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Melissa Lynn Brooks Carper

Melissa Carper Obituary

Melissa Lynn Brooks (Missy) Carper, 44, of Roanoke, Va., went to be with the Lord on Friday, October 24, 2008. She was a member of First Baptist Church and had fought a valiant fight with breast cancer. She was active in Breast Cancer Awareness Programs and was a nurse at Roanoke Orthopaedic Center. She was a 1983 graduate of Patrick Henry High School. She is survived by her husband, James A. Carper; son, Andrew C. Carper; daughter, Alayna C. Carper; her loving parents, Hubert and Jean Dillon Brooks; many aunts, uncles, cousins; and her beloved dog, Piper. Services will be at Oakey's South Chapel, 2 p.m. Tuesday, October 28, 2008. Interment will follow in Fair View Cemetery, Roanoke. The family will receive friends at Oakey's South Chapel on Brambleton Avenue from 2 to 4 and 7 to 9 p.m. on Monday, October 27, 2008. Arrangements by Oakey's South Chapel, 540-989-3131.

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Published by Roanoke Times from Oct. 26 to Oct. 28, 2008.

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Julie Deel

October 21, 2019

Melissa, Im sure you are smiling down on us. Miss you girl, love you. God Bless Always.

Diana Kyle

November 21, 2008

Dear Jimmy and Family:
There isn't much to say, in light of the tragedies we've both experienced this year. But we can only live on for them as they live on in our hearts.

Love you all dearly.

Laurie Platt

November 1, 2008

May the road rise up to meet you.
May the wind be always at your back.
May the sun shine warm upon your face;
the rains fall soft upon your fields and until we meet again,
may God hold you in the palm of His hand.

The Thomason and Cook Family's

October 30, 2008

Jimmy,Andrew,Alyna and the Brooks' Family we were deeply sadened to learn that Missy had passed away and lost her battle to cancer.Know that you all are in our thoughts and prayers always.Missy was a great person and she always had a smile that would light up the darkest room.I am very sorry that we did not hear of her passing until after the funeral we wished we could have been there to help comfort you as you all did in our time of need.Know that she no longer is suffering or in pain and she has my mother to keep her company for the time being.Andrew and Alyna I am so very sorry to hear about your Mom I know what you are going through because I myself went through it just last year as you both know.I have known your mother for as long as I can remember and she was a great woman she will be missed very much by everyone.May God hold you all close to his bosom and comfort you as you try to get through this trial and tribulation.If any of you need anything don't hesitate to pick up a phone and call.God Bless You!With deepest sympathy The Thomason and Cook Family's.

Amanda Holt

October 29, 2008

I would like to send my condolences to the family and let them know that they are in my prayers. I have known them for awhile and have watched their kids grow up. I know that it is very hard for them and I can't imagine what they are going through. I love you all!!

Rhonda (Cassell) Rader

October 29, 2008

I am so sorry to hear that Missy passed. We went to elementry school together and then met back up for junior high and high school. She always knew how to light up a room and she never met a stranger. She found me again on Classmates and I have been keeping up with her page and sending messages. I really hate that she has gone, but know, she is in a much better place without pain. My heart goes out to Jimmy, the kids and family. God Bless

Bill Schlueter

October 29, 2008

Jimmy and family, I am so sorry to hear about Melissa. My prayers are with you.

Karin Cole

October 28, 2008

Jimmy, Andrew, and Alayna
At a time like this it is hard to put thoughts into words. I do know Missy fought a hard battle and now she has won. What a blessing! My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. If I can do anything for you guys, please let me know.
Karin Cole

Robynn Jaymes

October 28, 2008

Heartfelt thoughts and prayers to you all. I had the pleasure of talking with Missy several times these last few weeks and she was and remains such an inspiration to me.

Sharon Johnson

October 28, 2008

Jimmy, Andrew and Alayna: I am so very sorry. You all know that you are in my prayers and my heart. Sharon Johnson

Sherrie Gillilan

October 28, 2008

Jimmy, My heart goes out to you and your family. May Missy fly with the Angels and I hope you and your family will find comfort and strength in your family and friends.

KRISTIE JOHNSON (ACT'S 2 LEADER)

October 28, 2008

Alayna, MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY AT THIS TIME.I AM HERE FOR YOU IF YOU NEED SOME ONE TO TALK TOO.ACT'S 2 ARE HERE FOR YOU AS WILL JUST CALL US

Shannon, Tillie, Spencer Colbert

October 27, 2008

We are so sorry for your loss. "Miss Melissa" as we knew her was a special teacher and friend for my children, Tillie, Spencer. We will all miss her!!!

Cathy Cobbs

October 27, 2008

Missy's family...I'm very sorry for your loss..I miss working with her and seeing her smiling face..take careand know she was loved...

Mariah Johnson

October 27, 2008

Alayna,I am very sorry about your lose. You and your family are in my prayers. I am with you and your family. I now how it feels to lose a special person and someone that is very close to your heart. You will always be one of my friends for life. You know that she is in a very safe, healthly, and very protected place.

Sincerly your friend,
Mariah

Susan Crowe

October 27, 2008

Your in our thoughts and prayers, miss you.

Rebecca Compton

October 27, 2008

Jimmy, Andrew and Alayna,
We are so very sorry for your loss. If there is anything we can do Please let us know. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. I only regret that we have been out of touch for so many years. I thought the world of Missy and had no idea that I wouldn't see all of you again. Take care of each other.
Deepest Sympathy,
The Compton Family,
Becky, Drew, Shannon,
Pamela and Billie Jo

Rebecca Compton
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Lolly McCray

October 27, 2008

Jimmy, Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Bill and I are always here for you. Please let us know if you need anything.

Vicki McDaniel

October 27, 2008

Jimmy, I haven't seen you in awhile and I am so sad to hear of your tremendous loss. God bless you and the during this difficlt time

Peggy Stephenson

October 27, 2008

to Missy's family & children,my prayers are with all of you. I worked with Missy at Rnke. Othopaedic Center. She was always up-beat and jolly in all she did. I can't think of a time I did not see her without a smile. She will be missed by many. We can only put our trust and hope in God. Look to him in the good times and the sad times. Jeremiah 29:12&13. Philp. 4:13- John 3:16 *

YMCA Magic Place Staff

October 27, 2008

To the Carper family, we are so very sorry for your loss. We offer our heartfelt sympathy and prayers and hope that you may find comfort in friends and family who share your love for Missy and the wonderful memories that only she could have left us with.
Sincerely,

Julie Deel

October 27, 2008

Jimmy, Andrew, Alayna and Dear Family I give you my warmest and sincere sympathy with prayers. God Will take care of you in this time of need.
We have lost a Beautiful person whom has touched many lives for this she will live on in our hearts.
" A Battle Well Fought, Missy!" We love you! May You R.I.P.

Mike Garrett

October 27, 2008

Jimmy,

You and your family are in our prayers. We were saddened to hear of Missy's passing. Please accept our deepest sympathies.

Dorie (Meador) Howard

October 27, 2008

Dear Hubert and Jean,
I am so sorry to read about Missy. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and her husband and children. She had wonderful, loving parents and I know there will never be words strong enough to express my condolences. May your faith get you through your loss until you are all reunited.
God Bless all of you,
Love
Dorie (Meador) Howard

Cindy Overstreet Wickline

October 26, 2008

My dear friend Jimmy and family, I was so sads to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. May your memories bring you comfort. I know how hard it is to lose a loved one as special as Missy.Take comfort that she is no longer in pain and suffering. She is watching down on you as she dance's with the angels. She will be your Guardian Angel smileing down on you as you live the everyday life and the one that gives you that little extra push when you need it. If there is anyting I can do please let me know.

Brenda Barbour

October 26, 2008

To my aunt and uncle I am so sorry for the lose of Missy. She will be missed by our family. You and your family will be in our prayers.

Brenda and Cheyenne

Stacey Hill

October 26, 2008

"And, in the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make"
We are in awe of the strength and love you showed us all, always.

-love Cindy Bailey and children

Stuart and Nina Bethel

October 26, 2008

To the Carper and Brooks family. Our hearts are with you, if you need anything call us. We love all of you very much, and we all have some great memories of Missy. Love Stuart and Nina

Betty Ann and Bill Shaner

October 26, 2008

Dearest Jean and Hubert,

You and your dear family have been in our thoughts and prayers during Melissa's illness, and especially since hearing of her death on Friday. It is always so hard to lose a loved one, and we can only imagine how difficult it must be to lose a beloved daughter. You were always such loving parents, and we know she was nothing but a joy to you. We are sure you have many special memories to cherish and comfort you. We are sorry we will not be able to attend the funeral, but do know we will be there with you in spirit.

You have our deepest sympathy.

Much love, Betty Ann and Bill Shaner

CATHY WRIGHT

October 26, 2008

DEAREST JIMMY AND FAMILY, PLEASE KNOW THAT AS MANY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS THAT HAVE BEEN WITH MISSY ARE STILL WITH YOU. I HAVE SOOO MANY WONDERFUL MEMORIES WITH YOU AND MISSY THAT ALL I CAN DO IS SMILE AND THANK THE LORD ABOVE THAT YOU HAVE BEEN IN MY LIFE. FROM THE FIRST HELLO AT SPELLBOUND TO THE LAST HELLO AT THE BENIFIT NOTHING BUT SMILES. I TREASURE MY LAST DANCE WITH HER AND THE STRENGTH IT TOOK FOR HER TO GET UP THERE AND DANCE. MAY ALL OF THE WONDERFUL THINGS SHE STOOD FOR AND ALL OF THE WONDERFUL THINGS SHE DID STAY WITH THE CHILDREN AND YOU UNTIL YOU MEET HER AGAIN, I WILL LOVE YOU ALL ALWAYS.

Maria Duval

October 26, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with Jimmy and his children. I am so sorry to hear about your loss.
God Bless you.

Scott Laughon

October 26, 2008

Jimmy and family,
I am so sorry for loss of Melissa. May you find peace in this very difficult time. You are in my prayers.

Scott Laughon

Donna Dickerson

October 26, 2008

My darling Carper family. To Jimmy, Andrew (my other baby boy) and Alayna (my sweetheart) I don't even know what to say. I know the hurt I feel and can not imagine how heavy your hearts are. Missy was someone you can't even find the perfect word for. She has been such a role model for so many, she touched the hearts of people she never knew. But our promise to you is you will live on and we will all continue your work to remind others to have their check ups and to live EVERY day as if it is your last. Live your life to the fullest, let your friends and family know just how much you love them because you can never say "I LOVE YOU" to many times. Missy I had the honor to be right by your side when God said "Missy, come home, my good and perfect servant. Your work on earth is done." Come rest high on MY mountain, for your work on earth is done. Come to HEAVEN ah shouting love for the Father and His Son." I know you are waking by the beach, with no worries and no pain, I pray you know the love you gave and that this earth has lost one of the most beautiful souls there ever lived. Don't worry we will all take care of your family and each other. But most important we will see you again. Save us all a seat next to that beautiful beach because we can only Imagine, YOU have seen and touched the face of our FATHER and His mercy will bring us through. We love you Missy Girl!! And we will carry what you tought us in our hearts and lives forever. I LOVE YOU!

Mary Anne Huff

October 26, 2008

Dear Jimmy and children, When you read this it won't help with your loss of Missy. No matter who signs this, we all know she "fought the good fight" and now her battle is over. Just keep the memories of the "good times" and soon all the bad will be past.
Love to all of you..Mary Anne, Mary Neva, and Jamie Huff--Juddy and Stephanie will want to sign themselves.

Susan Shuler

October 26, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you all in this happy but sad time Missy will be missed just remember she is with you always.

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