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Bernard Fitzpatrick Obituary

Bernard (Barney) Fitzpatrick, 56, of Vinton, Va., passed away peacefully into the arms of St. Christopher on Thursday, September 18, 2008. Barney was a loving father, grandfather, son, brother, uncle and great-uncle. Barney was preceded in death by his mother, Betty Spradlin, whom he lived with and took care of for five years. Barney is survived by his daughter, Michelle; grandson, Cole, who was his heart and soul; his father, Gaylon Spradlin; sisters, Mary Spickard and her husband, Teddy, Leona LaPradd and her husband, David; brothers, Bill Spradlin and his wife, Gwen, Ricky Spradlin, who he always called little brother. Very special nephews, Dwayne Hawkins, who was his Pudgy, and his wife, Lisa, David Harris and his wife, Cheryl, David LaPradd and his wife, Michelle, Dustin LaPradd, Scott Spradlin, Aaron Spradlin; several greatnieces and nephews; his soul mate, Linda Davis; also many lifelong friends in Roanoke, Norfolk, Virginia and Mississippi. Private memorial services will be held out of town at a later date. Arrangements by Lotz Funeral Home, Vinton Chapel.

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Published by Roanoke Times from Sep. 20 to Sep. 21, 2008.

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Leona LaPradd

October 12, 2008

Barney,
It's been a week since we did as you wished. You were always a free spirit and now you will always remain one. The boat was filled with family and friends. You would have loved all that took place.
St. Christopher carried you to your destined place. So from the words of your favorite song "ride captain ride on your mystery ship".
I miss you,
LOVE LEONA MAE

Dwayne, Lisa, Cody and Colton Hawkins

October 3, 2008

Uncle Barney... Our Friend

Ashes to Ashes Dust to Dust
your Love will always remain
with us.

Your big heart and Loving ways
is something the ocean will
never wash away.

Now the Lord has taken you
to a better place we will
never forget your smiling
face.

We have you in our hearts
and minds so we know you
will always be Alive.

Author: Dwayne Hawkins

We love and miss you very much,

Love, Pudgy, Lisa, Cody and Colton

Leona LaPradd

September 28, 2008

Barney,
Heaven has a new angel and momma has you to take care of her once again. You two are together and that eases my pain.
All my love, Leona Mae

Mary Spickard

September 22, 2008

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, ""I welcome you.""

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......""My day was not in vain.""
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008

Dick Rodkey

September 21, 2008

Barney,
You will be missed

steve bebout

September 21, 2008

bill,
so sorry to hear of your loss. my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Judy,Steve,Lucille Radogna

September 21, 2008

Michelle,We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Carl and Annie Gillespie

September 20, 2008

Ricky,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and family in your loss of your brother.

The Finneys

September 20, 2008

Mary,
We are so sorry for your loss. Our deepest sympathy for you and your family. We will keep you and your family in our prayers.

September 20, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time.
Lots of love,
Roxanna

Steven, Judy and Lucille Radogna

September 20, 2008

Michelle and family,We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

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