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James Silvey Obituary

James Gordon Silvey, 62, began his final ride into the sunset on Saturday, September 26, 2009, from his home in Goodview after a valiant fight against cancer. Jim was born in Knoxville, Tenn., to the late William Hickman Silvey and Bonnie Kate McPhetridge Silvey. Also predeceasing him was half sister, Elizabeth Ann Monceaux. Jim is survived by his wife, Cindy Murray Webb Silvey; stepchildren, John E. Webb II, of Boones Mill, Britteny Nichole Webb Hill and her husband, John, of Roanoke; and an adored grandson, John Michael Hill II. He is also survived by family members, Vickie and Calvin Altice, of Rocky Mount, Va., Charles and Linda Murray, of Boones Mill, Va., and Katie and Eddie Mullins, of Boones Mill, Va. Also left to cherish his memory are many special nieces, nephews, cousins and friends way too numerous to mention. He leaves behind a very cherished aunt and second mother, Helen Rutherford, of Andersonville, Tenn., and her wonderful family. Also surviving in Tennessee are his aunt, Ruby Greene, and her children.
He was blessed with many wonderful friends and neighbors. Truly special to Jim was his friend and brother, Steve Chattin along with his wife, Debbie, Larry and Edna Chattin, (his Virginia parents) and the entire Chattin family of Goodview. The family appreciates the friendship of Scott McCampbell of Valrico, Fla., for his support to the family and for coming to Virginia to help Cindy and accompany Jim to several cancer treatments. Also by his side, at most treatments were daughter, Britteny; his personal chauffeur and restaurant guide; treasured neighbor, Barbara Kidd, has been with Jim and Cindy holding them up in the toughest of times and always there to share wisdom, laughs, tears and countless cups of coffee.
Jim attended school and college in Tennessee and graduated with a degree in Criminal Justice from American University in Washington, D.C. After serving two tours in Vietnam he returned to the state, to work for the Counter Intelligence Agency in Washington, D.C. He began a long career with the Treasury Department as a special agent with Bureau of Alcohol, Tobacco and Firearms, retiring as a Resident Agent in Charge of the Roanoke office in 1997.
Throughout this difficult journey with cancer, Jim made many new and cherished friends and the family wishes to thank Dr. Matthew Skelton, Dr. Robert Heath, and their wonderful staff at Blue Ridge Cancer Care, as well as staff of Carilion Roanoke Memorial Hospital, particularly the workers and caregivers on Eight Mountain, the oncology and palliative care units on 10 South, and the stroke unit on 12 West. A special thanks to the Rev. Jim Steel and the Rev. Joey Phillips for their visits and prayers with the family and the many, many people who included them in their daily prayer and prayer chains.
Sometimes called a Cowboy and sometimes called an Indian, Jim was always a true mischievous Tennessee boy at heart. He pursued many hobbies with passion and persistence, including flint knapping, bow and arrow making, fishing, boating, hunting, travel, golfing, and others. He never lost his desire for education and continued to read and research his many interests and maintained his sense of humor until the end.
Visitation will be held at Oakey's Vinton Chapel from 5 to 7 p.m. on Tuesday, September 29, 2009, with a praise and song celebration presented at 7:15 p.m. by dear friend, Kenneth Childress. Visitation will be held at Rose's Mortuary Service Broadway Chapel, Knoxville, Tenn., from 5 to 7 p.m. on Thursday, October 1, 2009, with a memorial service immediately following. Interment with full Military Honors will be conducted at 11 a.m. on Friday, October 2, 2009, at Greenwood Cemetery, Knoxville, Tenn.
The family respectfully requests that those wishing to visit the home or to bring additional food consider donations to the Rescue Mission or Ram House in Roanoke, Va., or a donation to the Boones Mill Baptist Church Family Life Center, Boones Mill, Va. It was Jim's request that friends and loved ones send a gift of flowers to someone in their lives or a shut in, nursing home resident, or hospital patient. Flowers will be accepted but Jim always believed in sending flowers to the special living people in his life. In Roanoke the family is being serviced by Creative Occasions in Vinton, 540-345-8385, and in Tennessee by Flowers by Bob, 865-992.8184.
Published by Roanoke Times from Sep. 27 to Sep. 28, 2009.

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Vince Wilkes

October 27, 2009

Cindy, I am thinking about you and your family at this difficult time. I'll keep you in my prayers.

Vince Wilkes

Paul Rausch

October 9, 2009

Dear Cindy, I was totally shocked when I learned of Jim's passing. There hasn't been a day go by that I haven't thought of him. He was my oldest and dearest Army buddy, and I always admired and respected him, listened to his thoughts and ideas and even argued good naturedly when I didn't agree. We didn't talk often in our later years, but when we did it was like we never missed a day. I am so sorry I didn't make his viewing and service, but I will always remember his hearty laugh, good nature and love of life. God Bless You.

Sergeant Major, US Army Retired

Shirley Butcher

October 7, 2009

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

October 6, 2009

Dear Cindy, we are sooo sorry about Jim's passing. Nov. 1998 was when we met you both the first time; we came to visit Kay and Charlie to celebrate Stan's 50th birthday. What a great time we had then and always with the two of you. We smile when we remember Jim. Know that we are thinking of you and your family Cindy.

Fondly,

Connie Boyd
Stan Hale
Lebanon, Virginia

George Hopgood

October 1, 2009

My friend you left so soon and we still had much to talk about. I will miss you and remember you as will many you touched along the way. Until we see each other again. Rest in peace my friend.

September 30, 2009

I worked with Jim when I was an agent in Greeneville, Tn. Jim came down from Bristol to do and undercover job for me. He was an outstanding agent and an even better friend. He called me last year and we had a great conversation about old times and friends.

Russell Alford ATF Retired, Loudon, Tn.

September 30, 2009

Dear Cindy and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and with Jim. I will always have good memories of Jim as an agent as well as a gentleman.
Phyllis Shantz

Roy & Elaine Warwick

September 29, 2009

Cindy, Elaine and I cannot begin to express to you and your family our sympathy and condolences for the loss of Jim, a dear friend to us for many years and to all who met or knew him. We will always remember all the good times we've shared with him. I personally want to thank you, your family and all the wonderful people we have met during our visit to Goodview, VA. and the friendship we share.

Deborah Wise

September 29, 2009

Please accept my deepest sympathies. Jim was a very nice man and I enjoyed talking to him as I traveled around my mail route. I will miss seeing him.

Darryl DuBose

September 29, 2009

Ms. Silvey, I am saddened for your loss, as well as for myself for having lost a long time friend. When Jim was interested in employment with ATF, he came to me while I was an agent in Falls Church. After meeting with Jim a couple of times or more, I recommended Jim to a hiring panel member. Jim was the last to be interviewed the day the panel met. We waited into the night when finally we were told he was to be hired and stationed in Bristol. I always valued our relationship and considered Jim to be a solid and true friend.

Barbara Allen

September 29, 2009

Jim's mother and father were my next door neighbors on Emory Road when Jim was a young adult. They were special people in my life and I loved them dearly. Bill loved to tease me and play tricks on me. I knew Jim but not very well but Bonnie and Bill always kept me up to date on their beloved son. I remember Jim as a very nice young man. Rest in peace dear Jim and may God bless all your family and friends.

September 29, 2009

Mrs.Silvey,many years ago I worked for Jim and he was a good and kind man ,and what a surprise to know someone from here knew where Coalfield ,Tn. was.May God hold you tighter in this time of sorrow.Jeanne&John Jackson (Goodview,Va._____Coalfield,TN.)

Roy Parker

September 29, 2009

I worked with jim in Bristol and Roanoke but I remember most him calling Dan Hartnet late at night form the instructors house at Glynco and playing Thunder road

kathy huffman cna

September 29, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

kathy huffman cna

September 29, 2009

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Leanne Bramlett

September 29, 2009

Cindy & Family:
Our Condolences are with you in this time of sadness. Jim was a wonderful man who will be greatly missed. If anything is need please let us know. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.


Bramlett Family

Libby Stokes

September 29, 2009

Cindy,
I was so sorry to hear of Jim's passing; I have some very vivid memories of Jim during his ATF days, especially when he was working in the Bristol office. He was a good friend and a good man - and will be missed. Will be keeping you and your family in my prayers.

Jared Webb

September 29, 2009

Cindy: I still remember the first time i wandered through the house looking at all of Jim's honors and mementos. He truly set an example for what hard work can bring, and for how one should pursue their goals. Thank you for all you have done and care you have shown, my thoughts are with you and the family.

Jason Altice

September 28, 2009

Cindy;
I thought the world of Jim. He was a remarkable man and led an extraordinary life. I still have some obsidian flakes he gave me and show them to people regularly. He was like a mentor and I will miss him. My condolences.

bob crisp

September 28, 2009

rest in peace old friend (batman)

Connie Hicks

September 28, 2009

Cindy and family: May God be with you and your family in your hours of need in the loss of Jim. He was a remarkable individual. I remember, vividly, his wonderful sense of humor and zest for life. My prayers are with you and the family. He will be sorely missed.

wayne pike

September 28, 2009

Cindy & family:
I am so sorry to learn of the passing of Jim. I want to convey our condolences from everyone here in this office. Jim and I had a long relationship in LE and made many cases together. He was a dedicated and persistant worker, and was always there to assist. We also shared, as you know, the love of history and artifacts.
You and the entire family will remain in our thoughts and prayers.

Wayne Pike
United States marshal

Phyllis Mosher

September 28, 2009

Cindy: I am so sorry for you loss. I remember Jim from his ATF days and know that he was an outgoing "people" person. My prayers are with you and all family members.

Jeryn Silvey

September 28, 2009

Bye Daddy your with grandma and pappy now!!!!

Pat Fix

September 28, 2009

Cindy and family, my heart aches for your loss. Jim was truly one of a kind and I will always cherish the many memories of him while he was with ATF. So strange, that just last week, I was talking with a member of law enforcement about Jim, and laughing about his many "stunts!" He was loved and will be missed by many. You are in my prayers!

September 28, 2009

My dear sister Cindy and family: My heart breaks with you at your loss. Please know I am here for you if I can do anything at all. You all are in my thoughts and prayers.
I love you,
Becky

Judy Clark

September 28, 2009

I was so very sorry to hear of Jim's passing. May God be with you during this time. Caring thoughts are with you, and your family will be in my prayers.

Kay and Charlie. CJ, Kayse Carter

September 27, 2009

We are so saddenned over Jim's passing. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you Cindy and all of both of your families. Find comfort in your happy memories of the good life that Jim and you had together. Love,

Deb Moras

September 27, 2009

You and your family are being lifted up in prayer by all of us at Gentle Shepherd Hospice. Family Care Representative.

Kyle (Pete) & Ruth Walker

September 27, 2009

Please accept our deepest sympathies at this what I know is a dark hour at this time. Your memories of Jim I'm sure will help bring you some comfort as he was one great guy and a dear freind.

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