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Helen M. Duffy

1922 - 2009

BORN

1922

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2009

Helen Duffy Obituary

Helen M. Duffy, of Salem, passed away January 20, 2009. She was born May 8, 1922, in Davy, W.Va., the daughter of a coal miner. Her parents, Domenick and Synthia Merilic, predeceased her. She was also predeceased by her husband, Norman R. Duffy, whom she married September 21, 1940; her beloved son, Daniel R. Duffy; brothers, Jim, Leo, Junior, Ronnie, Frank, and Pete; and her sisters, Macie and Gladys. She is survived by her son and daughter-in-law, Mike and Julie Duffy, of Salem; three granddaughters, Heather Parisi and husband, Michael, of Manassas, Barbara Duffy, of Salem, and Sherri Beregovoy, of Miami, Fla.; four greatgrandsons, Alex, Andy, and Erik Bergovoy, and Owen Parisi; sister, Jean Moore Palermo; sister-in-law, Clara D. Scaggs; and many nieces and nephews. She lived a busy life raising her sons, and later working in the family business, Vogue Cleaners and Laundry. Her last job was working beside Dan at Star City Cleaners, and she worked until she was 84 years old. She loved her family which she was very proud of, and she loved to play Bingo. She was a member of Bethel Baptist Church. She was a proud, beautiful lady and will be greatly missed by her family and friends. The family would like to thank Good Samaritan Hospice and Home Instead Senior Care for their kindness and care. A funeral service will be conducted at 2 p.m., on Thursday, January 22, 2009, in the chapel of John M. Oakey and Son with the Pastor Hilton Jeffreys officiating. Interment will follow at Sherwood Memorial Park. The family will receive friends on Wednesday, January 21, 2009 from 2 to 4 p.m. and 6 to 8 p.m. at John M. Oakey & Son Funeral Home, Salem. To send condolences online, please register at www.johnmoakey.com.

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Published by Roanoke Times on Jan. 21, 2009.

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Dan Duffy,Helen's favorite son, with his beloved grandsons two days before he passed.

Sylvia Duffy Woolwine

January 23, 2009

I miss you very much. You were always such a fine and dignified lady and the best Mother-In-Law anyone could ever ask for. I miss your dear, sweet "Danny Ray" every day and our daughters have grieved so much for your wonderful son. I know your heart was broken when he passed away just the same as ours. But I will always be grateful to you, his beloved mother, for raising such a fine son. He was the light and love of my life and he was so very proud of Sherri and Barbara. I love you. I miss you. Sylvia

Dean Wood

January 21, 2009

Mike,
We are sorry to hear of your loss. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Dean, Teresa, Chris and Jennifer Wood

susan hall

January 21, 2009

barbara, i am so sorry about your loss.

Martia Pritchett

January 21, 2009

I'm sorry to hear of your loss. We love you Barbara!

CYNTHIA TERRY

January 21, 2009

Mike and Julie,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. You and your family will be in my prayers.

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