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Thomas Murray Obituary

Thomas Aaron Murray, 70, beloved husband, father, grandfather and uncle, died Tuesday, August 4, 2009. Mr. Murray was born on January 18, 1939, in Horsepen, West Virginia to Ella Mae Yates and Thomas Daniel Murray. Tom is survived by his loving wife of 47 years, Sue Williams Murray and his children, son, Jeffrey Aaron Murray and his wife, Allison Smith Murray; daughter, Susan Murray Bowers and her husband, Mark Donald Bowers. He is also survived by his beloved grandchildren who were the light of his life, William Thomas Bowers, Mary Katherine Bowers and Annetta Erin Bowers; Samuel Thomas Murray, Charlotte Sarah Murray and Tessa Elizabeth Murray, as well as two nephews, Chadwick Leroy Murray and Stacy Leonard Murray. Tom's career as a mechanical engineer spanned 37 years with Hercules, Inc. His job took him and his family to many locations: Radford, Virginia; Wilmington, Delaware; Louisiana, Missouri; Covington, Virginia; Terre Haute, Indiana and ending at the Research Center in Wilmington, Delaware. Tom and Sue retired to Clayton, N.C. This location combined his loves of golf, the Virginia Tech Hokies and his grandchildren. Tom also enjoyed his retirement job at the Polo Outlet in Smithfield, N.C. Tom and Sue are members at Edenton Street United Methodist Church. The family will receive friends from 6:30 to 8:30 p.m. Thursday, August 6, 2009 at Brown-Wynne Funeral Home, 300 St. Mary's Street, Raleigh, N.C. 27605. There will be a funeral service at Edenton Street United Methodist Church on Friday, August 7, 2009, at 2 p.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to the Make A Wish Foundation, Eastern North Carolina Chapter, 3803-B Computer Drive, Suite 108, Raleigh, N.C. 27609. Condolences may be sent through the guest book at www.brownwynne.com.
Published by Roanoke Times on Aug. 5, 2009.

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August 27, 2009

Sue and family
You know that you and Tom meant the world to me when you were living in Terre Haute, and Sue you still do. We had several memorable "outings" that I will always cherish. I know it has been awhile since we have communicated, and I am so sorry that it is under these circumstances. But please know that my prayers and thoughts are always with you. Tom was a very special person and you, the kids and grandkids have so many fond memories of him that you will cherish for a life time.

Melanie

Richard Woodruff

August 18, 2009

Mrs. Murray & Family,

I was a classmate with Tom at VPI. We lost contact after graduation, but I sure remember him as a good guy and friend. We ate together often, and we had a group of 3-4 that often did things together. I was sad to hear about Tom. I know the hardest is on his wonderful wife and kids/grandkids.
I just wanted you to know that there is a former friend in Austin, TX that is thinking of you in these times.
Richard Woodruff, Class 1960, G Company Corps of Cadets.

August 12, 2009

Mrs. Murray,
I so enjoyed conversations with Mr. Murray when I was the Worship Chair at ESUMC and was in the narthex during the services. I doubt that our paths would have crossed if I had not been on that committee. I am thankful that I had the opportunity to meet him. He was a wonderful person. One thing was certain - he loved and was proud of his family.

Linda Cross

Susan Trongard

August 7, 2009

Susan & family and Jeff & family,
I am so sad to hear about your dad. My heart aches for you all in your sorrow. He made so many people smile. You will be in my prayers as you make it through this difficul time. Please give my love to your mom.

Susan (Luther) Trongard

Kelly Lewis

August 6, 2009

Dear Susan, Mark, and family: We love you all so much and our hearts hurt for you and your loss. Just know you are in our prayers. Kelly, Joe, Maggie, & Lucy.

Mandy McCorkle

August 6, 2009

Dr. Jeffrey Murray and family. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. The Lord will give you the strength to get through each day. Just remember the Lord will not give you more than you can handle and He will never leave you or forsake you.

August 6, 2009

"Perhaps they are not the stars, but rather openings in Heaven where the love of our lost ones pours through and shines down upon us to let us know they are happy". Our deepest condolences to you and your family.
Joy,Carson, Aidan and Sarah.

Lyn and Bill Tatum

August 5, 2009

Jeff and Al,
We are sad for you. Please know we are thinking about you.
Lyn and Bill Tatum

Carol Sue Zimmerman

August 5, 2009

Dear Sue and Family -
My thoughts and prayers are with each of you during this difficult time. You may know me as Kay Reaser's little sister, Carol Sue. I walked in these shoes a couple of years ago but know that our wonderful Lord will keep you close and safe. My sympathy goes out to each member of the family.
Carol Sue Barnette Zimmerman

David Rakestraw

August 5, 2009

Sue, please know you are in our thoughts and prayers. David & Mary Whitney

Mary Whitney Rakestraw

August 5, 2009

Sue, we are so so sad to hear about Tom. I know you and your family will miss him very much. He was such a great man, and such a great friend. We love you and are praying for you and your children and grandchildren. If there is anything at all we can do for you, please let us know. Love, David, Mary Whitney and Caroline

jackie duke

August 5, 2009

Dear Dr Murray and Family
We are sad to hear of Mr Murrays passing
IWe know that he was loved in a special way and we are hoping that you will know that we are thinking of each of you during this sad time.
Love Always
Jackie and Curt Duke

August 5, 2009

Dear Dr Murray and Family
We are sad to hear of Mr Murrays passing
IWe know that he was loved in a special way and we are hoping that you will know that we are thinking of each of you during this sad time.
Love Always
Jackie and Curt Duke

Sherry Hollifield

August 5, 2009

Dear Dr Murray,

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Please know that my prayers are with you and your family.

Sherry Hollifield

Kay Barnette Reaser

August 5, 2009

On behalf of the Big Creek High School Class of 1956, our deepest sympathy to all of Tom's family,
especially his dear wife, Sue.

Cheryl Smith

August 5, 2009

"Sue and Family, my sincere sympathy for your loss. In such a short time, you and Tom have become dear friends. I will miss him and pray that you will find comfort in knowing God loves him more and that you too can find peace in the arms of God."

Bob Williams

August 5, 2009

Dear Eva Sue and family,
Our heartfelt thoughts and deep and sincere sympathy are with you today.
Love,
Bob and Clarone

Jeffrey Murray

August 5, 2009

I love you always, and will miss you more than you could ever know.

Margaret Lee

August 5, 2009

Sue,
You have our deepest sympathy. May God keep you and your family in His loving embrace.

Kay & Buddy Reaser

August 5, 2009

Dear Sue and family,
Our hearts are heavy. Tom was a dear friend who will be missed by many, especially us. Thoughts, prayers are sympathy are with all of you.
Love,

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