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Sandra Jean Aston Divers

Sandra Divers Obituary

Sandra Jean Aston Divers, 37, of Buchanan, Va., died on Wednesday, September 30, 2009. She was preceded in death by her brother, Travis Aston. She is survived by her husband of 10 years, Lawrence Wesley Divers; daughter, Caitlan Divers; mother, Brenda Aston and special friend, Bobby Adams; and father, Charles M. Aston and girlfriend, Carolyn Callahan, of Quinlin, Texas. Graveside services will be held 2 p.m. on Sunday, October 4, 2009, in the Pleasant Dale Memorial Park, Fincastle. The family will receive friends on Saturday, October 3, 2009, from 6 to 8 p.m. in the Buchanan Chapel of Botetourt Funeral Home, 14920 Lee Hwy., Buchanan, Va., 540-254-3000.

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Published by Roanoke Times from Oct. 1 to Oct. 3, 2009.

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Michaele Wilcher

October 3, 2009

Wesley, Caitlyn, Brenda and the rest of the family...We are saddened by the passing of Sandy. I remember when Renee and I spent time with her at a family reunion and I felt an instant bond with her. She made us feel so welcome and made sure we had a good time and we never forgot how wonderful she was, although we hardly saw her. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and hope that the poem below, in time, will bring you comfort.

Love,
Uncle Bob Wilcher's Family

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009

Linda Carter

October 1, 2009

Wesley, Caitlyn, Brenda and Bobbie and the entire family...We are so sorry for the loss of Sandra. All of you are in our prayers. Remember all the good times and trust in the Lord and he will get you through this difficult time. We are here for you if you need anything.

Love You,
Barbara Campbell and Linda Carter

October 1, 2009

Dear Wesley and Family of Sandy, We are so sorry for your loss. We sat with you and Sandy at Jerry's Christmas party 2007. She was a lovely sparkle at the table, but she ended up taking the gift home that she originally brought! Sorrow, they say, will fade, but memories go on forever. Dee & Graham Pierce, Pilot, VA

October 1, 2009

Wesley and Caitlin,
Our prayers and thoughts are with you. We will miss Sandy so much, she was a great woman and friend. We love you all.
Tami and Country

Tammie Turner

October 1, 2009

To my cousin Wesley and his daughter Kaitlyn: I love you both and I pray that God will be with you and guide you through this severe time of need. My heart goes out to you both. I love you very much and pray for your sadness. Love, Chad, Tammie, & Kinnice Turner.

Jill Harrison

October 1, 2009

Wesley, I am terribly saddened over your loss. She gave you the most precious gift-your beautiful daughter. You still have Sandy through Caitlyn everyday. I love you and wish for the Lord's strength to help you.

Deborah Wells

October 1, 2009

Wesley & Katelyn,
My thoughts and prayers are with you. Sandy was a great person to be around and her humor a gift. We recently spent time together and I enjoyed her so much. If I can be of any help in any way, please let me know.

Pastor Eugene Mills and the Members of Jennings Creek Gospel Church

October 1, 2009

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help at this time.

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