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Susan McLain Obituary

Susan Simpson McLain, 59, of Roanoke, Va., passed away at home on Monday, December 21, 2009. Susan had battled cancer for four years and one month. She is now at peace and no longer suffers. She was preceded in death by her parents, Robert (Bob) and Marylou Simpson; and father-in-law and motherin-law, Robert and Agnes McLain. Surviving are her husband, Lewis McLain; daughters, Jennifer and husband, Gary Abbott, and Becky White and significant other, Dennis Nalley; grandchildren, Nicholas and Haley Herstine, Kristopher and Lee Abbott, and Cody Nalley; sisters and brothers, Nina Rhodes and husband, Billy, Margaret Bohon and husband, Randy, Pat Simpson and wife, Karen, Michael Simpson and wife, Anna, Al Simpson, Jim Simpson and wife, Becky, and Chubby Wiggins and wife, Sherry; numerous nieces, nephews, grandnieces and grandnephews; sister-in-law, Shirley Collins; and special friend, Colleen Faunce. Susan was employed by Thomas Rutherfoord Insurance. Funeral services will be held 3 p.m. on Sunday, December 27, 2009, at Oakey's Vinton Chapel with the Rev. Gary Fowler officiating. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations to the American Cancer Society. The family will receive friends from 3 to 7 p.m. on Saturday, December 26, 2009, at Oakey's Vinton Chapel and Crematory, 540-982-2221.

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Published by Roanoke Times from Dec. 23 to Dec. 27, 2009.

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Margaret Simpson Bohon

January 6, 2010

My sister told me after she was diagnosed with this cancer that she did not want to have any regrets. I wish I was able to fulfill that thought for myself. I wish now that I had said these words at her service...
Susan was a strong willed woman who took delight in her family and pride in her work. We're not saying goodbye, only a "see ya later" as we will all be together again. What a sister! I remember babysitting for my nieces during the summers and trying to please my sister by cleaning the house weekly for her in addition to that. You see when she divorced she only recieved $100 a month for two little girls. Susan rose above the task to become a devoted mom and one of our valley's most desireable women in the insurance business. She worked hard to achieve the best she could be for her girls as well her employer. She took great pride in her work, hard to match these days. When I would clean for her during those old days, the most important thought that comes to mind is how she praised my work. She made me feel so absolutely good about what I had done for her. This sister of mine, of which I have two and would not trade for anything, let me take her brand new Granada to the beach for senior week. We were desparate to have another vehicle for transportation at the last minute and she stood up to the plate offering her new car! What a gal!! She let us have a senior party at her house many years ago. A real hoot of a time! Everyone spent the night! She rallied my brothers and sister when my car got broken into to help pay for the deductible. She gave of herself unselfishly to be an important caretaker of our mom and dad throughout their days plagued with illness and inability. She will be missed greatly; we will continue to think of her and all of our good times. She will be with us just as our mom, dad,grandparents, uncle and cousin are in spirit. We will be together again. In a blink of an eye. I love you sis!

Nancy Pillis

January 5, 2010

Lewis,
You are in my thoughts and prayers and my sympathy goes out to you and your family. It is very hard losing a loved one to cancer as I did with my brother. Take care at this difficult time.

January 4, 2010

My condolences and sympathies to the Simpson family. I remember her from my days at RCHS. We'll remember her in our prayers. Mark Cummings

Veronica Gisiner

December 28, 2009

Jennifer and family, Our sympathy to you all. We Love you! If we can help in anyway please let us know. With all our love, Veronica and family.

Cathy Fitzgerald (Pepsi)

December 28, 2009

Lewis,
I could not be there yesterday, but wanted you to know that you and the family are in my thoughts and prayers. I'll always remember Susan as such a strong woman who loved life and especially her family. The love and care that you provided for Susan during her most difficult times speaks volumes. She was very blessed to have you and I know you feel the same for her. Now Susan would want you to take care of you.

We are all blessed to have shared a small part of Susan's life and I'll cherish our memories forever.

Dennis, Judy and Courtney Johnson

December 27, 2009

Lewis,

We could not be there yesterday or today but you have been very close in our thoughts. You were very devoted to Susan as we watched you care for her. Dennis and I are so sorry for your loss. We know you will miss her. Our condolenses to the rest of her family. Our prayers are with you at this difficult time.

KENNY SMITH

December 26, 2009

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help at this time.

Steve and Laura Potter

December 26, 2009

Jennifer and family
So very sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Dianne Shelton Waterman

December 26, 2009

I grew up in Mill Mtn Estates across the street from the Simpson's. What a wonderful family to share a childhhood with. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this time. May your wonderful memories of Susan keep a smile in your hearts for all the years ahead.

Carole Rich Williams

December 25, 2009

Dear Becky, Jennifer and families,

My deepest thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. I enjoyed spending so much time with your mother as a youngster spending many days and nights at your home growing up. She was a lovely lady. I wish much peace and many blessings upon your family during this time.

Betty and Joe Burlas

December 25, 2009

Precious Lewis, Becky, Jennifer, Al, Pat, Mike, Jim, Nina and Margaret,

What an amazing woman Susan was. We mourn with you and will miss our "gutsy" niece greatly. May God be with you during this sad time. We will miss our stop to see Susan and all of you when we come to Roanoke.

Vickie Garman

December 25, 2009

Becky, Dennis & Cody,

So sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts & Prayers are with you. If there is anything I can do please let me know. May God give you comfort at this very sad time.

Leroy & Ann Dooley

December 24, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Sandra Kelly

December 24, 2009

I knew Susan as a youngster in Mill Mountain Estates. She was a lovely, poised person even then. I know how much you will miss her.

December 24, 2009

Lewis and family and Colleen,
I am so sorry to learn of your loss and pray you find comfort in Susan's memory and knowing her suffering is over.
God bless you all,
Rick Miller

Rebecca Evans

December 24, 2009

Susan was a wonderful, caring friend and very special to all of us at Rutherfoord. She showed much grace not only during her illness but throughout her life. Our thoughts and prayers go out to Lewis and Susan's family. Please let us know if there is anything we can do.

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