David Metzler Obituary

David Lee Metzler, 19, of Lynchburg, died the week of Aug. 24, 2009. He was a sophomore majoring in industrial and systems engineering at Virginia Tech.

Published by Roanoke Times from Aug. 28, 2009 to Jan. 11, 2010.

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We continue to pray for your families and set in remembrance the honor that was given to David's & Heidi's Savior, Jesus, a year ago.

Charmeyne Payne

September 6, 2010

May 20, 2010

David and Heidi are thought of daily. We hope and pray that you families are getting through this time of trail. Please remember that when you only see one set of footprints you are being carried.

Brenda

December 30, 2009

May God fill your hearts with joy and happiness this blessed season that is upon us...knowing David is celebrating his first Christmas in heaven. I can only imagine the beauty of it.
I continue to pray for you all.

Diane

December 18, 2009

Have just read about David and Heidi and am so very sorry.
My thoughts are with you both and all your family and friends, take care.
God bless you all XXX
Darren

Darren Wallings

December 7, 2009

Please know that you are in so many people's hearts and prayers this Thanksgiving. May the Lord bring special comfort to your heart this week. We continue to pray that you will see God's hand at work in this horrible tragedy. You are a testimony of the grace and mercy of the Lord to so many people. Linda Whitaker

Linda Whitaker

November 24, 2009

We have never met but are members of Heritage Baptist Church. We continually pray for God to comfort you and heal your broken hearts as only He can do. We cannot imagine your pain but pray that time and God will take away all hurts.

Jack and Merle Slusher

November 21, 2009

I continue to pray for your family. I hope each one has found comfort in your memories and the love you had for them and your Savior. I pray that this Thanksgiving they are uplifted knowing you are walking the streets of gold.

Diane

November 20, 2009

Susan & Keith
We are shocked beyond words. May God be with you both and all your family

Hebditch Family

November 10, 2009

Keep the candle burning, I will cont. to keep you all in prayer.

Janice Grigsby

October 27, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Vickie Chisom

October 27, 2009

God is in control. Trust in him.

Someone Who Cares,
Chester, Virginia

October 27, 2009

I am deeply sorry for the tragic loss of your son. What an obviously fine, wonderful young man you raised.You and your family will continue to be in my daily thoughts and prayers. May the Lord continue to be with you and yours more than ever.

Susan Stephenson

October 26, 2009

Susan and Keith,

I am so sorry for your loss. You both come from generations of good and strong people which will help you and your families through this difficult time.

Ned Pryor

October 17, 2009

Gods treasures have been called home early in their lives. The world will miss them because we do need tresures like them so much.One day we will all join and rejoyce with them again. My prayers with you

MARK RAYSOR

October 5, 2009

May closure be close and peace be brought to all of you. This terrible crime will be resolved and your minds will have that knowledge that will help close the wound this crime has opened.

barbara

October 1, 2009

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

October 1, 2009

Dr. Metzler, Susan and family, it has been one month since your precious son, David, was delivered into the arms of Jesus. I have never lost a son and don't know how you feel, but daily I pray that the Lord Jesus wraps HIS arms of comfort and peace around you. We as parents don't expect to bury our children, the role should be reversed. I know this is what my father and mother in law constantly said and still do when they talk about my dear husband. Even though the guest book will close soon, please know there are a lot of us who will still continue to pray all of you. Jeremiah 29:11

Jeannine Dorrin

September 29, 2009

To the Metzler Family,

I did not know your son David, but as a Virginia Tech employee I wanted to let you know that my heart goes out to his family. I can not imagine what you must feel, but I pray that you will find comfort in your memories together. May our heavenly father wrap his arms around you in this difficult time.

Sheila Blankenship

September 29, 2009

My deepest condolences to your family. To loose one so young cannot be easy or expected. I cannot even imagine. I try to remember the from God for those lost, to see them once again.

(1 Corinthians 15:22-26) For just as in Adam all are dying, so also in the Christ all will be made alive. 23 But each one in his own rank: Christ the firstfruits, afterward those who belong to the Christ during his presence. 24 Next, the end, when he hands over the kingdom to his God and Father, when he has brought to nothing all government and all authority and power. 25 For he must rule as king until [God] has put all enemies under his feet. 26 As the last enemy, death is to be brought to nothing.

J Opolski

September 27, 2009

My deepest condolences to the Metzler Family. The pain of lossing a child is so hard. I pray God will give you peace and your friends and familes will be your support system. The days and weeks will be hard. I loss my 26 year old son in July 2008. You are in my prayers. God Bless.

Karen

September 24, 2009

To The Metzler Family,

Please know that all of our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time! Although Sergeant Child's is a co-worker of ours, your family is considered to be a very special part of our VSP Family as well!! We were all saddened to learn of your loss, but know God is in total control!! Once again you all have our deepest condolences and we will keep you all in our thoughts and prayers!! May God Bless You All!!

VSP Division Six Dispatcher's

September 21, 2009

I DID NOT KNOW THIS YOUNG MAN, BUT MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AT THIS TIME. GOD BLESS

Janet Lutz

September 20, 2009

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Dreama Locks

September 19, 2009

To the family of David Metzler

May the love of our Lord bring you peace in the days that follow. As a parent who has lost a child I truly know the depth of you sorrow.(April 2007 VT) Your strong Faith will get you though the hard days. Both David and Heidi's love for their God will be a legacy for all who loved them

In Christ's Love

Tracey Lane

September 17, 2009

I was fortunate enough to meet your son David through his visits in the ice cream truck to our neighborhood. His smile and kindness to my children will be fondly remembered. Your families are in our thoughts and prayers.

Sarah and Mike Dunlop

September 14, 2009

To Susan, Keith and family - I just wanted you to know that ever since Pastor Mark announced your tragic loss, I have been praying for you and your extended families, as well as Heidi's. I can't imagine the depth of your sorrow and pain. I can only take comfort in your strong faith and knowledge that David and Heidi are in the Father's care and you will all be reunited one day. I know that doesn't take away the ache in your hearts, but pray that our loving Lord and Father will continue to bring you comfort and peace and wrap you in His strong, yet gentle, loving arms.

Deb Henkel

September 13, 2009

My eyes are filled with tears as I see a fine young man who has gone to be with Jesus.May He be your Rock during this difficult time.
Jeannie Fulton, Yorba Linda, CA

September 12, 2009

"God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. Therefore we will not fear though the earth gives way, though the mountains be moved into the heart of the sea, though its waters roar and foam, though the mountains tremble at its swelling." Psalm 46:1-3

We are praying for you.
The Brownes, Williamsport, Pennsylvania

September 12, 2009

Dear Susan and family,
I just today learned of the tragic loss of your son. I don't know if you remember me from Catonsville High School. I graduated with your brother Tom but knew you too. My heart aches for you and your family and the pain you are going through.
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends. I will continue to pray for you and your entire family.

Mary Bidne Daley

September 12, 2009

Dear Keith,
Almost 50 years ago in a small town called Pompton Plains, Walt and Joyce Metzler "walked the walk" and demonstrated to the community what faith in Christ meant. Their legacy obviously was continued through you and your lovely wife Susan and your son, David. I cannot begin to understand the pain that you all must be going through, but I am so grateful for the hope that we have in Christ, which is our only comfort in times like this. As I read the news coverage, heard the online testimonies and read the entries in this memory book, it is obvious that your son was totally immersed in his faith and made an impact for our Lord on those he came in contact with. The pictures of him and Heidi demonstrate to all who see them the inner glow that comes from finding the "joy of the Lord" and I just wanted to keep staring at them to try to capture some of the delight that they obviously found in each other and their shared faith. Please know that the entire Brown family has you all in our hearts and prayers as you walk down this path that no one should have to travel.

Deb Wasylik

September 12, 2009

Dear Keith, Susan, and Family,

You continue to be in our thoughts and prayers, and we are deeply saddened and grieve for the loss of your loving son. I met your family several years ago when I helped my brother Milum, Laura, and their children move next door to you in Forest. Milum has always spoken so fondly of your family. I know the friendship between you is cherished. I pray the peace and love of God comfort you and your family.
Steve, Alesia, Nickolas and Kayla Livesay

Steve Livesay

September 11, 2009

Dear Keith and Susan,
I heard of David's death through Gao Yun via email. I am awash with grief for all of you as your sorrow must be overwhelming. My prayers for you have been constant. Memories of David and your family were a key part of our time in China together. I remember David and Jimmy riding together in the front of the van, chattering away. He seemed to know more Chinese than any of us! I was impressed with this quiet, gentle boy whose life had such a powerful impact on the Chinese. We were all blessed to know such a fine boy and a wonderful family, like all of you. You are forever in my heart. My sincerest sympathy and prayers for your comfort and peace and God's ongoing grace.
Jo Ann Walczak

Jo Ann Walczak

September 9, 2009

Susan -
You and your family are in our prayers. We heard of this horrid and senseless tragedy on the news, and then Bev K. called from FL to make it personal (The Catonsville UMC connection). Everything I've read about your son and his girlfriend indicate that they were fantastic young people. May your memories of them, your faith, and God's love and grace bring you, your family and your parents (who we know through Catonsville UMC, and when your dad was Principal at Catonsville Jr. High) peace and comfort.

With heartfelt sympathy,
Anne (Boyd) & Steve Earle

September 7, 2009

Dear Keith & Susan (and Family). I am not sure you will remember me, but I worked at FBC with your folks and also I am a good friend with Sharon. I was very shocked as I heard the news on Nancy Grace's program and recognized Keith when he was interviewed. I share your sadness. Your family has always been a special family to me. I think Momsie & Popsie were parents who were such a Godly example to their family and to all of us who knew them. My prayers and thoughts are with you.
As always, Dee Cail

Dee Cail

September 7, 2009

Love and prayers.

Geoff Williams

September 6, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

MEADOWS FAMILY

September 6, 2009

My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

Dawn Elmore

September 6, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with all the friends and family of David.
The Cooper Family

September 5, 2009

Dear Metzler Family,
Please know that our deepest condolences are with you at this very difficult time. May God lift you up like eagles wings. Hold close to the word of God. God is a very present- living- comfort to us all. Be so proud of what a wonderful son you raised, and always cherish his memory. For God must have needed him more.God bless you all.You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Carl & Melany Franklin

September 4, 2009

Dear Metzler Family,
You loss is incomprehensible to anyone who has not lost a child. To those of us who have or were close to those who have, its impossible to survive without faith in a Loving God and compassionate Savior. While your yearning for David is seemily insurmountable now, your faith and the love of those around you will bring you through. Maybe not at first, but it will in time. Your family is in my prayers. God be with you and your family.

Buffi Holland

September 4, 2009

Rest in peace, David. God Bless You!

Dewayne Standridge

September 3, 2009

Dear Susan and Keith,

We were so shocked and saddened at the news about David and his girlfriend, Heidi. We love you and your family, and we are remembering you all in our prayers each day. We don't understand the things that happen to us, but we know that God is in control.

Love, Larry, Patsy, and Larry Jr.

Larry and Patsy Stokes

September 3, 2009

SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS,MY HEART GOES OUT TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY,MAY GOD COMFORT YOU.

September 2, 2009

Dear Keith and Susan,
"God may not remove the storm in your life, but He will remove the storm in your heart."--This was what you said to Grace when she was having a difficult time. This is what I keep in mind for all these years. And this is fairly true.
I'm so at a loss of words to express the wrenching ache in my heart for David's early home-going. It's just unbelievable even up to now. But I'm fully convinced that your statement at the funeral--"God, if it would bring You more honor to take David, then we are willing"--is exactly through which God is glorifying Himself, and will continue to glorify till the day we get together with David again.
Where the lamentation seems overwhelming, there the consolation would be overflowing even more abundantly from the throne of our faithful Savior and Lord Jesus Christ!
Please be sure that you are always in my prayers.
God bless.

Betty Zhang

September 2, 2009

We were so very saddened to hear of David and Heidi's sudden home going --much too soon. All of you remain constantly in our prayers at Columbia International University.

Morgan Jones

September 2, 2009

You all are in our thoughts and prayers. With our deepest sympathy.

Deitz & Terry Lilly

September 2, 2009

I am praying for your family at this time of such sadness. May the Lord wrap His loving and comforting arms around you and give you peace.
Linda Whitaker, Richmond, VA

September 2, 2009

Our hearts, thoughts and prayers go out
to this precious family. We can not
even imagine what you must be going
through, but the good Lord knows.

Roland & Nina Taylor

September 2, 2009

Praying for you with deep sadness at this great loss.

Nancy Casillas

September 2, 2009

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Homer Purcell

September 2, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Glenn and Judy Young

September 1, 2009

Keith, Susan & family: Kathy and I were saddened by the news of the sudden Homegoing of David. Our hearts ache with you yet rejoice in the life that David lived for our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. David's life brought honor and glory to Him by bringing others into the family. We love you!

Duane & Kathy Carmody

September 1, 2009

Susan and family,
Please know that my thoughts are with you. Love to your Dad and Mom also.

Augusta Stewart-Sharkazy

September 1, 2009

I am saddened by your loss. I know Jesus is holding your loved one securely in heaven's beautiful fortress.

Cheryl Flinchum

September 1, 2009

With deepest and heartfelt sympathy. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

He shall cover three with his feathers
and under his wings shalt thou trust.
Psalm 91:4

Edward and Beverly Kryspin
Amherst, Virginia

Beverly Kryspin

September 1, 2009

To the Metzler family,
I do not know your family, but this tragic story makes me heart sick. I am so sorry for your loss. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. May your faith in God bring you comfort during this difficult time.

Sherrion

September 1, 2009

I didn't know this young man. But GOD SPEED.

Tammy Smith

September 1, 2009

I work in the Engineering Education Dept at VT and remember David from his freshman year. He only came in the office one or two times but I specifically remember him and how nice and polite he was - the type of student that just stands out and causes you to remember them. My thoughts and prayers are with you. God Bless all of you and I pray that closure can come very, very soon.

Debbie Atkins

September 1, 2009

Dr. and Mrs. Metzler, I inadvertently put Heidi's name instead of David in my message to you. I am so sorry for the error.

Jeannine Dorrin

September 1, 2009

You are all in my prayers.

Lori

September 1, 2009

Keith,Susan and children: I am so sorry for your loss of your precious daughter. First let me say I can't say what you are feeling right now in your loss, but I do know what it is to lose someone you love very much. They say the loss of a child is the deepest grief there is, and I don't know that from experience, but my precious husband and parents are with the Lord. I can say that the Lord can heal that huge whole/void you have in your heart right now. I pray the Lord will surround you with HIS comfort and peace. Grief Share has helped me so much, and it will help you too. Grief Share offers free daily email devotionals that are so good, and they will help you and your family as you grieve the loss of your precious Heidi. You will be in my prayers for a very long time. Jeremiah 29:11

Jeannine Dorrin

September 1, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with each of you during the loss of your son. May God bless each of you, Hokie Parents,

September 1, 2009

Take comfort knowing your beautiful David is now an angel.

Hokie Parent

September 1, 2009

the death of a child is the worst death a parent can go through, we are deeply sorry about the death of your precious son David. We have lost four children and know the horrible pain as well. We know that as Christians we will see our loved ones again but not having them with us in early grief is so hard to handle. there is a Christian organization called Griefshare to help families go through the grief process with God's help. You can go on line at www.griefshare.org and find a church near you that has these kind of support groups. We know without God there is no way to heal from grief. But with God, all things are possible. blessings, from fellow travelers, Jerry and Skip

jerry mudge

September 1, 2009

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

Kristy Hoskins

September 1, 2009

From what I've read and heard...David was an amazing young man with so much love in his heart for God, family, friends and Heidi. Such a great loss for us here on Earth...but a wonderful addition for God's Kingdom in Heaven! My prayers are with your family.

September 1, 2009

So many people are heartbroken and saddened by the loss of your beautiful son. He was obviously a very special and loving person. Please know that I am praying for you and your family.

Bonnie D.

September 1, 2009

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Sue & Billy Garland

September 1, 2009

I am so sorry for the loss of your son. I have a son that is 21 and him and his sister are my world. I so pray that you will have som peace in the days to come. God Bless..

Linda Grubb

September 1, 2009

Dear Metzler Family,

I am so very sorry for your loss. I go to First Baptist Church in Blytheville where the pastor mentioned this tragedy last Sunday. Since then, I have been reading about David and Heidi and their exemplary, Christian lives, and I want you to know that I have been so touched and so inspired by your precious son and Heidi. How proud you must be of him.

I want you to know that even in his passing, David (and Heidi) have touched thousands (perhaps millions) of lives across the country. I am a Christian, but I am convinced that there are many who will find the Lord through this wonderful young couple.

I hope that fact can bring you a small measure of comfort.

You continue to be in my prayers.

Sandra Bevill

September 1, 2009

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009

Christy Boone

August 31, 2009

Keith and Susan;
I am so sorry for the loss of your son David. I did not know him personally, but I know he was a fine young man and is now in the arms of his LORD and saviour The Lord Jesus Christ. I know this loss is (I want to say devastating but how can a child of God be devastated) So I will say the most sorrowful thing that could happen to you and your family at this point in your lives. How ever bad this may be I know that God will see you through, He never puts any thing on us that He does not give us the strength to bare. I pray for you and your family that You will hold on to our God and that each day will be better than the day before.
May God Bless you all;
Johnny and Bobbie Spencer

Johnny Spencer

August 31, 2009

Our congregation supported the campus ministry that your wonderful son guided at VT. His devotion to the Lord's ministry set such an example. We will keep your family in our prayers and ask God to give you comfort til you meet again. Lee & Doris Cuthrell, Chesapeake VA.

August 31, 2009

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

WENDY CONNER

August 31, 2009

Dr. Metzler & Family,
It so very sad to hear of your loss and of two such promising young Christian people. The Lord will take care of them and they will remain together.His angel will lighten your path and you are not alone. I pray for you and your family daily, in this time of saddness, that he will easy your pain. Know there are people that deeply care.

Mr. & Mrs. Garland & Norma Frye
Nurse at hospital.

Norma Frye

August 31, 2009

We are so deeply saddened by your loss and don't really know the words to express how our hearts break for you. May the Lord comfort you

David & Diane Yopp

August 31, 2009

Our families have been close for many years. We hurt and grieve with you for David. Our prayers and love are with you even though we are here in France. It is so comforting at times like this to have the knowledge that we are in the secure arms of Jesus and that we will again be together with David and all those we love.

Mike and Susan Morykon

August 31, 2009

We weep with you. May God comfort you with the knowledge that you will see David again. The tomb is empty!

Michael and Laurel Long

August 31, 2009

Dear Metzler Family,
We are so sorry for the loss of your son. Our prayers are with you.

Mark & Debbie Ellis

August 31, 2009

OUR HEARTS GO OUT TO YOU IN THIS TIME OF SORROW. WITH THE HELP OF GOD YOU WILL GET THROUGH THIS AND IT WILL BRING PEACE TO YOU SOON. WE WILL BE PRAYING FOR YOUR FAMILY...

DARLENE GARDNER, GOODE, VIRGINIA

August 31, 2009

My deepest sympathy on the loss of your son David.

Roger Allcroft

August 31, 2009

To the Metzler Family,
Doc,You've healed a many,I know that god is with you and your family at this time of need.
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Tabitha Leonard

August 31, 2009

Though I did not know you all personally I have just been sick since this horrible tragedy happened. I live in Wyndhurst and can remember Davids smiling face waiting on me at Mountain Frost Creamery. My thoughts and prayers have been with you and your family. May God give you strength and comfort you all in the coming days and weeks.

Pat Deacon

August 31, 2009

To the Metzler Family:
My family is praying for your strength and comfort now and for the days ahead. I know God will give the grace you need for each moment. We are also Hokie parents and know that many students there are praying for you.
"God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble" (Psalm 46:1).
"When thou passest through the waters, I will be with thee" (Isaiah 43:2).

Lynn Zimmerman

August 31, 2009

I hope the prayers and love of all the nation will give you some comfort at this very sad time.. God Bless your family now and always.....

Lynne Smith

August 31, 2009

I am so very sad and heart broken for the loss of your son. I can't finds words to understand how senseless his death came to be. May God be with you during this difficult time and hold you close now and forever.

Vicki Keneda

August 31, 2009

Our prayers are with you during this time.

Because HE lives,

The Williams Family
Bob, JoAnn, Brodie & Bronson

August 31, 2009

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Susan Accardi

August 31, 2009

My deepest sympathies to all of you during this difficult time. May you find comfort in knowing David is with our Lord.

MeLissa Hunking

August 31, 2009

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

MARY

August 31, 2009

We are friends of Heidi's grandparents and attend the same church as they do in Hampton. Our heart breaks for your family in the loss of your son. We pray that God will bring you peace, comfort, healing and closure in the days ahead. What an awesome testimony these two young people had. I pray God will use their tragic death to bring others into the Kingdom of God.

Kathie and Tom, Katie, Chris, & Patrick Annette

August 30, 2009

Our condolences to David's family. My younger daughter is a sophomore at Virginia Tech. Two months ago, her 21 year old sister was taken from us. We truly know your pain & sorrow. We are so deeply saddened that another family must walk this path. Please know that you are not alone. We, who have lost a child, grieve with you.

We profoundly sorry for your loss.

Lisa D

August 30, 2009

I know your faith will help you to find your way through. As a parent, my heart is literally aching for you. I will pray for God's hands to scoop you up and hold you in this time of grief. I am Kyle and Kara Metzler's aunt.

Connie Arets

August 30, 2009

"Doc and Susan"-This is the manner in which my son, David Kapustinski, referred to the two of you. You both have been very instrumental in helping him adjust to life far away from Connecticut. He spoke in very glowing terms of the weekly gatherings at your home. You then helped to fund his trip to the Dominican Republic this past summer. I was, and still am hoping to meet you some day, if only to thank you for your input into my son David's life. Now this awful tragedy. Having a son close to the age of your son makes it hard for me to fathom the pain you must be experiencing. I can only ask that God grant you His mercy, kindness, and grace at this time, in abundant measure. My heart is intensely grieving for you.

Sincerely, Paul Kapustinski

Paul Kapustinski

August 30, 2009

Our son also attends Virginia Tech, and are hearts are grieving for you. May the peace of our Lord bring you comfort.

Jeanne and Bryan Allf Gastonia, NC

August 30, 2009

My heart aches for your family. I pray that God will comfort you now and in the days ahead.

Martha Maxey

August 30, 2009

Our thoughts are with you and we send our deepest condolences to you at this very difficult time.

The Virginia Tech Central Savannah River Area Alumni Chapter in Augusta, GA

CSRA Alumni Chapter

August 30, 2009

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Ellen Moore

August 30, 2009

Dear Susan, Keith, Kristin, Lauren & Sherri,

We can't begin to express the words that would convey how we feel about the tragic loss of your beloved, David. We have been praying for you all since we heard the news here in Seattle. We are praying for God's comfort, strength and peace as you go through these difficult days. We have tremendous respect for all of you as you are one of the most godly families we've ever met and we know God will be honored and glorified even in this tragedy. Lives are still being touched by David's godly example and we know how proud you must be of his faithfulness to the Lord.

We love you and will continue to keep you close in our hearts and prayers.
Judi and Ted Terzakos

August 30, 2009

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