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Brenda Buckner Obituary

Brenda H. Buckner , 66, of Botetourt County, Va., went home to be with the Lord on Friday, January 8, 2010. She was preceded in death by her father, John Tanner Hamilton; and her aunt and uncle, Frances and Dave Chocklett. She leaves to cherish her memory, her loving and devoted husband of 47 years, Kenneth E. Buckner; her mother and father, Helen and Herman Mawyer; her three daughters and their husbands, Michelle and John Hyler, Kimberly and Alan Alouf , Amy and Danny Robertson; her grandchildren, J.T. Hyler, Chris Hyler and Corey Dooley, Lauren, Karley and D.J. Robertson and Austin Alouf; her great-grandchildren, Jackson and Bentley Dooley; her close friends, extended family and church, brothers and sisters. She was a lifetime member of Melrose Baptist Church where she was a devoted member. She was currently the Women's Missionary Union (WMU), Director, in charge of all women's and children's missions ministry. She was very involved in the Roanoke Valley Baptist Association, WMU. She was a devoted Girls Scout Leader for many years. She was a former member of the American Business Women's Association. The family wishes to express their appreciation to Dr. John Mann and his staff, especially Tonya, Dr. Stephen Rosenoff and the doctors and nurses that cared for her and the ICU staff. Most of all we would like to thank our nursing friend, Mary Gilley, for her endless devotion and to everyone for your love, support and prayers. A service to celebrate her life and homecoming will be held on Tuesday, January 12, 2010, at 11 a.m. at Melrose Baptist Church with the Rev. Larry Sprouse, the Rev. Brenda Rowe and staff officiating. In lieu of flowers, her wishes are that memorials be made to Melrose Baptist Church Missions. The family will receive friends from 6 to 8 p.m. on Monday at Oakey's North Chapel, 540.362.1237.

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Published by Roanoke Times from Jan. 9 to Jan. 11, 2010.

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Linda Johnson

January 16, 2010

Amy, Danny and Family,

Was so sorry to hear of your moms passing. I know you all will miss her so very much.
In His love,
Linda, Doug and Jenny Johnson- Glenvar A's

January 12, 2010

Kenneth and Girls,

We are so sorry to hear about Brenda's passing. My aunt called last night to let me know, I was shocked at the news.

Our deepest sympathy is with all of you at this very difficult time. In time you will remember the good times......I know there were good times to be had by all.....I was there for some of those memories! Mom and Dad (Ralph and Mary Thompson) thought there was nothing like Brenda. There was nothing pretentious about her. What you saw is what you got. That's why she had the friends she did.

Please convey our sympathy to Helen and Herman also.

Again, our sympathy is with all of you.

Sandra and Ronnie Bell

Chapman Cardiology

January 12, 2010

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Brenda was a wonderful woman. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help at this time.

Alicia, Lisa, Dorita, and Dr. Chapman

Annalee and Connor Jones

January 12, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Aunt Brenda was an angel here on earth. She had a smile that could light up a room - all of us were blessed to know her. Uncle Kenneth, Kim, Michelle and Amy - if any of you ever need anything we are only a phone call away. Take comfort in knowing that you all are loved.

Mike & Linda Brumfield

January 12, 2010

Kenneth

Linda and I was so sorry to hearabout Brenda. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of grief. I will call and talk with you soon.

Mike and Linda Brumfield

Donna

January 12, 2010

Uncle Kenneth, Michele, Kim and Amy, I am so sorry for your loss of Aunt Brenda, but I am truly happy she will suffer no more pain in this life. She has been a rock through these past years, and all of you have been there for her every step of the way. Uncle Kenneth, I have never known a more devoted and loving husband than you have been to Aunt Brenda. I will cherish all the wonderful memories I have of her, all the fun I had at your home when I was just a small girl, all the fun times we have shared as adults. It never gets any easier to not have your loved one with you, but as time goes by, the memories become comforting instead of sad. All of you will be there for each other, Aunt Brenda knew you would all be ok, or she would still be hanging on no matter how much she was suffering. She loved you all that much. May God bless you with comfort and peace in your hearts, knowing that Aunt Brenda is now at peace with him. Elvis sure got a great birthday present in Heaven this year didn't he, A Dance with Aunt Brenda!! Love you all so much. Donna

Doug Satterwhite

January 11, 2010

Kenny and family - We send our love and sympathy to you at this time of great loss. You have the assurance that Brenda is safely home with her Lord and out of pain. We pray you will feel His presence and love surrounding you and may you have the peace of God which surpasses all human understanding.
Love from Doug and Vivian Satterwhite Phil 4:7

Melissa Kiger

January 11, 2010

Mr. Buckner, Michelle, Kim and Amy,

I am so sorry to read of the passing of Brenda. I have great memories of Brenda being my girl scout leader. I always thought alot of her and the family. She will be looking down and watching over each one of you. Just remember all the good memories.

My deepest sympathy,
Melissa (Dorton) Kiger

Sandi Morris

January 11, 2010

Buckner Family.......You all will be in our thoughts and prayers. So sorry for your loss...

January 11, 2010

Amy and family, you are in our prayers. in christ love Mark, Lisa and Shannon Crowder

Lindsey B. Mitchell

January 11, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Challenger Baseball

January 11, 2010

Words cannot even begin to express our sorrow for your family. May the love of those around you help you through the days ahead as we keep your family in our Thoughts and our Prayers.

Evelyn Urquhart

January 11, 2010

Amy, Danny,Lauren,Karly, and DJ: It is so difficult to lose a mom and a grandma. We are thinking about you and our prayers are with you.
Evelyn, Martha, Erin, and Landon

January 11, 2010

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Wanda Shields

January 11, 2010

My heart goes out to all of you I have had a wonderful time with the whole family. Brenda was a joy and the love of her husband. Machele you loved her better than life and she you what a blessing you both have had. God bless you all to find peace with his decision Love you

Vickie & Junior Meeks

January 11, 2010

Michelle and family, We am so sorry to hear about your mother. We only had the privilege to meet her once at the Halloween Party and she was the cutest cartoon character we have ever seen. Our prayers are with you and the family. Just remember your loss is heaven's gain. Vickie & Junior Meeks

Frank and Michelle Dooley and Boys

January 11, 2010

Kenneth, Michelle, Kim, Amy and Corey,
We are so shocked to hear about Brenda. Our thoughts and prayers are with each of you and the family. Brenda was such a warm, caring and loving person. Our hearts go out to each of you.
We love you all,

Beth Vaughn

January 11, 2010

Uncle Kenneth, Michelle, Kim and Amy
I was so saddened to hear about Aunt Brenda. I will miss our little email chats. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. She was truly a great lady.

Tonya Robertson

January 11, 2010

Kenneth, Kim, Michelle, and Amy,
I am so sorry that we could not do more to heal Brenda's body and keep her with your family.
I will miss seeing her every day and hearing her fuss at me for waking her up so early in the morning.
God is embracing her now and she is no longer in pain.
May the continued prayers bring you comfort

January 11, 2010

Kenneth

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family..Brenda will be missed by many, especialy all of her class mates from WFHS class of 1961.

Betty Thomas Stone

January 10, 2010

Kenneth and Family,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in your time of grief.
May you find comfort in all the wonderful memories and kind words by all.

Mike and Connie Wray

DAVID & BARBARA MOORE

January 10, 2010

PLEASE ACCEPT OUR HEARTFELT SYMPATHY ON THE PASSING OF YOUR BEAUTIFUL WIFE, MOTHER & GRANDMOTHER. ALTHOUGH IT'S DIFFICULT TODAY TO SEE BEYOND THE SORROW, MAY LOOKING BACK IN MEMORY HELP COMFORT YOU TOMORROW. YOU ARE ALL IN OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS. WITH OUR LOVE.

Kim Charlton

January 10, 2010

Kenneth, Michelle, Kim, & Amy:

I am so sorry to hear about Brenda. She is truly an angel in heaven. She was like another mother to me in high school and college. She even kept sending those cards when we moved to Richmond. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you and may her wonderful memories live on forever. I have so many that I will remember. Amy - I know it is hard. I love you all very much.

Kim Witt Charlton- Midlothian, VA

January 10, 2010

With Deapest Sympathy to a great family and friends.
Love,
Bobby & Edith Michael

Linda/Peanut Blessard

January 10, 2010

Amy,Herman,Ohmah ,kids and the rest of the family,Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.We are here if you need us. With Love

Joyce Mawyer Roberts

January 10, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

January 10, 2010

Kenneth, Michelle, Kim, and Amy, I just heard about Brenda. I can't tell you how sorry we are. Our thoughts, prayers and love are with you.

John and Diane Bannister, Richmond VA

Denise LaFave

January 10, 2010

Dear Kenny and family,
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I can understand your grief. It has been such a long time, but you have been in my thoughts often. May God give you the strenght to carry on. You will be in my prayers.

Denise Myers LaFave

Linda Ryan

January 10, 2010

Uncle Kenneth, Amy, Michelle, Kim and families - we are so sorry about the loss of Aunt Brenda, but thankful she is resting in the Lord's arms. Our thoughts, prayers and love are with you all.

Robert & Vicky Dooley

January 9, 2010

Amy, Michelle... our thoughts and prayers are with you and your families in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

RICHARD/MILLIE LOCKARD

January 9, 2010

KEN,MICHELLE,AMY,&KIM......MILLIE AND I ARE TRULY SADDENED TO HEAR OF YOUR LOSS. THRU THE YEARS WE HAVE BEEN SEPARATED BY MILES BUT THE LOVE AND RESPECT WE HAVE FOR YOU HAVE NEVER TARNISHED. PLEASE KNOW YOU ARE IN OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS.WILL SPEAK WITH YOU SOON

January 9, 2010

Dear Mr. Buckner, Just wanting you to know that my thoughts are with you and all of your beautiful girls. I know they will sustain you. I was very saddened by the passing of your wife. What a fantastic lady! She made me laugh, or maybe I made her laugh. Anyhow, I truly enjoyed taking care of her. Just know you are all in my thoughts and prayers. Kind Regards and deepest sympathy. Leslie Woodie

January 9, 2010

Kenneth, please know that you and the family are in our thoughts and prayers. May you feel the comforting hand of GOD in these next days, weeks, etc.

The Russell Haskins family

Deni Schuh

January 9, 2010

Ken, Michelle, Kim, Amy, and Ohma I am so saddened yet so very thankful to have had Brenda and all of you in my life. Each and every one of you are truly special and are so dear to my heart. I can only hope that time passes quickly so that your pain will subside. With love,

Jayne Evers Stubbs

January 9, 2010

Kenneth and family,
I am so sorry to read of the passing of your beloved wife and your children's mother. May God comfort each of you in this time of need and may your memories bring you comfort as well.

I can still see that smile and twinkle in her eyes from high school 1958.

My deepest sympathy,

Abby Cundiff

January 9, 2010

Kenneth, Kim, Michelle & Amy,
I am so sorry to hear about Aunt Brenda. I am thinking about you all.

Christy Bennett

January 9, 2010

Amy and family, Robin and I are so sad to hear of Brenda's passing. She reminded me of my grandmother in so many ways and I'm sure there will there will be a void just as big. Your entire family are in our prayers. We will miss her smiling face and sweet personality at church. God bless you all. Love you.

Tommy and Laura Patterson

January 9, 2010

Our hearts go out to you and the children, Kenneth.

Glenn

January 9, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

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