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Douglas Lam Obituary

Douglas McCoy Lam, 73, of Blue Ridge, Va., died Sunday, November 8, 2009. Celebration of Life 2 p.m. on Wednesday, November 11, 2009, at Bedford Christian Church. Arrangements by Tharp Funeral Home & Crematory, Bedford, 586-3443.

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Published by Roanoke Times on Nov. 11, 2009.

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Dreama Lam Pinkard

November 13, 2009

Goober says "hey" and sends big hugs....love you all so very much.

Henry & Rosetta Howard

November 13, 2009

Dear Barbara and girls, I was so sad to hear of the passing of Doug. I will always remember our times of bowling with Doug and you Barbara on the C&P league and the many outings with the Telephone Pioneers. Doug will truly be missed. I retired with 30 years service in 2000 from the engineering group. My husband and I moved to Florida after my retirement and miss see our friends from C&P and Roanoke. Know that you and all your family are in our prayers during this time. May the many good memories of Doug stay with you and all who knew him. Know he is with our Lord now and not in pain. God bless you all. Henry & Rosetta (nee Farris)Howard

Dexter Bradbury

November 11, 2009

Mary, I was so sorry to hear of the loss of your Dad. Thinking of you and your family at this time.

November 11, 2009

Barbara and Girls,
Sorry to hear about the passing of Doug. Remember he is in God's Loving
Arms now and not in pain, just walking
the streets of Gold with his Lord.
Take care of yourselves. You all are in our prayers. God Bless
Robin & Sam Meador
Blue Ridge, VA

November 11, 2009

Ms. Barbara,
Thinking of you and the family during this sad time. Sending you great big hugs from the boys. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Becky, Andy, Blake, and Grant Way

November 11, 2009

Barbara, you and your family are in our thoughts. May God give you strength and courage through this time of loss.
Elmo and Sandra McLaurin
Tiffany Mairs
Stuart and Karen McLaurin

Ted Lail

November 10, 2009

Dear Barbara and Family,

Please accept my heartfelt sympathy at this time of grief and loss. I will always remember Doug as a close friend and great guy to work with. He always had a calmness about him, even when things got really hectic. Most of all, I will remember him for his great sense of humor and gentle nature. He will be truly missed.

November 10, 2009

All of our love and sympathy goes out to your family. Things will not be the same at our "extended" family dinners without Doug and his quiet wisdom and ready smile.
Love to all,
Paul, Lora, Casey and Leah

November 10, 2009

Mary, Cindy and family,
We are so very sorry about the loss of your father and are thinking of you. We know it has been a very difficult time for you all. Mr. Lam sounds like he was a truly wonderful man devoted to his family. You are in our prayers! Melanie, Scott, Mary and Emily Leweke

Jane Jessee

November 10, 2009

Mary, Barbara, Kelly and Cindy, I am very saddened by your loss. He is now without pain and basking in the glory of the lord. He will be missed greatly, but I am so thankful you all had a wonderful week together.

james and norma dooley

November 10, 2009

Barbara, Cindy,Mary,Kelly
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of grief. So many memories and good times are there to comfort you, and knowing that he is now with his lord and free of pain.
James and Norma Dooley

Frances Gayhardt

November 10, 2009

Dear Barbara, and family,just wanted to say how much of a loss i know you feel. I believe that uncle Doug is now still with family, he is in the arms of all of those who have gone before. I can only imagine all the hugs and kisses he is getting.I will remember all the laughes he would have everyone around making. You are all in my prayers. Love to all Frances

Phil & Diana Camper

November 10, 2009

Barbara and Family:

Phil and I were saddened to hear of your loss. May the Lord bless you and guide you in the days to come.

Debbie Tuck & family

November 9, 2009

Dear Barbara, Mary, and all family members,
So sorry of your loss. I didn't know Mr. Lam well, only when I saw him on occasion at his home when I needed to have something notorized. He always seemed to be busy with his woodwork. Mary, I remember a quote or two that you would mention from your dad. ("Hit the Hay") I could tell how much love and devotion you had for your dad. He is no longer battling such a dreaded disease, and he is the victor - living with his Savior, Jesus, in his heavenly home. God be with each and every one of you at this time of sorrow. May He give you comfort with all your memories, and peace and assurance. Love & prayers,

Gloria & Buddy Johnston

November 9, 2009

I will always remember Uncle Doug as being so good to everyone I remember growing up and staying at Great Grandma Lam's uncle Doug would bring in squirrels, and rabbits for Great grandma to cook of course she always cooked on the old wood stove no electric stove for her
love and prayers Gloria and Buddy Johnston

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