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Iva Ruth Clifton Stilwell

Iva Ruth Clifton Stilwell obituary, Roanoke Valley, VA

Iva Stilwell Obituary

Iva Ruth Clifton

Iva Ruth Clifton Stilwell, 85, of Roanoke, died peacefully on Friday, October 23, 2009, at her home. She was preceded in death by her parents, William and Ruth Clifton; and her brothers, Marvin G. Clifton, Jewel D. Clifton and Elisha B. Clifton. Surviving are her sons, Gordon W. Conner and his wife, Beth Ann Conner, and Gary D. Conner and his wife, Janis Conner; her husband of 15 years, D. Quinton Stilwell and his children, Virgil L. Stilwell and his wife, Linda B. Stilwell, Anita Fay Minnix and her husband, Randall Minnix, Deborah J. Crouch and her fiancé, Richard Thurman, and Brenda K. Thomas and her husband, Jay Thomas; brother, Elbert (Ebo) Clifton; sister, Rhoda Kemp; 12 grandchildren; 13 great- grandchildren; and numerous nieces and nephews. Iva retired from General Electric after 29 years service. Known as "Iva Sue", she was a member of the Fiddle and Banjo Club and played bass fiddle for the Original Orchard Grass Old Time Band and numerous other bands for many years until just months before her passing. She was well known and loved by musicians and friends all over the United States and abroad. Mrs. Stilwell was a member of Mt. Olive Primitive Baptist Church. Flowers are appreciated or donations may be made to Mt. Olive Primitive Baptist Church, 3106 Red Rock Road, Roanoke, Va. 24018 or the American Cancer Society, 2840 Electric Rd., Roanoke, Va. 24018. Funeral services will be held at 1 p.m. on Monday, October 26, 2009, at Oakey's North Chapel. Elder Thomas Mann will officiate. Interment will be in Blue Ridge Memorial Gardens. The family will receive friends from 1 to 3 p.m. and 6 to 9 p.m. on Sunday, October 25, 2009, at Oakey's North Chapel, 362-1237.

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Published by Roanoke Times from Oct. 25 to Oct. 26, 2009.

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Linda Clifton

October 28, 2009

Quinton and family,
My thoughts and prayers have been with you since hearing of Iva's illness and passing last week. She was such a lovely person and a special friend to Audrey after Jewell died. We appreciated her for so many reasons and know she will be missed greatly. God bless and comfort you all.

October 27, 2009

Quinton and Family

Our prayers are with you in your time of sorrow. All of us here at 50PLUS Ministries in Lynchburg loved her very much and will miss her greatly. What a blessing Iva has been to so many people for so many years. A trully great lady and wonderful cousin.

Elroy Newman, Lynchburg, VA

HARVEY MAYS

October 27, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Reva Hylton

October 26, 2009

We are sorry to hear of the passing of Iva.It was a pleasure to get to hear her play.John and his band looked forward to playing with her.She was so dedicated to her music that she played one night with them at Floyd and passed out.You know she had to be feeling pretty bad and still loving to play so much that she pushed herself to play even when she wasn't able.
Our thought and prayers are with the family.John and Reva

October 26, 2009

I am so sorry to hear about Iva. You all are in my thoughts and prayers. What a great lady! She was so close and faithful to Audrey in her last years, and I will always remember her loving, cheerful spirit.
Debbie Clifton, Cornelius, NC

Henry and Judy Boitnott

October 26, 2009

Quinton and family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. Iva will be missed. She was always an inspiration to me and she was a true lady to be admired. God bless you and I know he will give you peace.

John (Bucky) Shepherd

October 26, 2009

Iva was a loving & warm person. I enjoyed her bass playing very much and at timesshe would ask me to play her bass while she took a brake to eat.She'll be missed very much. God Blees her husband & Family.

Peggy Wright

October 25, 2009

Goodbye to a true friend and a terrific bass player.
Our prayers to all of the family.
John Goodman & Peggy Wright

Serena Wimmer

October 25, 2009

Quinton, Roda, Ebo and families, So sorry for your loss. Iva will be missed by everyone who knew her. May your memories help ease your grief. May God bless you all.

Richard & JoAnn Newman

October 25, 2009

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Montana Gwinn

October 25, 2009

My prayers are with the family of Iva . i will miss her seeing her on friday nights.

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