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Thomas Smallwood Obituary

Thomas Harry Smallwood, 72, of Roanoke, Va., passed away on Tuesday, June 30, 2009, one day prior to his seventy-third birthday. He was the son of the late Harry Daniel Smallwood and Erna Belle Harvey Smallwood. He was preceded in death by a brother, Dr. Harvey Daniel Smallwood, of Charlottesville, Va.; and a sister Virginia Smallwood McDonald, of Grundy, Va. Tommy graduated from Jefferson High School, Roanoke College with a B.A. degree in economics, The School of Bank Management of the Virginia-Maryland Bankers School, and The Stonier Graduate School of Banking at Rutgers University. He was Director of Personnel and Training for Dominion Bankshares Corporation and was later a realtor in the Roanoke Valley. He taught in the evening program at Roanoke College and served in the United States Marine Corps Reserve.
In 1972 to 1973 he was appointed Chairman of the Mayor's Committee on Employment of the Handicapped and later served on the Governor's Committee. He was an active Kiwanian, an American Jaycees Board member, a president of the Personnel Association of Roanoke, a board member of the American Institute of Banking, a member of the Roanoke College Alumni Council and an Elder at Second Presbyterian Church.

He is survived by his wife of 46 years, Eugenia (Gene) Hurt Smallwood; a daughter, Ellen Smallwood Peete and husband, Randall, of Greensboro, N.C.; and a son, Kirk Dunlap Smallwood and wife, Katherine, of Burke, Va. Also surviving are four beloved grandchildren, Stuart MacLennan Peete, Christopher Banks Peete, Benjamin Patrick Smallwood and Margaret Louise Smallwood, who will greatly miss Gaga. Tommy cherished the love and support of his devoted family and many dear friends.

A memorial service will be held 12:30 p.m. on Friday, July 3, 2009, at Second Presbyterian Church with L. Gerald Carter officiating. Friends are invited to a reception at the church following the service.
In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to Second Presbyterian Church, 214 Mountain Ave., Roanoke, Va. 24016, Roanoke College, 221 College Lane, Salem, Va. 24153, or a charity of choice. Arrangements are by Oakey's Roanoke Chapel, 540-982-2100.

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Published by Roanoke Times from Jul. 1 to Jul. 2, 2009.

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Bill Seddon

July 11, 2009

Thanks to Tommy I started my career at First National Exchange Bank for a few years until I moved to Atlanta. Tommy was always positive. I remember Tommy announcing the death of JFK.

Linda Whitenack

July 3, 2009

I worked with Tommy at Dominion for a few years. He was a true gentleman and a wonderful person. My condolences to all of his family and friends, I know he will be missed.

July 2, 2009

My condolences to all in the Smallwood family.

Karen Chupka, Arlington, VA

Pat Perdue

July 2, 2009

My deepest sympathy to Gene and family. Tommy hired me in 1962 as a secretary at the old First National Exchange Bank. We were co-workers and friends for over 30 years. He was a very caring individual.

nancy main

July 1, 2009

Such a good friend during our high school years. He will be missed my many, especially his wonderful smile!!

My love to the family,
nancy main buck

Ashley Clements (Freed)

July 1, 2009

Gene, Kirk & Ellen,
I am so sorry! I just tell myself that John Freed wanted him to come keep him company. Tommy was a great guy and so sweet to me. Always thoughtful and asked about others. All of you will heal by talking about him and keeping his memories alive. Tim and I are thinking about you! (((hugs)))

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