

Michael Brian Flowers, 31, of Bedford, died Saturday, August 30, 2008. Funeral service 2 p.m. Thursday, September 4, 2008, at Cool Springs Pentecostal Holiness Church. Visitation Wednesday, September 3, 2008, from 6 to 8 p.m. at Burch-Messier Funeral Home & Cremation Service, 317 W. Main Street, Bedford, Va., 540-586-7360.

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Published by Roanoke Times from Sep. 1 to Sep. 3, 2008.

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Patricia Jones

May 11, 2024

It's been 5 years Mike and I still miss you so much, I know you are in a better place baby, but we love and miss you so much.
Your aunt Trisha as you called me.

September 16, 2009

Well Mike time is approaching when we can post anymore, but that doesnt mean we will stop missing you,How did you like your Birthday party,allsome hu!,bet you had a bigger one in Heaven,I think about you every day. tears still flow, like now, but I will see you again someday, love from all of us here that will miss you more than you know,I will never tell you goodbye, just see ya later,
God speed my nephew
Patricia

September 15, 2009

Well Mike This will be your 2nd Birthday in Heaven, Our hearts are still heavy, We miss you but we know you are in a better place, Kalen is walking and talking but still very much looks like you, we see her in you every day,We all wanted to wish you a Happy Birthday, and know always we will be thinking about you and missing you, watch over us till we see you again in Heaven,With all our love,
God speed Baby
Patricia, Rickie, Tracy, Danny Kaylee, Chris, Melissa, Cody and Dakota,
Nanny and Grandaddy.

Aunt Patricia

May 28, 2009

Mike,Summer is almost here, sadly approaching a year since you left us,we all think of you everyday, and yes tears are still flowing,We miss you so very much,we know you are keeping an eye on Cassie and Kalen, she growing and looks like you more every day. You be happy riding that big cloud watching over us. You will as always be in our hearts. love you very much.
God Speed
From Me & Rickie, Chris, Melissa, Cody, Dakota, Tracy, Danny, Kaylee

Aunt Wanda Brown

May 21, 2009

Mike it has been almost 9 months since you left us.Ithasnt gotten any easer.Miss you so much.Love you with all my HEART.

Chris, Kristie, Tayler, Logan, Marshall and Vickie Burley

September 18, 2008

Carlton, Jean, Steve, Jeff and family,
I was in shock when my son, a kingergardener at Montvale, came home and told me that Mr. Flowers' son had passed away. I couldn't believe it! I am so very sorry for your loss and send my families most sincere condolences in these trying times. I remember Mike tagging along with Steve, Scottie, and me around the mountain. Especially the piggy back sleigh-riding down the mountain. I realize that Mike's birthday just passed and I am sure that just makes it a little more difficult. Again, you are in my thoughts and if I can help out in any way please give me a call.

Forever and Always, Cassie

September 15, 2008

Mike,
I just wanted to wish you a happy birthday. I know you're having the greatest birthday celebration you've ever had. I just wish I could be there to share it with you. But one day I will. You will always have a special place in my heart and I will always love you. I miss you so much. I Love You and Happy Birthday!!

Your sweet baby girl, Kalen

September 15, 2008

I love you Daddy. I hope you have wonderful and joyous birthday in heaven. I miss you!

Fran and Damien

September 15, 2008

We just wanted to wish you a Happy Birthday. We love you and miss you.

Dawn Flowers

September 15, 2008

Happy Birthday Michael, we love and miss you.

Patricia Jones

September 10, 2008

I have waited to do this Mike, It's been so hard, I watched you grow since birth, all of your cousins that grew with you,we will all have beautiful memories, but they will never take your place but its all we have now, So We will see you again. I'm going to wish you a early Happy Birthday in Heaven September 15th, but baby I know you're in a better place. I love you Mike, and God speed.
Aunt Patricia

Cassie

September 9, 2008

Sometimes things happen we don't understand. But you have to remember that GOD has a greater plan. I know its hard, we all want answers that none of us have. I know without a doubt that Mike is in heaven, walking with the LORD and watching over us. His life on earth was cut way to short and we are all going to miss him dearly. But if we keep looking to the LORD he will guide us and strengthen us. He will bring peace and understanding that surpasses all explanation. One day we will see Mike again and we will all rejoice in the presence of our LORD together.

"Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and do not rely on your own understanding; think about Him in all your ways, and He will guide you on the right paths." Proverbs 3:5-6

"We know that all things work together for the good of those who love GOD: those who are called according to His purpose." Romans 8:28

Rodney Andrews

September 7, 2008

I was extremely shocked to hear the news about Mike. I can always remember him smiling and giggling, it was so contagious it made me smile every time I was around him. I am deeply saddened and my heart goes out to his family. My prayers are with you!!

Ray & Linda Flowers

September 7, 2008

Carlton & family, We were deeply saddened at the loss of your son. If there is anything we can do please let us know. Our thoughts & prayers are with you. Sorry we could not be with you at this difficult time but we were out of town & did not learn of Michaels passing until we returned.

Scott Addison

September 6, 2008

To the Family of Mike,We are sorry to hear of Your loss.We worked with Mike at Miller Mechanical.Our Thoughts and Prayers are with You during this difficult time. Scott and Donald Addison

Sara Holdren

September 6, 2008

Jean,

I was blown away when I heard this unbelievable news. I know that you love your boys more than life itself, and I can only imagine the depth of misery that you are now experiencing. I am sending you this 'Native American Prayer' that I found...I hope that it helps in the healing and stands in for the words that I have lost:

I give you this one thought to keep:
I am with you still - I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the sunlight on ripened grain,
I am the diamond glints on snow,
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the
morning's hush,
I am the swift, uplifting rush of quiet
birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at
night.
Do not think of me as gone -
I am with you still, in each new
dawn.

God Bless You and Your Family,
Sara, Courtney, Parker, Will Holdren

Jeff Flowers

September 6, 2008

I will always have alot of memories of Mike, 28 years worth. I will remember his smile,laugh and how much fun we had. We would pick on one another all the time. We had a valuable bond. We had somthing called Brotherly Love. Sometimes it was tender and sometimes it was tuff love. That's how he was. I owe him alot because of him I am who I am. He always looked out for me whether I knew it or not.I know in my heart he will continue to do so. I am so proud to say Mike is my Brother my Friend my Flesh and Blood.He meant so much to so many. My family and I may have lost him but heaven gained another angel.So spead your wings and fly FREEBIRD. I LOVE YOU MIKE. Your lil brother Jeff.

Karen "Franklin" Sharpe

September 4, 2008

Steve, Dawn and Family,
You are in my prayers. Mike is with the beautiful angels in God's heaven. My heart goes out to you as you are going through a sorrowful time and after the days to come.

Michael Spence Jr.

September 4, 2008

Ride the wind my friend.

Michael and Gwyndalene Spence Jr.

September 4, 2008

I am very sorry for your loss. Michael was a great guy. He will be missed by all who knew him. I hope Jeff is doing alright. The whole family will be in my heart at this time of sadness. Time will not heal the hurt you feel but it will help you cope with the pain.

Steven and Teri Lam

September 3, 2008

Carl and Family,
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you at this sad time in your life. If you need anything please let us know. You are in our prayers.

Amy Elmore Mcroberts

September 3, 2008

At this time words cannot begin to heal the hurt that you're going through, but in time and with the lord by your side it will get easier. I want you to know that my prayers are with your entire family. I am sorry about the loss of your loved one.

Tracy & Daniel Waechter

September 3, 2008

To our entire family,
I know this is one of the hardest things we will have to go through as a family but all we can do is be there for each other and get through this together. Mike's life was cut way too short, all we can do is carry on for him and carry the lord above with us each and every day. He is gone but surely not forgotten. I love you all and Michael-spread your angel wings and watch down on us.
Love from:
Daniel, Tracy & Kaylee Waechter

Nik and Kelli (Cutshaw) Harvey

September 3, 2008

I am so sorry for your loss. Mike was such a wonderful guy. I have a lot of wonderful memories that I will always cherish. Please let me know if there is anything I can do.

TERRI SLOAN

September 3, 2008

YOU ARE IN OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS.

BARRY,TERRI & MICHAEL SLOAN
CARL ,BONNIE DELLINGER

Lisa Staton

September 3, 2008

Calton,Jean and family,

On behalf of my family my heart goes out to you.The loss of a loved one is hard but God will give you strength to make it thru.Take comfort in knowing that he is always here for us. My thoughts and prayers are with you in the upcoming days and weeks.


Lisa Staton and Jimbo Anderson

Lisa Staton

September 3, 2008

Calton,Jean and family,

On behalf of my family my heart goes out to you.The loss of a loved one is hard but God will give you strength to make it thru.Take comfort in knowing that he is always here for us. My thoughts and prayers are with you in the upcoming days and weeks.


Lisa Staton and Jimbo Anderson

Tim and April Heck

September 3, 2008

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Kelly Parker

September 2, 2008

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Pam Poole

September 2, 2008

Dearest Carl & Jean...
My heart, thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family. May your precious and treasured memories keep Michael close to you forever. Love, Pam

Ricky & Kathy Croft

September 2, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you cassie, If theres anything we can do just let us know.

Tiffany Parker

September 2, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Dreama Monteith

September 2, 2008

Jean, Carlton, Jeff, Steve, Dawn, Nannie & Roy

My heart breaks to hear of the loss of Michael. He was always so full of life and smiles. I saw his smile in the picture of his little girl when I went to Steve & Dawn's on Monday. I never will forget one night Dawn, Michael and I went to the movies. I needed to go into one of the stores before the movie started, so after the movie was over the mall itself had closed. We had to walk a heck of a long way to the car. Not to mention Dawn was about 7 months pregnant. They never let me live that one down. If any of you need anything, please let me know. And Steve, you have always been the brother that I never had. If you need someone to talk to, please call me anytime.

Mary Edwards

September 2, 2008

Carlton,Jean and Family, my heart goes out to you at this time. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Mike, Timmy, Bubba, Chris, an me along with other friends in high school

rodney brown

September 2, 2008

This is a picture of Mike, Timmy, Bubba, Chris ,an me along with someother friends in high school. Some of the best times in my life where with Mike. He always kept me laughing. I miss you cuz and I'll always love you !!!!!!!

Melissa Morton

September 2, 2008

Jean and Carl,
My heart goes out to you. I wish I had to words to make this all better. I did not know Michael, but if he was anything like the two of you I have no doubt he was a wonderful man. Please know I am here if I can do anything.

PATSY CROWDER

September 2, 2008

Jean
My heartfelt sympathy goes out to you in the loss of your son. You are such a special person and may God be with you and your family during this very difficult time.
Pat Crowder, Bedford

Cyndi & Kenny Sledd

September 2, 2008

Pat,
My heart goes out to you and your family during this very difficult time. You are in my prayers.

Katy Waff Craig

September 2, 2008

The world has lost a wonderful man, dad and son. He was a classmate and friend. May God help the Flowers family during this tragic time.

Faye Eubank

September 2, 2008

Jean,
I am so sorry for the loss of your son. I didn't know Michael, but you are such a special person - my heart goes out to you and your family in this very difficult time.
Faye Eubank

Jessica Keith

September 2, 2008

Cassie,
I am so sorry for your loss. I am praying for you and your little girl.
Thoughts and Prayers,
Love Jessica Keith

Tonia Tingler

September 2, 2008

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Mike at my house (Carlye) at 16 yrs old...seems like yesterday.

September 1, 2008

LEONARD&PATRICIA MONTEITH

September 1, 2008

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help at this time.

Dana Gillenwater

September 1, 2008

Jean, Carlton and Family,
I am writting this to you to tell you that there are things in this life that can tear your heart apart, but there is a physician that can heal that hurt.When you sit and wonder how this can happen to you, there is a comforter. When you feel like you can't go on, there is a shepherd waiting to help you through the storm back safely.His name is Jesus,He is our Almighty and wonderful Savior. Be not discouraged, keep your faith in God and he will see you through. I will never forget Mike, growing up with him. I pray that you find the peace that you need and the strength. Remember you have friends and family that love you all very much. God Bless you all.

Lisa & Chris Stage

September 1, 2008

My thoughts and prayers go out to all of the family. I did not know Michael, but Jean spoke so fondly of him.
With peace and Grace.
Lisa Stage (Nurse at Thaxton)
Chris Stage (Lifetouch)

Sian Baker (Overstreet)

September 1, 2008

Michael, Lovely Michael, I am truly devestated.

Uncle Carl - aunty Jean, The pain you both are suffering is unimaginable because grief is relentless in its power; it grabs hold of you like a cruel vice and refuses to let you go. People will advise you that, "Time Heals," and you will want to scream at them - but what we have found is that you eventually, after a long while, is that you get "Used" to the memory. It hurts just as much and it is there every day but is not so relentless as it was in the past - but only when it IS IN the long-ago past.
Michael was lovely, he didn't like bee's either. I remember the time he was driving up Taylors Mountain and there was a huge bee in the pickup. We tried to shift away from it all ways but it stayed buzzing around us - so we had to stop. We got out, our arms flailing all over the place in case the bee was in us. Chris was coming up behind us and he has never let us live it down.
I will miss you Michael; in my memory you are always there with Chris and Jeff, Rodney and Daniel - I wish with all my heart you were still there now.
Tomorrow, in the 'plane when I am very near the Angels with their beautiful feathered white wings and hearts of gold, I hope to chance just a glimpse of you being loved and adored in their arms.
I will always love you my cousin.
Love and Light, Sian XXXXXXX

Carlye Beverly

September 1, 2008

Carl, Jean and family,

It breaks my heart that Mike is gone. He always had a special place in my heart and always will. I'll never forget our childhood together. He was my sanity for many years on that mountain and one of my best friends. He was the nicest person you'd ever meet and could always bring a smile to my face. My heart and my prayers go out to you and your family and his new family. If there is anything I can do, please do not hesitate to reach out to me.

Michael Doss

September 1, 2008

Pat Jones and the Flowers Family

Our hearts and prayers go out to you and your family in this time of need. You have always been there for our family and we want to let you know that we will always be here for yours too.

With deepest sympathy,

M.H., Rosa, Stephanie, Mike, Barbara, and Robbie Doss

Lena Craig

September 1, 2008

I am so sorry for your loss of Michael. May God keep you strong and close. He will strengthen you and help you through this. Just put your trust in Him and He will do the rest. I know that Michael is in Heaven and is at peace.

Cindy Blankenship

September 1, 2008

Carlton, Jean and family,
I am so deeply saddened by the news that Mike is gone. I remember when he was little and what a sweet kid he was. You all have been a part of my life for a long time and I know that mere words can't ease the pain you are feeling. Lean on the Lord and He will give you the strength you need. I send you all my love and prayers!!!!

Sherie Craig

September 1, 2008

Words cannot begin to express how sorry Scott and I are for the loss of Mike. Mike became out next door neighbor as well as a good friend several years ago. We will always remember him as the funny, smiling, silly, and outgoing guy that he always was. Mike will always hold a very special place in my heart because he was there for me during the toughest time in my life. He was an amazing person and my life is better for knowing him. His time here was much to short, but he made such an impact on so many lives. We are going to miss him more than anyone could possibly imagine. Cassie, I know you are hurting right now, but just know that our Lord and Savior is here for you. He is at his strongest when we are at our weakest... so lean on him... and know that you are loved and if there is ever a time that we can do anything for you... I am just next door and will do anything to help you through this. To Mike's parents... I cannot begin to understand how you are feeling. The loss of a child is something that no one should have to face. If there is anything that we can do, please let us know and just know that you raised an amazing and loving son. God bless you all and I pray that you all receive a peace that surpasses all understanding.

SHANNON PARKER

September 1, 2008

MICHAEL I WILL MISS YOU SO MUCH, BUT I KNOW YOU ARE LOOKING DOWN ON CASSEY AND YOUR LITTLE GIRL AND WATCHING AND WRAPPING YOUR ANGEL WINGS AROUND THEM TO PROTECT THEM. YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. BUBBA,MISSES U SO MUCH. WE LOVE YOU SO MUCH.

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